Stress that underage drinking is illegal, experts say BY PAUL COLLINS THI. C HKONK I I According to a national survey of more than 40,000 students. 21.5 per cent of eighth-graders. 39 percent of lOth-graders and 49.8 percent of 12th graders said they had consumed alco hol in the last 30 days, said Bert Wood, president and CEO of Step One Substanc? Abuse Services in Winston-Salem. And 16 percent of eighth-graders. 39 percent of I Oth graders and 52 percent of 12th graders said they had consumed at least five drinks in one setting in the last year. The average age when a child first tries alcohol is 12. Wood said. Parents need to help their children make responsible choices, he said. "Clearly, when you talk about making responsible choices, alcohol is the most accessible and acceptable of all drugs; yet. unfortunately, it is our number one drug problem." , ? 1?, Wood said that parents should stress to their children that it's illegal to drink alcohol under the age of 21 in North Car olina. But ? if their children are drinking anyway, parents should emnha size not drinking and driving. Wood said that young people who use alcohol before the age of 15 are four times more likely to become alcoholics, so if they postpone their use of alcohol sev eral years, they are less likely to have alcohol abuse problems. Susan Rook, public affairs direc tor for Step One. said she is a recov ered alcoholic and recovered drug addict. She said. "I think when par ents assume that luds will drink, that it's a rite of passage and an accepted behavior for teens to drink, (that) adults are giving up their responsibil ity of taking care ^"Children. It's ille gal for anyone under the age of 21 to ;} drink." Some parents look the other way and let young people get away with drinking. Rook said And some par ents buy beer for children and say, "I'd rather you drink at home, where I'll know you'll be safe." she said. She equates that to a parent handing his child a loaded gun with one bul let and saying, "Russian roulette is a rite of passage; go do it." Rook said. "If you are genetically predisposed to alcoholism, and you drink as a teen-ager, your brain begins to change, adapt and expect alcohol. There's no such thing as drinking responsibly as a teen-ager. Il does not exist. The brain does not stop changing until the early 2<)s. I I1UI S Wll) U1C drinking age is 21. Someone who is drinking al 15. 40 percent of those 15 year-olds will become alcohol dependent at some point in their lives." Rook said that by the age ot I x she was urinking regularly, by 35. I had overdosed and ended up in the emergency room with a blood alcohol content of .3: .08 is the legal limit." Rook continued: "Parents want to be good parents and they just don't realize that giv ing their children alco hol or giv ing a wink and a nod if they know their kids have gotten drunk at some party, is really dangerous. I'm just talking about alcohol: I'm not talking about alcoltol as a gateway to other drugs.0 "A kid who is drinking regularly at 13. 14 or 15, something like three quarters of them will try cocaine before they are 18." Rook said, stress ing that drinking at an early age increases the chance that a child "w ill try something else." Rook said that "the stakes are higher these days" than when she was growing up. "I'm 41. The stuff I smoked when I was a teen-ager is 400 times more powerful than what I smoked 30 years ago. Parents just don't realize." She said that every year 1.600 kids in the United States die in alco hol-related car accidents. That does n't include nonfatal injuries. Rook said 70 percent of all teen age pregnancies "occur when the kid is drunk or high.'" In a survey of high school students. 38 percent of high school boys said it is OK to rape a girl if she is passed out and 18 percent of girls said it is OK to rape a girl who is passed out. Rook said. So unwanted pregnancies, sexually transmitted dis eases and even rape can result from drinking. Rook said. But what if a child tells a parent, "You drink alcohol, so why can't I?" Rook said the child is probably trying to make the parent feel guilty. Parents could say something like. "I can legally drink. I'm over the age of 21. I can drink responsibly. It's illegal for you to drink because you're under the age of 21, and 1 can't condone you doing something illegal. The neurobi ology of this is. if you drink while your brain is being formed, you have a good chance of becoming an alco holic." Talking With Kids About Tough Issues - a national campaign by Chil dren Now and the Kaiser Family Foundation - gives these tips about talking to young children about drugs. ? Listen carefully - Student sur veys show that when parents listen to their children's feelings and concerns, their children feel comfortable talk ing with them and are more likely to stay drug-free. ? Role-play ways in which your child can refuse to go along with his friends without becoming a social outcast. ? Encourage choice. Allow your child