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THE BENNETT BANNER
Friday, November 17, 1989
Date rape isn’t an inalienable right
He takes vou out for dinner and a movie. Afterwards, he says, “Let’s go
back to my place.” You get there and suddenly, the perfect gentleman of the
evening has turned into a character like that in a Dr. .lekyll and Mr. H\de
horror flick. Most date rape incidents begin e.xactly like this.
Many young women ha\’e experienced this type of date scenario at one time
or another. No matter how prudent a young woman is in picking her dates,
there are no discernible or conspicuous characteristics that separate the good ones
from the bad ones. However, incidents of date-rape are not a question of which
guys are good or bad, but simply a statement of moral values and ideas that have
shaped our society’s views of male/female relationships.
Men are taught, from puberty and throughout adulthood, the sexual male
“role” when dating a young lady. I am, in fact, a witness to the patronizing
jargon that goes on between young men when dating becomes the topic of
discussion, “Yeah man, if the b—- don’t give it to you, you better jump on that
and take it.” As absurd as it may sound, many American males assume that
if they spend money on a young lady, it entitles them to certain inalienable
rights in the form of sexual liberties, at the cost of their dates’ integrity and
emotional well-being. IJate-rape, like any other form of sexual abuse, is not only
illegal but totally immoral. ^ ,
I_"nfortunitGly, like other sexucil pGi’VGrsions thiit rtg enRciGcl upon minori-
ties especiallv women, date-rape is often justified as a means for a young man
to c’on:iuer a 'date who’s “playing hard to get.” It was, until recently, overlooked
as a personal dispute between two consenting adults.
However, no man has the right to invade a woman s body because of soc-
ietv’s sexual hang-ups. Date-rape is now getting the attention it deserv^es be
ep use of the increase in reported incidents and informative television and maga
zine co\'erage. The more we, as young women, know about the dangers and the
legal action we can take when faced with a date who just simply refuses to
take no for an answer, the better the chances are for the perpetrators to be
treated like all other sexual offenders.
If one of mv Bennett sisters should ever find herself in an uncompromising
position with a date and he turns into a Mr. Hyde. I urge her please to go for
help and do not blame herself for what happened. Sister, you are just a victim
of someone’s abnormal behavior. Dating is fun and can lead to even happier
times: but when it is harmful to you, like AIDS, it can destroy your social life
forever. (Rehan Overton)
Turner must be seen as a human being
As the second black Miss America, Debbie Turner has put under considerable
scrutiny. Recently, she was criticized for stating that being black had nothing
to do with her winning the Miss America title.
What “does” being black have to do with it? Absolutely nothing. Turner
won the title based on her personality, beauty, talent and intelligence. The color
of her skin was not a criterion for which she was judged. Yet, after winning the
title, she was asked by reporters how it felt to be black and Miss America.
How is she supposed to feel? Privileged? Privileged that she is black and
was chosen as Miss America, or that she was chosen Miss America, and happens
to be black? Any other winner of the title would not have been asked how it felt
to be a white Miss America. So why should Turner feel any differently about
it‘^ Of course, it is wonderful that a black woman won the title; that is an achieve
ment in itself. However, it was not the first time and hopefully it won’t be the
last. But the real achievement is that Turner went up against 49 other contest
ants, all of whom were just as beautiful, talented, intelligent and poised. So,
Turner herself had to be more than just black in order to win.
Nonetheless, the media made a big deal out of the fact that Turner stated
that being black was only a coincidence in her winning the title. In fact, they
said that it was becoming common for blacks to deny their heritage after suc
ceeding in a field which is normally dominated by whites. This in turn, stated
the media, degrades the black community.
I do not believe this is what Turner or any other black person whom the
media may have been referring to, had in mind. Turner was not denying that
she is black. She w'as simply stating that there is more to her than just being
black. She is an intelligent, beautiful woman who, because of nothing she had
any control over, is black. The judges chose her because they felt she was the
most qualified contestant to be Miss America whether she was black or not.
My feelings on this subject do not, however, mean that I don’t believe this
was a significant achievement for blacks. It was a great achievement, but it
just goes to show that a black person can be judged on what’s inside, rather
than what’s outside. Our society has to realize through Miss Turner, that we as a
black community are more than just black; we have numerous other charac
teristics and abilities. The Miss America Pageant judges realized that fact, not
once but twice, and hopefully, all whites wdll come to see us as more than just
black people. (Yvette N. Freeman)
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Look Who's Talking
Film is hilarious
a review
by Yvette N. Freeman
“Ix)ok Who’s Talking” has
to be one of the most enter-
t a i n i n g and imaginative
movies ever made. Not only
is the storyline excellent but
also the acting and special
effects.
The movie centers around
Kirstie Alley’s character, an
accountant who falls in love
with one of her clients — a
married businessman, played
by George Segal. When things
don’t work out between the
two. Alley goes into labor
and is taken to the hospital
by cab driver John Travolta.
From there, TYavolta and
Alley form a friendship re
sulting in Ti-avolta’s becom
ing the babysitter.
Both Alley and Travolta
turn in great performances
in this movie, and Bruce
Willis is absolutely hilarious
and believable as the voice of
Mickey, Alley’s son.
“Look Who’s Talking” is a
movie that will keep you
laughing from start to finish,
and it’s refreshing to see a
movie made from a child’s
perspective, from conception
to toddler-age. Just about all
of the comedy highlights are
a result of Bruce Willis’
interpretations of Mickey’s
thoughts.
And when I mentioned the
movie being made from the
child’s perspective from con
ception, I do mean conception.
