Page 4 THE COMPASS Tuesday, April 23,1991 FEATURES Oat 0^ Two African students find life in America similar to back home TT Photo by Albeit C P. W004, M :ISfc ! , : y.'>* I -4'%- By Renee Knight Edde Traore and Mamadou “Papy” Ka aren’t your typi cal ECSU students. Edde speaks five languages, for example, and Papy speaks six. Edde, a native of Mali in western Africa, speaks French, English, Ger man, his tribal language, Senoufo, as well as his national language, Bam- bara. Papy, a native of Senegal, speaks French, English, Spanish, Italian, German, Arabic and his native lan guage, Wolof. Both students explain that in their native Africa, learning different lan guages is mandatory. Although they’ve come from an other continent for an education at ECSU, the school’s two African stu- ! dents say that they find many similari- ; ties between this country and their homeland. “The clothes are basically the same,” saysEdde. “Wealso wear Nike, Reeboks and Levis.” The only real difference, adds Edde, is that “clothes are more expensive here.” Edde, a freshman majoring in business administration, said that the foods are basically the same, too. “My favorite foods include french fries, rice, and beef.” Papy, a freshman business major, agrees that the clothes and food in Senegal are similar to the U.S. But Papy said he finds living in the U.S. more boring than Africa. • “At dances everyone is just stand ing around,” he said. “I’m used to people going to dances with a partner and dancing. I also listen to more reggae music, especially Bob Marley, rather than rap.” Papy said that ECSU students go home on weekends and “there isn’t much to do.” Despite the similarities, ECSU’s African students said there are pro found differences between the U.S. and their native Africa. In Mali, the dominant religion is Islam, for example, and there is a taboo against drinking and eatingpork. There is also a stronger emphasis on tradition, and respect for auAority in Mali. “In Africa, you have to be respect ful when talking to parents, and very obedient,” said Edde. “But here, when I hear students talking on the phone to their parents, they say things like, ‘What’s up, mom?”’ Relations between the sexes are also dramatically different, says Edde. “In America, a girl can date lots of different guys,” he said, “but in Af rica, a girl has to date only one guy at a time.” This does not apply to men, how ever, says Edde. “They can date up to five at a time.” Men are less competi tive with each other, too. Before couples get married, they must live together first, and act as if they are married. “If the man doesn’t want to marry her, he doesn’t have to,” he added. Men can have up to four wives, said Edde. If a man wants to marry a woman, he must obtain permission from each set of parents. “Wives are complimentary in my country,” says Papy. “When you marry Edde Traore, an ECSU freshman and native of Mali in Western Africa, sports fiis native clothes during a recent afternoon on campus. Traore, one‘ of two African students now attending ECSU, says his favorite foods include french fries, rice, and beef. Despite the differences between Africa and the United States, Traore says he sees many similarities between the two nations. However, African students are more respectful to theiij elders, and relations between the sexes are dramatically different. In Africa, a man can have up to four wives, with different wives being used to different functions.Although he admires the U.S. Edde plans to return to his home after graduation. I cool, but they love possessions.” “I won’t stay here [in the U.S.]. It’s too expensive. Also, American women are crazy.” Edde Traore “Americans are cool, but they love possessions. Mamadou “Papy” Ka more than one you have them for different duties. One can be used for management, one for budgeting the household, and so on. Personally, I choose to have only one.” Although he plans to get married and have at least three children, Edde said he doesn ’ t want to stay in the U.S. “I won’t stay here,” he said. “It’s too expensive. Also, American women are crazy.” ,i Edde said he is happy living in the U.S. for now. Edde thinks that girls at ECSU are generous but he doesn’t have a girlfriend. Edde is quick to add, however, that this works out for him because it allows him more time to study. Papy said that he finds American women “very attractive,” but adds, “I don ’ t think I would want to marry one. They’re too materialistic.” Papy said he likes Americans in general, however. “Americans are Papy also praised his teachers at ECSU. “I like the way they teach.” Sometimes the Ajfrican students have trouble with the English lan guage since there are a great many words they don’t know. ECSU