The Orphans’ Friend.
- MAY 25, 1883.
FBIDAT,
Published every Friday at one
dollar per annum, in advance.
PRESENT ORGANIZATION OF
ORPHAN ASYLUM.
J, H. MILLS,
Miss A. L. FLFMING^,
Teacher of First Form, Girls.
Miss MJRT SHOLAM,
Teacher of First Form, Boys.
Miss MALY C. BOLD,
Teacher of Second Form, Girls.
Miss L. NICHOLSON,
Teacher of Second Form, Boys.
MISS E.M. MACK,
Teacher of Third Form, Girls.
Miss LULA MARTIN,
Teacher of Third Form, Boys.
Mrs. RIVFS,
In Charge of Hospital.
Mrs. HUICIIINSON
Mrs. JONES,
In Charge of GirVs Sewing
Room.
CONTRIBUTIONS
TO THR OaiTtlN ASTIXTM FOR THE
WEEK ENDING MAT 23D.
IN CASH.
Mt. Mourne riOdge,No.344, 1 00
B. P. Montague, for sundry
Baptist olinrches, 106 72
Mrs. H. W. Reinhardt, 5 00
A bereaved friend, 7 00
A happy friend, 1 00
TN KINI).
Baptist Sunday School, Youngs-
ville—50 yds. calico, 26 yds. un
bleached domestic. 5 yds. pique,
16 aprons, 7 prs. stockings, 6 prs.
socks, f yds. bleached domestie,
3 J yds. crochet trimming, 4 neck
ties, 1 dozen buttons, 2 spools
thread, 29 cakes soap.
Mrs. Susan 0. Hunt—3 prs. socks,
THE 24TH or JUNE.
For reasons of no interest to
the public, I have decided not to
celeste the Twenty-Fourth, of
June this year at the Orphan.
Asylum.
The Quarterly Examinations
began Thnrsday, May 24th, and
will terminate next Monday.
After that day, several boys and
girls will leave. Definite propo
sitions will be submitted to them,
and they will decide and con
tract for theruselvps.
J. H. MILLS, Sup’t.
SPECIAL MENTION.
Our Asylum authorities be
lieve in “making h:jy while the
sunshines.*’ We saw a squad of
19 lively boys, in charge of a la
dy teacher, in a meadow raking
hay behind the mower, one day
this week. The m jst picturesque
haying we have ever witnessed.
Little Eddie, infant son of Mr,
and Mrs. E. T. Rawlins, died in
this town last Saturday night.
May the bereaved parents profit
by his gain, remembering that
“Of such is the Kingdom of
Heaven.*’ He was buried in the
Oxford cemetery on the follow
ing day, Rev. J. S. Hardaway
officiating.
We have been requested by
Rev. J. W. Primrose, pastor of
the Oxford Presbyterian church,
to announce that he will hereaf
ter occupy his pulpit on the Ist
Sunday night in each month, iu
the place of the 4th Sunday
morningy which will be given to-
Geneva church.
June 9th, there will be an Open
Meeting of the Olio Society, and
exercises consisting of Music, Es
says and .Recitations. The An
nual Address before the Society
will be delivered on the same
dvcning by Rev. W. E. Hatcher
p. lb, of Richmond, Va. On
Thursday, June 7th, at 10:30 a,
til., the graduating exercises will
take place, and at 8:30 p. m.,the
Annual Concert. The Bacca
laureate Sermon will be preached
on Sunday night, June 3d, by
Rev. J. S. Hardaway, in the Bap
tist church.
We call special attention of
the thoughtful to the article in
our educational column headed,
A Wonderful Calculation.’’ In
a nutshel the writer presents the
money |value of education, and
its addition to the productive
capacity of the laborer.
Two colored prisoners broke
jail at Roxboro a few days ago.
One was Adolphus Harris, con
victed of burning A. G. Hester's
stables, and under a sentence of
eighteen years imprisonment in
t^ openitentiary. Theother,John
Farrow, under sentence of four
years.
We acknowledge the courtesy
of an invitation from the Mana
gers and Marshals, to the Com
mencement Party at Trinity Col
lege on Thursday evening, June
14th. Trinity is famous for large
crowds and entertaining exer
cises at its Commencements.
We publish this week an in
teresting paper from Fred. H.
Wines, President of the National
Oonferense of Charities and Cor
rections, concerning the tenth
annual meeting of that body,
which is to be held at Louisville,
Ky., September 24th, 1883. Su
perintendent Mills is one of the
Corresponding Secretaries, and
is also a member of the standing
committee on “Preventive Work
Among Children.”
A letter from Miss Smith, our
canvasser, gives a glowing ac
count of her experiences in Hyde.
She has never met more refined
or hospitable people, than she
found in that land of beauty and
plenty. This accords with the
observation of the editor, who
has had opportunity to know
what manner of men they are.
