Community Paae as Tillman Inspires Hope Through Prose By KARF.N M HAVNOS Chronicle Staff Writer Dr. Otis E. Tillman has seemed a miracle worker for generations. f 1 In the old da\s.' he made housecalls, sometimes receiving as little as fruit or vegetables from homegrown gardens as payment When the doctor who made house calls became obsolete. Tillman struggled to open an office and build a thriving practice. . Throughout the years, he has been at bedsides nurs ing children. Today, he has seen some of the same chil dren become grandparents and others pass on to another life. But even in one of the most stressful professions, witnessing the joys of infancy and the -sorrows of death, Tillman, a man of science, has not forgotten the inner faith that keeps him believing in a higher spirit. "During my many years m the practice of medicine, there has not been a day when I have not felt the need of his presence in my work and in my life." Tillman said. "For as 1 followed my many patients ? some from birth, others during life and still others to death ? the awesome power, as well as the tender mercy of God, has been evident." Even in the case of a patient who is walking a thin line between life and death. Tillman remains steadfast in his faith. "Some physicians will abandon their divine trust in time of stress, while many others grow stronger in the faith after personally experiencing the works of the mas ter's hand." Tillman said. "1 am of the opinion that if there be just one physician that still does not believe in God and the power of prayer, the practice of medicine as we know it today is at a great loss." Tillman displays God's presence in his life and in his medical practice in his book, "A Physician s Prayers and Meditations." The paperback is a compilation of Tillman's thoughts and meditations during his years of medicine.. ? He said he hopes the book will inspire its readers. The contents of the meditations may not change one existing human condition or belief, but it is of great hope that the reader would share the inner-most spiritual thoughts of a fellow human attempting to live a Christ inspired life," Tillman says in the book's "Purpose." "I also hope that the lines will be of some benefit and comfort to every Christian and give a gleam of hope to those who have yet to feel the power of his saving grace." Tillman said it was a gleam of hope that made him write the book. "I ran across a young man after the war in the desejt ("Desert Storm")," he said. "He came to me with a worn piece of paper that had one of my meditations written on it. He said during the war he was afraid. He had never been to Sunday school and he didn't know how, to pray. But he said when he read one of my meditations it inspired him and gave him hope. the capacity to help inspire one person to live a better life, I'd better get busy writing these meditations down before I can't do it anymore," Tillman said. ? He admits, though, that there was one time in his years of practice when he began to question his faith ? when he delivered Siamese twins. "I stood there with the babies in my arms. Their lit tle legs and arms were wiggling and the babies were crying," he said. "And I began to question God myself, asking, 'Why would you do this? Why did you do this?' "Later on, as I got older, I saw the purpose and came to know that things work out for the best," Tillman said. His book has prayers and meditations about love. Christian duty, faith, the family, childhood and praise. It also has chapters paralleling faith in times of war and peace. He also expresses his feelings about the impact of the church and community. Tillman said it was his own church and community that helped mold him into the person he is today. " Tillman was born iff the rural town of Wadesboro, N.C. He is a graduate of North Carolina A&T State Uni Dr. Otis E. Tillman versity and received his medical degree at Howard Uni- McAllister of High Point and Bonita Tillman of versity. H* had medical training at Kate Bitting Raleigh. He has three grandchildren. Reynolds Hospital in Winston-Salem and has practiced Tillman said faith through prayer provides hope, no family medicine for nearly 35 years. matter what your profession. "It's all right for someone to give honor to God Although he practices in High Point, Tillman said before undertaking any procedure," he said, "whether he still has close ties to Winston-Salem. His son, Otis it's medicine or law. It's all right to ask God for divine "Chip" Tillman, is following his father's professional guidance to do the right thing. Even if it's in police work footsteps as a third-year resident in internal medicine at ? if you stop and said to yourself, 'God, teach me. North Carolina Baptist Hospital. Tillman's wife, the for- Guide my life and help me do what you would have me mer Barbara Kelly, is a member of Links Inc. in Win- to do." ston-Salem, and his daughter, Tammy Tillman Jones, is To order Tillman's book, send $12.95 plus $2 for a member of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority. postage and handling to: Meditations, PO&r>x-$? Tillman said he has two other daughters, Chiquita High Point, N.C. 27261. Bennle McBride "See me, Bennie McBride for the best price and the best service on any new Chevy, Geo or Used Car." 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