Breast cancer survivors to come together for tea BY COURTNEY GAILLARD THE CHRONICl I Gloria Gregg plans to attend the Susan G. Konien Breast Cancer Survivors Tea next week in spite of being a victim to a recent house fire that put her and her 14-year old daughter out of their home for the time being. The annual event will be held April 10 at the Southeast ern Center for Contemporary Arts (SECCA) and will bring together women from all walks of life who will share their stories of struggle and survival with the disease. Gregg said that it was an honor to attend past teas and be in the company of other women who have survived breast cancer as she has "We've all survived. You hear so many tragic stories of people who have not. It's something about a woman who has had breast cancer. You can tell she pampers her self and really takes time for (herself)." After having faced bouts with cancer three times since 1997 when she was first diag nosed with breast cancer. Gregg has endured countless rounds of chemotherapy and numerous other tests and treat ments, "mlany imposing mas sive side effects on her sys tem. "It's good to share with those women. I find strength there and I listen to women who have survived 25 years, and I always hold onto every bit of hope that there is. To be at the tea is a real honor because so many people do not make it year to year." Just 37 years old, Gregg has survived a mastectomy, cancer of her lymph nodes and a bone Atarrow transplant over the past five years. Gregg spent most of January in the hospital after doctors detected another tumor in her back in December. Since that time, Gregg said, her health has been better but still she is unable to work due to neuropa thy - a disorder of the nervous system - in her hands and feet. Gregg Gregg said lhat she doesn't work currently and tries to volunteer to keep busy until she is up to speed to work full time again. As young as Gregg was when she was first diagnosed with cancer, one would have thought she was not a likely candidate for the disease, especially because Gregg's family history did not include cancer, at least not until her sister also was diagnosed with breast cancer at the age of 34. "I had never thought about getting a breast exam or mam mogram at 31. But I think the age needs to be lowered," said Greg about the recommenda tion that women begin receiv ing yearly mammograms at age 40. Thankful for her family support and the help of friends, doctors and staff at the Comprehensive Cancer Center and members of Agape Faith Church in Clemmons. Gregg said there is nothing that she really ever needs, par ticularly after being temporar ily removed from her home after it caught fire two weeks ago. "I thank God for a really loving family and just try to stay positive," said Gregg, who explained that being well enough to attend her daughter Erica's sporting events is the best dose of medicine for her. Gregg's daughter is a member of the JV basketball and track teams for Reynolds High School. Gregg hopes to educate the public on cancer and the importance of early detection, especially in the African American community, where Gregg feels many allow their fears to cause them to ignore signs of the disease. "(Cancer) is more aggres sive in our race than any other race. I think that ignorance is a death trap, a death sentence. Cancer is not a death sentence. Here I am five years later still going strong. I put my faith, not in the doctors, but in God. and I am thankful for that." Gregg said. Linda Miller, patient advo cate for Cancer Services Inc.. said the cancer tea is a big to do for survivors. Local television news per sonalities Cindy Farmer from Fox 8 and Kimberly Van Scoy from News Channel 12 will emcee the special event. Oncologists from the Forsyth Medical Center Regional Can cer Center and Wake Forest University Baptist Medical Center will be on hand to address the group and to offer encouragement. Miller said the tea is a sig nificant fund-raiseO* for the local affiliate because 75 per cent of the money raised stays right here in the Piedmont. The tea is open to breast can cer survivors only and gives women in all stages of breast cancer a chance to be together to share experiences and encourage one another. 0 "It is so moving to see women come together and participate in this." said Miller, who is a breast cancer survivor. "For women who are in treatment now. they're dif ferent when they leave from when they come to the tea. The neat thing is that so many of us now. we're living with breast cancer and not all dying from it." If you are a breast cancer survivor and would like to sign up for the tea. call (336) 721-0032. The tea will be from 4-6:30 p.m. Cancer Services Inc. will hold a silent auction for breast cancer research on April 11 at Allegacy Federal Credit Union at the Westbrook Plaza location from 6-8:30 p.m. ESR community forum focuses on affordable housing SPECIAL TO THE CHRONICLE ESR conducted the first of five i n i c r a c - tive com munity forums on the evening of Tues d a y . March 26, at Winston Salem Stale University's Anderson Center, as part of the agency's ECHO grant from the Winston-Salem Foundation to help build social capital in the communi ty Dr. Harold Martin, chan cellor of the university, opened the forum after a peri od of informal networking and information gathering from display booths. Next came a series of workshops and facil itated discussions related to the topic of affordable hous ing. More than 125 partici pants attended the event, including ESR clients and community leaders. "ESR, the agency that empowers people to become self-reliant, was awarded a $50,000 ECHO grant by The Winston-Salem Foundation to help build relationships between people who are dif ferent from each other across racial, social and economic lines, " said Twana C. Well man, executive director of ESR. "We at ESR are grateful for this wonderful opportunity to help build social capital.'" The series of community forums - .called "ECHO SoundByte's'' - which also will cover the topics of living wage employment, vocational education, health care cover age for the low-income, and re-entry of the incarcerated into society, will culminate in a Community and Cultural Summit this fall. Core partici pants in the entire series of events will comprise a range of individuals from the socioeconomic spectrum. The next scheduled forum on employment is set for Satur day. April 27, at 9 a.m. at the Wachovia Park Building, on the comer of First and Cherry streets. "Our vision is to help form relationships among people of different socioeconomic cir cumstances, and.' in the process, promote understand ing and better the quality of life for ail of the community - particularly those our agency serves." Wellman said. "ESR is uniquely posi tioned to help build social capital across socioeconomic lines.'" said Dr. Frank James, current chair of the ESR board of directors and chair emeritus of the anesthesiology depart ment of Wake Forest Univer sity Baptist Medical Center. "Our low-wealth clientele, combined with our longevity in the community, has fos tered strong institutional rela tionships over the years." ESR was chartered as the Experiment in Self-Reliance in 1964 as one of a network of Community Action Agencies across the nation established as grass-roots organizations to alleviate poverty and fight injustice. The agency now typically serves some 725 households annually within Forsyth County through its,, self-sufficiency and transi tional housing programs. ESR also administers the county's iififvidual Develop ment Account (IDA) collabo rative. a nationwide program that promotes asset building among the low-income by providing incentive matching funds for individual savings toward first-time homeowner ship. small business start-up. or college education, as well as training sessions in eco See ESR on A10 Martin Eggtraordinary Krispy Kreme t/nd the Winston-Salem Chil dren's Museum gave young people a lot to smile about Saturday. In honor of Caster, a special day of fun was staged at the future site of the museum on Brookstown Avenue. Activities included face painting, a petting zoo, arts and crafts and lots of Krispy Kreme prod ucts. Hundreds took part in the activities, including Sandra Palmer, at right, and her children, Danielle and Maurice. 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