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XJJ — I an 22, Sod my wife
‘ 20. Wr h«ve bpfn roarrieJ 3
■ra. My problem is grave. To
frank, my wifr is wlfish, hat
is on]|T with dPTCnt, respet-
pM»p]«. She serms to b«
[Jany and well rontent with low
9WS. yon am, I «m a graduate
eollc^ ajad have lots of nice
ads. 6nt she won't assoct-
irith them. There are thinffs
‘"she doosn't understand aboat
ilife and she won’t listen to me. I
?Jove h^ , verr mncli, but the
io'ix i$ critical* What must
Nris: Yon prU this girl on the
" •^ive after the first day you
iell'her — and reminded her
eonstantty of her laek of educa
tion, social poise and ba-k-
^n^und. After three years of
eritieism, she has become ob
stinate and has chosen friends
who would accept her. Whereas,
yon wfre fully aware of her lack
raiftf^g, and hare failed as a
paatota by not helping her to
''coiile these handicaps. Tt
tu isn't too late to bring fbur
tioBship *lo an equal liasis.
can be led And taught by
rurapement and understand-
— tot not by fault finding
dtmination. Living in as
large city as you do, she can be
M«ial amenities by
attending classes in personality
and- charm. If you woutd spend
less time with your reIative|L|uO
friAds yon consider your
and opend more time in
her the friendship and jcdjnpan-t,
ionshi^'she «rave/—i'ihd ,’*o6ld
hav^ |n||CT^.m
Jrew^mrowirimas.
U — I am i|2 years old, marri
ed and have two children. I am
separated from my husbaml. He
lives iA another city. I have been
true to my husband altho’ w'e
▼e been apart. ReeenfTy, I »iet
soldier who claims he loves
and my children and wants
to msfry him. He Kas asked
favor of me .before we marry,
lat should my decision bef
Ans: Your decision should be
fan emphatic “NO.” He is far
more interested in an affair than
marriage. Before you should
C'ev. consider haring dates with
nr boys,'you should come to
fome dermite decision -with your
huH iand about your future. You
■. e to consider your children
jmd the kind of home atmosp
here you are to provide for them
aa well As your own enjoyment.
HRJ —In "Who^ Who of our
class lasfyea^, 1 was voted the
most po^Wr' and most attrac
tive fprl In our' j-oom. I have al-
w s been called pretty by every
I have more boy friends than
j.i 'he other girls iput together.
1 r...w ha^ one in the A^niy, one
^ the Navy and one in the
Marines. All of them want to
marry me. My problem is,  the
girls loathe, .the giound-.l walk
-on. I don't particularly care, but
it is a little embarrassing Eome
times. ^
Ans: — You can’t, expect to
win the friendship of these girls
ontil yon TXl PARR whether or
«ot they like vou. There are num
liers of girU who can be popular
with the opposite sex — brrt to
popnlar with both sexes is
fJIy a major aebieveraent-
These girls want your friend-
> hip — y«i are jnst not ^ving
t’‘ em a fair ehance. Turn a little
of that personality in their
diveetion, and yon will get re-
As for the Army, Navy
Marines — continae to keep
Aeir morale for the dnra-
but don’t ai^ept a proposal
yo« arejrare.
r» tfyTHisband is the sole
of a. family of four and
irking for low iwages. His
has lots of confidence in
ani my hasband hates to
and look for wa-k another
bsesase he feels he is im-
there. The wages he gets
dways be a neglect to his
: ~ Yonr husband if try-
Iw eeBseientions toward
s well as hig job.
he is making a caiuM
he realizes that he >an’t
# mias a alngle pay day,
Jd certain be to his ad-
to tr^' to get s bettet
job, bot he cau
(Can be sure of another one.
Nagging yoar husband about not
makincT more money is the wrong
thing to do. But you could re
mind him to register at thhe De
fense Plant nearby which would
probably offer him more pay for
his ser%ice?,
IjAM — For the past 14 yearg, I
have been employed as a shipp
ing clerk. I make ajiice living
for my wife and two children. I
have been offered another job
with less pay but a chance of
promotion. Should I hold my
present job or take the new jobf
Ans: — The prospective job
yoi^ have in mind isrould only
last for the duration. If you are
going to malte n changc, it
would be far better to wait un
til yon can make a contact that
would offer a permanent job
with chances of promition. It is
true that you are at a standstill
on your present jcb. But it does
offer a nice living and you have
every reason to believe it is per
manent. In order to get ahead,
you are ffoing to have to study
and prepare yourself for some
thing more than the job you are
holding.
