February 3, 2000 The Banner Page 3 Perspectives Knowing what we can and cannot change Andrew Thommason columnist This column is going to turn out be a confessional of sorts. It is my lope and prayer that it will help someone not have to go through what I had to go through to come to ;se same conclusions, have never been one to give up "ontroi of anything easily. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not the kind of uy who puts his girlfriend in a ttle box and forbids her to go nywhere without my consent or xompaniment. However, itboth- 0 not be in control of what’s For this reason, it really used to rive me crazy when it snowed, ecause I couldn’t go anywhere, the reason why I won’t ride in a car with anyone, that I have to drive, and it’s also the reason I don’t drink or do drugs. It’s really quirky, and I realize this, but it’s me. Unfortunately, there are things, like the snow, that I can’t do a damn thing about, and when I came to school in Asheville, I had to learn quickly how to deal with such things so I wouldn’t stress myself out. For me, the answer started to come when I realized that I had a \yhole lot more control over my destiny than our largely fatalistic society tends to believe. When I discovered that every thought I have breeds a like action, it made me monitor my thoughts much more closely. I can look at my past and, though I strongly dis like dwelling on it, find many ex amples of how my thought patterns realized themselves in my existence. The best example, the best print able one, anyway, was my first se mester at UNCA, when I had mono nucleosis for three solid months. First of all, when I came to UNCA in the fall, I was terribly afraid of being away from home and being deathly ill. That fear manifested itself as a case of mono. After I got it, I was probably truly sick for about a month, and after that, I began to talk myself into still being ill. That continued mindset of “I’m sick. I’m sick” was what made it last so long, not the actual virus that beat the body down. And why wouldn’t I? It was a great excuse in lots of different directions, but the problem was that at the time, I didn’t understand how much I wanted the excuse, and subse quently the illness. You can’t have one without the other, and mono became like a bad habit for me, until a friend of mine finally shook me up and told me what I was doing to myself When the blame finally comes to rest on the^guilty party, instead of the worldly things he chooses to blame it on, it adds a great deal of perspective. Nothing “happens” to you that you do not allow to happen. Except, of course, for matters of collective conscious ness: the things you cannot change, like hurricanes, floods, and even snowstorms. If the collective consciousness is negatively bent, then it will manifest negative things in that group’s existence. The Y2K problem didn’t become the international crisis it was hyped up to be because people stopped worrying about it as much. I do not know any living human being that can single-handedly override the collective conscious ness of a group of people with their own. If you know of such a person, I would like an introduc tion, but for the sake of conversa tion, we will assume that she/he While we cannot single-handedly override the collective conscious ness of a large group, we can do two things to help us put up with the snowstorms, whatever they Letters to the Editor 3ookstore woes )ear Editor, UNCA and Asheville as a whole been seen as progressive areas /ith their sworn allegiances to lib- rts and liberal thought. How- one area has failed to uphold ideals: the UNCA bookstore. 1 the horrifying prices of books ) the lack of software selection, the ookstore has only shown that loney still thrives while students survive. Recently, I purchased textbooks three classes. The grand total ; nearly $400! I have two more ses to shop for. It might not e been such a kicker if I could e sold back a few books last mester. Unfortunately, I am stuck calculus book and an ac- mnting book which are now offi- ally “outdated.” To make matters worse, the book store also fails to see alternatives to saving students money in the soft ware field. On their software rack: Windows 98, Office 2000, Visual C++ and all the expensive price tags to boot. What they fail to offer: Linux, StarOffice and Wordperfect 8 Personal Edition for Linux. These are cheap alternatives to costly li censes and troublesome software. The bookstore fails to recognize that students can have a working workstation for less than $ 100 when it comes down to actually packaged software. That means word pro cessing, databasing, programming languages and environments, mail software, web browsers, spread sheets and more for a fraction of the cost. The bookstore fails to offer cheap packages like those offered by Linuxmall where students can havd a powerful operating system for $5.00 and still download viable office software like Wordperfect 8 and StarOffice for Linux for free. Liberal, I believe not. Cost-effec- tive, heck no. Corporate sellouts, could b^. Basically, what I am trying to say is, “Stop gouging us. Offer us more, cheaper, better materials.” Casey Keller Computer Science Higher standards Dear Editor, I have heard many people say that UNCA needs minority scholarships in order to improve diversity. UNCA does not need to spend any more time or money trying to in crease diversity. Diversity is not UNCA’s most important concern. The reason why UNCA has little diversity is because few minority students apply. Compared to other universities in North Carolina, UNCA does not get that many applicants at all. We need to im prove our academic standards and expand our curriculum. This will increase the number of students applying to UNCA, including mi nority students. This is the only way we can increase the number of qualified minority applicants. Minority scholarships will not in crease diversity. Racism can never increase diversity. Race-based schol arships will not attract qualified applicants. They are planning to go to the larger universities. Minority scholarships will j ust allow unquali fied students to come here. Besides, how can giving students scholar ships based entirely on race improve understanding between the races.