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The Orphans’ Friend.
W’EI)S:ESDAY, FEBRUAKY 7,- - 1883.
COURTESY.
J5Y MRS. L. C. WHITTEN.
Summer said to the Spring, ‘‘What a
wonderful thing
It is to 'oring in so much sweetness
{i,nd grace ;
I am sure that to you ray blossoms are
due.
And I feel I am takin ; your place.
“I never can blush, but I think of your
flush;
And the eyes of the liowers at eve
ning are wet;
There was something so fair in your in*,
nocent air
That your going we can but regret.”
‘‘You l)eaatirul comer,” said the Si)ring
to the Hununer,
“1 lived out my life but to brighten
your way ;
I heanl the buds swelling, and could
not liclp telling,
Foi I knew yon would see them some
day.
‘‘It was only my duty to bring you the
beauty.
And to help one anotlier is a lesson
for- all:
And pcr'iaps you'll be willing, your
mission fnlfilling,
To leave something to brighten the
Fall.
—Wide-Awake.
LI. TLE SUT.
Up in Tompkins County, N.
Y., Hvos :i well'to*do farmer
natnod Firkins, with his wifeand
two (laugliiors. Having no sons
he is. dependent on hired help,
llie s^up[)ly of which is regulated
according to the season, a num
ber of farm hands being neces
sary during planting and harvest
ing of corps, while one being
usually the only assistant needed
in the winter. Realizing the
need of a boy on the place to do
the chores for whic.h it did not
justify to hire a man, Pitkins
talked the matter over with his
wife, and they decided to select
a waif from the poor house and
raise him up as one of the tamily,
which ot course meant food and
clothing until he was of age, and
three months schooling in the
winter.
With Farmer Pitkins ter decide
was to act; so the n^xt day he
and Mrs. Pitkins drove over in
the buggy to the County Poor
House and made application for
an orphan. The Superintendent,
always willing to dispose of his
charges to farmers, ordered out
the boys in a line for review, and
Pitkins and his wife eyed the
boys closely and talked with
thorn. He, with an eye to ser
vice, selected a large, strong boy;
but she, with a motherly in-*
stinct more akip to sympathy,
picked out little Sat, the subject
of the sketch.
“Why, Mary,” exclaimed Pit
kins, “he’s too small!”
"But he’ll grow, John, and
' tlien 1 like his looks better.’’
“Looks! ’L\it, tut! What have
looks got to do with it?”
“A great deal. If we are to
adopt him and raise him up as a
son, and oven if he is only to be
a farm hand, we do not want a
boy to grow up dishonest and
vicimirt I don't like the big boy’s
face.”
So Farmov Pitkins grumbled a
little over her choice, as he lif
ted Sat into the buggy between
them and drove homo. The boy
was, small for service on
a farm, but he seemed grateful
for the home, and was willing to
do all the busy tasks his hands
were put to do, and would put
his little hands on li's tired back
without a inurumr, after a long
time saviiiig wood. Mrs. Pitkins
seemed to draw towards him by
his very diminutive size and
strength, while Pitkins seemed
almost to dislike him, and was
always grumbling about the
boy's being too small, although
the farmer’s wife would very
sensibly remark that she believ
ed the willingness of a small boy
would accomplish more than the
unwillingness of one twice his
size. As little Sut wasn’t large
enough to wait on the girls, the}’’
rather sided with their father,and
made the poor boy’s life rather
unpleasant by teasing him.
Thus matters went on for a
season or so, while one farm
hand after another came and
went; and, although colts and
calves and pigs and chickens all
grew and fattened on the place,
little Sut seemed at a standstill
and failed to come up to Mrs. Pit-
kins’ assertion that he would
grow.
“It’s no use, Mary, waiting for
this boy to grow. 1 must take
him back to the Poor House and
get a larger boy. You cau go
with me and select the boy, but
he must be larger.”
Mrs. Pitkins, with a feeling o
tenderness toward the little home^
less waif she bad selected, hadn’t
the heart to go and pick out a
boy to supplant him in the home
that now seemed as dear to him
as if he had been born in it, so
Mr. Pitkins drove over alone,
while the farm hand took the
wagon and drove to the mill for
lumber, leaving Mrs. Pitkinp,the
two girls and little Sut on the
farm alone, except a little dog
which Sut had been allowed to
adopt from the roadside, the cat
tle on the farm scarcely being
counted as company by lone wo
men who had not looked to them
for the protection which even a
boy or a small dog can attempt.