JMC — Life has been a series
of disappointments for me. My
parents have. been lovely and
ha^ fried f0‘ mate a X ciy rns-
{>ec4able young lady of me. Was
I meant to b€ unsuccessful in
lov^ affairs as I now bctieve?
My first affair proved a little too
much foyiinie.
AnB: Vw^l|^*‘-tofope, your life
has bfewS a,4^ of roses for you,
- parents to make
your decisions for you. The
©nly time you ever had to rely
on your own judgement wns in
your selection of friends, No
one can be a perfectionist with
out first learning to profit by
his mistakes. Because this first
love affair provcil (Usallusioning,
you must noV>f)(et St jpvt you a
pessimistic outlook in regards to
affairs of the heart. Mark it off
as costly experience — and be
more discreet in choosing jour
next boy friends.
JM — My sister in law comes
to visit with my wife often. She
has been heue the past 3 weeks
and I am so worried I can’t
#l^p since she. has been here.
She talks crazy and out of her
hdad all night long. I want to
know ^’hat to do about it.
Ans: — I am sure yoy would
Be using good judgement to take
it upon yourself to see that she
hse medical attention. Don’t
send the girl back home until
she has had a physical check-up
b^ a reliable medical doctor.
JC — I have been ofTerpd a
job in the city nearest me and
m*y“danghter has been accepted
at the city hospital to train for
a nurse. Would it be a mi itake
for me to leave her and take a
job in the city when my daugh
ter enters training f
Ans;«— An ideal arrangement,
I should think. Being located in
tile same city, you will be able
to see your daughter quite often.
The. icJiHiat Tiiis been offered
yon is far superior to the one
you are holding now and you
should be able to save money by
making the change.
EX — Am I wasting useless
tears eryia^-0¥«r-himt He left,
after he had promised me that
we would get married.
Ans: — Wearing your heart
in a sling is like crying over
split milk- This affair is dead
and buried and your tears \von"*l
resurrect it. Be sporting enough
to take it on the chin — and the
next time someone takes it on
the lam, be sure it is j^ou.
CJ — I am 29 and my husband
is 48. We have been marriel H
years. I have two boys 11 and
12. My husband is not t;heir fa-
"ther and | them to
I knew it. Every night it is a big
quarrel. He wants me to take the
■children and leave. I am not able
because he knocks me down and
! around so much. What must I
dof
Ang: — Do yoa consider the
meager living your husband givj
es you warrants your ruining
your health and making cowards
out ol your child'#en f It would be
bett«-r t',.f tnem to suffer a few
il disfomforts than to
lives with bitterneSB
^ S^urday,i FelarUary. l?thr 1943
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N^ro troops on guard in Hawaii—Mobil® gon and crew prapm to start out on raanwvera. to ^
riffhtr^^nt seat—Corp. Julius HulAiard and Corp. Calvin Walker. Standing bel^d t^ gun, Wt to ^
rightc Corp. B«uua Hughes, Sgtw WHiiim F, Nelson, Sgt Hanoua L. Lawson, and Corp Hurrell Adams.
Pknto hy V. s. Armu Signil Corv
'‘Pleasure - Drivers”
To Get Hearing
Fifty-Two “pleasure, drivers”
have been given notice to appear
iieforo their local gasoline ratioi
board for driving to the Duk.;
tTniversity Gymnasium Sflturday
night to witness a douWe-head^r
basketball progrdm,. 1i?a* an
nounced by State OPA Director
T. S. Johnson.
It was revealed that some of
the drivers had driven here a«
far as Walnut Cove, a distance
of 90 miles.
The official announced tha;
over 250 notices were" tagged to
violators cars in 48 Eastern North
Carolina counties over the weelf
end.
Sheriff Accused Of
Continued from Page One
both of wHoiu'denied mai They
had signed any warrant.
