ftp 8.WBRR OA Sat, Oct S, 1973 prWWW W vmw WW WW W.JPW' Writers By CKORGE a RUSS Forui The Putor't Aide Society of Union Baptist Church initiated-the debut of the Autumn Season with a spectacular Harvest wedding. This was a Mock-Marriage, however, this one was a calibre exceeding the usual vintage of wedding pantomlnes. This Harvest Wedding was another Hall production with the usual splendor, drama an inimitable fineness that is typical of Miss Irene Hall's presentations. Mrs. Josephine E. Turner, the East End's Black "Joan of Arc;" candidate for Coundlman-at-Large; Religious and Civic Leader; slogan: "Dedicated Tho Those In Need" was Mistress of Ceremony for the Harvest Wedding. She wore a floor-length coral green gown with gold accessories, and a Mona Lisa smile. After a brief fevotional, the organist, Grover Wilson, Jr., tall, dapper.-shoulders slightly stooped -tipped toed to the organ where he stood for a moment; then, bowed from the waist to the suspense filled audience. This was a signal (p Miss Hall that it was time for the wedding to begin. Irene, wearing a Chinese-red hostess gown, signaled Mrs. Elizabeth Edwards who, for a change was not serving as caterer, was beautifully coiffeured and wearing a decollete off-white gown with a mauve trim at the neckline. Moments later a bevy of beautiful ushers glided down the long aisle. An "autumnal coloration" was displayed in the colors of their floor length gowns. Mmes. Anzella Hancock, Christine Sales, Gretrude Cannady, Sarah Bruce, Elnora Ransom, OUie Cameron, Lois Branson, Ethel Taylor. The preacher, Willie E. Muse; "Prayer-Boy", Lynn E. Hill, the groom "Red-Fox"-James Thompson and his best man took their places near the kneeling bench. The beautiful, slim, curvaceous Mrs. Johnny Mae Kee gave a beautiful rendition of the Lord's Prayer. Following the soloist, the march of the groomsmen: tall, handsome, swaggering fellows: Hurbert 0. Partin, James Tyrone Muse, John Timberlake, Frank Pratt, Sr., Joseph Wallace-Nightingale- Willie Hooker. Mr. Allen and Michael Clemmet. Closely on the heels of the groomsmen; lovely, sleek, charming bridesmaids tripped a light fantasy down the carpeted aisle; Misses Elizabeth Ingram Brenda Chavis, Alana Eve Turner, Elaine Thompson, Margaret McQueen, Anita McCollum, Roslyn McCollum and Jean Kee, Shelia Mason, Carolyn Mercer. Mmes. Christine Mitchell Hattie P. Partin, Delores Jeffers. Two pert, little misses wearing yellow granny dresses and sporting the contemporary popular "comrow" hair style proceeded the maid of honor: Robin Edwards and Joyce Witherspoon. Mrs. Eloise Edwards, tall staturesque, wearing a sheer flowing gown of yellow generously sprinkled with cofetti colors in yellow, brown, red and orange; moved breezily toward the lights of the gleaming tapers. "The bride wore white." A gown of shimmering satin, a shoulder length veil trimmed with white orange blossoms: Mrs. Frances Patterson -"Geraldine Jones". At the signaling of the organ chimes, the dainty white satin slippers of the bride, crossed the threshold into the sanctuary. Mr. WalferPaMs, gtfWer of "Geraldine Jones." wore traditional black and white attire with the dignity of a prince; head high, chin jutting, shoulders straight, feet planted firmly on the beige carget as be steered the bride toward "Red Fox." , - t f , After Red Fox and Geraldine Jones were united by Rev. Muse the Harvest wedding took on another aspect. Reports from Captains, Anzella Hancock, Sadie Louise Thompson, Gretrude Cannady, Josephine E. Turner. Contestants: Carolyn Mercer, Elizabeth Ingram, Shelia Mason, Alana Eve Turner. Mrs. Anzella Hancock and Miss Carolyn Mercer were first place winners. Jackie Hooker was the ringbearer; La Russia and Rhonda Ewing were flower girls. The Bridal Reception was held in the Church's Fellowship Hall. pi ' t'v :K?