One of the best scenes is a
re-creation of Segal’s sperm
fertilizing Alley’s egg in the
womb. Now guess who’s voice
just happens to be that of the
sperm also? Of course, Bruce
Willis.
As a result of Willis’ inter
pretations of Mickey’s
thoughts and feelings, people
who see this movie will prob
ably never look at babies and
toddlers the same again.
They’ll wonder exactly what
their baby is thinking, and
what those strange facial ex
pressions really mean. This
movie will make you wonder
if babies really can rationa
lize, and what is actually
going through their minds
when adults insist on talking
babytalk to them—you know,
the “goo-goo-gaa-gaa” stuff.
If you want to see a great
comedy that will keep you
entertained not only during
the movie but also afterward,
see “Look Who’s Talking.” I
would give it a 9.5 on a scale
of one to 10.
*TXe3^ennell
annc^
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The trouble with gates
Hell is no exit
a column
by Taundra Woodard
In the spring and on into the
summer, the campus stands out
majestically. The beautiful flow
ering magnolias and the deep
green grass add warmth to the
small campus. During the day the
campus is open and inviting,
beckoning visitors to come and
languish in its lush tranquility.
But at night the campus turns
into a den of darkness with
shadowed walkways, unlit corners
and unguarded entrances. It is this
dark picture along with some as
saults on and around the campus
that prompted the administration
to put gates on almost all of the
entrances to the college.
The gates may seem to be an
effective means to protect the
student body, but they can also
feel like a prison at times. I defi
nitely think that every young
woman on the campus deserves
the best protection that she can
get. But a problem occurs when
we look at the real effectiveness
of the gates.
In the parking lot next to
Black Hall, a gate prohibits exit
or entrance from the campus by
automobile but anyone walking
can step over the brick wall and
stroll through the campus. Also,
some of the gates have simple
locks that lift up to open and
fall back down into place as a
person exits. Another problem
occurs when the gates to the
driveways are locked at no par
ticular time but at the discretion
of the security guards. To a cer
tain extent, I agree the driveways
should be locked because they
prohibit people from driving
through the campus late at night
and disturbing students. But there
need-S to be a uniform time for
closing the gates. The information
should be posted so all students
will be aware of the safety mea
sures.
Off-campus students need this
information because there are
many times when they stay on
the campus late at night studying
with other students. As it is now,
students can get locked on the
campus if they try to leave and
the gates have been closed. It
happened to me one night. I had
been studying late with a friend
in Merner. At 12:45 p.m. I left the
dorm to go to my car in the park
ing lot behind the dorm. I d.id not
realize that the gate had been
locked until I was almost to the
end of the driveway. I had no
choice but to go back to the dorm
and hope someone would hear me
knocking. It just so happens that
my friend heard me and opened
the door. I listened to the dorm
director call security to come and
open the gate. She instructed me
to go to the gate immediately be
cause a guard would be there
soon and he would re-lock the
gate if I was not there waiting.
I went back to my car to wait.
As the minutes ticked by, I
periodically turned on the heat
to warm myself, hoping someone
would come soon. After a half
hour passed, I felt that I had no
other choice but to drive up be
hind Merner and go to security
because I was sure that no one
would hear me knocking on the
front door of Merner Hall a second
time. When I got to the security
house, three guards were on duty.
I asked the guard at the switch
board if someone was going to
open the gate so that I could get
out. He informed me that the
guards were at the gate already.
At that point I walked back to
my car and drove back to the
gate. At first I still did not see
anyone but a few minutes later
two guards came and unlocked
the gate. By this time it was 1:30
a.m.—45 minutes after I had first
tried to go.
I am well aware that this was
not a typical situation, but none
theless the very gates that are
there to protect us can also im
prison us. There should be signs
posted all around the campus
indicating what time the gates
will close. Also, if a student does
get locked on the campus by
accident, she should not have to
wait for over a half hour to be
let out.
1989-90 BENNETT COLLEGE
BASKETBALL SCHEDULE
NOVEMBER
16 Mt. Olive College
Away
7 p.m.
17
Methodist College
Home
7 p.m.
21
Winston-Salem State
Home
7 p.m.
29
Guilford College
Home
7 p.m.
DECEMBER
1 Dillard University
Home
6 p.m.
5
Winston-Salem State
Away
7 p.m.
7
Meredith College
Home
7 p.m.
9
Montreat-Anderson
Away
2 p.m.
JANUARY
13 Averrett College
Away
2 p.m.
16
Piedmont College
Home
7 p.m.
18
Methodist College
Away
7 p.m.
20
Queens College
Home
1 p.m.
22
Greensboro College
Away
7 p.m.
23
Mt. Olive College
Home 7:30 p.m.
25
Meredith College
Away
7 p.m.
30
Piedmont College
Away
7 p.m.
FEBRUARY
5 N.C. Central
Home
7 p.m
6
Averrett College
Home
7 p.m
8
Queens College
Away
7 p.m
12
N.C. A&T State
Home
7 p.m
14
N.C. Central
Away
7 p.m
16-17
Meredith College
Basketball Tournament Away B p.m.
Correction Box
The following additions
and corrections need to be
made to the story head
lined “Volleyballers have
Zip” in our Oct. 13 issue.
• Bennett is playing volley
ball and basketball as an
independent team. The
school is applying for
admission to the NCAA
Division III.
• The members of the
volleyball team did not
have to take drug tests
as a requirement for
participation.
• The names of Kimyatta
Vinson and Shawn Muss-
ington were misspelled.
• The volleyball team
finished with a 3-10 re
cord.
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