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12 THE CAROLINA TIMES SAT., NOVEMBER 29, 1980 Bull City Elk News A birthday party was held Sunday, November 16, featuring live it tic for the Elkdom Birthday people of Jbe month at ux Elk Auditorium. The honorees were: Brt. Leslie Hillard, Nov. 4; Dt. Marion Culberi, Nov. Bro. Robert Collier, Nov. 15; Dt. Elizabeth Bur roughs, Nov. 17; Dt. Gladys Williams, Nov. 18; Bro. Alvis Mangum, Nov. 23; and Bro. Thomas Walker, Nov. 29. ull City Elk Lodge No. 317 will hold its monthly meeting December 4 at 7:30 p.m. Che Purple Cross Nurses Unit No. 407 will meet at S35, Dec. 4. ffheressa Hunter Fez Club will meet Sunday, Dec. 7, 5 p.m. Salome Temple No. 704 will meet Monday, Dec. 8, 7:30 p.m. Election of officers will be held. Come in regalia. YWCA Nacirema Club The YWCA Nacirema Club monthly meeting was held Nov. 17 at the home of Mrs. Olivia Wingate. A poem entitled "A Hurtful Word" was read by Mrs. Wrngate who also led the prayer. Mrs. Gertrude Gib son, president, and Miss Hattie While gave the group highlights of the YWCA fellowship dinner which was held at St. Joseph's Church. The Club planned to give gifts to the people in two rest homes; discussed the Christmas dinner which will be held Jan. 2 at the Downtowner; and other business. Mrs. Gibson thanked Mrs. Wingaie for her hospitality. Members present were: Mrs. Wingaie, Mrs. Gibson, Mrs. Dorothy Blakeney, Miss Hailie While, Mrs. Nellie McCrea and Miss Celeste Cunningham. The December meeting will be at the home of Miss Hailie While on December 22. Coping Durham Notes Of interest By Mrs. SymlnerDaye 477-3370 Congratulations to Mr. and Mrs. Eddie Satierwhite, Jr., on the birth of their daughier recently; and to Mr. and Mrs. Tony Burton on the birth of their son. Mrs. Burton is the former Miss Catherine Parrish, daughier of Mr. and Mrs. Willie Parrish. Happy binhday anniversary to James Bumeite and Mrs. Ruby Parrish. Mrs. Hazel Harris has relumed home in Bahama afier visiting her son and his family, Mr. and Mrs. Robert Harris, Jr., in Atlanta, Ga., and son Jack Harris who is a student at Georgia Tech. After joining her sons and their families, they went to Disney World and several other places in Florida. From Georgia, Mrs. Harris went to New York and visited with Mrs. Lizzie Bass; and to Ringwood, New Jersey where she visited her daughier, Deborah, and her family, Mr. and Mrs. J.T. Turner and her grandchildren. The Turners are the parents of a baby girl. Ms. Patricia Branch and Mrs. Mary Branch were hostesses for a baby shower given lo Mrs. Judy Branch onrSunday afternoon at their home on Lakeland Streei. Little Stanley Branch received lots of beautiful gifts. Those present were: Ms. Brennda Snipes, Ms. Sharon Ashe, Mr. andMrs. Pete Cousin, Rougemoni; Ms. Rox- .anna Jaby, Leon Branch, Mr. and Mrs. Nathaniel Parker, Johnny Jaby, Percell and Jerry Branch, Mrs. Margaret J. Parker, Miss Vivian Parker, Mrs. Janie Parker, Mrs. Margarel B. Parker, all of Bahama; Mrs. Virginia Kenion and Mrs. Syminer Parker of Durham. Pray for the sick and shut-in: Mmes. Viola Smith, Eula Johnson, Georgianna Ray, Dianna Montgomery, Esielle Nixon, Maud Lucas, Maggie Parker, Gracie Mack, Lina Glenn, Lillie Eubanks, Pearl Foskey, Julia Robinson, Allie Mae Bass; Little Shirley Sellers; Messers. W.A. Harris, Hosea Moore, Bonnie Lee Allen, Edward Glenn, Alphonzo Claiborne, William Carringion, Lucious Glenn, Samniie Parker and Ed ward Moore. Sincere sympaihy to the families of Mrs. A.L. Cradle, Haywood Woods, Clyde Russ, Woodrow Harris, Clyde Barbee and Ms. Susie Langley. Do you remember the fellow who used to bully the kids in your neighborhood? Remember when he used to "pick on" people just for the fun of it? The bully abuses people whom he can beat because this makes him feel like a "man." It gives him con fidence in himself. It lets him feel that he can ac complish, that he can be successful. It replaces his negative feelings about himself. It gives him an outlet for his pent up emo tions. So, the bully' develops a sense o'f personal security by relishing in the glory of making other people feel insecure. In effect, he is saying: "I feel inferior to you, so by beating you, I don't feel superior to you but I can make you tem porarily inferior to me." The sense of superiority that is obtained from abusing others is a tem porary