Tramps, miserable, dangerous
out-casts, seem to be the con
stant menace of unprotected far--
mers, especially the women who
are so often left alone. Little
Sut was in the barn, with his
dog, sorting potatoes, when his
attention was called by hearing
one ol the girls scream, and look
ing out, to his surprise and hor
ror, he saw a man rush out at
the kitchen door in pursuit of one
of the girls. With a boyish im
pulse Sut ran out with a small
basket of potatoes in his hand,
followed by the dog, which he
urged to a fierce attack on the
man. The little dog went gals
lantly into the fight and set his
teeth so vigorously into the legs
of the tramp that the girl was en**
abled to escape from him and run
to a neighbor’s for assistance.
Little Sut realized that there was
work for him to do. The screams
that came from the house plainly
indicated that one man was not
the only enemy on the place,and
with a shout little Sut rushed in
to find another tramp on the
point of overcoming Mrs. Pit-
kins and the other daughter in a
fierce struggle, in which he had
almost torn their clothing off.
The noise that little Sut made
and the vigorous fusilade ot po
tatoes that he hurled at the tramp
so disconcerted him that it al
lowed the two women a chance
to escape and lock themselves in
a room upstairs.
Poor little Sut and-liis Jog
were left alone to contend with
the two enraged tramps. The
fight was uneven, and short, the
dog was driven from the field,
and little Sut stood alone at hay.
Suddenly one of the tramps, who
had been keeping an eye open
for danger, saw approaching the
farmer to whose house the other
the alarm, the two desperadoes
rapidly made their escape to the
thick woods near by.
They had done their work cru*
elly and well. Little Sut lay in
one corner motionless, where he
fell, and the neighbors laid him
on the bed, while Mrs. Pitkins
and her daughters bent over him
and frantically called his name.
There was a gurgling sound in
his throat, and a little stream of
blood trickled down the side of
his mouth and stained the white,
ruffled slip of the pillow. Just
then Sut opened his eyes as Mr.
Pitkins returned from selecting
another boy to fill his place. A
little cut on Sut’s breast showed
where the knife had penetrated
his lungs, and the gurgling sound
was the blood that was forcing its
life tide inside.
“Did I drive ’em offf*
That was all that little Sut ev'*
er said, but, with a smile on his
face, and blood streaming from
his u outh, he died in the arms
of farmer Pitkins, who had gone
to swap him ofi because he was
too small to do anyt’.iing.
A little grave down at the vil
lage churchyard, kept green by
three grateful women, and fra-
giant with perfumes of flowers is
all now left on earth of little Sut,
but somewhere we know he has
gone, where they do not think
him too small.
NED, THE CHILDREN’S DOG.
daughter had fled, and giving
Everybody in Midway, Ky.,
knows old “Ned,” the children’s
dog. He formerly belonged to
the late Mrs. Margaret Buford,
but as there were no children at
her house he came to town* He
goes to school with the children
every morning and remains there
all day. When they go out to
play he goes too, aud is quite
expert at catching a ball; indeed,
in a game he takes the place of a
child. When the bell rings he is
the first to go into the school**
house, and when the classes are
’called up to recite he take.s his
place in line at the foot. After
the child next above him has re
cited, he answers the next ques
tion by an intelligent bark and
bow of the head. Should a ques
tion be missed by the child at
the foot of the class and passed
to the next by the teacher, “Ned”
will answer it in his peculiar way.
Spelling seems to be his favorite
branch of study, his answer in
that being exceedingly quick
and vigorous. Although he
turns the children down after his
fashion he never goes above
them He will fight tor any of
the pupils as well.as the teachers,
and could not be Wuced to stay
where there are no children--
Midway Clipper.
The politest man in Boston
has been discovered. He was hur
ryinga long the street the other
night, when another man also in
violent haste, rushed out of an al
ley way,and the two collided with
great force. The second man
looked mad while the polite man
taking off his hat, said, “My dear
sir I don’t linow which is to blame
for this violent encounter, bnt I
am in too great a hurry to invest
tigate. If I ran into you I beg
your pardon; if you ran into me,
Jou’t mention it.” And he tore
away at a redoubled speed.
To win confidence we must be
trustful ourselves. Suspicion
breeds the evil it fears.
Let your wit be your friend,
your mind your companion, and
your tongue your servant.
THE ORPHAN ASYLUM
IS JiOCATED AT OXFORD,
the County-seat ofO-ram-ille, forty-five miles
North of Raleigh; twelve miles from Hen
derson on the R. & G. R. R.
The Orphan Asylum belongs to (and, of
course, is conducted according to the regu
lations adopted by) the Grand Lodge of Ma
sons.
