Thursday, December 7, 1978 The Bandon Notebook By Maggie B.: What Is The Healing Touch? 9 By Maggie B. THE HEALING TOUCH! What is it? The art of really paying attention to others. That doesn’t sound difficult - but - it’s an art that so often we fail to cultivate. Why? Simply because each of us, whether we realize it or not has woven into our being a yearning for attention and if we fail to get it, it is a The Chowan Herald Legal Notices LEGAL NOTICE Executor’s Notice Having qualified as Executor of the estate of Cora Parks Byrum, late of Chowan County, North Carolina, this is to notify all persons holding claims against the estate of said deceased to present them to the undersigned on or before the 30th day of May, 1979, or this notice will be pleaded in bar of any recovery thereon. All indebted to said estate Krill please make immediate v -payment. This 30th day of November, 1978. Isaac Byrum, Jr. Executor of The Estate of Cora Parks Byrum Deceased. Earnhardt & Busby, P.A. Attorneys at Law 102 West Eden Street P.O. Box 445 I Edenton, N.C. 27932 t Telephone: (919) 482-4441 ( N0v.30,Dec.7,14,21chg. ( _ ( LEGAL NOTICE I Notice of Public Hearing WHEREAS, the Town Council of tb* Town of Edenton believes it is in the best interest of all the citizens of the Town that Dock i Street be closed as a public street, and 1 WHEREAS, the Town of < Edehton owns all of the lands I abutting said street, NOW, THEREFORE, BE IT i RESOLVED, that the Town Council expresses its intent to close Dock Street and calls for a public hearing to consider the matter on December 12,1978 at 8:00 P.M. in the Edenton Municipal Building, gk Roy L. Harrell Mayor . W.B. Gardner Administrator Dec.7,chg. ADMINISI rtA TOR’S NOTICE Having qualified as Ad ministratrix of the estate of Amber Lanette Lane, Late of Chowan County, North Carolina, this is to notify all persons holding claims against the 'estate of said deceased to present them to the undersigned on or before the 17 day of May, 1979, or this notice will be pleaded in bar of any recovery thereon. All persons indebted to said estate will please make immediate payment. This 9 day of November, 1978. Thelma H. Lane Administratrix of The Estate of Amber Lanette Lane Deceased. Nov. 16,23,30, Dec .7,chg. LEGAL NOTICE This is to notify the public that effective immediately, I, Jean R. Keeter will not be respon * sible for debts contracted by anyone other than myself. N0v.23,30,Dec.7,pd. Legal Notice to Bidders Re-Advertisement An insufficient number of bids were received for the Con struction of a Metal T-Hangar at the Edenton Municipal Airport cm Tuesday, November 21, 1978. Therefore, this project is now re-advertised, and sealed bids, subject to the conditions herein, will be received until 2:00 P.M., Thursday, December 14, 1978, at the City Council Chambers, City of Edenton Municipal Building, Edenton, North WE ARE NOW BUYING ALL TYPES OF PECANS. EARN THE HIGHEST PRICES BY BRINGING THEM TO: FRANK R. JONES & SON 412-478 psychic pain few can en dure. A crying child tugging at mother’s skirt, a rebellious teen-ager, a philandering husband or wife, the chronic com plainer, the rioter in the streets are all voicing the same despairing and urgent cry: I’m here - pay attention to me! How can we develop this Carolina, and then opened and publicly read, for furnishing all labor and materials and per forming all work connect edd with the following described project: Construction of Metal T-HangarAt Edenton Municipal Airport Bid forms, Plans, Specifications and Contract Documents are on file at the office of Talbert, Cox and Associates, Inc., Wilmington, North Carolina; A.G.C. Plan Rooms and F.W. Dodge Cor poration Plan Rooms, Raleigh and Charlotte, North Carolina, and may be obtained from Talbert, Cox and Associates, Inc., P.O. Box 3333, Wilmington, North Carolina, 28406, upon deposit of $30.00. Half of the deposit will be refunded, except to the successful bidder, upon return of these documents and plans in good condition within ten (10) days after the opening of the bids. Each proposal must be ac companied by a bidder’s bond on the form contained in the Proposal from a Surety Com pany acceptable to the City of Edenton or a cashier’s check or certified check made payable to the City of Edenton for not less than 5 per cent of the total amount of the bid. The Owner reserves the right to reject any or all bids and to waive formalities and technicalities. Bids will be required to remain open for acceptance or rejection for sixty (60) calendar days after the date of opening of bids. Special Note: Construction of the new T-Hangar cannot begin until an existing hangar is removed by others; but it is anticipated that the removal will be completed by January 15,1979. The completion timd for the new T-Hangar has been increased to 150 days. Roy L. Harrell, Mayor Town of Edenton North Carolina Nov.3ojDec.7chg. LEGAL NOTICE Legal Notice to Families Who Lived in Public Housing Projects Operated By The Edenton Housing Authority Or Lived in Public Housing Projects in Any Other City Between March I*. 