means of escaping from his world of insecuri ty and inadequacy. However, this activity . must be constantly con ducted or the insecurity will return and the self dislike will reappear. The person who finds a delight in abusing others and relishes in their condi tion of hurt is a person with a major emotional i problem. He is a person who is never likely to com pletely eliminate or per manently counter his in- security. His target is 1 usually another person who makes him feel in secure by reminding him of his inadequacy. The adult bully finds more satisfaction in abus ing someone whom he considers to be superior to himself rather than a per son who is inferior or on NORTH CAROLINA DURHAM COUNTY CREDITOR'S NOTICE HAVING QUALIFIED as the Ex ecutrix of the Estate of Ernest C. Henry, late of Durham County, North Carolina, the undersigned does hereby notify all persons, firms and corporations having claims against said estate to present them to the undersigned or her attorney, C. C. Spaulding, Jr., co Malone, Johnson, DeJarmon and Spaulding, 705 Kent Street, Durham, North Carolina, on or before the 16th day of May, 1981, or this notice will be pleaded in bar of their recovery. All persons indebted to said estate will please make immediate payment to the undersigned at the address of the Executrix given below. This the 15th day of November, 1980. LAURA HENRY BLACK, EXECUTRIX Estate of Ernest C. Henry, Deceased 51 1 Dupree Street Durham, NC 27701 PUBLICATION DATES: The Carolina Times November 15, 22, 29 and Dec. 6, 1980 fi DMtEAinnm mf tXUTT' VmKi i? ATT Lii tNl You are invited to the new free series on health topics sponsored by ' Duke University Medical Center. Monthly, one-hour programs will be held in the Duke North Amphitheater on special health topics. Bring your family rrand friends. Come to one, come to all, and come away with information bound S to be of use and interest. All programs begin at 7:30 p.m. Parking nearby. 1 lie tres Have It December 2 Dr. Bruce Shields The Bully By Dr. Charles W. Faulkner Bridge Winners his level. How does it real ly benefit the bully to kick the family dog or to smash to TV set? Ndt much. He delights in observing a person whom he considers to be superior to himself struggle in an untenable position, physically and emotionally, even when it is not the cause of that condition. When the bully gets the "superior" person down, he never lets him up. He -"needs" to observe the continued negative condi tion of the person whom he considers superior to himself in order to main tain his own emotional and cultural stability. He will do anything necessary to maintain this relation ship. Do not be fooled by the bully who impresses you with his power. If he really felt psychologically powerful, why would he abuse others and enjoy it? Some socio psychologists who have studied Western Culture extensively, think that racism grew out of a psychological sense of in security of the white man who feels threatened by the black. The white man "bullies" the black man to whom he feels inferior. Relegating the black man, or any minority, to a ' culturally inferior position is the only way for the white man to find momen tary escape from his deeply-ingrained sense of inadequacy. If you have questions you would like answered, direct them to Dr. Charles W. Faulkner, P.O. Box 50016, Washington, D.C. 20004. College View Duplicate Bridge, Club winners for November 13: First place-Mrs. Hedy Echard and Doug Kemnitz, second place-Thomas Hunt and Hamlet Wilkins, third place-Mrs. Frank Bright and Mrs. Con nie Patillo, fourth place-Mr. and Mrs. Curtis Norris and fifth place-Wiley Hammond and Greenville Harris. Winners for November 20: First place-Mrs. Hedy Echard and Douglas Kemnitz, second place-Wiley Hammond and Greenville Harris, third, place-Mrs. Virgie Davis and Mrs. Ruth Belts, fourth place-Mr. and Mrs. Randolph Young. No game November 27. 1 TllW I V I I ... , I 1 - ,s. . 4 t Kit Spreading Thanksgiving Members of Boyd & Hodge Court No. 7, Heroines of Jericho, PHA, spread Thanksgiving joy last Saturday to two well deserv ing families by presenting Thanksgiving baskets to them as one of the Court's annual civic projects. The chairman and her com mittee are: Heroines Mary E. Young, Mary Scott and Mary Johnson. Photo by Silas Mayfield t 1MO B.J. 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