I Pediatric Pointers I by Dr. Joey Bell, Pembroke Pediatrics A seizure is the sudden rapid firing of electrical signals in the brain. Seizures may lead to temporary loss of consciousness, abnormal muscular movements, behavioral and emotional abnormalities, or loss of control ol bowel and bladder functions. Infants, children, and adolescents are at greatest risk ot havingseizures. There are primarily two ty pes of seizure- generalized seizures and partial seizures. Generalized seizures involve the whole brain while partial seizures involve only a part of the brain. Behaviors seen with generalized seizures include muscle jerking and increased muscle tone. Some behaviors common to partial seizures include lip smacking, chewing, swallowing, excessive salivation, and picking and pulling at clothing. A child who has had a seizure mav be able to tell his parent and the health care provider w hether or not he experienced an "aura" tsuch as stomach discomfort, a feeling of fear, or an unpleasant sensation) before the onset of the seizure. The cause of most seizures in children remains unknown. The sudden onset of a seizure may result form a head injury , infection, brain tumor, or certain genetic/hereditary disorders. Lack of oxy gen to the brain near the time of birth is the most common cause of seizures in the new born. It is important to protect the child from accidentally injuring himself during a seizure. Any child who has had a seizure should be examined by a health care provider. An electroencephalogram (EEG)may be performed to look for characteristic changes in brain waves associated with particular types' of seizures. Many children who have a single seizure do not experience recurrent seizures. Having a single seizure does not mean that a child has epilepsy. Epilepsy is a condition in which seizures unrelated to fever (nonfebrile) recur overtime. Partial seizures are the most common form of epilepsy in children. Treatment of epilepsy normally includes the use of anticonvulsant medications when two or more nonfebrile seizures occur within a 6- to 12- month period. If a child's seizures are completely controlled by medication for a period of approximately 2 years, the health care provider along with the parents may consider carefully weaning the child from anticonvulsants. The most vulnerable time for seizures to recur is during the initial 6 months after anticonvulsant medication is stopped. For most children with epilepsy, seizures are well-controlled with the use of medication and they can be expected to lead normal lives. Knowledge of first aid by family members and others who will be around the child is important so that effective treatment can be initiated quickly if a seizure occurs. Teachers need to be made aware of the child's epilepsy. Children with epilepsy should be encouraged to participate in all of their usual activities. The Epilepsy Foundation of America and local meetings of epilepsy organizations along withthe child's health care provider are available to help parents and children diagnosed with epilepsy. Reflections by Alt* Nye Oxendlne MY 74TH BIRTHDAY Last week Aundrea and I took.her sister back to the Chapel Hill hospital where Sophia was airlifted last fall. Afterthe trauma surgeon checked out her x-rays, and the leg where he had done the most recent surgery, we paused for a few minutes at the gift shop. (Although I love to look around and 'window shop' in that pleasant little nook. 1 had not planned to buy anything.) But 1 did. a birthday present FROM me. TO me! It's a key 'chain' to wear around the neck. When I saw other wcmen wearing them, it seemed like a very good idea for anyone who spends as much time as I do searching for keys on every trip. What sold me TH IS time was the white lettering stitched on a Carolina blue background, UNC TAR HEELS. Other times this year when we've been in the hospitals' area of the Chapel Hill campus I've been reminded of the two years Donny spent there. Now I'll have a positive reminder of my special first son, my very first child. (Of course, each of my three proved to be unique and extra special in a number of ways.) Perhaps I'll be able to find something to commemorate that fact for Gordon and their daddy. Fortunately. I can see. talk with, and give my daughter a hug on a daily basis. But I want to go back to carrying pictures of her. her husband and their Byron, as well the other three, again. Doing special things over the past 21 years to reinforce positive memories of each of those family members we "lost" has played a tremendous role in healing my emotions. Thanks to people who suggested things like the memorial window in the original First Methodist "League Room" fellowship hall. Especially since the people of this community have showered me with so much of their love all this time, I feel that I must pass on to others suggestions that have really worked for me. This is the main reason I keep writing about them three or four times each year. In several recent columns I've mentioned the stages of grief each of us needs to go through. I wanted to emphasize the fact that it takes a LONG time (in some cases a very long time) to go through all the stages and be able to proceed with our lives. Some people have even expected the persons who are left here to get through their grieving in a month or two. Impossible! Others allow a whole six months. Impossible! I'm sure even a year is not enough time for most of us. (If you are an impatient onlooker, just wait until it's YOUR TURN to go through this.) Many people get stunted in their ability to live a normal life because of skipping parts of the healing process. One very important part of the process that I forgot last time is dealing with GUILT and regrets. It looks to me as though the only "survivors" who do NOT have to deal with regret are those who have already spent months or years openly inter-acting in a positive way with a loved one who, they already know, is in the process of getting ready to die. After our family's accident I found myself envying families who have a chance to get things settled ahead of time. Not only did my boys and I not take the time to say "good-bye" as they left for the Farmers' Market. We had not been communicating all that well on a dayto-day basis. I sometimes wonder if we would have learned to do more positive communicating IF they had made it past the teen years to a stage of life where the older generation could be viewed more nearly as friends who were really on their side. I felt like we hadn't finished our relationship, like it just got chopped in two during one of the stages when it was hardest to understand each another. If Dr. O'Brien, my first counselor, had not suggested that I write a letter to each of my boys and to my husband. I don't know WHERE I WOULD BE BY NOW! (I wrote lots of letters!) I had to get those depressing feelings OUT of me. even if I could not really DELIVER any message to them! PRETENDING I was talking to them helped me so much! I've also had to deal with questions about some negative things they had each said to me. Along with letter-writing, through these years God has helped me to gradually forgive THEM, as well as to better understand where they must have been coming from. 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