-f$" v' I Am Your Wife. Oh, let me lay my head tonight upon your breast, V'V; And close my eyes against the light. I fain would rest; I'm weary and the world looks said; this worldly strife ' ' ' Turns me to you; and, oh, I'm' glad to be your wife!. Though friends may fail or turn aside, yet I have you And in your love I may abide, for your are true My only solace in each grief and in despair, Your tenderness in my relief; it soothes each care. If joys of life could alienate this poor weak heart From yours, then may no pleasure great enough to part Our sympathies fall to my lot. I'd e'er remain Bereft of friends, though true or not, just to retain your true regard, your presence bright thro' care and strife; V i: And, oh! I thank my God tonight, I am your wife! The mayor of today must be more than a hack and a political wheeler-dealer and a figurehead. He must be a statesman, less of a presiding officer and caretaker and more of a doer. He can not he a dreamer for the only thing that becomes of a dreamer is a dream. As we begin to choose the leaders of our cities, what qualities must we look for in making our decision? James V. Cunningham, in his study, URBAN LEADERSHIP IN THE SIXTIES, likens the role of a mayor to that of a public entropeneur. The qualities best suited for this entrepreneur are: originally, risk-taking, initiative, energy, openness, organizational ability and promotional ingenuity. This means that a mayor of today must provide "the leadership to recruit imaginative staff, to inspire public workers to create efforts to broach new solutions, to expand the powers of office, to extract large funds from a common pot in Washington and to energize and involve the citizens in the development of the city." t In the past decade, the most glaring weaknesses in bur city governments .have been the abject lack of innovative ideas, vision and wisdom; the lack of concern for the involvement of citizens and the low tolerance for accepting criticism and listening. Our city governments have become closed books. WHAT HAPPENED TO REVENUE SHARING IS A CASE IN POINT. Long after the regulations and rute& for revenue sharing were released, the only persons yelling about the way funds were being disbursed were national agencies who would not any longer be eligible for government contracts. Many cities all across the country took all the revenue sharing and 'put it into raises for employees and subsidies for peripheral city projects. When the second phase of revenue sharing was announced, cities Our Health By C H. Tracy, M. D. Is it necessary to undergo surgery to treat varicose veins? Not always. Small varicose veins which cause no symp toms can be ig- Indii t-Ior sur gery upon vari cose veins are: Pain in the legs and generally fatigued feeling in the leg mus cles at the end of the da y; swellino nf the legs; hem or- Dr. Tracy rhaging; unsightliness; or a general impairment of cir culation which can lead to varicose ulcers of the skin of the legs or chronic eczema of the skin of the legs. Sclerosing treatment, which is the injec tion of the veins with sub stances which cause closure of the vein by scar tissue for mation, is often all that is needed to obliterate smaller varicosities which may remain or show up after surgery. 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First in popularity throughout the world. ; Seagram's SThe Btst Canadian. HM wki-i'tim E R3RH RRRI H Vuis old ik.h pmm si grm distiuers co., .y.e. PRE6MANCY PLANNHI6 AND HEALTH Mrs. 6lrtt Dear Mrs. Riggsbee: Please send us a copy of your free booklet called "The Right Way to Birth Control". We Want to give one of these booklets to our son and his fiance who are planning to be married after the first of the year. ..We read with interest your articles in our local, paper on "Family Planning and Health." Planned parenthood has helped make our life a happy one. We want to pass this information and the concept of a planned family on to our children. We think your booklet will be helpful. ' Mr. A. R. Dear Mr . R.: , I am sending you the free booklet on birth control methods entitled "The Right Way to Birth Control" today. I appreciate your kind remarks were fit to be tied when they found out they should have used the monies received for social services. The second phase of revenue sharing did not cover social services as cities had thought. We have the kind of leadership our cities need to provide the talents so necessary to meet the complexities of our urban economic system. When it is time for you to make your choice in your city elections be sure you keep in mind the many roles and functions in which the mayor must be