Its benefits are extended to the most
needy orphans,without, ever asking whether
their fathers were masons or not. Children
are received between the ages of eigBt and
twelve, and discharged between the ages of
fourteen and sixteen.
The average cash expenses for each orj
phan is five dollars a month, but the sum
required varies according to the seasons,
and does not include what is spent for re
pairs, furniture and improvement of the
premises. The Grand Lodge gives the
building and grounds, and $2000 a year.
The State gives $5000 a year. For the re
mainder of its support, and for enlargement,
tlie Orphan Asylum is dependent on vol»
untary contributions from subordinate
Lodges, churches of all denominations, be
nevolent societies, and charitable individ
uals ; and their co-operation is earnestly so
licited.
EXTRACTS PROM THE PROCEEDINGS OF
THE GRAND LODGE OF MASONS:
The design of the Orphan Asylum shall
be to protect, train and educate indigent and
promising orphan children, to be received
between the ages of 8 and 12 years, who
have no parents, nor property, nor near re
lations able to assist them. They shall not
be received for a shorter time than two
yeai's. In extraordinary cases the Superin
tendent may receive children outside the
ages specified.
The larger g^ls siiall assist in the ordi
nary house work, and In making and mend
ing the bed clothes, their own clothes and
the clothes of the boys. The larger boys
shall assist in the preparation of fuel, the
care ol the stock, and the cultivation of the
soil.
At least four religious denominations shall
be represented among the officers ol the
Asylum, and the representatives ol all i«li-
^ous creeds and of all political parties
shall be treated alike.
The Institution shall be conducted on the
cash system, and its operations enlarged or
curtailed according to the funds received.
Orphan children in the said Asylum shall
be led and clothed, and shall receive such
preparatory training and education as will
prepare them for useful occupations and
for the usual business tiansactions of life.
Resolved, That the sincere thanks of this
Grand Lodge are hereby tendered to many
benevolent ladies and gentlemen, to the
ministers of the Gospel, to churches of va
rious denominations. Odd Fellows, Knights
of Pythias,Good Templars, Friends of Tem
perance and otherbenevoient societies whose
heartv co-operation and liberal contribu
tions have rendered timely and valuable as
sistance in the great work of ameliorating
the condition of the orphan children of the
State.
Resolved, That all benevolent societies
and individuals are hereby cordially invited
and requested to co-operate with us in pro
viding funds and supplies for feeding, cloth
ing and educating indigent and promising
orphan children at the Asylum in Oxford.
Resolved, That the Master of each subordi
nate Lodge appoint a Standing Committee
upon raising funds for the Orphan Asylum,
and require said commitiee to report in wri
ting each month, and that said reports and
the funds received be forwarded monthly
to the Superintendent of the Asylum, and
that the support of the Orphan Asylum be
a regular order of business in each subordi
nate Lodge at each Communication.
‘Should decerted children be admitted?’
was decided In thenegrtive.
‘Should children havi^ig step-fathers be
comitted?’ was also decided in the negative.
‘Should deformed children be admitted?’
This was left to the dit,ox*eticn of the Super
intend ent. Vi^en the deformity is of such
a character as to require extra attention, it
was thought un»d\l8ab’e to admit the par
ties in the present conditio i of the Asylum.
‘Should boys learn trade:^ ac the Asylum?’
Decided in the negative it being impracti
cable at this time to employ skilled me
chanics in the various trades, erect suitable
work-shops and purchase necessary tools.
‘Should collecting agents be appointed in
different parts of the State; and if so, what
wages should they receive ?’ This was left
to the discretion of the Superintendent:
but the meeting advised against employing
and paying agents.
THE ADOPTION OF ORPHANS.
We are always glad to accommodate child
less couples who wish to adopt children as
their own; but greatly prefer that they
should come and make their own selections.
APPLICATION FOR CHILDREN.
Correspondents are requested to read (and
regulate applications for children by) the
following resolutions of the Grand I^odge
of Masons:
Resolved,!. The Superintendent of the
Orphan Asylum shall not consider any ap
plication for an orphan until the same has
been approved and endorsed by the Orphan
Asylum Committee of the Lodge in whose
jurisdiction the applicant resides.
2. It shall be the duty of the said commit
tee to make due inquiry into the desirable
ness of the situation offered before endorsing
an application; and also to inquire into the
oircumstauces and treatment of children al
ready discharged, and living in their juris
dtotion, and nae their beat raorta to aeouie
good treatment, or the return of the chil
dren.
3. It shall be the duty of e very secretary
of a Lodge to send the names of the Com
mittee of the Orphan Asylum to the Ob-
p:rANS’ Pr.iEND fo • publication, in order
that persons wishing to employ orphans
may know the steps to be taken.
