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10-THE CAROLINA TIMES-SATURDAY, JULY 31, 1S82 ' ' ' II in " ' 1 - rv . i u V V J MM A, PERU-Jazz musician Miles Davis and his wife, Cice ly Tyson lake a close look at some Peruvian artifacts in downtown Lima. Tyson was a' judge in the Miss Universe Pageant. UPl Photo Up-To-Date GqledaClub The Up-To-Date Galeda Club met at the home of Mrs. Addie Mack on Belvin Avenue recently with Mrs. Elnora Ransom and Mrs. Cora Waddell as co hostesses. Rev. Mrs. Lottie Kee led the devotion. Miss An nie M. Dunigan, president, presided over the meeting and discussion of the trip to "Holy Laiftl USA", planned for September 6. Dinner was served to the following members: Elizabeth Edwards, Doris Holland, Lillie Vanhook, Pauline Hart, Rev. Lottie Kee, Viola Thompson, Alice Wilson, Annie Dunigan, Virginia Thomas, Beatrice Holeman, Snoda Bell, Lena Ellerbee, An inis Jones, Lee Etta Braswell, Mona Perry and Tem ' pie Young. Guests were Isabelle Holder, Willie Webb, Charlie Fulton, Willie Glenn and Rosa Lee Day. ' Coping Happiness Is A Two-Way Street By Dr. Charles W. Faulkner 'I became bored with herhim." ' . . "I got tired of giving everything and receiving nothing in return." ' "Shehe became too predictable." "The relationship was no Ibnger challenging... I ! had conquered herhim and needed another more challenging affair." "It was love On a one-way street; I gave and shehe never returned my affection.'- "I just needed to live by myself for awhile." . : These are but a few expressions uttered by one or , both of the mates in a relationship that is coming to ;an end. These statements seem to have a common ring to them. They .suggest that otoe or both of the mates is in the relationship for what shehe can get . ' out of it and js not prepared to give anything to the relationship in order to make it work, x An enduring, compassionate, loving relationship, that lasts for a long period of time is far more' difificult to achieve than a relationship that lasts for ; weeks or months and then fades into nothingness. Practically anyone can entice a member of the op posite sex to like himher for a few weeks or mon-' ths but making a relationship grow and last. for years requires care, planning, understanding, receiving and giving. Such a relationship requires "giving" to such an extent that one cares very deep ly about the feelings of the mate and expresses this caring often. , A friend once said that she knew that she was in love when she cared more about her spouse than she :cared about herself. But, this feeling must be a two way street in order for the relationship to endure, The insecure person who enters a relationship for the over-riding purpose of obtaining emotional or sexual fulfillment will soon become bored and frustrated due to the absence (or loss) : of the " challenge; complacent and even obnoxious. One or both persons will soon tire of each other and obtain fulfillment only when a new challenging not-so- f, easy-to-obtain mate is found. It is not uncommon for one to search for years to find that. oni person who will give love and understanding, but tire of it and resume the tormenting search. ; i i i K This person may actually chase the loving mate away by accepting love but rejecting, the mate's ef- forts to obtain love in return. This is an ideal case of a person finding a goal, tiring of the joy that it can bring and tossing it aside, then, searching high and low, often without success, for another pot of gold.' We often destroy the very thing that we need. Deeply imbedded within the hard exterior of each of us is a soft, hidden, individual in need of love but often afraid to reveal itself for fear that it will be re jected. If it is ever rejected it will be very very dif- ficult for a person to again find the strength and nerve to wiprcss the soft , inner self that dwells in the depth of our personalities wanting, but fearing, to unveil itself. Only we really know that it is there but -we will seldom reveal it. After all, jsn't.it a sign of weakness to lei someone else know how much, we -need to be loved? Yet, the very person who so badly, needs to be loved by someone else is in no hurry to provide the kind, unselfish love that someone else needs. This is unquestionably the primary cause of unhappiness and failures in many relationships. A young lady once said that when her snousc, in a very tender moment, shed a t car she interpreted that behavior as weakness and sought to end the , relationship. Wouldn't it have been gratifying if she had held her mate tightly and said, "I understand". -We reject the deep emotional needs of others but spend our lives searching for the same thing for, ourselves. Chi Eta PhiSorors Convene In Washington; Donate $18,000 More than 600 members of Chi Eta Phi Sorority met in Washington earlier this month for the 37th Boule and the organization's 50th anniversary celebration. Activities were