P«8e 16- The Chronlcle-Saturday September 23, 1978 Planning a Funeral DIIDD uo Religious rituals are an important part of many people’s lives. For many, planning a loved one’s fu neral can bring together family and friends. For others, it is a lonely and vulnerable period. Emo tional distress and time pressures can prevent the bereaved person from mak ing informed decisions ne cessary to the planning of the type of funeral he or she wishes for the deceased. The Better Business Bu reau advises those planning a funeral to exercise a little caution. After receiving in formation on the different types of funeral arrange ments, try to reach a deci sion based on the finances available. Avoid offers of “grief counseling” which may serve as an induce ment to buy higher priced services. Decide whether or not certain extras are ne cessary or in keeping with the deceased’s lifestyle. Considering the ex penses involved as well as emotional well-being, it may be a good idea to have a friend assist in choosing a funeral home. He or she may be in a better position to think clearly and find out exactly what services and important information, be fore any agreement is signed. Once a firm price has been set, the reputable funeral director can be helpful in making the ar rangements. It is wise to tell the funeral director about any special death benefits the deceased may have had after a funeral cost has been set., An unscrupulous funeral di rector may tailor his costs Down tips for consumers from your BETTER BUSINESS BUREAU merchandise are included. Once a funeral home has been selected, be sure to obtain an itemized list of expenses, as well as other to fit the amount of insu rance carried by the de ceased. Keeping Funeral Costs The cost for an average funeral these days is ap proximately $12,000. This includes such items as the casket, the vault or liner, grave marker, as well as basic services, depending on the funeral. Because the costs of funerals are so high, many funeral homes are beginning to provide simple “graveside” ser vices. Usually the body is interred within 24 hours, without a viewing, thus eliminating the need for embalming and other ex tras adding to the funeral’s expense. Those interested in in formation on a more cost- effective type of burial may want to look into a memo- Our knowledge of medi cine, and all of science for that matter, has increased greatly in the last century. But there are times when we take this information explosion for granted and assume ihat we have al ways kncjwn these things. Sometimes it is interesting to look back at medical forlklore to see how far we really have come. birth. Mothers used to be prohibited from painting and decorating while they were pregnant. This was a real and useful warning because paint in those days contained a great deal of white lead and turpentine. The lead was truly danger ous and the turpentine was nauseating and unpleasant. through a horse collar three tuberculosis his family, times. of harboring so many cases of the disease, deci- -When a man died of to put a stop to it. Suicide from page one years later. “I don’t think so. Then I was trying to run away from my problems, but I learned that you have to stand up and face them. I learned that you can’t run away from yourself. ’ ’ Denise may never try suicide again, but such is not always the case. Many persons do try several times. The poet Sylvia Plath finally died in her fourth suicide attempt. Some people believe that those who talk about sui cide never attempt it, but that myth has been dis- proven in psychological studies. The majority of suicide victims have stated their intentions to friends and family on at least one occasion before they car ried out their intention. Black psychologist Alvin Poussaint says: “Young blacks, in particular,- are likely to kill themselves after confrontation or per ceived victimization by in stitutional authorities such as police, court, welfare department, or landlord.” “Any patient who has repeatedly stated that ’life is not worth living’ and has expressed a wish to die should be considered a severe risk.” Htiiiiniiitiiiilliiitiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiniiiiiii How can you get your friends and neighbors together at summer’s end to renew acquaintances and exchange vacation news? Simple. Plan an “Indian Summer” party, a traditional and colorful time in early fall when most people are back from vacation and there’s a lot of free time for get-togethers. Decorate your table with the colors of fall, add some fresh flowers and get the conversation flowing with some thirst-quenching Bacardi Roman Punch. Then treat your guests to the piece de re'sistance, a Perfect Fruit Tart, and your reputation as a creative and tasteful party-giver will be assured. PERFECT FRUIT TART 1 egg yolk 1/4 cup softened butter or margarine 3/4 cup granulated sugar 1 cup flour 3 tablespoons cornstarch 1 cup apricot nectar 1/2 cup Bacardi light rum 1 teaspoon grated lemon peel 1/4 cup lemon juice 6 cups assorted sliced or cut-up fresh fruits (apples, oranges, peaches, pears, pineapple, strawberries, bananas) Subscribe to the Chronicle 722-8624 "THESE SAVINGS ARE FOR ME!" 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To day, we use digitalis re fined from this plant. There is, perhaps, no more fertile area of folklore than pregnancy and child- Paints today contain very lilttle of either white lead or turpentine to the expectant mother can paint all she wants, even the walls. Con trary to general belief, there is no danger to her in stretching. Nor is there any danger of her causing twists of knots in a baby’s umbilical cord by hanging out the wash or by handling rope. General medical super stitions cover a wide range of diseases, methods of treatment, and materials. Consider: - A popular treatment for whooping cough consisted of passing the patient Skipper^s Place 1726 N. Liberty St. Phone 725-1011 ★ SPECIAL (All Beef) Hot Dog & Beer *1 00 (Good Thru Sept. 30, 1978) Non. Thru Sat. 8:00-10:00 STORE HOURS Sunday THE Combine egg yolk, butter, 1/4 cup sugar and flour in bowl. Cut with pastry blender or two knives until mixture resembles coarse me^. 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