HOW CHILDREN ARE ADMITTED.
Very often the Superintendent hunts up
poor and promising orphans, and informs
them of the advantages offered at the Or
phan House, and induces them [^to return
with him. Generally it is best that he should
see them before they start. When this is
imjvraeticable, a formal application should
be made by a friend. Here is one in propeT
form:
..N.C..
This is to certify that .....is an orphan,
without estate, sound in body and walnH,
and years of age. H father died
in 18 ; h mother in 78....... I being
h hereby make application
for h admission into the Asylum at Ox
ford. I also relinquish and convey to ttie
officers of tlie Asvliim tlie management and
control of the said orplian till 16 years ef
age, in ordV tha; may be trained
and educated according to the regulatioris
prescribed by the Grand Lodge of North
Carolina. I aliio promise not to annoy the
Orphan Asylum, and not to encourage ffie
said orphan to leave without the approval
of the Superintendent.
Approved by
W. M. of
The application should be sent to the Su
perintendent, and he will either go for the
children or provide for their trangportatloa.
In no case should a community take ,up ^
collection to send a man with the chil^n^
nor send the children before the Suptei^-
tendent has been consulted.
ACTION OF EPISCOPAL CONVEN
TION.
Resolution adopted by the last annual
Convention of the Protestant Eplsoopal
Church, at Winston, May 13, 1880:
“Resolveii, That this Conventton does
heartily approve the efforts of thi Ozfo^
Asylum to alleviate the suffering and to
provide for the welfare of the helpless or
phans of North Carolina; and that ire com-
mend to the imitation of all, the examine of
this spirit of active charity and beusfloeiioe
on the part of the Masonic fraternityir thus
fulfilling the Apostolic injunction te roiaeB*
her the poor.”
ACTION OF THE N, C. CONPERENCB,
On motion of Rev. J. R. Brooks, ^ fe^,
lowing resoluti“ s were adopted at tihf
nual Conference held at Durham^ in 18M V
“The Committee to waom was ^forred
the communication of his Excelleff^, Gov.
Jarvis, bringing to our notice and coinn end
ing to our favor, the Oxford Oryhah ' Asy
lum, recommend the adoption of th i fal
lowing resolutions:
1. That we reiterate our oft-repeated ex
pression of sympathy with this nobls cbar*
ity, and heartily commend it to the libera)*
support of all our people.
2. That our pastors are hereby requested
to take a collection in all their congrogf one
at such time during the ensuing ConfeNmo# '
year as they may think most appropi late
and best, and to forward the same to the
Superintendent of the Asylum.
3. That the Reooi ding Stewards of our
several pastoral charges are requested t( te-*
port to our Anuual conference the axio? nts
collected under the head ol “For the Or
phan Asylum.’
Jno R. Brooks, \
E. A. Yates, ’ f Committee,
ACTION OP PRESBYTERIAN SYNOD.'
Resolutions adopted by the Syc '^.l'of
North Carolina in session at Roleitfh. N.
C.j Novembei "iSO: “Wheieaa'
the Oxford Orpbai Asylum of North Ca
rolina ig a purely benevolent institnUen,-
^nd is doing great good for the needy Di-
pbaus of our State, therefore,
Resolved, That we approve of its pur
poses and suggest that the congregaUof^'
within our hounds take up at their ,o>wii
convenience an annual collection in he^tf
of that institution, and forward the 'saiilfe'
collected, in connection with any
of food and raiment which may he contribii.
ted, to the Superintendent.
ACTION OF BAPTIST STATE CON
VENTION. ’
At the Baptist State Convention, held In
Goldsboro, November 17th, 1880, thefo lo^.
ing resolution was adopted:
Whereas, We feel a deep interest iatisse
work of the Oxford Orphan Asylum, and
believe it is doing an inestimable aniount (rf
good; and
Whereas, We believe that tlie Bapiigt
people of the State will feel it to be not only
a duty, but a privilege, to contribute regh- ‘
larly to its support; therefore
Resolved, That all our pastors are her» by
earnestly requested to take up a collection
at each of their churches at least once a
year in behalf of this great and Irapc.'tant
work.
Elder F. H. Ivey submitted the following
resolution, which was adopted at the Con
vention held in Winston in 1881:
“Resolved, That this Convention feels an
undimlnished interest in the work of tbp
Orphan Asylum: and that we repeat, with
earnestness and emph: sis, the roeom uen-
datlon to all our pastors to take up al least
one collection during the year in aid ol
Oxicvd OriduB Asylum.