instructors have been pa tient and understanding, however. Both students said they liked the way they could go to their instructors and talk to them “one on one,” and get help from them in understanding the subject. Both students said they admired many things about America. “I like the U.S. because it’s a free country,” said Papy. “To succeed in this country it’s up to you, if you have the heart to succeed.” The U.S. is also a much more po litically stable country than many areas in Africa. Mali’s leader, General Moussa Traore, for example, was re cently overthrown. Edde said he thought die leader’s overthrow is “a bad event, because many people have been killed, includ ing my best friend.” Hesaidhehasn'il spoken to his parents since the over throw of the government, and in' doesn ’ t know a lot of what’s goingoi in the country. Edde added, howevei that the turmoil has created “mud: trouble in the economy of the coiKl try.” I Edde said that although the peopl of Mali may have considered Genera Traore a military leader, he was acn ally a peaceful man who was againi war. “The people have appointed a priiK minister untilJanuary,” he said, “wlia they select a president in Mali. Tk people want a civilian leader.” Despite the problem s in Mali, Eddt said he wants to return to his homSi land after finishing his education ji America. “There is a great need there fo: educated people for the country tf, prosper,” he said. “There’s enougl intelligent people in this counliy, Africa needs a lot of help.” Faith in God a Vital part' of Reverend Charles Foster’s life By Sharon Chappell HHe’d been shot in the leg and in the face. It was dark and cold. He needed to move but he couldn’t. The Chinese were scrambling over the hill, all around him. Whatif oneof them found him—an American? He had to move! But he couldn’t—all he could do was wait. Never before had he felt so alone. Never before had his faith been so low. God had always seemed so close. Ever since he was a little boy, growing up in the mining town of Logan, West Virginia, faith in God had been such a vital part of his life. His grandmother and grandfather lived about eight houses down from his home. As a child, he spent a lot of time with them. His grandmother’s Christian example infused him with faith and hope as well as love. But on that hill near Seoul, South Korea, all the lessons of childhood seemed far away for Charles Foster. In fact, the whole experience was ironic. Foster had enlisted in the Army, the 3rd Infantry, in 1950 so that he could receive financial assistance to go to college. Just three weeks later the Korean War broke out. And just one year later Foster was lying on that hill wondering if he would even make it home, let alone go to college. He did make it to college, how ever, but not right away. It took one year and two months in a hospital to recover from the wounds he had re ceived in Korea. Upon discharge from the service in 1952, Foster started college at West Virginia StateUniversity. He attacked his educational program with zeal— taking 22 hours most of the time and graduating in three and one-hal f years. With a Bachelor of Science degree and a double major in business educa tion and pre-law, he went looking for work. All he could find was a job as a dishwasher at the Charleston, West Virginia Airport. Some of his friends put him down; a man with a college degree should not be washing dishes. “I knew it was temporary,” said Foster. “I always had faith that God would later give me the type of job I desired. But he went beyond that. I had desired to teach on the high school level but God took me beyond that to the university level.” But before Foster reached either of these goals, he had two other jobs. Finding out that he could make twice the money waxing cars, he left his job washing dishes. In fact, he made enough money that he bought himself a fairly new car. His boss took a look at his car and his college de gree—and fired him. It was 1957 and Foster had no job prospects. He needed to continue supporting his family and yet he had no idea what he was going to do. But once again God came through with help. Foster’s wife. Ruby, was working for a lawyer at the time and her boss gave Foster a sealed letter. He told Foster to take it to the posunaster in Cleveland, Ohio. When Foster did this, the postmaster immediately of fered him a job, which Foster ac cepted. “It shows that it’s not what you know, but who you know,” said Fos ter. Two years later in 1959, the place ment office of West Virginia Univer sity, Foster’s alma mater, contacted him about a vacancy at a high school in North Carolina. Foster applied for the teaching position and fmally his initial goal of teaching high school became