Just as we expected she met with
a cordial reception, and received
quite an addition to our list of
subscribers.
The N. C. Medical Convention
met in Tarboro last week. The
Examining Board gave license
to 31 young physician, and order
ed that their names be published
in the newspapers, together with
the laws requiring such exami
nations. The following officers
were elected; President, Dr.
A. B Pierce; 1st Vice President,
Dr. F. W. Pottei’; 2d Vice Pres
ident,Dr.G.W. Graham; 3d Vice
President jDr.R.Dillard ;4th Vice
President,DrG. W.Long ;Secreta-
ry,Dr. L. Julian Picot; Treasurer,
Dr,AG,Carr;Orator Dr.Julian M.
Baker. The next session is to be
held in Raleigh the 3rd Tuesday
in May, 1884.
The Commencement exercises
at Davidson Colledge are on the
20th of June. Col. Bennett H
Young, of Ky., is the Annual
Orator. If the exercises are en
tertaining in proportion to tho
beauty of the invitation cards,
it will be a rare occasion.
Prof. F. P. Hobgood, Presi
dent of the Oxford Female Sem-
inery, has favored us with an in
vitation, to be present at the
Commencement exercises of his
school, on the 6th and 7th of
June. Oil Wednesday evening,
The Commencement exercises
of the Hornor School, Oxford, N.
C , will take place May 28th and
29th. Col. W alter Clark, of Ral
eigh, will deliver the annual ad
dress before the Franklin Liter
ary Society, on Monday, May
28th, at 8 : 30 o’clock, P. M. The
following gentlemen have been
awarded medals, H. H. Ransom,
Debater’s Medal; W. A. Phil
lips, Orator’s Medal; W. A.
Reade,- Essayist’s Medal. Mar
shals, W. W. Sims, Chief; E. C.
Cohen, Rob’t W. Winbourn, jr.,
F. B. Satterthwaite, jr. and W.
Me. K. Gulick. We have been
requested by Mr. Horner to
state that the exercises are pub
lic, and the citizens of the com
munity are requested to come
promptly at 8 : 30, P. M., each
evening.
MISCELLANEOUS.
The Presbyterian family is divi
ded in this country into at leii*t
nine br-\nches. The total statistics
are as follows: Churches, 13,331;
ministers, 9,919; members, 1,146,-
65'J.
It doesn’t follow that you must
do a mean thing to a man who has
done a mean thing to you. The
old proverb runs : “Because the
cur has bitten me, shall I bite the
cur?”
It is a noticeable fact that all
contributions to the “conscience
fund” are made anonymously. Can
it be that the man with a con«
science is always ashamed of it?
One politician says of another in
North Carolina: “I know him
well. He wouldn’t give the nut"
meg of his noonday toddy toCliris-
tinnize the Burmese Empire.”
Gail Hamilton says a woman
may have been originally one step
iu advance of man in evil doing,
but he very soon caught up with
her, never again to labor under a
similar disadvantage.
The women of the • poorer class
make sacrifices, and run risks, and
bear privations, and exercise pa
tience and kindness to a degree
that the world never knows of,
and would scarcely believe even if
it did kno v.
A liquor-seller presented his
bill to the executor of a deceased
customer’s e- tate, asking, “Do \ ou
wish my bill sworn to?” “No,”
said the executor, “the death of
the deceased is sufficient evidence
that he h.‘d the liquor.”
The family of Merode was dis
tinguished in the history of the
Netherlands. It had one member
who made incursions into the ene
my’s country from which healvvays
returned laden with spoils.
From this time they who wander
in quest ot plunder have been
termed Aferoefe-ers, “marauders.”
A very good story is told of
Lord Rolle. He commanded a
troop of yeomanry cavalry, and
when they were up for training it
was reported to him that some of
the meu had been flighting. He
called the offenders before him,
and sternly told them that he
didn’t want any fighting men in
his regiment.
No aid wanted : A woman re
cently applied for State aid, and
the blank was produced and the
usual questions asked. She an
swered them freely, until it came
to “Your agel”
“Have I 'got to tell that?’’ she
asked.
“The blank requires it, ma’am,”
was the reply.
“Well, then,” she said, “I don’t
want any State aid,” and she
flounced out of the office in high
dudgeon.”—Boston Transorvpt.
A juryman at Deer Lodge, Mon
tana, being examined for the panel
to try an Indian for the murder of
another redskin, was asked if he
had any prejudice against Indians
which would influence his verdict,
and naively answered:
“Well, no, not when one Indian
kills another!”
He was excused from serving
on the jury.
A professor was examining a
student iu physics once upon a
time, and the young man, being
nervous, failed utterly on the first
question put to him—a very simple
one.
