page 4 — THE DECREE — DECEMBER 9,1996 RAs face increasingly touglier time By SUNNI DeNICOLA Being a resident aide on a col lege campus used to mean acting as a big brother or sister to younger students. Duties included refereeing dis agreements over loud music, hand-holding homesick freshmen, and reprimanding such drunken mischief as cherry bombs launched down a commode. Today, with increasing social problems and violence on cam puses, RAs are dealing with prob lems such as drug abuse, rape, and in rare cases, murder. Earlier this fall. Jay Severson was just doing his job as an RA at Purdue University when he was shot to death. He reported Reshan Jarrod Eskew to university police for cocaine possession. Eskew shot Severson and then committed sui cide. This incident, while ex treme, has shaken up many RAs and has them questioning whether the job is worth the free room and board. “Quite honestly .. it scared the shit out of me,” says Kelly Messick, a resident director, who supervises RAs at the University of Oregon. “I look at my staff and think, they are there 24 hours a day, and we ask them to be part of their students’ lives, but there is so much uncertainty about what could happen from day to day.” Violence on campuses is in creasing. A national study by the Chronicle of Higher Education found a 26.3 percent increase in homicide in 1994, the largest in crease for any crime on campus. Often, it is the RA who deals with the underlying emotional prob lems that may lead to these homi cides, or the trauma of their after- math on fellow students. “Housing operations all over the country are asking under graduates to be on the ‘front lines’ of students’ lives and the issues that we are asking them to face are enormous,” says D.J. Morales, director of residential life at the University or Oregon. “I think that in a lot of ways the RA position has become more counselor and mediator because of the complex issues that are coming in,” explains Messick. “RAs are not just going to plan programs and go out for pizza. We are asking them to deal with more substantial issues as well.” This doesn’t mean RAs haven’t had to face tough prob lems in the past. While the days of monitoring midnight curfews in women’s dorms may be a thing of the past at most colleges, cer tainly drugs, alcohol, and sex are not new issues, particularly when you think of the 1960s. “Back then alcohol was more acceptable, we were riding the lib eral ‘60s.’ Now the legal drink ing age is 21, back then it was 18,” says Loma Hirae, director of campus life at the United States International University in San Diego. “I think the issues of drug abuse and alcohol experimenta tion have been around for 30 plus years, that’s nothing new,” says Messick. “What we are seeing is an increase in mental health is sues. On this campus this year, I don’t know if it’s a coincidence or trend, we are dealing with folks that may be on medication, or not taking their medication, in which case we may be dealing with be havior that affects the commu nity. “This is a place that people feel like they can send their stu dent to, and we’ll take care of them. It puts a burden on us be cause we are not a mental health treatment center. We are not trained to monitor medication,” Messick added. Morales also emphasizes RAs are not trained counselors. “They need to work on being good lis teners and great at referring folks to the appropriate places.” The breakdown of the tradi tional family is one of the rea sons Hirae feels there are more students needing help. This also has contributed to a change in attitude towards authority. “When I was an RA (in the early ‘80s), I had an easier time in terms of discipline. Students today are not as respectful as stu dents in past, probably because of liberation and individuality,” she said. “They have a disrespect for authority.” Still, real violence in the resi dence halls is rare. More often, RAs are called upon to use their training in mediation to help stu dents deal with disputes before things get out of hand. “I don’t think people are teach ing coping sills anymore,” Messick says with a hint of frus tration. “I am doing a lot more conflict resolution stuff and deal ing with uncivil behavior, such as people confronting each other in a real hostile manner ... a lack of politeness even, if you want to be so quaint. “Part of it is the litigious na ture of our society — I want what I want when I want it. it can be a little hard to overcome when you are building a community of 60- plus residents and trying to work together,” he added. At the University of Virginia, the administration and RAs are responding to a surge in student- life complaints from students and their parents. “Students apparently spend so much time in front of computers or interactive video games that they lack social skills,” says Ida Lee Wootten, a U.Va. spokesman. She says that when “Johnny plays his stereo too loudly in his dorm room, it often doesn’t oc cur to his neighbors to knock on Johnny’s door and ask him po litely to turn the music down.” Instead, she says, students are increasingly voicing anger and frustration over such normal cam pus experiences to the RAs. This had led U. Va. to launch student-orientation programs that teach students how to cope with one another, she said. The threat of lawsuits also has changed the way RAs are trained to do their jobs. Since the RA often is the first to respond to any incident, they have to understand the laws regarding issues such as privacy, date rape, and more. Most campuses now give RAs extensive training so that they fully understand their role and the university’s vulnerability. “RAsdefinitely have a better understanding of legal issues, es pecially liability, than we ever did as undergraduates,” says Mo rales. But some speculate that the problems RAs face are not new, just more visible. Raechele Pope, a Teachers College professor at Columbia University and special ist in educating student-life offi cials, was an RA two decades ago. She says even then she was dealing with pretty serious issues, but what has changed is the sheer volume of work. She notes that counseling centers used to have to go in search of students need ing help; now those centers have long waiting lists from students coming to them. No matter what they face, most RAs say they still like their job. And Messick has no intention of stopping her work any time soon. “In spite of all the weirdness that happens,” she said, “there’s no better place I think to really have an impact on student lives that where they live.” Dixie Conference All-Conference Men’s Soccer — 1996 First Team Second Team Forward Paul smith Methodist Chris Petrini N.C. Wesleyan Bjorgvin Fridriksson Methodist Osar Gomez-Romero Christopher Newport Ian MacPherson Christopher Newport Jabari Richardson Greensboro James Galardo Greensboro Midfield Dan Collins Greensboro Marc Lafley Greensboro Scott Kennell N.C. Wesleyan Karl McKenna Methodist Erik Lawton Methodist Carlton mack Greensboro Back Derek Scroil Greensboro Dylan Hanlon Methodist Jim Pierce Methodist Sean Flynn Christopher Newort Mike Walters Mehodist Marc Weiss Greensboro Ron Silva Shenandoah Goalkeeper Bryan Laraque Greensboro Hanidor Steingrimsson Methodith Player of the Year - — Paul Smith, Methodist Rookie of the Year — Oscar Gomez-Romero, Christopher Newport Coach of the Year — Steve Allison, Greensboro Dixie Conference All-Conference Women’s Soccer — 1996 First Team Second Team Forward Alyson Patrick N.C. Wesleyan Nicole Durand Greensboro Alexa Kapetanakas N.C. Wesleyan Susan Sautter Ferrum Casey Nuckols Methodist Trisha Clinton Methodist Midfield Amy Coley N.C. Wesleyan Dena Danielewicz Greensboro Kathleen Greene Methodist Kim Olsen N.C. Wesleyan Candace Croal Methodist Betsy Jones N.C. Wesleyan AIvy Styles Methodist Back Kelly Walters N.C. Wesleyan Shannon Sayre Femim Megan Sanderson N.C. Wesleyan Nancy Serianni Greensboro Gwen Gordon N.C. Wesleyan Meegan Kloosterman Methodist Kerry Jacobs Shenandoah Goalkeeper Jennifer Maurer Methodist Jennifer Foreman N-.C. Wesleyan Player of the Year — Alyson Patrick, N.C. Wesleyan Rookie of the Year — Alexa Kapetanakas, N.C. Wesleyan Coach of the Year — Rob Donnenwirth, N.C. Wesleyan NCAA Div. II All-South Women’s Soccer 1st Team — Alyson Patrick, Amy Coley 2nd Team — Kelly Walters