By Deone Powell
powell@email.unc.edu
want to do is to hit it,"
why put yourself out
^ there like that? I am
not going to say that
girls are the only ones
to catch feelings,
because we do too
(occasionally). We just
aren't about to put our
selves out there like
y'all do. It's just not
happening.
joking. On the real, I don't need a man to do anything
for me. If I can't do it, it doesn't need to be done. I don't
need the material stuff, I need the intellectual aspect,
something that I can't give to myself. We are all in col
lege about to get a degree (well most of us anyway). I
agree, a lot of females want to be taken care of but I did
n't come to college to have a man take care of me. When
I graduate, I WILL be making six figures for myself so a
guy better come with something better than that.
Talking-bout-scane^uaL cMHinZ
Deone: I ha
You sound a
"I mean, why can't we just chill?'
Cheritta: I think that it is all about your intentions
because a lot of times, a female may view a guy as a
prospective "boo piece" or someone to have a long term
relationship with in the back of her mind, whereas guys
don't have intentions of being committed. When a self-
proclaimed "playa" first approaches a girl, the first
thought in his mind is sexual or what he can get from
"just chillin'" with her. Guys and girls just have totally
different intentions.
Deone: Exactly! Some girls on this campus are all about
"intentions". There is always a hidden objective with
some girls. Either they want their wrists lit, their nails
done or simply a free swipe up to Lenoir. It is always
something.
Cheritta: Ain't nothing wrong with wanting a man with
a meal plan! At least most girls don't venture out to ask
for a trip to Red Lobster or Angus Bam. No, 1 am just
11 said anything abou
bitter.
Cheritta: Tpat is for all the sistas who ha
to "just chil
ust chillin."
fallen victim
Cheritta and ’
agree on a lot i
that we disag
need to praci
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we are taiKmg a
ne: See...Point proven. Gjys and girls
ifferent things. But, you^ve to admit
on a lot of things too. T^t's where we
common sen^ and goo^udgement.
-to-pyn Aaa^Iust know that
er keep it tight, because
ce^R^And for all the chickens, you bet-
use eventually, you will get
'eding conversation was strictly A
’s claim to represent the views of
assed in our gender. However, we do
and dogmatic opinions and if you think
out YOU, then we probably are.
February 2001
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