The Charlotte Jewish News - October 2009 - Page 17 The Book of Life Stan Greenspon By Phil Warshauer Donors are often asked, “Why did you make a gift?” At a recent seminar a nationally recognized speaker provided a group of planned giving professionals with the most common answer to this question: “I want to make a dif ference” - a rather simple answer to a rather simple question. Most of us want to make a dif ference, but how many of us actu ally do? You can identify “differ- ence-makers” by the hours they spend volunteering and by the charitable gifts they make. They are selective, giving time and money to organizations that share their commitment to making a difference. It can be said that “difference-makers” attract “dif- ference-makers.” Fortunately, our Charlotte Jewish community is blessed with a variety of organ izations and individuals that made a difference in years past, are making a difference today and will continue to make a differ ence in the future. Stan Greenspon has been an involved member of our commu nity, serving in leadership roles in many organizations. I have enjoyed our conversations, which have often been filled with pas sionate discussions about his commitment to improving the lives of others and the satisfac tion this has provided him. He is a quintessential “difference- maker.” As a member of The Book of Life Society, he has committed to making Charlotte and its Jewish community a bet ter place for future generations. We all want to make a differ ence. It requires commitment but it’s easier than you might imag ine. For more information on how you can make a difference and become a member of The Book of Life Story please contact Phil Warshauer at 704-973-4544 or pwarshauer@charlottej ewish- foundation.org. ^ Making a Difference Stan Greenspon My family and I have lived in the Charlotte area for over 40 years. During that time I have been fortunate to witness and experience the fantastic growth and all of the positive things that have come with it. My first volunteer role in the community was to serve as an Assistant Chairperson for the Israel Bonds Campaign. This led to my chairing the campaign in the mid-70s. During this time I vividly recall honoring Leon Levine for this event and success fully selling over $200,000 of bonds. The tremendous satisfac tion I gained from this campaign and working with a strong com mittee and dedicated individuals fueled my passion to do more for the Jewish community. In the early 80s, I joined the Jewish Federation and I served as Allocations and Major Gifts Chairperson. Through this work I achieved great personal growth and appreciation for high level organizational work. Twenty-five years ago Charlotte and the Jewish commu nity were much smaller, but the dynamics of leadership and vol- unteerism were exceptional. It was then that my good friend Aaron Gleiberman insisted that I take on the role of president of the Federation. He convinced me it was my duty and responsibility. It was truly an experience and honor to be in a position during such exciting times, with Russian immigration and the placement of many Israelis into the Charlotte community. We also started the Jewish Times newspaper and cre ated the Social Services Agency. There were many challenges, including the planning of Shalom Park, but a strong commitment from a community working together helped us to reach our objectives. All of this work has strength ened my belief and determination to assist charitable causes throughout our community. This applies not only for the Charlotte Jewish community but for the greater Charlotte community. I am proud to have served on the original Board of Directors for the Juvenile Diabetes Foundation. My former wife, Roslyn, started the Charlotte Chapter and was recognized for its early success. The chapter is now raising over two million dol lars per year It is obvious to me that many of us in the Jewish community feel the same way about making Charlotte a better place. Many of us gained valuable leadership experience within our Jewish community and have worked hard to ensure that future genera tions will reap some of the bene fits of our hard work. ^ 'Foundation 'for the ^^p’^^'^harloctc Jewish — \Commiinity HIAS (Continued from previous page) good teachers. Therefore they sought educated Bhutanese to teach their children. With the older boys working outside the camp, the remaining family had more to eat. The boys were also able to buy clothes and other necessities for the family. They returned to the camp every three to six months. While acknowledging the prim itive conditions in the camps, Ngana says, “We were the luckiest refugees in the world.” Myin Aung would not say that. An uneducated Karen (a large eth nic group) farmer from Burma (Myanmar) running from his country’s oppressive regime, he and his family fled to the Umpium refugee camp in Thailand in 1984. Myin was given wood and bam boo to build his house. Unlike Ngana’s camp, no one was allowed to leave to work outside. With their rations of cooking oil, rice, salt and beans, Myin’s wife Minge fed their family of six. They were allowed to raise live stock—pigs and chickens—^which they could sell or trade or use for the family itself They had candles for evening light. Myin said they suffered in the cold—^two shared a blanket. The rainy season brought floods and mud. They lived this way for 21 years. For so many years they lived without hope. The UNHCR called for refugees to register for a Used Book Sale to Benefit Hadassah Are you moving? Are you cleaning out your house for the New Year? Are you cleaning out the lids rooms now that they have ieft for school? 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Myin was untrusting and did not believe they would be safe so he did not pursue the option until 2008, when the family was approved to come to the U.S. We are lucky to be able to remember our ancestors who dwelled in huts this holiday sea son. Truly, we can be grateful for the “clouds of glory” that surround us as Jews in the U.S. HIAS NC has resettled these two men and their families in Charlotte. You can help these and other refugees with a donation to HIAS NC, 5007 Monroe Rd., Charlotte, NC 28205. 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