“Bring this gentlemau a bundle
of hay for his breakfast,” remark
ed the disgusted professor to one
of the attendants.
“Bring two—the professor and I
will breakfast together,” added the
student, who thus suddenly re
gained and asserted his self-pos
session.—Paris Paper.
THOU&HTS.
If you would create something,
you must be something.
There is no time so miserable
but that a man may be true.—
The art of life is to know how
to enjoy a little and to endure
much.
Those who rei)eat evil reports
frequently invent them.
So act that your principle of ac
tion would bear to be made a law
f. r the whole world.—Kcinf.
Love, like a creeper, withers and
dies, if it has noihing to embrace.
From the B.ngali,
The consciousness of duty per
formed gives us music at midnight.
George Herbert.
“You cannot move the boat
from within; but you may obtain a
purchase from without. You can
not create life iu the soul by force
within itself; but you may move
it from a point outside itself. God’s
love is the point from which to
move the soul.”
The tendency of unusual attain
ments is to adopt simple forms of
expression, to present thoughts
rathftr than high-sounding expres
sions.
Every man’s work, pursued
steadily tends to become an end
in itself; and so to bridge over the
loveless chasms of his life.—Silas
Marner.
Nothing is rich but the inox.
haustible wealth of Nature. She
shows us only surfaces, but she is
a million fathoms deep.^FTnerson.
The mind profits by the wreck
of every passion, and we may
measure our road to wisdom by
the sorrows we have undergone.
The akillful class of flatterers
praise the discourse of an ignorant
friend and the face of a deformed
one.—Juvenal.
There is no harm in making a
mistake, but groat harm in making
none. Shon me a man who makes
no mistakes, and I will show you
a man who h.!8 done nothing.—
Liebig.
Homes are like harps, of which
one is finely carved, and bright
Aith gilding, but ill-tuned, and
jarring the air with its discords,
while another is old, and plain,
and worn, but from its chords float
strains that are a feast of music.—
Advanee.
Were a star quenched on high,
For ages would its light,
Still travelling downwardfrom the
sky,
Shine on our mortal sight.
So when a great man dies.
For years beyond our ken
The light he leaves behind him
lies
Upon the paths of men.
—Longfellow.
Lord, all thy works are lessons.
Each contains
Some emblem of man’s all-con
taining soul:
Shall he make fruitless all thy glo
rious pains,
Delving withiu thy grace an
eyeless mole?
Make me the least of thy Dodona
grove;
Cause me some message of thy
truth to bring;
Speak b t a word through me,
nor let thy love .
Among my boughs disdain to
• perch and sing.
—J. jR. Lowell.
EDUCATIONAL.
A •WONDERFUL CALCULATION.
Can we determine how much
knowledge adds to thejvalue of hu
man labor?
In 1870, the Commissioner of
Education at Washington sent out
a series of carefully drawn, com
prehensive and searching ques
tions, to the great centres of labor
in all parts of the United States.
These centres were so selected as
to represent every kind of labor;
from the rudest and simplest up
to the’most skilled. The.object
of the questions was to determine
the relative productiveness of lit
erate and illiterate labor. When
the answers came back they were
tabulated, reduced and generalized,
so as to get at the average result
over the whole country. This in-
vestigatiou—one of the mosfih-
terestmg ever made—brought
clearly to light the following facts:
Ist. That an average free com
mon school education, such as is
provided in all the States where
the free common schoolhas become
a permanent institution, adds fifty
^er cent, to the prod-uctive power
of the laborer considered as a mere
ifiachine of production.
2d. That the average academic
education adds one hundred per
cent.
3d. That the average collegiate
or univer ity education adds from
two to three hundred pep cent, to
his annual productive capacity, to
say nothing of the vast increase
10 his manliness—to his God like-,
ness.
By the census of 1880 we had in
the United States four million two
hundred and four thousand three
hundred and sixty-two (4,204,362)
illiterate adults—white and color
ed. Now putting their labor at
the minimum annual value ot one
hundred dollars each—which is far
below the average for t!^ wages
of manufacturing operatives inclu
ding fifteen per cent, of women
and children, as shown by the cen
sus of 1880, average ^346 each per
year—and the annual loss to these
persons—from the lack of at least
acommon schooleducatiou—would
be fifty dollars each. This for tlie
whole number of tour millions two
hundred and tour thousand three
hundred and sixty two, is two
hundred and ten millions of dol
lars per year; a sum twice as
large as the entire annual expem
diture for public education in the
whole country. This sum—two
hundred and ten million of dollars
—is a clear annual loss to these
illiterates and to the cotnmuoii y
by reason of their illiteracy.