plenty of opportunity to become a confi dent decision maker. As your child becomes more skilled at making all kinds of good choices, both you and she will feel more secure in her abil ity to make the right decision concerning alcohol if and when' the time arrives. ' ? Provide age-appropriaW ?Wfor mation. ? Be a good example. Try not to reach for a beer the minute yO* come home after a tough day; it sdhdjpthe message that drinking is the UfMway to unwind. Offer dinner gueS^idh alcoholic drinks in addition id *ine and spirits. ? Discuss what makes a good friend. Peer pressure is important in children's involvement with alcohol. ? Build self-esteem. Children who feel good about themselves are much less likely than other kids to turn to illegal substances to get high. Here are some ways parents can build their children's self-esteem: Offer lots of praise for any job well done. If you need to criticize your child, talk about the action, not the person. Assign do able chores. Performing such duties and being praised for them helps your child feel good about himself. Spend one-on-one time with your youngster (at least 15 uninterrupted minutes per child per day). Say. "I love you." ? Information and lessons about drugs are important enough to repeat frequently. ? If you suspect a problem, seek help. Rook Wood File Photo Young people who drink alcohol before the age of 15 are four times more likely to become alcoholics, said Bert Wood, president and CEO of Step One Substance Abuse Services in tijfitlston-Salem. Pile Photo State Rep. Pete Old ham, who is leav ing the General Assembly after this term, said the tax v/ould help curb drinking among teens and young people. Beer from page AI age drinking alone costs the state SI. 16 hillion in medical care, work loss and other costs." ? "It's good for public health. Studies are clear: When beer prices increase, fewer teens die or are injured in car crashes. Family violence and sexually transmitted diseases decrease." Dean Plunkett. vice presi dent of the N.C. Beer and W ine Wholesalers Association, sees the issue quite differently. From a public health/safety perspec tive. he said that before the fed eral government doubled the national beer excise tax in 1992. there had been steady decreases in the incidence of teen drink ing. drunken driving, etc.. but since then, there's been a level ing off. From an economic perspec tive. he said North Carolina's beer excise tax is already the fifth highest in the nation, and doubling it would hurt sales. That would mean the beer wholesalers would be be less able to expand, would hire fewer new drivers or might have to lay off workers during these diffi cult economic limes. It also would lead to people going across the state line to buy beer, for example, when they buy lottery tickets, he said. An increase in the beer tax would be passed on to the con sumer. he said. "A tax like this is very regressive It falls most heavily on people least able to pay for it." "We're the only industry that tells people not to buy their prod uct. I can't think of another industry that tells people to be resnon sible," said Plunkett. who noted that the industry spends millions of dollars a year on its efforts to promote responsible drinking and reduce underage drinking. Reduction of sales from an increased state beer excise tax would reduce the amount of money beer wholesalers could put back into the community, he said. Plunkett said he feels his industry already pays its fair share in state beer excise taxes - about $87.3 million in 2001. In addition to the state beer excise tax. ^Jiich is $1.20 a case, there is a federal excise tax of $1.30 a case, making a total of $2.30 a case in state and federal excise taxes. On lop of that is the sales tax. N.C. Rep. Larry Womble said Friday that he could not officially comment because he haen't seen H.B. 1606 yet. "There is a rumor there will be (proposals to increase taxes on I beer, wine and cigarettes, what they call sin taxes.'...We're in a budget crunch as everybody knows. We have to come up w ith some kind of way to bal ance the budget. I'm looking at all kinds of alternatives. I'm very wide open." He said the General Assem bly will be looking at proposals to increase taxes, cut services, close loop holes and approve a state lottery. N.C. Rep. Warren C. "Pete" Oldham said the proposal to. double the state beer excise tax is "just one of the proposals pre sented to try to raise some rev enue. There is a feeling some things are undertaxed - beer, (hard) liquor and cigarettes....My feeling is go ahead and tax it... " Oldham said he thinks increasing the beer excise tax would not only raise additional state revenue, but would have some health benefits, such as reducing underage drinking and alcohol-related accidents. Bert Wood, the president and CEO of Step One Substance Abuse Services in Winston Salem. said he has mixed feel ings about the proposed beer tax. 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