The Orphans’ Friend.
JUNE 29, 1883.
Published every Friday. at one
dollar per annum, in advance.
PRESENT ORGANIZATION OF
ORPHAN ASYLUM.
J. B. MILLS,
Sn/perintendent.
Mrs. WALKER.
Jeacher of First Form, Girls.
Miss McDOmALD,
Teacher ((f First Form, Boys.
Miss MART G. BOBL,
feacher of Second Form, Girls.
Miss M. F. JORBAN,
Jeacher of Second Form, Boys.
Miss LULA MARTIN,
leacher of Third Form, Girls.
MISS E.M. MACK,
'leacher of Third Form, Boys.
Mrs. RIVES,
In Charge of Hos^gital.
Mrs. EUlGlilNSON,
jH Charge of Boy's Semnq Room
Mrs. FOWLER,
In Charge of GirVs Sewing
Room.
CONTRIBUTIONS
TO THE ORPnA.N ASYLUM FOR THE
WEEK ENDING JUNE 27TH.
ln gash.
A Carpenter, $1.00
IN KIND.
Geo. P. Tarry, Mlddlebi^rg, one
barrel flour.
ESPECIAL MENTION.
Rev. Mr. Engle, of Henderson,
occupied the pulpit of the Epis-
oopal church here last Sabbath.
The supply of vegetables is
rather larger than usual at the
Orphan Asylum, but the children
think they could destroy more if
they had them.
Heavy rains this week. No
damage done that we have
heard of, but the farmers doubt-
less think it a bad time to kill
grass.
Rev. W. 8. Pettigrew will
preach in the Episcopal church
on the night of July 6th.
At Grassy Creek Baptist
Church on Sunday the 24th inst.
Rev. George N. Pittard was or
dained to the full work of the
gospel ministry by Elders R. H.
Marsh and R. 1. Devin.
Last Sunday a collection was
taken at Salem Methodist Church
for the purpose of improving
the house of worship there. A
sufficient amount ($250,00) was
secured. The work will be done
as soon as practicable.
Our information is that the
wheat crop now being harvested
in this section is much better
than was at one time exp>?cted.
Though not so large as that of
last year, the yield will be quite
good, and of an excellent quality.
We observe that some long
needed work is being done this
week on the streets of this town.
We trust that the authorities
will not permit the work to cease
tiU the streets are put in good
condition.
A letter from Rev. Dr. Wm.
P. Jacobs, Superintendent of
Thornwoll Orphanage, Clinton,
S. C., informs us that he expects
to attend the next session
the Conference of Chari •
ties and Corrections, which
18 to meet at Louisville, Kj., in
September.
The congregation at Harris’
Chapel, where Oxford Sunday
Schools like so well to picnic, has
taken steps to improve the house
of worship at that place. A
handsome new church is in course
of construction at an eligible
point on the road from Health-
Seat to Eairport. Both these
churohee belong to to the Meth
odist Protestant denomination.
The Hillsboro District Confer
ence meets this week at Cedar
Grove church, in Orange county,
under the Presidency of Bishop
John C Keener, of New Orleans.
Bishop K. is expected to preach
next Sunday at Cedar Grove.
The recent Baptist State Sun
day School Convention in Shelby
was a most interesting and prof
itable occasion, judging from the
published accounts. It was held
in a Methodist church, and a
Methodist preacher, Dr. H. T.
Hudson, being introduced to the
Convention, said that “Though
the trees of a forest might be
wide apart at the bottom,
they grew up near heaven, their
branches touched. So it is with
churches and with Christians.
We are near each other in the
heavenly work, which is to save
our country.'’ Good.
We have seen a letter from
Dr. Wm. Royall, of Wake For
est College, in which he says he
is preparing an elementary work
on Moral Science, and we under
stand that it is to be in the form
of a catechism. We are greatly
pleai-ed to see an eft'ort, by such
a competent gentleman, to
prepare a book to be used in
teaching to young children in the
school room what is right and
what is wrong. In this connec
tion, we call attention to an ar
ticle jn our fourth page under
the caption “ What Children
Think.’' We shall have occasion
to advert to this subject again.
The following letter breathes
such a pleasant and kindly spirit
that we print it entire. '1‘here
are many of the poor of the land
who are imbued with the true
spirit of charity, and out of the
little imparted to them bestow
liberally to objects of need.
Christ estimates such offerings^as
he did the “widow’s mite:'’
Mb. Mills : Sir—I have been
trying for some time to spare
some money for the orphans, but
have not until now. I enclose
you one dollar; hope it mayhelp
some. I have a large family,
and it takes about all I can make
to feed and clothe them. Will
try to give you some more soon.
