Friday, April 25, 1988 THE NEW-BERN MIRROR, NEW BERN, N. C. Pafe 3 111 THe Mirror'i ■ 'if i>.. . i f *- li-i -.1 al Atlil«tes and Events I ::*■ ifer • [gar: I t' ■ jpj > r-ty ■ ' At IHs time- that Sam Arbes was jj' hired as head-coach at New Bern High schodl, he was 4hought of ^ prlfnarily ae a gridiron mentor. An p ablo i«placement in the realm of . football, was, needed to fill the ‘ vacancy left by Joe Caruso’s de parture. Those who were disgruntled over Joe’s farced exit have opeply ex pressed doubt that Sam can mea sure up to the capabilities of his predecessor. Maybe he can and majfbe he can’t. As we see it, both ' mep were blessed with good ma terial. Each won some games and lost some games. Whether either should have done more with what he had is strictly a matter of opinion. In , weighing the pros and cons of the matter, prejudice is apt to tip the scales. Personalities enter the pic ture and cloud the issue hopelessly. Joe and Sam are vastly different in their mannerisms, and their ap proach tdVard coaching youngsters. Caruso, to extent, was aloof. 'Either intentionally or otherwise, he saw to it that his players kept their dis tance. He did little fraternizing Today and Every Day V A. D. Laughinghouse ^ It Ready to Give You' Courteous and Copiplato Texaco Service CCC SERVICE STATION with the boys, on or off the field. Perhaps he was right, Sam, on the other hand, is bub bling over with congeniality. He could no more keep a hoy at arm^s length than he could refrain from chatting frankly, honestly and quite sincerely : with, a complete stranger who happens his way. If unrestrained friendliness with players, coaches, fans and officials is unwise in the coaching profes sion, then Sam Arbes has exhibit ed a lack of wisdom. Some of us are introverts and others extro verts. Whatever we are, that’s the way it is There are successful coaches in college as well as High school who are friendly like Sam. And, by the same token, the^e are unsuccess ful coaches who are more or less stand offish, like Joe. Unfortunate ly for all concerned, no one type of attitude can achieve the utmost with boys collectively. ' Some aspiring athletes need the warmth of friendship and a word of encouragement, while another boy overburdened with cockiness might need taking down a peg. It would take a Solomon to give each individual the special handling he could profit most from. Neither Arbes nor Caruso is a Solomon, and we’ve never discover ed one among the hundreds of coaches we’ve knoWn-fairly in timately. If a Soloman dees come along, there’ll bcj so many schools biddin.g for his services that New Bern High school’s chance of land ing him will be quite remote. ^ One thing we can say without resei'vation for Arbes., He has transformed the Bruin athletic pro gram from a thing of limited scope to a weir rounded, diversified as- PAN A! RE Famous for lightness and diirabilityv,. very cool... very distinctive. You can’t go wrong with this good-looking Dobbs Panaire®. It’s an admirable choice for town or travel. ILL'S sortment of sports. Neveir, In New Bern High’s long hbltory, has there been a program that even,>pp]Toached it in broad- n«isB. Suiph diversification not only .provides an interesting menu for fans, bqt’gives' the boy who could never excel in football, baseball or basketbrtl a chance .-to star in some other, field of .endeavor. 'Trust him little who praises all, hvB less-'who censures all, and him leaat who is indifferent about aB. —Lavater. , TonighVt tbs Night for Symphony Appearance Tonight’s the night for the North Carolina Symphony, under the di rection of Dr. Beniamin Swalin. Memberships in the Symphony Society will be available before the 8:30 performance atlhe New Bern High school auditorium. Mrs. Rob ert L. Stallings, Jr., is membership chairman. SliBSCRiBE TO THIE MIRROR HEALTH CHECKUPS VITAL Many thousands more people could be saved from cancer each year if men and women generally would have a- complete medieal examination annually. » j .. i y emaratar-Starter amf Regulalar Rabullding and Rfaxlra ExUa lalleriaa SANDLIN BATTERY VLUCANIZINe CO. 12S Cravan Straat FOR TODAY’S HOMEMAKERS 3-Pc. Wonder Finish Set 1 It looks and feels like finely-grained leather that would cost a fortune! Actually this inexpensive group has a plastic finish and fine, foam rubber cushions. It is wonderfully durable^ will not crack, chip, or peel. Glamour Dinetth $49.50 Up stunning new ebony metal finish with in-the-round, mar-proof table, and four plumply-upholstered chairs. Eosy Terms M19 00 Spacious Bedroom Set HereV'Whaf yoo get! Full size bookcase headboard bed, large double .dresser, adiusfable mirror, and 2 end-tables. Stain-resistant finish for lasting beauty in silver or blond toned wood. All select hardwoods. 99 50 Ueilio-Leviue OF NEW BERN • INC- 4 -'I nii Miiihe ' > V /s