headquartered at the Washington Hilton Hotel. The convention began July 11 and ended July 18. " . -v In addition to several workshops that covered educational and political issues, the organization also pledged $18,000 in scholarships and other financial support to educational and civic organiza tions. The recipients and amounts were: Nursing scholarship, $15,000 United Negro College Fund, $1000 National Association for Sickle Cell Disease $1000 NAACP $500 ; National Council of Negro Women $500 The sorority, with chapters in 23 states, and in Monrovia; Liberia, West Africa, is affiliated with the National Council of, Negro Women. , The three workshops conducted during the week long convention were: JestMaking jTest -Taking; Legislation and the; New Medicine. Before adjourning, the sorority elected officers for 1983. They are: Sorors Josephine Alexander; Mu Chi, first supreme anti-basileus; Bettie C. McDowell, Alpha, tamias; Hattie M. Opher, Alpha, executive secretary;' Dan Y. Lopez, Theta Chi, national organizer; Annie Griffin, Omicron, historian; and Eloise P. Ellis, Alpha, trustee. Cosby Family 22nd Reunion Held In Virginia Zack Cosby's Family reunion was at The Bryan Park in Richmond, Virginia July 17. Mr. and Mrs. Kenneth Adkins were hosts. Family members from Maryland, Pennsylvania, North Carolina, Virginia, South Carolina and Washington, D.C., as reported by Mrs. Virgie J. Davis, enjoyed greatly the usual family greetings. Younge (Continued From Page 4) later the doctor of educa tion degree in educa tional, administration from Temple University in Philadelphia, Pa. ' He worked at North Carolina Central Univer sity in Durham in 1949 and served as tennis coach from 1949-75 cap turing nummerous CIAA . championships during the 1959-75 period. He served as athletic director and chairman of the depart ment of physical educa tion at NCCU. In 1968 he was chosen by the United States Department of State to serve as director of Up ward Bound Programs for Liberia, West Africa. Dr. Younge served as commissioner of ' the Mid-Eastern ; Athletic ' Conference, 1975-78, and as a special consul tant in 1979. His works have been published in nurmerous educational journals and he authored a book, Games for Children. Dr. Younge is a trustee at Saint Mark A.M.E. Zion Church in Durham. His wife is deceased and he has one son, James, III. . Dr. Younge is taking a leave of absence from his position as senior pro fessor of physical educ tion at North Carolina Central University. Two Quick And Economical Wavs To Stretch Ground Beef Wh,nrhefoodhudBet Condensed soup -tomatoes and ch.i. : un7t nr makes l complicated powaer. ine cpmuina there isn't time to recipes a possibility in prepare a meal, it's minutes by providing a ground beef to the rescue sauce or a blending of every time flavors that would take Economy-minded an extra hour or two of cooks will be pleased to preparation. Its depen know that while most dability assures success food items have risen in every time, which is the price, ground beef costs kind of insurance any have remained stable. , cook appreciates. As little as one-half As an example of what pound of ground I beef can be done with ground can save a cook's reputa- beef and canned con-, tion when four servings densed soup, try Carne of a hiiry-up entree are De Vaca Chili. It takes needed Ground beef is only about .I5minutes to remarkably stretchable make and yields four ser and combines well with vmgs of a skillet dish most pantry staples. In that is good and hearty particular, canned con- To ground beef browned densed soups help to "th '-omon are added stretch ground beef with chili beef soup, cooked '' stvle " elbow macaroni, canned tion is spicily hot and satisfying. For a patio lunch or dinner, here's a recipe that serves six hot Beffy Barbeque Buns. In this quick and easy skillet meal, the ground beef is browned witho nion and green pepper. Condensed bean with bacon soup, barbeque sauce and brown sugar contribute to the enticing aroma of the western soup-burgers served on hamburger buns. Ground beef stretchers made with soup ar easy to create with what's on hand cn easily be adapted . to individual tastes nd preferences. Beefy Barbeque Buns (not in photo) . I pound ground beef ; 'j .cup chopped onion . V cup chopped green pepper J can (I I Vi ounces condensed bean with acori soup '. ': cup barbeque sauce ' V cup water " ' ' . , I tablespoon brown sugar ' . ' Dash Pepper 6 hamburger buns, split arid toasted - J : ' J. -7'. s' ",' In skillct brown beef and cook onion and green pepper until tender (use shortening if necessary). Stir to separate meat; pour off fat. Stir in remaining ingredients. Heat; stir. oc casionally. Serve on buns. Makes 6 sandwiches. CARNK DK VACA (Till J C, Each ol v " )blowtt in m thM advorDaad llomi roquirod to bo roadilv ovallablo for salt i tHm mthimrUtmH ami in Mch AAP fitor. 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