Placed under arrest after the
midnight vrsic by the menions
af the laws, Hall was at fifrst
thought to have been lodged in
the Baker county jaiL
It was not until 2:30 o’clock
Saturday "morning, ' Jati\iaTy 30,
that what had really happened
to Hall came to light. It was at
that hour that employes of an
Albaily funeral home received
an ambulance call to come to
Newton, Ga., about 15 miles away
and get a “niggej I had to beat
up.”
The call relayed from a ho«pi-
tal in Albany was reported to
have been sent by Sheriff iScrenrre,
The ambulance attendants got
the badly battered an bruisedman
from the jail, wherf- the jailer
asserted that he' had not been
torched since hiis arrival, a fid
that the victim was brought to
the jail in the Condition in
which he was found.
Hall, rushe(f to an Albany
hospital, died a few minutes
af^er he had been admitted.
(The body bore 21 abrasions
anH contusions, and deep cuts in
th4 wrists, lending observer?? to
believe that he had been tied be-
hiid an automobile and dragged
o%4r rough ground.
The back of his head had been
beaten so badly, it was describ
ed! as being as "soft as a ripe
toiiiato.” The clothes were torn
to shreds and the entire liody
was covered with dirt, further
evjidence that he had been diagg-
e| behind a speeding car.
Motive for the attack was
si^ppliifed by several white Baker
eojunty resident after they had
vilewed the youth’s remains-
Sheriff Screw’S, it was disclosed,
had become angry w'ith Hall
ater the lynch victim had appear
ed before the grand jury seek
ing to recover a pistol which
had been removed from the
jmcket of his car by Sheriff
f«rews.
An expert mechanic,
Oijoyed the respect of
ijaces of citizens in
ounty. He hifelped repair
^he tractors and fariji
ftients in this section.
: At the funeral was his bro
ther, Pvt. Howard Hall, who 61»-
(ained leave 'from the arrtiy
fighting for _^emocraey to 'at-
^nd. His father, j|i fanner »ml
and-o'wner, (sat ^grfef-Btricken
hroughout the services ' held
kVednesday, Feb. 3.
Besides his parents,' the vic
tim is survived by his widdw, A
younsj son, three ■ sister* and
four brothers, all of whom fe-
Bide in Baker county. ^
' Thus far no charges have beeli
filed against Sheriff ' Screws,
who for'* 'several days was
strrangely ab«cnt firom the coih-
munlty. Betu'niing Wednesday,
jhe was placed und^r the care of
;a physician and reports have
I been spread "that he is sufferhag
with a' “nervous breakdown.”
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and hatred whi^h theyVt'e^l - in
their prsent hpme. The only al-1
• ternative for yo« is to become'
self-supporting and make an
other home for these Soys. They
conld work after school lours
and help out with the expenses, j
Texas Senator
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of iynfhingr^attoi ding'
story.
The Te.\an' also claims ’to be
one of the few men in his state
to fight the Ku Klux Klan when
the hooded tribe was in power
there. He said he stumped ogain.-
St the Klan throughout the state
ind for hir fight agalhisr" If Was
buped in Effigy and his law
firm boycotted by that group.
]pi^ aj^o took a shot at Negro
newspaper and their fight for
equality.'Speaking of one New
Yofk newspaper, he said:
‘^In the People’s Voiee > 'not
loqg ago, A. Clayton f^owell, a
Ne^rjo Communist, advocated
that I be assassinated - that my
deith was desirable as Hit-
leij’si Immediately other publi-
ca^iono took it up and through
out the'Negro press there was a
mop^jjfej^lis ununcifttiQfi, not
congreae.n, ^
>'do they hope to gain
by thffti We in our country live
in peace with the Negro; we
rwpect him, for he has Contri-
bu :ed much to the progress of
th(i country. ^I have made hund
reds of speeches in this coun
try, and in many speeches I
ha ire said to the American peo-
pl that the great majority of the
Negroes are loyal, patriotic/
Aqicrican citizens.”
His accusations against the
twjo leaders were stated as
fojlows:
“Now, take the case of Wil
liam Pickens, who is principal
securities |>romotion specialist
far the treasury department at a
salary of $5,600. Piekens signed
a 1 manifest in defense of the no-
tqrions Communist Sam Darcy.
