5007 Providence Road Chariotte, NC 28226 Change Service Requested Non-Profit Organization U.S. Postage Paid Charlotte, NC Permit No. 1208 The Charlotte JEWISH Vol. 22 No. 3 Adar l-Adar II 5760 March 2000 The Queen of Hearts Requests the Pleasure of Your Company for “Tea Piper Glen Country Club on March 26 at 3:00 PM The 4th annual “Kids in Vogue” Children’s Fashion Show and Tea sponsored by the Jewish Federation Of Greater Charlotte is scheduled for Sunday, March 26 at Piper Glen Country Club. The annual fashion show is one of many social and educational events enabling the Federation to reach its $2.25 mil lion goal for the 2000 Annual Campaign. Marni Abramowitz and Dana Ditesheim who are chairing this year’s event are very excited about the new format. This year we are serving “Tea” instead of lunch. This will give everyone more time to mingle. It will be a fiin afternoon, guests can socialize with their friends, learn about the work of the Federation and watch our adorable children walk down the runway in wonder ful spring fashions. Lisa Goldberg along with Nina Lewis and Cheryl Rabinowitz will chair the recruitment effort this year. If you know of any newcom- A Matthew els at the Vogue. ers to Charlotte let them know so they can gel in touch with them personally to invite them. The cost to attend this year”s event is $18, which pays for the cost of the ‘Tea.” In addition, guests will be asked to make a $75 minimum donation to the Federation’s 2000 Annual Campaign. If you have ab^ady made a pledge of $75 or more to the campaign you are not required to make any additional donation. Monies raised from the event will have a lasting impact on the lives of Jewish children worldwide. This year we are also asking for gently used or new children’s clothing donations. We will be sending any clothing donations to “SAVEZ.” Savez is an organiza tion that will distribute our collec- ti(Mis to needy Jews in Yugoslavia. The average salary in Yugoslavia these days is about $40 per month and even that is paid late or not at all. These are formerly middle Baron mod- 1999 Kids in class families reduced to severe poverty. The Joint Distribution Committee (JDC) sends some clothes but none of this assistance adds up to what a normal child consumes in clothing during an ordinary year. Whatever donations you can bring will be greatly appreciated. The theme for the show is “Alice in Wonderland.” Decoration Chairs, Lisa Meyerson and Lora Solomon are busy woiidng on the room decor that will reflect this theme. Fashion’s for this year’s event will be provided by Lions & Tigers & Bears Children’s Boutique and London Britches. Sixty models ages 4-10 will be recruited to walk down the run way. Robin Gershen, Susan Hader and Roberta Rodgers are in charge of the fashions and will work with the stores to select the clothing that will be used on the 26th. Jennifer Newman, Rebecca Shaffer, Robin Stier and Linda Wasser will be working behind the scenes to make sure that the mod els are having as much fun back stage as the adults are having dur ing the Tea. There will be enter tainment to keep them busy before their time in the spotlight. Roni Fishkin will serve as “Master of Ceremonies” for the third year. This year she will play Pam Segal guides Zoe Kronovet and Anna Epstein at Kids In Vogue 1999. the part of the Queen of Hearts. Andrea Bimbaum is responnsible for our invitations and programs this year. Once again the show will fea ture “Gracious Grandmas,” which Jill Newman is chairing. Any grandmother of a cl»kl who is modeling may make a contribu tion to defray the costs of the show. “Gracious Grandmas” will be listed in the event (»t>gram. ^ Face to Face: Dealing with Prejudice and Discrimination’’ Nationally Recognized Exhibit at Discovery Place Face to Face: Dealing with Prejudice and Discrimination, a traveling exhibit designed to show children ages 7-10 how to deal with stereotyping and prejudice, is now at Discovery Place. Developed by the Chicago Children’s Museum, this powerful multi-media traveling exhibition is sponsored nationally by The Metropolitan Life Foundation and is l^ing presented locally by The National Conference for Community and Justice- Charlotte Region (NCCJ), the Cultural Education Collaborative (CEC), The Jewish Federation of Greater Charlotte, and Discovery Place. “Face to Face introduces chil dren to the many differences among us all, whether it be our physical abilities, our religious, cultural, racial, or social background, and how to recognize discrimination and stereotyping that may result from these differences,” said Linda Burr, NCCJ Executive Director. “We real ly have a fine program here that we hope will reach as many students as possible.” “The exhibit and its supporting public outreach campaign will be L DIKOVCRJ PLOCC profoundly important as the Charlotte community addresses issues of diversity awareness and tolerance in its public schools, as well as the community at large,” says Marvin Goldberg, Executive Director of the Jewish Federation of Greater Charlotte, one of the local sponsoring organizations. “Federation leaders believe this project has the potential to enhance quality of life for the local Jewish community and a broad cross section of the citizens of the Charlotte-Mecklenburg area, which is consistent with the mission and ongoing efforts of our organiza tion.” Of Qreater QiARijonrm The situations presented in the Face to Face exhibit will probably not be new to students. Children often react to differences among peers for reasons that range from wearing glasses to life-long physical disabilities. “Most of us remember a time when we were teased about being different in some way,” said Burr. “Do you remember how you felt? Do you recall how you handled the situation? One primary goal of this exhibit is to give children posi tive strategies in overcoming these negative experiences.” “As Charlotte continues to thrive, grow, and change it is important that our students grow in an environ ment where all are appreciated and valued, not in spite of their differ ences, but because of them,” said Freda Nicholson, President and CEO of Discovery Place. “Face to Face is meant to build each stu dent’s self-esteem and foster trust between different student groups.” The Components of the Exhibit Caregiver Labels - Placed through out the exhibit, caregiver labels pro vide tools for adults to help children deal with the difficult and some times confusing subject matter relat ed to prejudice and discrimination. Name That Stereotype - A lively Continued on page 4 SAVE THE DATE Wednesday, April 12 7:30 PM Anita Diamant, author of *^The Red Tent/* will be in Charlotte for The Jewish Federation Spring Lecture. Ms. Diamant is a renowned author of many books chronicling Jewish life. Other books include: '"Living a Jewish Life, ” "Choosing a Jewish Life, ” and *‘New Jewish Wedding. ” Come join us for an entertaining evening. Details to follow. Inside tins ksm... First-Ifaiid AcccHintsof Earlier Syrian N^odaions.^. By Dr. Ken Stein .p. 3 Purim 20-21 In the month of Adar €md iih tmr jny increases! Federation .AnnualCfaia Photo gallerx nf the goia (rt>m t rhmar\ » fentun.n: Rita Rudner and turnt ...... pp. 28-29 Federation Page .. page 4 CAJE .. page 10 Women’s Events ...page 11 Temple Israel ...page 12 Lubavitch of North Carolina .. .. .page 13 Temple Beth El ...page 14 Youth Visions .. page 15 Jewish Family Services .. .pages 16 Spcizman Jewish Library .... .. .page 17 Jewish Conmiunity Center , . . .. .pages 18-19 Mazel Tov . page 72 23 Charlotte Jewish Dav Schix>l . . . p.ise 24 The Jev>; >n TrnvcSc^ . . p.U-f 25 Dirtiii! 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