a reality at P. W. Moore High School in Elizabeth City. Twelve years later, at a car wash, Foster just happened to talk to Presi dent Marion Thorpe of Elizabeth City State University. Thorpe asked Foster if he would be interested in the posi tion of Assistant Director of Financial Aid at ECSU. Foster applied for and received this position in 1971. He held the position for four years. Eighteen years later Foster applied t The Rev. Charles Foster poses on the ECSU campus during a recent spring afternoon. Foster, Director of the University’s Career Placement Service, counsels students on job opportunities, and helps them find employment in their fields. He also helps students learn howto be inter viewed and write resumes. TheWest Virginia native is known as a caring instructor who is sincerely interested in the welfare of the University’s students. Photo by Uraula McMiUion for and received the position of Direc tor of the University Center in August of 1989. Foster held that position up until a little over a year ago. When the position of Director of Career Plan ning and Placement became avail able, he prayed and asked God for this new posiUon. At first it looked like the answer to that prayer was “no” be cause he received a letter saying that he had not been accepted for the posi tion. But, shortly after receiving that notice. Chancellor Jimmy R. Jenkins stopped him on campus and told him that he did have the job. This experience, as well as many others, has caused Foster to say, “Things that have happened are prayers answered. ..I don ’ t look on any day as a bad day. I take the bitter with the sweet. I don’t complain because I believewhattheBiblesays, ‘All things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.’ ” This positive attitude helps Rever end Charles Foster in his current posi tion as Director of Planning and Place ment Now he counsels students about job opportunities and the future of different majors. He also helps stu dents prepare and apply for graduate school and teaches them how to sell themselves to future employers. And he plans and sponsors job fairs in all fields. He has also sponsored seminars in residence halls and the University Center which help students learn how to be interviewed and how to write resumes. Foster’s office also puls out a monthly newsletter which informs students about career opportunities. In between all these activities Foster teaches World Civilization in the ex tended day program at ECSU. “He’s a very understanding per son,” said Pauline Harris, an ECSU student “Very calm. He takes time with you, to help you. He cares whether you get your work done or not and whether you are doing well in class or not He’s a good teacher.” Foster isalsothepastoroftheHoly Trinity Community Church in Eliza beth City. And he has run for a few political offices. Having run once for County Com missioner, he lost by only 44 votes. And he has run twice for a seat in the North Carolina House of Representa tives. “I’ve always studied politics. Ami a lot of politicians did not win the firJ time. It takes a while for a new namt to become a household word.” Foster added that he comes froniii family of politicians. His grandfatte was “Mr. Democrat” in his hoint county. “So many people think politics is for crooks. But government was nfl set up for crooks. Working for tls government doesn’t mean compro mising my principles. “For instance. I’m against a stalt lottery. There are other ways than gambling. I’d propose another But it would not be horse racing.” Even though Foster is busy, hfj tries to keep his life balanced. “It’s all a matter of budgeting youj time,” he said. So he carefully pla"®! what he is going to do and when^j even to laying out the clothes he will! wear. And, of course, he budge'll money, also. “It’s not how much you make W' what you do with what you make. ’t'fi said. Foster and his wife, the fon"® Ruby Mitchell, have raised seveH; children. Five are already universilj graduates. Three of these graduated from ECSU. His sixth child, adaugt>'; ter, is in law school. His youngest, also a daughter, is a pre-med studeJi here at ECSU. ! Foster has two master’s degrees one in guidance counseling from Vii, ginia State University and the other ii divinity from Virginia Union Theo-, logical Seminary. He has also donjj work on a doctorate at Virginia Tec* Foster manages to combine wof» fun, and a strong sense of responsibi j ity. ,1 “I'd like to say to young pe^P i enrolled in college: God will enab*. you to accomplish your goals. must have patience and wait for Gw , liming, though. You will want tlu*'^* to happen. But if you persevere ^ ' have endurance, you will acconipl*^ | your goal. And you might even e* ceed it,” said Foster. J