May God bless you and the little
orphans. A. C.
' A PLAIN STATEMENT,
The buildings at the Orphan
Asylum are now finished. The
porticos and eating houses, men
tioned in my last report, are
done and paid for. I was hop
ing, that as provisions are now
plentiful in the State, the de
mands on the Orphan Asylum
would diminish. But it seems
that fruitful years are sickly
years, and that when men gather
abundantly, death does the same.
We are not able to admit all the
orphans who apply for admission,
Besides, 1 have lately learned
that a little over twelve hundred
dollars (which I confidently ex
pected), will not be received du
ring the present year. It is there
fore plain that unle js the lodges,
the churches and liberal individ
uals shall very materially assist
US, it will be necessary to limit
admissions to cases of extreme
distress, and to reduce the pres
ent hundred and fifty to one
hundred. I greatly prefer to
make the Orphan Asylum do all
the work of which it is capable,
especially as we are now done
building, and I can give all my
time to the children. But I
leave the question in the bauds
of the people. I shall try to use
wisely and economically the
means put in my hands and to
limit our operations accordingly.
J. H. Mills.
The mother had cut her little
daughter’s hair to make “bangs.”
Surveying her own work, she said:
‘‘Bessie, yesterday you looked as
if you had no sense. To-day you
look as if your mdthjer had none.”
I EDUCATIONAL. ‘
The late commencement at Da
vidson College was a most interes
ting occasion. Large crowd, dis
tinguished visitors, accomplished
speakei's, and interesting exercises
generally.
Three new professors were elec
ted by the board of trustees to fill
vacancies; Prof. Geo. F. Nicolas-
sen, takes the Greek chair; Prof.
W. J. Bingham, that of Latin; and
Prof. \V. D. Vincen, the chair of
Mathematics.
The degree of D. D. was confer
red upon Rev. F. H. Johnston, of
Winston, and LL. D. upon Rev.
James Woodrow and Prof. H. E.
Shepherd, of S. 0. Davidson has
a permanent endou ment fund of
$88,411. The annual income is
about $15,000.
SENSE AND NON-SENSE.
It is all very well to talk poeti
cally about the slender thread of
fate, but the ugly truth is that a
man’s fate generally depends upon
the number of hours of honest
work he puts into every day.
Randolph Macon College has
conferred the degree of D. D. upon.
Rev. W. S. Black of the Raleigh
“Christian Advocate.’’
A correspondent of a foreign
journal recently examined some
school children in geography. He
found that while most of them
knew the latitude of various coun
tries and cities they had no sort
of idea what w'as meant by lat
itude, and that while being able to
give a pretty accurate list of the
exports and imports, were totally
ignorant of the definition of cus
tom duties. But are the majority
of our school children better in
formed?
We learn that it has been deter
mined by the trustees of the Uni
versity and the committee having
in charge the erection of a monu
ment to Governor Swain to work
together and erect a monument
that will endure for generations
and be altogether suitable to the
memory of the lamented dead.
The plan is to build a memorial
chapel capable of holding two
thousand persons. This to be
called the Swain Memorial Chapel,
“Advice!” says an old man of
experience, “why, I never had any
THOUGHTS.
When the cup is full carry it
even.
To do right belore children is the
best way of teaching them to be
good. ,
The unfaithful and inconsistent
professor of religion is Satan’s
one to come to me for that article j argument and most eloquent
who, before he got through, was ! religion,
not willing to give me twice as
much as he asked for.”
We never knew before that the
Chinese could be sarcastic, but
they are going into it now on a
gigantic scale. The viceroy wants
to reorganize their navy on the
American plan.
A man who-will wait two hours
for a street-car, rather than walk
five blocks, will walk eleven miles
around a billiard-table from nine
to eleven o’clock P. M.
Agitation prevents rebellion,
keeps the peace, and secures pro
gress, Every step she gains is
gained forever. Muskets are the
weapons of animals. Agitation is
the atmosphere of the brains.
Prof. H. E. Shepherd has the
following to say in a recent num
ber of the Fayetteville Observer
concerning Normal Schools. Prof.
