Pag« 3 - THE NEWS ~ January. 1982 Random Thoughts by Muriel Levitt Recently I received a phone call from Amvets re questing that 1 make a dona tion of old clothing. Since I have been threatening for years to do a major overhaul ing of closets, this call gave me the necessary incentive. Going through our old clothes was almost like a stroll down memory lane. Let me tell you about it. My husband is a dear and wonderful man who poss esses one infuriating trait. He is very easy on clothes, nothing wears out, and he keeps stuff forever. On the other hand, I am not a saver and when something is out of style, i give it the old heave- ho. My things are pretty up to date, but his closet is a 35 year old panorama of fashioh. It goes w'ithout say ing that I tackled my hus band’s accumulation first. The initial discard was the ruffled shirt he wore to our son’s Bar Mitzvah. How handsome Hy and David looked, both in black silk mohair suits. My husband’s fancy dress shirt was tucked and embroidered, just what the man of distinction was wearing at that time. Four teen years later it is limp, sick, and sad, a far cry from its original splendor. I folded Educational Tid-Bits NEW YORK (JTA) - A growing number of the women who have been or dained as Reform and Reconstructionist rabbis since such ordinations began in 1972 are being placed as “solo” rabbis, spiritual leaders of congregations too small to need more than one rabbi. • JERUSALEM (JTA) - Some 2500 university students from development towns throughout Israel are involved this year in Jewish Agency-sponsored programs to aid youth in their home towns. The scheme provides for the Agency to finance the students’ university studies for which, in return, the students must devote several hours a week to coaching and youth work among the youngsters in their home towns. 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Up north, every self respec ting man wore one on cold Sunday mornings when he braved the cold to buy fresh, salty delicacies for a late breakfast — hence the name bagel and lox jacket. But who needs a heavy woolen coat in the South? Into the box it went. Next I spotted the first pair of golf shoes he ever owned. They were his lucky shoes and although he has owned several pairs since then, they have taken up space in the back of. the closet for 25 years. Enough is enough! I plowed through all his belongings, recklessly casting aside outdated styles, colors and materials. His loss would be Amvet’s gain. Then I steeled myself for the job of doing my closet. Surely, I thought, it couldn’t be too painful. I was wrong. High up on the shelf was the black pillbox hat I had bought for my Grand mother’s funeral. Worn only once, it was cushioned in tissue and just like new. How I miss my darling Grand mother — more and more as the years go by. I have kept this hat as a memento, dreading to part with it lest my memories fade. I realize now that I need no hat nor any material thing to remember and love one who meant so much. What have we here? It^s the snazzy cocktail dress that went with my husband’s ruffled shirt. This was a made to order creation also worn at our son’s Bar Mitz vah. It was lovely then and it is lovely now, but sadly out of date. Yet I had such a great time doing the Alley Cat, the Mambo and the Hully-Gully wearing this side draped, sequined stun ner. But now the time has come to give it away. Like everyone else, 1 have learned when to let go. I was amazed to find my 1946 ankle strap, high plat form, Carmen Miranda alligator shoes. I paid $32 for them, a fortune in those days. How I waltzed along the Grand Concourse in those sexy, snappy shoes! Wearing them made me feel like a celebrity, the best dressed lady in the Bronx, and a real fashion plate. Why I kept them all these years is a mystery, but I suppose it was too hard to throw them away after they had given me such pleasure and cost so much money. My carton of rejects filled up quicker than 1 imagined and before rhe lay a wealth of joy and sadness. I put the box out on the back porch to await col lection. While I prepared din ner, 1 noticed Hy foraging through the things and sneaking back into the house with his worn out golf shoes. 1 said nothing. The next morning 1 must con fess that 1 also took back my Carmen Miranda shoes. 1 simp ly could not part with them. 1 , figure that if the Alley-Cat and the Mambo ever return, 1 will be ready. And if ankle strap, high platform, alligator shoes ever become fashionable again, “I’ll be number one on the hit parade! Books In Review Impmrlml printing products oip Specialists In Raised Printing Stationery — Business Cards Wedding — Bar Mitzvah Invitations Business & Social Announcements 47J1 SwBdM Romd Chartott9. N.C.2S210 (704}BB4-im Stuart Coiac President MANN TRAVELS Let us handle your travel needs, big or. small. Our services are FREE. SUITE 3410, NCNB PIJVZA CHARLOTTE. N.C. 28280 (704) 333-1511 reenspon Associaies# Ire. 125 Cottage Place Chariotte, N.C. 28207 704/376-7434 Life Insurance Planning Group Insurance STAN QREEN8PON OAN COBLENZ Pension Plans Business Insurance SCOTT SWIMIMER DAVID SWIMIMER UPON THE HEAD OF THE GOAT. By Aranka Siegal. Farrar, Straus & Giroux, 19 Union Square West, New York, NY 10003. 199 pages $9.95 ages 12 and up. Reviewed by Eileen Shmid- man To add to a fine and grow ing number of books on the Holocaust for children and young adults, some of which are: When Hitler Stole Pink Rabbit by Judith Kerr; The Devil in Vienna by Doris Orgel; Alan and Naomi by Myron Levoy; Elli by Livia E. Bitton Jackson; and, of course, the best known of all The Diary of Anne Frank by Otto H. Frank, we can now include a new book with a most unusual title of Upon the Head of the Goat by Aranka Siegal. Subtitled “A Childhood in Hungary—1939-1944’’ is a sensitive, clearly written, beautifully descriptive story of Piri and her family in a small town in Hungary. At the beginning of the book the feeling is idyllic, with Piri visiting her grandmother in a small Ukranian village and playing in the fields; but as the story unfolds, there is a strong, frightening premoni tion of pending disaster. Piri’s father and brother- in-law are in the army, and her mother, a strong and self-confident woman, is try ing to hold the family together. But as the months go by, the relentless horror of war comes to Hungary and Piri and her family are sent to a ghetto and from there on the cattle cars to Auschwitz. The author has dedicated the story to “those who did not survive. They are deathless and timeless. Auschwitz could not sever the bonds of love and friend ship which contributed to my survival and which will live within me to the end of my days.’’ This book should help all of us rethink and remember. Eileen Schmidman is Librarian of New York’s Ramaz Lower School We have just found out that The Black Book, original ly scheduled for November publication, has been postponed by its publisher, the Holocaust Library. The book is now scheduled for publication sometime in 1982. We regret any confusion that htis delay has caused. •Editors AIVSWER I THE jLa. SUPER SUNDAY 11’82 January 17 WEDDllVeS*BAm M1TZVAHS«BAT MITZVAHS Superb Catering in Elegant Surroundings R Out of town guests? Let the Registry Inn offer you our special weekend rate... Any Friday, Saturday or Sunday night, $35.00 for up to 4 people per room. THE REGISTRY INN 321 W. WtxHllawn Rt>ad Charlotte, N.C. 28210 704/525-4441 800/438-I.r6