involved. - , v about the column. Your son and his fiance will be wise to consider together their plans for spacing their family so that they may have children only when they are truly ready, emotionally arid financially, for them. After learning and discussing the various methods that can be Used to plan their family, they may wish to talk with a doctor. Since "doctor" methods of birth control are more, reliable, your son's fiance would be wise to see a doctor before the marriage if she desires to take the birth control pills or have an IUD (such as the shield) inserted- Dear Mrs. Riggsbee: My girl friend is taking birth control pills and she says she can get them for me, too, if I want. I believe I have read in the column that there are more than one kind of these pills. Will you print which one is the best? Thank you. ' E.S. DearE. I guess I just can't, repeat this too often: Never take any kind of medication that has been' prescribed for someone else. This includes birth control pills! There are many different kinds of pills and only a doctor-after he . examines you-ean say which one (if any) is right for you. ft is very important that a woman be under the care of a physician, while she Is taking birth control pills. Every patient who has pills prescribed is given an examination, including the important "Pap smear" test, at the time of her first visit and every year after that. - .-. When you say your friend can get plus for you, too, then she must be getting them illegally -not through a doctor. Again I say- this can be very da ngerous ! No medicine should be taken, including birth control pills, unless you are under the supervision of a doctor! ; - . ,'' Dear Mrs. Riggsbee : . In a recent letter to a reader who wondered if she should try to get pregnant before marriage just to prove she could have children, you told her this would not be "wise." You said there were only three solutions to the problem of pregnancy before marriage: a "shotgun" wedding, an illegitimate baby, or a legal abortion. Didn't you leave out one solution? What about an illegal abortion? N.L.B. DearN.L.B.: No, I did not leave out a solution-- I do not consider an illegal abortion a solution to the problem of unmarried pregnancy, or for any unwanted pregnancy, regardless to marital status. Illegal abortions are exceedingly dangerous from every aspect. In the first place, they are, Of course, against the law. Secondly, and perhaps more importantly, illegal abortions pose a serious threat to the health of the woman. These unlawful procedures are frequently done by unlicensed and unskilled persons, in unsanitary surroundings. The result is often infection or hemorrage (heavy bleeding) jjtfeVcan lead to- death or permanent sterility for the woman. Moat doctors could tall of horrifying cases where permanent damage or death were the direct result 01 an illegal abortion attempt, or of cases where abortions were attempted and did not even succeed in causing the woman to lose the unwanted baby. This is why I do not consider illegal abortion a solution -to the contrary, it is a problem,' one which .is widespread and of increasing concern to everyone, particularly to the doctors who see some of the terrible results of such operations. NOTE TO OUR READERS: Please include your name and address when you write. Names will never be used in the paper, but I would like to send everyone a personal reply regardless to whether the letter is published in the column. - Address letters and requests for a free booklet on birth control to: Mrs. Gloria Riggsbee, 123 West Franklin Street, Chapel Hill, North Carolina 27514. ADDRESSES CONFERENCE OF WOMEN Minority board members of corporations must not become "one issue" directors with no concerns for the corporation's other problems, Charles F. Luce, ORCHIDS FOR SHIRLEY A distinguished group of citizens, representing the city's five boroughs, have joined to salute Rep. Shirley Chisholm of Brooklyn for her contribution to democracy on Oct 11 at the Americana Hotel. . .f! ( i DURHAM HIGH ; : ; Mr 1 FIKE HIGH WflflON FRIDAY NIGHT 8 PJH Durham County Had; ADMISSION $2.00 Adults Under 12 Years $1.00 Plenty Free Parking Tlils Advertisement Is In The Interest of Local High School