8. is regarded as an accomplished
instructor, and our educators
would do well to give heed to
what he says in the extract below:
The danger which seems to lurk
latent in Normal schools, so far as
my observation has gone, is a dis
position on the partof those trained
in their methods and imbued with
their spirit, to substitute empiri
cism for genuine scholarship, to
exalt out of all due measure the
virtue and efficiency of their so-
called “methods,” to disparage
the pure culture which i hey do
not possess, and to set up in its
stead a mechanical dexterity, a
mere skill in manipulation, as
though that were the acme and
the ideal of the true teacher. How
one is to impart to others that
which he has never thoroughly ac
quired, the apostles and oracles of
the Normal School method have
never vouchsafed to explain. This
dangerous fallacy, originating
among the Normal school Tights of
New England, of receiving its in
spiration from them, is being rap
idly propagated throughout the
country by its votaries, with all
the enthusiastic zeal that charac
terizes a subtle heresy, whether in
theology or in educational philos
ophy, and is even finding its way
into our conservative Southern
land. “Only acquire,” says our
Normal School champions, “my
magical skill in ‘methods,’ and
you may contemptuously flout all
pure learning, all ennobling cul
ture.” A graduate of a Northern
Normal School was heard serious
ly to declare that he would teach
any subject successfully at half an
hour’s notice, by virtue of the in-,
vincible excellence of his “meth
ods.” The question of any pre
vious academic training was, of
course, ignored, as an entirely ir
relevant issue. This absurdity
has its parallel, so fa as I am
aware, only in an advertisement of
Ashley Pho pbates, which I once
read in an idle moment. A gen
tleman at a certain hotel requested
a waiter to bring him a plate of
green peas, to which that func
tionary is represented as answer
ing: “Have none on hand, sah,
but can raise you some, sah, in
halljau hour, by the aid of Ashley
Phosphates.” This, though an
undesiguing, is a suggestive, car
icature of the ideal Normal School
method.
The life of a pious minister is
visible rhetoric.
“Captain, we are entirely out of
ammunition,” said the orderly ser
geant of a company of volunteers
to his Irish captain at a late re •
view. “Antirely out?” said the
captain. “Yes, entirely out,” an
swered the sergeant. “Then sase
firing,” said the captain.
Good manners at the table are
an indication of common sense and
refined assooi tes. We used to
sit near a lady who always drew
the fruit-dish near her, fingered
the peaches or pears to get the
softest, and never failed to take the
largest orange. And she was a
fine Latin and French scholar!
All experience serves to illus
trate and enforce the lesson that a
ma‘-i perfects himself by work more
than by reading—that it is life
rather than literature, action rath
er than study, and character rath
er than biography, which tends
perpetually to renovate mankind.
We are surrounded by an un
seen realm of spiritual reality,
which is opened to us only as we
grow into it.
When the just Judge give^
crowns at last, some of the very
brightest will flash on unexpected
brows.
Let your light so shine. Lord,
have I any light to shine! If not,
do thou' enkindle a light in ray
heart, and make me one of the
children ©flight.
It is better to have one God on
your side that a thousand creat
ures, as one fountain is better than
a thousand cisterns.
The sin you now tremble at, if
left to yourself, you will commit;
therefore, be humble, prayerful,
and watchful.
David’s little pebble from bis
sling was sent in the name and for
the glory of Israel’s God. That
gave it direction and force. So let
my feeble efforts to glorify God
and oppose evil be directed and
energized.
“Gan I give my son a college
education at home?” asked a fond
parent. Well, you may be able
to teach him as much of Greek and
Latin and mathematics as the col
lege could, but you never can so
thoroughly imbue him with the
idea that everybody else is a foi 1.
“Mother,” said a little girl, who
was engaging in making an apron
for her doll, “1 believe I will be a
duebess when I grow up.” “How
do you expect to become a duchess,
my daughter?” “Why, by marry
ing a Dutchman, to be surel” re
plied the little girl.
Our American colored man, Un
cle Billy, in discussing the Civil
rights Bill, gave his opinion of it
this way: ‘We can smoke
whenebber we please, stop at de
hotels, spit on de carpets, and
make the white folks tend on de
old nigger. You bet dar’s fun
cornin’.” But,\\ hen he was asked
if he understood the provisions of
the bill, he exclaimed, “Bless de
Lor’, am dere provisions in it!
Den I’m heart and soul in it.”—
S. S. Cox, in a new lecture.
Geo. Ill, is said to have related
with great gusto a tale of a /Scotch
school-master who iccompanied
him to the door of the school-room
with his hat on, and when outside
the door he said to the uncovered
monarch, who, by the way, was
then only Prince of Wales, “You
will fiot think me wanting in cour
tesy, I hope, but the fact is this —
that if the boys thought there was
any one else as important as my
self, I should never get any obe
dience again.”
“That is right! Take care
of the giraffes, but no matter
about the children!” is a con
temporary’s comment on New
York authorities who fined a
man $300 for giving tobacco
to a giraffe, but fined a bar
keeper $5 for selling whiskey
to children. Kind sir, who
in favor of bar*‘room8, do you
not pity the giraffes?— BihlR
cal Recorder.
