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Page 8 THE VOICE TEU n TO MYRTLE IF YOU HAVE A PROBLEM MYRTLE HAS AN ANSWER Daer Myrtle, • I'm not going to call my sit uation a problem. I’m going to call it being truthful and honest without getting any good results. I admitted to my boyfriend that I had been dating another guy,and he blew-up, I was confiding in him, being truthful and honest, something most guys ask for but can’t accept. What am I to do, lie to him, which might lead to more lies than 1 can afford, or keep it all inside of me, or continue to tell him things? Confused Dear Confused, Understanding (believe me) is the best thing in the world for a boyfriend, girlfriend relation ship or any other kind for that matter. You and your boyfriend should sit down and discuss ex actly what kind of relationship you two have. If you have the kind of relationship that nei ther you nor he is supposed to date anyone else, then don’t!! My advice is first get an un derstanding then there will be no need for lies or a guilty con science. Then, if the two of you can’t understand each other and make amends, perhaps you need to find someone else. Dear Myrtle, Please help me solve my prob lem of l)eing overweight. What I really need is a whole lot of will- power. I’m sure. My problem is causing me to l>ecome quite self- conscious and I believe I’m get ting a slight complex. Signed: D.B. Dear D.B., You should try exercises. Go to your physician and learn of exercises to tighten your mus cles and cause you to lose weight. If you have a fattening sickness, he will also render other possible solutions to your problem. In the meantime build your self-confi dence in what you can get out of life and remember that if you don’t take care of yourself, no one else will. Dear Myrtle, One night my girl thought she caught me with another woman. I tried to explain to her that things weren’t the way they; emed to be. What should I tell her'’ I still love her. Signed, I want you back Dear “1 want you back”. If you explained your situa tion to your girl in a manner persuasive enough to convince your innocence, and she does not accept it, she was probably looking for an excuse in the first place to end the relationship that you had. There is nothing else you can tell her. Dear Myrtle, If you know how to solve this problem, then you need to go into solving problems as a profession; r \ By EMMKA SHANNON Illustrator; TERECIA IVfELVIN Fashions EVENING WEAR This charming mini dress has one wide shoulder strap giving it an African flair and a wide sash to fit tiny waist lines. The neck line has a gathered look. Here we have an elegant pant suit ensemble. The top is a sleeveless waist tickler with a high neckline and it features a pretty bow. The pants are long, lean and belled to give a fash ionable look. This dashing dress with its February 11, 1972 but here goes. I’m in love with a married man who has one child (two years old). He is legally separated from his wife and he, of course, says he is in love with me, but sometimes his wife visits him and while she’s here I barely see him. Does he love me or doesn’t he? Signed: D.B. Dear D.B., Yes. it is highly possible for him to love you. You should ask him to make a decision between you and his wife. Maybe he and his wife plan to remarry--you need to know this. So you need to have a long talk with him and ask him to make a decision and to stick with it. Dear Myrtle, I have a boyfriend and there is this guy that I’m crazy about. He is, to me, just about every thing in life I have dreamed of, but I have been very hesitant in talking to him even though I wo uld like to very much. I love my boyfriend in many ways but he and I are not on good terms. Not only that,there are several things we don’t have in common; therefore, we are unhappy with each other a lot. I don’t have a definite decision to make, but I would like to know what steps you would take under the circumstances. Not Really Troubled Dear “Not Really Troubled”, The first thing I would do is to sit down with my boyfriend and he and I would discuss (as adults do) the things we have in common against the things we don’t have in common. If the positives add up more than the negatives I would try to see if we could make amends. If the negatives outweigh the positives I would end the relationship lea. vlng us as casual friends only. If you and the guy that you’re crazy about have a lot in com mon then, perhaps you should date him. Or, have you already dated him? Dear Myrtle, I have a problem. I’m kind of ashamed to talk about it, but I can’t hold it inside any longer. There’s a girl on this campus who I’m crazy about. I follow her around everywhere she goes and I call her all time, but she never pays me any attention. What should I do? Signed, Losing My Mind Dear “Losing My Mind", I’m inclined to believe that you have already lost your mind. How could you become involved in someone that ignores you con stantly? If you cannot attract this girl, don’t spent the rest of your Con’t. On Page 2 long sleeves has a matching hat with a long scarf that comes to the waist giving it that bouncy look of a windy day.
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