Athletics East-West Expressway Phone 682-9171 Aldridge Power Mower Co. 2694 Chapel Hill Blvo Ph. 489-3329 BERNARD'S FORMAL WEAR 1151 W. Club. Boulevard Phone 286-3633 BCRTHEY CLOTHIERS, Ltd. 846 W. Main Stmt COUCH FURNITURE , "Serviaf Durham for 48 Yean" Ninth Street DURHAM COCA-COLA I II U 1 sborouiS Road It's The Real Thing-COKE Durham Drug Co. 330 W. Main St. Phone 982-3476 DURHAM DISTRIBUTING CO. Distributors of S Old Malt Liquor IVY ROOM 1004 W. Main Street Phone 688-6041 LOWE'S 3417 Hillsborough Road 383-2581 ' v Mutual Savings Morgan Motors 3601 Hillsborough Road 383-2331 O'Briaat Motor Co. Fiat Sales & Service 317RTgsbee Ave. Ph, 682-8241 PEPSI-COXA CO. .v "YOU'VE GOT A LOT TO LIVE AND PEPSI'S GOT A LOT TO GIVE" Scarborough A Hargett, Inc. 919 Fayetteville St 682-1171 Scott & Roberts ; Durham's Foremost Cleaners Phone 882-932R i'fef7 SCOTT TAILORS 221 Foster Street Phone 688-1917 SAW TAILORS 211 "N. GregBon St. Phone 682-6834 Triangle Volkswaftn Sales and Service - Ma On the Blvd. 489-2371 Weeks-Allen Lincoln-Mercury Cor. RifsbeeAve. andGeerSt. Phone 888-4331 DAHY LIVING THE ECONOMIC ASPECT CONCERNING MARRIAGE UT- Mhiim IWU ,.,....1. ...JL . .4 m V llilUlllll 4,111a V t - 1 K 3 v. lti iwm.! I . . 1. 1 I - ""Kauuanj( uabea ana carries no reflection on toe economic aspect concerning marriaac. which has been requested by many of my good readers. It should be completely reao ana analyzed to get the real understanding of my ideas about the subject. The pronomir- ssnwi nf m.irlu. it. '".'.. 45. iit&u. iia snare oi irouDie. me idea that the husband receives sexual satisfaction in exchange for his financial support means that he earns the money and turns some or all of it over to his wife to spend. In other words, this may iJ&VQPh JlwShiP. where the earning and srvendine are ascusseo ana piannea oy Doth partners. Triis is, instead, an arrangement to keep the wife in a state of being eternally depende nt on her husband. As long as the wife is in a position of dependency, communication will be impeded. Therefore, where communication is poor, misunderstandings develop, morale deteriorates, and companionship on anything like an equal basis Will be dit tieult , As long as the husband tries to maintain himself in a dominant mlp and his wife in a nivitinn nmnAni. mil Ii iiWajifll dependency, he probably will resent her becoming employed, or possessing an independent source of income. He most likely will Htsent her becoming MnnlnvnH or nncsoccina an iiulMmlpat source of income. He may say that he objects to this because it reflects on his ability to support his family. ' This may be a factor, but bis real concern is probably related to the fact that when his wife is a waoo earns she' is bats rienendent on him. There is. of course, the real danger that the wife's employ mens win ieuu to compeuiion net ween net ana ner husband, either for the control of the family or competition for status outside the home. . Another complication introduced by the economic factor is that the wife frequently resents the freedom which her husband's job affords him Actually, the freedom may be more fancied than real ' in that his responsibilities may tie him down as effectively as she is tied to her household tasks. Yet, because he does not hare the ational Macaroni Wtdk L mi ..amatirw and frustrations that . . . .. . i . tb. f.l Bhvh bis job as the essence of ireeoom nseii, w roade her a woman confined to the home instead of a man free to enjoy himself al day at wort. The corwenr to this is the imaVary of some husbands to be ulUe or ignore ine unpmuuax - wives contributions to the security and comfort ot ine nome. Hi this b aa attempt .to eadarge on tne aaapotwaw w ia- roles at work. . 'M . - .L- Many men genuinely enjoy their wort, wan often decide whether to continue working on a professional problem at home, or whether they should devote u families As I see it, regardless to now wey . " tattm to be some jealoasy on Uie part of the wives, who sense m k . fnr their husband s affections. This probably uim. ic uv - . ... .. i . - ifo in hav the lee ine ai limes 10 . .JliLk.i ial in love with another woman, because 1 think 1 could handle that una or oooipewuu n.u.r Bfatuatioo with his job." ,S teLtfi. vi mav UK sex as a weapon n wmcn wcj r : nich or humiliate their husbanas. mis b a - rik. i-o rttiiiinnchin in that somethini" which must be Sri' withheld. Such behavior impttes-erroneously that sexual "': : .i.