Lesbon reviews—Dr. Vincent
says: “We review to know, to
make sure of what we know; to
know it better; and to make others
know.” The review secures fre
quent repetition; repetition makes
remembrance. No teacher expe
riences so much difficulty in ena
bling his scholars to compreliend
a lesson as he does iu impressing
it upon their memories after it is
explained. The review gives a
clearer understanding ot what is
already'known. It will deepen the
impression, will aid the memory to
retain and recall what has already
been learned, and will often in re
peating the old present new views
of truth. It will also give a deep
er insight into the truth, a more
comprehensive vien of it. We
mus*-. also review for the sake of
irregular scholars, and because tbe
scholars are not always equally
susceptible to impressidns.
0A,ED PLAYINOAT HOME. '
Playing" cards for ‘pakime’
or as an innocent amusement’
soon becomes a passion, and
when once fixed a man will
forget home, fafnily, business,
and suifer the loss of his all
for the exciting scenes of tlie.
card-table.
That accomplished writer,
the late Dr. Holland,of Spring-
field, Mass., said: 1 have all
my days had a card-playing
community opeu to m)/ obser
vation, and I am yet uiutble
to believe that which ,is the
universal resort of the starv
ed in soul and intellect, which
has never iu any way linked
to itself tender, eleyaiing, or
beautiful associations-tlie ten
dency of which is to unduly
absorb the attention from
more weighty matters, can re
commend itself to the favor of
Christ’s disciples. The pres--
ence of culture and genius
may embellish,|but can nev-*
er dignify it.'.
‘I have this moment,’ said
Dr. Holland, ‘ringing in niy
ears the dying injunction of
my father’s early friend,‘Keep
your son from cards. Over
them 1 have murdered time
and lost heaven.’ Fathers and
mothers, keep your sons from
cards in the home circle.’
Wiiat must a good angel
think of a mother at the pray
ef-meeting, asking prayers for
the conversion of her son
whom she allowed to remain
at home playing cards for
‘pasfimeT
Tl.e late Bishop Bascom,
in denouncing all forms of in
iquity, speaks of the gambler
who, rather than not to grati-»
fy his passion for play, would
stake the throne of eternity
upon the cast of a die—who,
unmooved by the tears and
entreaties of her that boro him,
the wife of his bosom, and the
children of his ()wn bowels,-
continues ti) indulge his hated
passion, until the i)ifatuated
reprobate would table his
■game on the tomb of his fath
er, or shuffle for infamy unon
the threshold of hell’
Now and then we have a
valnaide suggestion from the
East, in the line of refreshing
fi-anknesk • Orientals do not
hesitate to' 'lip, if there seems
any gain iu lying, but when
they tell the truth they tell
it squa'rely. It is said that
one . of the Japanese papers
recently appeared, with a
space left entirely blank in its
columns. Tlio editor’s expla
nation ot this was, that at the
last minute he found that
what be had written for his
paper was ail a mistake; so he
left it out ttiinking that it was
better to say nothing than to
say what ought not to be
said, What a gain there
would be to the world, if this
idea prevailed iu all personal
conversation. Better a blank
space anywhere, than falser
hood or error.—S. S Times.
One sultry Sunday a min
ister was thundering away at,
bis drowsy cougiegation, the
majority of which would go
to sleep in spite of all his ef
forts. At last he shouted,
‘Wake up here! There is a
man preaching to you who
has only half a shirt on his
back!’ It woke them tremen
dously. The next day a d jl-
egation of ladies visited the
parsonage and presented the
preacher with a package con -
taining some very nice shirts,
saying ‘that it was a shame
that he should be reduced to
half a shirt to his back.’ He
replied, after accepting tbe
shirts with thanks, “that he
was not liteiuliy reduced to
half a shirt, although he wore
only a half on his back; he
wore the other half in front of
hifli-’—Rome Sentinel.
Relaxation—Often recom
mended—much .sought tor-.-
little realized. Phe correct
appreciation of the etymology
of the word would save many
a headache, ifen seek for re^
laxation in Europe,at Saratov
ga, Newport—anywhere at a
distance. Meanwhile they
knit their brows, compress
their Ups, and ’set their teeth
together to meet what tuey
call a strain. Half the real
strain lies in those taut and
rigid muscles of the face. Re
lax them. Rub care’s wrink
les off. Slacken the tension,
even for a minute, andrefcura
to the work vvlth a smile. It
is relaidiion realized. The
relief is simple and surprising.
Old ide.ar fade. New the"
Dries rule*. It seems but yes'*
terday when every fashiona"
ble girl must learn-orattemp''
to learn-^to play on the pi
ano. 'Fhere was no other ac
complishment. The less taste
the more practice, and the pi
ano was pounded in a vain
effort to create musical ability
To day, afrhough music has
advanced in popularity tbe
old idea of forced music »s
dead, and otlier forms of ac
complishments—although that
very wordjias grown antiqua
ted—have become more fash
ionablethan piano-pounding.