1971 September 26, 1975. If you rented a house or apartment from the Edenton Housing Authority or any other Public Housing Agency (PHA) during the period between March 16, 1971, and Sept. 26, 1975, you may be eligible to file a claim for a refund of part of your rent during that period if: 1. The wife or husband of the head of the household was present and dependent upon the head of the household for support and-or; 2. A dependent member of your family household was employed. If you believe your family falls within one of the categories described above, you may wish to continue reading this Notice in order to determine how and under what circumstances you may file a claim. On July 7, 1978, the District Court of the District of Columbia entered a Stipulated Order providing that the definition of family income for purposes of computing maximum rentals for public housing, as contained in a HUD Circular, which excluded spouses from the S3OO deducation for each dependent and excluded dependents from the S3OO deduction for each art? Before we can pay deep attention to others, we mist first pay attention to ourselves and by the help of God, unravel our own motional hang ups. The Bible tells us to “love thy neighbor as thyself’’ - but - we can’t love our neighbor unless we are at peace with ourselves. Often when youngsters run away from secondary wage earner, was invalid and violated the United States Housing Act of 1937, as amended. The effect of this determination is that certain families who lived in public housing during the period from March 16,1971, to September 36, 1975, may have been charged too much rent. Therefore, the District Court ordered HUD to establish a one million dollar fund for the payment of claims which current or former tenants of public housing may submit for a refund of any over payments. The District Court’s Stipulated Order provides that, if valid claims exceed one million dollars, HUD has the option of having the Order dissolved in which case NTO and HUD may negotiate a modified settlement or proceed with further litigation. Thus, claimants should realize that the submittal of a claim determined valid by a PHA may result in full, partial, or no payments, depending on the total amount of valid claims submitted to HUD, or the final outcome of any further litigation. Any person wishing to receive a copy of the Stipulated Order or a claim form may do so by making their request known to a local PHA. Individuals wishing to submit a claim must fill in the claim form made a part of this Notice and must submit it to the Public Housing Agency’s address indicated on the claim form, or such other appropriate Public Housing Agency if different from the address indicated, within 120 days from December 7, 1978. No claims will be ac cepted after the end of the 120 day period, March 7, 1979. Information provided by the clamant on the claim form must be specific as to the time period between March 16, 1971, and September 26, 1975, for which the wife or husband of the head of the household was present and was a dependent and-or a dependent in the household was employed. Dec.7chg. LEGAL NOTICE ADMINISTRATION NOTICE Having qualified as Al ministrator of the estate of Earl B. Privott, late of Chowan County, North Carolina, this is to notify all persons holding claims against the estate of said deceased to present them to the undersigned on or before the 30th day of May, 1979, or this notice will be pleaded in bar of any recovery thereon. All persons indebted to said estate will please make immediate payment. This 29th day of November, 1978. William T. Davis, Atty. Administrator of The Estate of Earl B. Privott Deceased. N0v.30,Dec.7,14,21, chg. NORTH CAROLINA CHOWAN COUNTY File No. 78-SP-34 Film No. In The General Court of Justice Superior Court Division Before The Clerk NOTICE OF FORECLOSURE SALE In The Matter Os The Foreclosure Os A Deed of Trust Executed By James Moods and wife, Jeannette C. Monde dated August 15, 1973, recorded in Book 98, page 483-486, Chowan County Registry, by Max S. Busby, Trustee THE CHOWAN HERALD. home or get into trouble they tell (be same story. “My parents don’t care about me, we never do anything together, they don’t listen to roe." Their parents are amazed and respond “We give him everything - we don’t un derstand Mm”. What they fail to realize is that the youngster is not looking for Pursuant to the power of sale contained in a deed of trust executed by James Monds and wife, Jeannette C. Monds, on