The Charlotte Jewish News - June-July 2011 - Page 14 Sciwels How to Keep Your Preschooler Motivated and Engaged Over the Summer ¥ As you probably know, preschoolers do not need a desk or pens and paper to learn. These lit tle ones learn through all of their senses. They play, explore and ask questions, all of which helps them become life-long learners. As par ents how do you keep your chil dren engaged and entertained dur ing the summer months? Here are some simple ways to enjoy the hot days together and keep your chil dren motivated, so they’re ready to jump back into the school rou tine once the fall arrives. Reading is the single most important thing you can do with your child. Read, ask questions as you read, and ask your child to “guess” what the ending will be or even to make up his or her own ending to the story. Making pre dictions is an excellent way for preschoolers to develop their lis tening comprehension skills. Preschoolers also love to fill in the blanks while they’re reading. Repetition, rhyming and illustra- OUR STAND EVERY INSURANCE POLICY SHOULD COME WITH A LIVING. BREATHING OWNER’S MANUAL. Call us today fora complimentary financial and insurance review. (704) 846 9700 HOWARD EPSTEIN, MBA PROVIDENCE RD& 1-485 CHARLOTTE howardepstein@allstate.com Serving the community for over 15 years. /Illstate. You’re in good hands. Insurance subject to availability and qualifications. Allstate Insurance Company and Allstate Property and Casualty Insurance Company, Northbrook, Illinois ©2009 Allstate Insurance Company tions are all great tools that preschoolers use to “read.” Preschool children do not need to be engaged in a formal reading program, but instead should be exposed to print as often as possi ble to develop “reading readiness” skills. Parents can build letter and sound recognition throughout the day very easily too. When driving in the car, ask your (older) pre schooler to find things that start with a particular letter of the alphabet. Or, use the first letter of your child’s name and see if he or she can find five things outside the car window that start with the same sound. This activity also works well in the grocery store. For younger preschoolers, looking for objects that are all the same color is another fun activity. The summer is a great time to fine-tune some social skills that are so important during the pre school years. Take every opportu nity to help your little one under stand the people around them. Helping them become respectful individuals will help them now and long after they leave pre school. Talk to them about peo ple’s feelings - “Look at your brother and look at his Ifown. What do you think he is feeling and why?” Help them identify these feelings and be able to dis cuss them. Have plenty of play dates and act as a facilitator; be involved just enough to encourage purposeful play and appropriate interactions, but do not intervene when it is unnecessary. Conflict resolution helps children develop social skills and learn how to get along. Allow your preschooler to work out a simple conflict without you if possible, and then praise them for the “kind words” they used or the way they compromised with a friend. As September rolls around, you will be looking for ways to pre pare your child for the school rou tine again. Research shows that children thrive on routine and a predictable environment. Even though summer is here and your schedules will be changing, main taining some key routines in your preschooler’s day will make each transition easy for the whole fami ly- * Keeping a regular bedtime is key. Even if you adjust your child’s bedtime to accommodate the looser summer schedule, be sure to stay consistent. A restful child makes for a happier child jps Th« Jenyfsh Th« Jenyfsh Sardli during the waking hours. * Morning routines should stay consistent too. Your school day routine should not change in the summer, like eating breakfast, then brushing teeth, and getting dressed (of course some lazy, relaxing days are always a treat). * Limit screen time. Even in the summer, computers, iPads, and TV time should be limited. Many experts believe that less than ten hours a week is appropriate for preschoolers. * Encourage family time. If family dinners are the norm in your family, try to stick with that. Preschoolers count on these pre dictable interactions. If the school days are too hectic to plan dinner, maybe summer will allow you some extra time to create a new family ritual. Most of all, enjoy your little wonders. They are at a fantastic age and truly just want to please you and have fun. Guide them, offer them plenty of opportunities to have unstructured free play and ask them lots of questions. Treasure these wonderful moments. ^ Springtime at CJDS Spring is an exciting time at the Charlotte Jewish Day School. While many other schools and their students are suffering from Spring Fever and winding down their year, we are celebrating Celebrating our Seventh Year at this Location City*Art‘Works elevate your gift giving to an art form Charlotte’s Finest Craft and Gift Gallery featuring ALL Michael Aram Judaica @ 25% Off - ti'vYD -; s- ’ '■ ~ ' #v i -V at Parktowne Village (corner of Park Rd. & I/Voodlawnj CitvArt’Works 1620 East Woodlawn Rd. Suite 267 Charlotte, NC 28209 704.527.1300 Grandparent’s Day and looking forward to several out of town fieldtrips. On Friday, May 6, about 200 grandparents and grand “friends” gathered together with CJDS stu dents to celebrate Grandparent’s Day. Musical performances, prayer, sign language and a jump rope presentation were all show cased by our multi-talented stu dents. A third grade student at the Schiele Museum Mariashi Groner welcomed all of our guests and introduced this year’s honorees of the Barbara and Jerry Levin Visionary Award, Patty and Bill Gorelick. “Jerry and Barbara Levin knew [that the sur vival of Judaism rested in the chil dren], so they stood behind the day school here in Charlotte and when their last grandchild gradu ated from the day school, they cre ated a legacy, an award that would be given to an honoree each year as the Barbara and Jerry Levin Visionary of the Year in Jewish Education.” She went on to say, “When our little CJDS was still up on the hill, I don’t think there were too many people imagining the school becoming a community day school. But Bill Gorelick did n’t really worry about those little details. He knew that a Jewish Day School was an important part of a community’s puzzle, and he was determined to make it hap pen. And, anybody who knows Bill knows that when he decides that something has to happen, it’s going to happen. Thank you, Patty for supporting, advising, and cheering all that Bill does for the community.” The highlight of this presentation was the speech given by Adelaide Gorelick, one of Bill and Patty’s grandchildren and a 2008 graduate of CJDS. “.. .1 have no doubt that CJDS has put me on the course of my parents and grandparents, giving to those who are in need of my giving. I am so honored to be part of a family who values tzedakah so much. I would also like to congratulate my grandparents for receiving such a huge honor from such an impor tant school...” Congratulations to (Continued on page 16) Barbara and Jerry Levin presenting the 2011 Barbara and Jerry Levin Visionary Award to Bill Gorelick