OCTOBER 26 . 2002 • Q-NOTES
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Beauty: Fight it or
find it within
yourself
Dearest Trinity,
I am so sick of the beautiful people getting all the
attention. Don’t you think that all this
importance with beauty and sex appeal is
making life to competitive?
Beauty Sick Minneapolis, MN
Dearest Sick,
Sorry to burst your competitive bubble but
beauty will always be in style, always rule
the world and always be around to turn
heads, sell products and make everyone else
feel like chopped liver. If you want to get
some attention (as everyone does) then
create some appeal for yourself. Making the
most of what you have is actually quite
natural. Peacocks, cats, even snakes and
spiders do it. Everything from monkeys to
Marilyn Monroe uses or used beauty and
sex appeal to compete, to get noticed and to
get a mate. So don’t fight beauty; rather, find
the beauty within yourself and work it!
Hey Trinity,
Why are straight men so straight? Don’t you
think if straight men hung around gay men more
often they would learn a thing or two about
politeness, culture and even decorating?
Straight Thoughts New Orleans, LA
Hey Thoughts,
If straight men hung around gay men they
would definitely learn a lot. But as far as
teaching straight men to be interested in the
arts or decorating I don’t know if you can
teach just any ole straight man that!
Trinity’s Straight Neighbor
Never leave a straight man
alone to decorate his home!
sV s'
Hello Trinity,
There is so much competition in the bars. Haw
do I make myself stand out or be noticed?
Not Noticed Billings, MT
Hello Noticed,
Unless you’re hunky, sexy or beautiful it is
difficult to get noticed especially in a dark
smoky bar. The best way to stand out
anywhere is to physically and mentally
prepare yourself before going into social
situations by looking, smelling and acting
for those who enjoy
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Dear TYinity,
I need to get out of an mvful relationship. If I tell
my boyfriend that I am leaving he will come after
me and make my life miserable again. So I have
decided to run away. I want to do it right. Help,
please!
Running Away Hoboken, NJ
Dear Running Away,
If anyone knows how to run away from
an awful relationship, of course after
trying everything under the sun to make
it work, then it is 1. So good luck and
here are:
Trinity's Tips For How To Leave A Bad
Situation or Run Away
(.Don’t leave broke, if you save some
money first, you will be able to buy more
time away and go further.
2. Get a cell phone. It makes traveling
much easier. And get a PO box to collect
and forward your mail.
3. Think laundry. The more you take the
more you have to carry. Laundry once a
week means you can travel light and
travel right.
4. In the winter go south. In the summer
go north.
5. Paying all your bills off first or a few
months in advance means you will be
really free for a :
while.
6. Leaving when no
one is around gives
you a lot more time
and peace than
running away on the spur of the
moment.
7. Going to places where you know
someone makes it a lot easier to stay
away and start a new life, unless you
have to go to an anonymous
destination.
8. Leaving a note that says, “I’m leaving
don’t bother coming to find me." It’ll
prove to everyone, especially the
police, that you haven’t been
kidnapped and need to be brought
back.
9. As you are leaving, keep breathing,
think good positive thoughts and shut
the stove off.
10. Lastly, everyone runs away for
different reasons. Remember, your
problems always come with you so
get clean, emotionally and/or
financially, as soon as you can.
Don’t let your questions go unanswered!
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