July 2008 The Shoreline Page 7 Psychotherapist Dr. Terrie Sweeny Founding Members Connie Browne and Jo Swann Women's Club Member Shares Widow's Concerns By Veronica Stanley The meeting of the Pine Knoll Shores possible. Women's Club on May 23 featured member,Dr.TerrieSweeny,speakingabout "Moving on After the Death of a Spouse." Living alone is different. It takes getting used to after 60 years of being responsible for others. The freedom gives one the ability do exactly what one wants, when one wants, without consulting anyone, but it must be done missing one's life partner. She stressed the importance of forgiving yourself for any mistakes or misunderstandings of the past because those things cannot be changed. It is extremely important to have all financial affairs in order so that the transition to the new life stage will go as smoothly as Around Town,.. with Linda Staunch C-TV 10 - Community Television Mondays at 4:30pm Wednesdays at 8:00pm Fridays at 1G:00pm Sundays at 9:00am FOX-TV 8 Saturdays at 7:30am The Topic for July: “The African Children’s Choir” Sponsored by: Bojangles ECllVI BSH Home Appliances Pepsi • Minges Bottling Group The Sun Journal Century 21 - Zaytoun Raines Tiie Coastal Environinental Partnership www.lindastaunch.com It is difficult enough to do what must be done when one is grieving without the complications of poor or missing records, etc. Living alone in the present, one must recognize and adjust to living a different way. A new stage of life needs to be dealt with constructively. Terrie explained how psychologist Abraham Maslow's hierarchy of needs helps us understand ways that can help one deal with a loss. Maslow has described these needs which can provide a model for someone in this stage of life. After basic physiological and safety needs are met, a person can now move on to fulfill higher needs such as those in the cognitive and aesthetic areas. After those needs have been addressed, it is possible to go up to the higher points on the pyramid including self-actualization and finally transcendence. Dr. Sweeny ended her talk with a smile that she claimed was the result of her work in moving on with her life as a widow. During the business meeting, PKSWC founding mothers, Connie BrowneandJoSwarm,were honored and members voted for 2008-09 officers. The club does not meet during summer months. Meetings will resume in September. All women living in Pine Knoll Shores are welcome to join. What's Happening in Beacon's Reach By Charlie McBriarty Summer arrived early with record rate increase proposal will be forwarded setting high temperatures through out to Public Utilities Commission. Once most of this part of the country. Though the new facility is completed and the Pine Knoll Shores did not reach triple rate increase is approved the new rate is digits, it was still hot during the two weeks expected to total about $70 per rnonth. prior to the official start of summer. The In other news. Lake Egret was the recent addition of summer flowers and scene of a recent "fish kill." In late May, tropical plants along Coral Drive has hundreds of fish of various species and benefited from this early start of summer, sizes were washed ashore. Such a "fish Those traveling on Murex Drive get a kill" is attributed to one of three causes; full sampling of the beauty of the flower low oxygen levels in the lake, introduction beds at both ends of the parkway and of chemicals on or adjacent to the water cannot help but notice three new palm or high ammonia levels of the lake itself, trees on the approach to Coral Drive. It All three of these are currently being is one of the prettiest times of the year explored. In the meantime all aerators and the landscape will remain that way will be activated 24/7. Preliminary reports throughout the summer thanks to the from landscaper and lake maintenance irrigation system which is a positive by- personnel have found no unusual uses of product of Beacon's Reach wastewater chemicals in or around the lakes. Water treatment facility. samples have been sent to determine The Beacon's Reach 30-plus year old the ammonia level in each of the three wastewater treatment plant will soon be lakes. A high ammonia level is often the replaced by a state-of-the-art plant in order cause of fish kill in overstocked lakes to comply with current water treatment or ponds, since the waste of fish, turtles standards of the North Carolina Division and other inhabitants of lakes has a high ofWaterQuality-theagencythatoversees concentration of ammonia. Hopefully the facility. The overall cost of the project the investigation currently underway will is estimated at $2.7 million and will be identify the specific culprit, financed over 20 years from a loan made Other bodies of water scattered by a local bank. throughout Beacon's Reach may have The process of replacement is slated to caught your attention. A series of colorful begin later this summer. The first stage streamers have recently been installed in this process will be the removal of the above many of the swimming pools. These concrete tank that was the first of the streamers seem to be in constant motion three tanks that currently make-up the and that not only adds a bit of color but facility. This concrete tank was built for also seems to significantly reduce the the original Clam Digger Inn. Later, as number of ducks flying into the pools. Beacon's Reach was being developed two Human patrons of the pools hope this additional steel tanks were added to the technique. effectively steers the ducks facility. At the conclusion of the summer away from the pools, tourist season, the concrete tank will be Members of two condo associations taken off-line and demolished. This will have taxed themselves so that important be the site of the new plant. Elements of renovation of their facilities can be the new plant have been ordered directly undertaken. Westport IV is in the early from the manufacturer with expected stages of a $1 million project involving re delivery in late October or November, siding, trim replacement and replacement Construction and installation is expected of external lighting and plumbing, to be completed in April or May 2009. Westport IV units K and L are the first to The costs associated with the wastewater receive this up-grade. Work on units M treatment facility are borne by the owners thru T will get underway this fall. Ocean of living units cormected to the system. Grove West is the scene of the other For the past eight or nine years the owner renovation project. Here the ocean-side cost for the service has been approximately decking, walkways and steps are being $30 per month. Topay off the bank loan a replaced.