the 15th day of August, 1973 to Max S. Busby, Trustee recorded in the office of Register of Deeds of Chowan County in Book 96 at page 453; default having been made in the payment of the note and in compliance with the terms and conditions contained in said deed of trust, and demand having been made on the un dersigned trustee by the holder of the note thereby secured to foreclose said security, the undersigned will offer for sale to the highest bidder for cash, at the Chowan County Courthouse door in the town of Edenton, North Carolina on Monday, the 18th day of December, 1978 at twelve o’clock noon, the following described lot or pared of land, lying and being in Second Township, Chowan County, North Carolina, more particularly described as follows: The West end of the field whereon the late Cornelius Forehand lived and died, containing twenty (20) acres, more or less, bounded on the North by the county road, East by the land of Dora Saunders, wife of B.H. Saunders, South by Jacob M. Boyce and West by the land of Noah J. Boyce, same land devised to Dorsey C. Forehand by Cornelius Forehand by Will. See Will Book E, page 420, Item One. Being the same real estate conveyed to J.T. Boyce by Dorsey C. Forehand by deed dated May 3, 1900 and recorded in Deed Book L, pages 14 and 15 of the office of Register of Deeds for Chowan County, N.C. and being the same real estate conveyed to L.R. Boyce by deed of Ella Mae Boyce (unmarried) et al duly recorded in Deed Book 7 at page 254 of the office of the Register of Deeds for Chowan County; reference to which said deed is hereby made for further description and chain of title. LESS AND Except from this conveyance that certain tract or pared of land reserved unto the grantor, Leroy Boyce, more particularly described as follows: BEGINNING at a con crete marker at the Southern edge of State Road No. 1311, James Monds’ Northeast corner; thence South 0 degrees 30’ East, 218 feet to a concrete post; thence North 86 degrees 45’ East, 65.8 feet to a concrete post; thence North 85 degrees 00’ East, 293 feet to a concrete post; thence North 2 degrees 40’ West, 142.9 feet to a concrete post in the Southern margin of State Road No. 1311; thence along the Southern edge of the road of the said State Road No. 1311,13.6 feet to a point; thence South 84 degrees 15’ West along the Southern edge of said State Road No. 1311, a101.4 feet to a point; thence along the Southern edge of State Road No. 1311, along a curve having a radius of 573 feet, 981.9 feet to a concrete marker, the point and place of beginning, containing 1.23 acres, according to the plat entitled “Lot of Leroy Boyce and wife, Eunice S. Boyce” prepared by Carlyle C. Webb, Registered Surveyor, dated August 8, 1973 and duly recorded in Plat Book 7 at page of the office of Register of Deeds for Chowan County; reference to which said plat is hereby made for further description This oale will be made oubject to 1978 Chowan Ooimty ad valorem taxes and the highest bidder mall be required to make a 16 par cent deposit of the bid with the Court. Doted and pealed this 27th day of November, 1978. Max 8. Btsby, Trustee 188 Weal Eden Street P.0.80x 448 Edmten,N.C. 37*91 Tele: (919)489-4441 ■" Dec.7,l4^hg. . . i things - he wants? ills parents’ time and needs to fell their love for Mm. It all bods down to two simple tMngs. Rejection hurts. Attention heals. We must learn to listen intently to the hearts Mat cry out for attention. Stretch out your heart and mind and focus on the other person’s needs. Demonstrate af fection and give them reassurance. We must learn not to be so self-centered. Being self centered come naturally but if we want to pay close at tention to others we must train ourselves to stop striving for the spotlight and let it fall on the other person. We must practice patience. To genuinely pay close attention to others may require waiting, listening or standing by until the person you are paying attention to works out his own salvation. The key is knowing we are there and that we care. We must be concerned. There is no use paying at tention - or pretending to pay attention to anyone unless we honestly care about Mm and are willing to share his pain and problems. The capacity to project concern is at the very heart of all deep and lasting human relationsMps. The wonderful thing about it is that when we develop the art of paying attention and the other person feels that someone cares, he is often able to begin caring more about others. Love begets love. Try it and see for yourself. The dividends will come pouring back to you. On tMsglorious Lord’s Day it was a real privilege to enter God’s House to pay homage to our Lord and feel the brotherly love wMch pervaded the atmosphere Asst. Supt. Meredith Barden joyfully welcomed those gathered at Bandon Chapel for Sunday School. He an nounced that Prayer Meeting would be Wed nesday at 7 P.M. in FellowsMp Hall with Dr. Bill leading the discussion. Choir practice follows at 8 P.M. On Thursday, the ladies of ■ fV' * - 31 ■ H | 5-78' Factory OLDS CUTLASS I rentals with air automatic. SUPREME 4 door one owner 1 power steering, low mileage cream puff, every GM option ■ r ~ ■ I Ml and very clean. 