Pickens was vice chairman of
trte American Ijeague Against
\far ah'd Fascism, which the at-
torney/^neral branded as subver
sive. He was also a contributor
to the Communist party’s New
He was a ^onsor Of
the Oi'eater New York Emer
gency Conference on Inalienable
Rights, a section of the Nation
al Federation for Constitutional
Liberties which the attorney
general also found to be sub
versive. Pickens was a sponsor
of the American Cwmtrittee for
Protection of Foreign-Born, a
speaker for the United ' States
Congrees Against War, and a
sponsor of the American Coni-
mittee for Democracy and Intell
ectual Freedom.
.“Here is- the*"cage of-'"'Mary
McLeOd B^hune who is employ
ed by the National Youth Ad-
miostration at a salary of $6,250.
Mary McLeod Bethune was
publicly and prominently affilia-
ated with four of the organiza
tions which the attorney general
has branded aa subversive. She
was na^|l^||;al vice chairman of
the American League for Peace
and Demoeracy. The other three
subversive organizations with
which she was affiliated were
the American Youth congress,
the National Negro congjress,
and the Washington Committee
for Democratic Action.”
On the occasion of a previous
attack both Dean Pickens and
Mrs. Bethune issued statements
denying all allegations made by
the Texan.
The other attacks were levell
ed at some 38 other persons,
white, holding important govern
ment position.
City Primary Apr. 20
Election On May 4
On April the 20 Durham WjiI
hold a primary at which time six
councilmen and a mayor will be
elected. The election will be un
der the direction of the Durh.iin
County Board of Elections, il-
ton J. Knight, chairman. The
election wiH take place on May
4 and a period for registration
will preceed the primary.
—Ma«ar 5L_F. Carr^ term e»
pire^ with this year's elecTion."
The office of mayor comes up
every two years for consider«T
tion of the voters.
_CQuncirlmen whose term of
office expire with this elec
tion- are: J. Prank Barfield -of
the first ward; A. M. Harris, se
cond ward; R. L. Lee of the third
ward; R. Thurman Taylor of thj
fourth ward; J. E. Strawbridgo
of the fifth ward; and A. P.
Wiggins of the sixth ward. I
Couneilmen are electej^,
terms of four years." Lee Avas
elected to fill the unexpired tei'nj
of J^mes B. Cole who is now
serving with the Arujed forcoj
as major.
Wig!pns has moved from the
sixth ward and should he deflire
to agafft will have to be c>n-
dida^^ ti^^* th6 ^fqurthi* w»fd
since he now is a resident thei%.
G^ish-^or pas'
If yfj^oeed Some gasoline this
iiiorning, you’d better take youv
bhelk book, with yov, or soint
money, because you can buy it
for cash' tmij, — "
Credit at filling stations is
out for the duration.
The new order, issued by Har
old L. Ickes petroleum adminis
trator, becomes effective Mou.
day.
Its purpose is the same as that
of a previous directive elin^in^V
ing the use of credit cards. The
amendment bans all filling sta
tion charge accounts, except for
Federal, State, and local govern
ment vehicles, commercial us-
sera of motorboats, commercivl
users of motorboats, and moto^
vehicles displaying “T” ratioh
stfckera. ‘
Both orderi are aimed at re-
"
ilttn of hijokk!’
nnel, so saving
and lowering eosts,
l^ified.
and
manpower
it was ex-
Auto license Tags
Show Decline Here
A decline of 1,4H0 state auto
mobile license tags was reportetl
today by ۥ E. Waklcr, h*>ad of
Carolina Motor 'lub office here,
for the period ending Jan. 31,
1943, oV*r the ..ainc period of
last year. Th-- 15)42 liccnse ligurc
WAS placed 18,282 with that for
this year being 16,792.
The gasoline shortage snd the
Itan on the u«e of automobiles
tot all save essential driving
ww irfamid by Walker foif the
situation. Many cars hairo been
storied by owners ~because of the
situation.
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We Welcome the patron .age of you who are using
our serrice to get to uid from your jobs. .
I If at t^es ^our buses are crowded and there are
^ratfic delays, your patience will be; appreciated.
iRest assured that our entire org4tei^ion if doinf
everything humanly possible to serve you. During
the “peak-hours, ” there will be times when our
service will not be as good as we’d like it to be. but
-the efmditiotw-^tere--beyond control due to the laigv
number pf rider a(; these particular boun.
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