--.aja :a. . a- .amu tn4 thr MmfrAvya is more important 10 men mm An. wiihniit hut men cannot. r v WVIIKT'I W . fSil , . robaWy afl normal and rnamages are straew by the foregoing factors. Rut, the more mature we are, the more -k ,rc m npckt these factors, should itiev oecome reai to marital hfffi" and provoke misunderstanding, ine oeuer we can communicate with our partners in marriage, c a1ij B y .Trr Ik WmWmmFF mmm mugmf SjBlHHaaBJflflH : . . . UMMaajaaEja Q&S BbbL Lb 'rvo xint" naata repines are seared to the .schedule of today's busy homemaker. Simple-to-make. great-to-eat and nutritious describe a fish stew from the National Macaroni Institute. Elbow macaroni, froz.en fish fillets and a varie ty of vegetables; 'cooker in one pot mate up uus m Hiehiiif Tiirht fna lnnheon ndwiner meftus. sihiw macamni snaehetti arid eee noodles are good for you. They supply protein in addition to the B vitamins niacin. thiamine and riboflavin. When eating pasta, we get iron.. .energy from the carbohydrate content. Easily digested pasta is a low fat. low sodium food. ONE POT MACARONI FISH STitW (Makes 4 to 6 servings) 1 cup thinly sliced celery 13 cup thinly sliced onion li cup butter or margarine 1 package (1 pound) frozen -haddock or sole fillets, partially thawed, cut fa cubea 2 teaspoon'- salt 1 small clove garlic, crushed 1 can (16 ounces) cat green beans, undrained 1 can (16 ounces) sliced, carrots, undrained 2 cupa uncooked elbow macaroni (S ounces) 2 cups milk IPENDTHE NIGHT RICK WRIGHT ia MmWzM WW BFROM BLACK . jrKEPHlNR TURNER and BRO. BEN RUFFIN need your . iki nnmine Tuesdav. October 9. This is the day that you will have an opportunity to help them through the primary , that they can run in the November general eiecuon. i,p" that the-, are I Thev definitelv need vour vote in tht primary eietiwn. m course u is true that the November election is the mam one. On the other without your vote on this Tuesday there may not be a Mjeturtitr for them. So please ten your buddies it is important. be able to understand them and ourselves. To the end, and my final opinion, it takes love; and love is something which grows and develops slowly, also something that must be learned. It is required in living together and developing an appreciation and a respect for each other as persons. The love which has firm basis on mutual understanding has a much better chance to withstand the distorting and warping forces of modern fife. If In K that you can vote for both of further means that the ovecaM efWIIgMJMMBpB after wmM: VOTE FOR BOTH OF THEM. lack oropte marawl The fact is thrr are the six or more "other" folks m the race. waVaa knf... that for our vole to be most effective WS .arefulK consider ho man peoplw we .ote for. If you vol,, for the two above vowrs wil be the owK rt they get. If yew vote for some of the other people m the rare, not oaty do they get yevr Ullv hut AiM, me vole from the "other side oi I Brothers and Sisters win get no votes. To make a why don't you jnst VOTE BLACK. A an after thought let me just add a few words in nay aswal tradition Vntio will hv no means solve afl of our problems, hut a sign if nam number of flbek faces ow the city roaacM caw difference. With hat difference and a . some things have cot to shape up. We have always means necessary. Voting is a mesas. It is not our serration bet S at a useful tool for making some of the h-nges that need be mad.- if Black people are to get the true beauty of fife re Ufcn world, and indeed in Durham. The only reason I have Sot said anything about Rev. Lynch and Bro. Ralph Hunt, is the simple rtsason that they are not raiwang in the primary. They will a u to ma t ically go to the November general election. And that's the way it is. 1 bay leaf Cook celery and onion in butter until crisp-tender. Add fish. salt, bay leaf and garlic. Drain bean and carrot liquids add enough water to vegetable liquid to measure Vm quarts. Stir Into fish mixture. Simmer 15 minutes; bring to boil. 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