^ Joshua Johnson Freshman Undeclared •kin deep ar Editor, makes me awfully tired every : I hear or read the statement eing a person of color” elicited what our current society clas- as a “minority.” When, oh 1, can we all get beyond the construct, which is defeatist nature anyway? my Humanities 414 class, un- the instruction of Professor hney, we had what I feel was the realistic exchange on the diver- issue at UNCA. I had said to “minority” students, “Why is wsity only skin deep to you?” >eir response was that with color mes culture. I have come to real ize that this is false. What we all need to realize is that with geogra phy comes culture, not mere pig- The monopoly the “minority” stu dents have on the phrase “person of color” is over. We are all people of color - the approach here is inclu siveness instead of the age-old us versus them mentality. If the “mi norities” on this campus were not so addicted to the joys ofvictimhood and finally refrained from perpetu ating the aura of exclusiveness that shrouds them, then we could fi nally make some progress in achiev ing what seems to be this school’s ultimate goal: diversification. Jaimie Park Senior History All welcome here Dear Editor, Is not every citizen of this country entitled to his or her opinion, as well as guaranteed the right to ex press it under the first amendment? I believe that a “liberal arts” educa tion should teach us to be openminded to all views of the world regardless of whether or not we are in accord with them. As students gather around Rev. Gary Birdsong merely to heckle him for his beliefs and views of the world and society, does this not completely destroy the idea of the “liberal arts” education and so-called openmindedness? What students need to realize is that Birdsong is exercising his right to express his opinions, j ust as they have that very Instead of bellowing insults, rude comments and the like, students should simply allow him to speak and move on with their classes and lives. After all, a crowd only fuels the fire. I believe what worries me most is that as these crowds gather to refute his ideas and label him a “bigot,” they are actually showing their own closemindedness, as well as their refusal to accept his view of society. Perhaps we should be careful to openminded that we are actually closeminded. J. M. Hodges UNCA Alurrinus The Banner welcomes letters and comments regarding the content or quality of tliis publication. Letters should be typed, double spaced, and should not exceed 300 words. Letters for publication should also include the author’s signature, class standing and ma jor or other relationship to UNCA. All submissions are subject to editing for length and content. E-mail and web submissions should contain a telephone number for verification. The deadline for Let ters to the Editor is noon on Tuesday. Please send letters to: The Banner, 208A Carmichael Hall, One University Heights, Asheville, NC 28804, submit a letter via the Banner Online, or e-mail Banner@unca.edu. may be for you. One of the most important things to understand is that although there are some things that cannot be changed of your own accord, you do have infinite control over how you react to these things, and how you let them affect you. Humanity has a weird pattern of feeling threatened by the uncon ditional love of the great masters, killing them, and then, seeing how peacefully they accepted death, dei fying them again. The secret of the masters, though it is much more difficult than just knowing, is having the perspective that in the grand scheme of things, there is nothing that anyone can do to you to harm the eternal part within. They know the game goes on forever, and that the part within them that is God cannot be de stroyed. That thought, though it seems simple, is the secret to a hakuna matata lifestyle. You could watch Mother Teresa among the lepers in Calcutta and see her react ing to the downtrodden with love. You could see Jesus on the cross saying “Father, forgive them.” He reacted with love as well. Find out what lesson you can take away from all your perceived prob lems, and, having found it, love the problem as a venue to greater understanding. Also, we can help other people to understand what they are doing to themselves, and thus alter the collective conscious ness. If you help another un derstand that they control their own destiny and own happiness by their thoughts and reaaions to difficult situations, then you begin to assist in changing the way a group of people think, and the negativity won’t build up. Then, who knows what kind of great things we will have in store? So, God, grant me and others the serenity to accept the things we cannot change, and likewise realize that though - there are not many things on that list, it still does exist. Grant everyone the courage to change the things they can change, and not to accept any less than their high est visions for themselves and the world. Finally, grant us all the wisdom to know the difference. Editorial Board Emma Jones Sarah Wilkins Meghan Cummings Krystel Lucas Jason Graham Lauren Deal Matt Hunt Zach Dill Editor -in- Chief News Editor Features Editor Sports Editor Photo Editor Copy Editor Online Editor Asst. Online Editor* Staff Kay Alton, Lena Burns, Jennifer Crowl, Walter Fyler, Anthony Greco, Davon Heath, Kathryn Krouse, Susan McCord, Melissa Starnes, Alison Watson, Teshania Wiley Manager Rebecca Cook . 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