Page 17-THE NEWS-January, 1986 Bulletin Board B'nai BVith Women cont’d from p. 16 The Jewish Home Class Helped Me By Susan Rabinovich (L to R) Jodi Pinion, Helene Nathanson, Susan Rabinovich getting ready to light the Shabbat candles. Ha Lailah Chapter for theater, entertainment, a hotel directory, and a section called Shopping Spree filled with coupons from a variety of stores around the Charlotte area. For more information contact Brenda Manes, 364*9338. Membership Dinner Pam Segal’s home was the setting for Ha Lailah’s annual membership dinner. The menu featured a variety of crepes. Projects and activities were depicted by a unique fashion show. Raffle January 21 will be the raffle drawing. First prize is a membership to the JCC; se cond prize is a free class at the “J”; an Entertainment ’86 book is third prize. Tickets are $1 each or a baker’s dozen (13) for $10. Send checks to Wen dy Rosen, 9813 Red Rock Rd., Matthews, 28105. Adopted Family Last year Adrienne Rosenberg alerted Ha Lailah members of a very special family in need. The young mother and son were “adopted” by Ha Lailah last year during Chanukah and we have given food and clothing to them. Adrienne keeps us up to date on how they are doing. The mother has stressed the point that she wants nothing for herself on ly for her child. This has been a very rewarding project for Ha Lailah. When this family is able to function alone we hope to keep the project going by “adopting” another family. If anyone is interested in more information or would like to make a donation please con tact Penny Eisenberg, 847-4037. Ha Lailati Singles Ha Lailah’s singles have formed their own dinner club. Every month they will meet at a different restaurant: January 19 at Restaurant Tokyo. For more information or to make a reservation call Cary Bernstein, 535-7452; or Dayle Jaffa, 847-0694. Birthday Celebration A decade of Ha Lailah will be celebrated January 11 at the home of Sue and Bob Brodsky. Hors d’oeuvres, din ner and dessert are just a part of this magic evening. For more information about Ha Lailah BBW and its pro grams call Wendy Rosen, 847-3841. — Madeline Joffe Charlotte Chapter Federation, cosponsored a public service awareness pro gram on Chanukah. Local store owners were asked to display a “Happy Chanukah” banner in addition to their Christmas decorations in their store windows. Many thanks to Helene Nathanson, Dorothy Shapiro, Meryle Elko, Maxine Hitt, Roberta Malickson, Debbie Telem, Beth Linderman and Jodi Pin ion for their help in this project. Gift Wrap Once again our members en joyed themselves at our an nual Gift Wrap at Cotswold Mall. Thanks to all the volun teers who participated in this fundraising event and to all store merchants for their con tinued support. Amblyopia Our members have been keeping busy with amblyopia screening in the area pre schools. Many volunteers are needed for this very important project. If you are interested in screening and have not been trained, please call Margie Liebstein, 541-1844. — Susan Coen Temple Beth El invites all community youth children to a Shabbat service and lun cheon to be held on Saturday, January 18, from 11 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. The service is designed for children of preschool to kindergarten age but any other interested children may also attend. There will also be a story. It was an offhand conunent, a subtle expression of my frustration, but Helene Nathanson picked up on it and set the wheels in motion. After choosing Judaism two years ago, I have been trying to continue my Jewish educa tion by reading, attending temple, participating in classes and slowly getting in volved in the Jewish communi ty. Although these activities are providing a wealth of infor mation, I still feel very inade quate in my day to day “Jewishness” and in par- ticulsir, the rituals that take place in the home. Books are great to tell one “how to do,” but until one sees something done, there is always the doubt that you are not performing it like “everybody else”. Shabbat was a perfect example. This is where Helene entered the picture. Together with Shirley Levine, they arranged a Shabbat dinner for a Tues day night in November. Shirley was kind enough to open her home and provide a beautiful meal to a group of seven women who were in terested in experiencing a “typical” Friday night Shab bat. Some of us had chosen Judaism, some were born Jewish and wanted to be songs and Shabbat games. This is a wonderful opportuni ty for our young children to learn to enjoy participating in a Shabbat service. RSVP to the Temple office, 366-1948, before January 13. For more information please cgJl Susan Coen, 366-9539. refreshed on rituals, and some of us were not Jewish but in terested in learning about Judaism. The dining room table was beautifully set and you could tell it was a special night. Our dinner was delicious and in cluded roast chicken, matzah ball soup and kugel. We lit the Shabbat candles, said the blessing, recited kid- dush and brucha over the challah. Each of us was pro vided a Book of Songs and Blessings by the United Jewish Appeal so we could all actively participate. During dinner, Shirley and Helene gave us ideas on how they make Shabbat special for their families but stressed how each person needs to create a Temple Israel is offering a comprehensive course, open to the entire Jewish community, concerning many aspects of creating a Jewish home. We level of observance with which their own family will be com fortable. After saying the g^ace after the meal and at tempting a few Hebrew songs, it was time for the evening to end. As it turned out, the rituals I had been performing were not far off base but I learned many more that I want to incorporate into our fam ily’s Friday night Shabbat. iSvo of my favorites are saying a blessing over your children and having an extra Sabbath candle for each child. Not only was this class educational but a spirit of community was felt as well. The mutual interest, the ex change of ideas and the learn ing provided a sense of the essence of Shabbat. will read Blu Greenberg’s How To Run A Traditional Jewish Home and hear guest speakers at each session. This course should be especially helpful for people who have chosen to be Jewish and those with little or no Jewish background. Classes will meet on the fourth Wednesday of each month. The first class is January 29, 7:30 p.m. at Tem ple Israel. Books and a course outline will be distributed at that time. You may choose to attend all sessions, or only those of particular interest to you. The first topic for discussion will be “The Process of Feeling More Jewish.” Speakers will be Carol Waldman and Marlene Fuerstman, two women active in the Jewish community, who converted to Judaism. Other topics to be address ed in future classes include: Holidays, customs, Shabbat, traditions, cooking, children’s Jewish experience, a Jewish home library, Jewish music. To order a copy of the book and for reservations call Rab bi Wilson’s secretary, 376-2796. For more informa tion concerning the class, call me at 552-7006. — Helene Nathanson — Susan Coen —Order Your Passover Candy Now!— B’nai B’rith Women will be selling candy for the Passover holiday from “Chocolates by Rebekgih.” A check made out to B’nai B’rith Women, Inc., along with the order form below should be mailed to Patti Weisman, 6032 Jester Lane, Charlotte, N.C. 28211, by January 31. Candies will be available for pick up on March 16 at the Armstrong House, 921 Jeffer son Drive. Code Description - Amt. Quantity Total Amt. A 6 oz. Fancy Fruitty-Fruit Slices $2.00 B 6 per pack Chocolate Lollies 2.50 C 8 oz. Fancy Filled Fruit Drops 3.25 D 5 oz. Chocolate-Covered Coconut Macaroons 3.95 E 8 oz. “Our Famous” Almond Kisses 4.95 F 5 oz. Choc-o-Mix 4.95 G 7 oz. Minty Mint Melodies Parve 4.95 H 5 oz. Dark Almond Bark Parve 4.95 I 6 oz. Carmel-Nut Cluster 5.95 J 8 oz. Chocolate-Covered Nut Asst. Parve 6.95 K 8 oz. Asst. Truffles Parve 7.95 Name Address Tel Total Dollar Amt. Beth El To Hold Children’s Program Back By Popular Demand — The Jewish Home Class