5J655.00 last big one. COME SEE! 1 lH# 77 , buick electra II LIMITED 4 door still has ?e' cj'S 2to choose from sill factory warranty, 6,000 low, |qw miles, 3 speed, V 8 come ™" eS * 2 ' S °° under see SCall Usl price dodge royal 0f tfle bi ° oneV Just returned MONOCO ■ loaded maroon 8. to us by our original lease beige vinyl top One careful customer owner 9 77' SAAB 4 door 99 OLE 4 77'CAPRICE CLASSIC 4 door ■■ —speed, air condition, sunroof, designer paint all GM extras, stereo, radials, like new Call local Hertford Car SSAVESS tor price. Choose from CORVETTE SILVER I l°*' amoved from local ANNIVERSARY EDITION I rental lease CO. $2,500 off list low miles ioaded collectors price! Item $14,500.00 I HOKE ROBERSON JR JIM ELLIOTT, KEN WORRELL AND JOE HOlLE'i I I /CSX VISIT ™ E HOME OF THE ☆GM ☆ GIANT ■ I .a.- __ MOIORCORP. I IW HOKE I the BCWG will enjoy their Christmas Party. After shopping in Elizabeth City, they will meet at 1 P.M. for lunch at Tuck’s (Dutch treat). Gifts will be ex changed after lunch. — 0“ Prayer List: Prayer is simply talking to our Heavenly Father anywhere we happen to be for no matter what position our body is in, the soul is on its knees. Please add our friends to your prayer list. Helen Skinner is at home and continues to improve but requires extensive care. Betty Perry, 221-8213 is coordinating those volun teering to help. Call her if you can spare a few hours. Keep Helen in your thoughts and prayers; Kitty Evans Barringer is improving - now she can speak! Keep her in your prayers and remember to said your love gift to the Kitty Evans Barringer Fund, Peoples Bank & Trust Co., Edenton. Also remember her husband and parents; Elbert (James E.) Beach is much im proved - he was allowed to leave the hospital for the weekend! His address is: Kecoughtan Veterans Hospital, Bldg. 110-4E, Hampton, Va.; our “Guardian Angel” Hilda Wisner is home now but still needs your prayers; please add Mrs. Eva Jer nigan who has a touch of the flu and Mrs. Anita Driscoll suffering with a bad throat infection; remember Kay Christ; Marion Phillips; Davis Squires; Ruth M. L. Roberts Landscaping and Cleaning Ak Does Your Establishment IHf Have That Unkept Look? Call Vs Today For Free Estimates! MARVIN ROBERTS 221-4766 (Monoger) Tyner, N. C. Downend; Opal Gregory; Rev. Bennie Crawford; Roscoe D. Cooke; A1 and Jeannie Church; Sylvia Johnson; our missionaries Nita Pride, David k Linda Smith and our much loved pastor. Topic for our adults this week was “The Divine Quest”, Gen. 12:1-3; Heb. 1:1, 2; Luke 15:4-10, taught by Mary (Flagg) Campbell in such an interesting and informative manner, revealed that God spoke to Abraham, then amplified His meaning through the prophets of Israel, and at last, He salt the final Word, His Son, Jesus Christ. Aim was that adult Christians appreciate God’s efforts to communicate with them. “Happy Birthday” was sung by all in honor of Betty Perry and Trus Bunting as they placed their con tributions in our Birthday Bank. Dr. W.J.B. Livingston’s delightful morning message was “How To Prepare For Christmas”, Isaiah 53. Something is in the air - Christmas is coming! Are you ready? Isaiah and other prophecies let the priests and the wisemen know where Christ was to be born. The Wisemen found Him while priests and others sought to kill Him. The wise alway want to find Christ. Why? 1) Christ puts us back on the right track. All we like sheep have gone astray. The Wisemen Page 5-B looked for a Star - we look for the light of Christ; 2) Christ takes upon Himself our iniquities and puts a song in our hearts. Christinas is a time of singing and praising God for the gift of his son. His life leaps into ours. We grow physically. It would be a pity to remain a babe in Christ. Prayers are indeed an swered! It was such a Measure to see A1 and Jeannie Church in the Lord’s House Sunday. They have both been through so much. Please continue to pray for than. The Board of Deacons will meet Saturday at 9:30 A.M. in FellowsMp Hall. Anyone interested in the develop ment of Bandon Chapel in invited to attend. The science of pediatrics was founded by 18th century Swedish physician Nils von Rosenstein. INSURANCE FOR RETIREMENT? Talk to the Integon Listener. Stopping work is nice. Stopping earning isn't Get ready now. Be set then. J Hr JAMES 0. PERRY. JR. P, 0. Box 31227 Raleigh, N. C. 27612 Phone 781-2098 INTEGON*