OXFORD
FEMALE SEMINARY
OXFORD, N. C.
The Fall Term Opens August
aSth, 18§3.
OFFICERS nFd TEACHERS:
F. P. HOBGOOD, President, .
Latin and Mathematics.
MISS MARY E. WILLIAMS,
(Vassar College),
French, Mathematics and Elocution.
MISS EMMA L. BUSH,
(Vassar College),
English and German.
MISS BETTIE JORDAN,
English.
MISS ELIZA POOL,
Preparatory Department.
MISS BUSH,
Calisthenics.
PROP. A. ENDRES,
Piano and Singing.
MRS. L. G. CRAWFORD,
Piano and Organ.
MISS SUE 0. HALL,
(Cooper Institute),
Painting and Drawing.
MRS. P. P. HOBGOOD,
Superintendent Domestic Department.
MRS. MARTHA W. CANNADY,
Matron.
Board, fuel, lights and washing, per
month, $12.
English Tuition, per month, $3 to $4.
BQ^atalogues furnished on appli-
ttion Jo the President. 6-8t
Wilson Collegiate Institute,
[POE YOUNG LADIES),
Strictly Non-Sectarian.
Fall Session begins September 3tl,
1883. The Principal expects, Provi-
lence permitting, to teach again him
self He lias added to his Faculty Prof.
Wm. II. Finney, of London, England,
a distinguished teacher of Music and
Art. Careful physical, mental and
moral training, Unsurpassed advan
tages. Terms from 20 to 30 per cent,
less than at other female schools of
equal grade in North Carolina.
For particulars apply to
S. HASSELL, A. M., Principal,
4-8t Wilson, N. C.
Durham Marble Works
09
GKANITE AND ITIARBLE
MONUMENTS,JHEADSTONES, TA
BLETS, ETC.
1 have iiist received a large stock f(n-
tile Pall Trade, and would be pleaseii
to have all call who need work in lU}’'
line and examine workmanship, or
write for price list and drawings.
8@*Orders promptly lilled and satis
faction guaranteed.
R, I. ROGERS, Durliam, N.C.
W. S. Hundley, agent at Oxford.
LUTHER SHELDON,
DBA1.BR m
SASHES, DOORS, BLINDS,
MOULDINGS, BRACKETS, STAIR
RAILS, NEWELS, BUILDERS’
HARDWARE,
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AND BUILDING IVATERIAL
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Noa. 16 W. Side Market Sqr. and 49 Roanoke
Ave.
NORFOLK, Va.
febt'yl
MOSELEY’S
Is the place for ladies and gentlemen
to take refreshments.
Oysters and Ice Cream
Call and see what is in store, as we
cater to first-class trade, and furnish
families, pic-nics and parties at short
notice with all the delicacies of the
season; Soda water and ice cream will
be specialties this season.
•Everything on the European Plan.
A few rooms to let.
M. J. MOSELEY, Proprietor,
Fayetteville St., Raleigh,|N. C.
C. D. H. FORT, M. D.
SURGEON DENTIST,
OXFORD, N. C.
I liave permanently located in the
town of Oxford, N. C., and respectful
ly tender my services to the citizens of
the place and surrounding country up
on the most reasonable and satisfactory
terms. Office over Grandy & Bro.’s
store.
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SEWING MACHINE
With Straight Needle and Improved
Bohulo, is, beyond all
doubt, the
Most Perfect and Sat
isfactory Sewing
Machine in the
WORLD.
|@“Sold on easy terms. Agents an
Dealers wanted. Address
WHEELER & WILSON, M’F’G CO.,
Raleigh, N. C.
JOHN A. WILLIAMS.
oxFOpn, u. 0.
Dealer in Beal Estate.
He solicits the patronage of persons
having land, mining property or Town
lots to sell or who may wish to purchase
the same. si-tf
J.F. EDWARDS. | W.F. ROGERS.
EDWARDS&ROGERS
GENERAL
OXFORD, N. C.
We keep ou hand a* well selectod
stock of HARDWARE of every des
criptlon, embracing
CROCKERY AND GLASS-WARE,
' I
COOKING AND HEATING
STORES,
POCKET AND TABLE CUTLERY,
WOODEN AND WILLOW-WAR
Guns and Pistols,
Cartridges,
Ammunition
AND SPORTING GOODS.
We invite attention to our stock of
m\m MCfliEs.
OILS,
NEEDLES AND ATTACHMENTS.
We also carry a heavy stock of
Paints Oils,
BRUSHES AND VARNISHES.