auwniucu prow Winston-Salem native Bobby Kimbrough looks to bridge the gap between law enforcement and the African-American community with his book "Surviving the Stop." ' * " -? ? ? "*? ? j The Stop from page A1 lives are not lost when the two cross paths during traf fic stops, or even while walking down the street. During an exclusive interview with The Chronicle last week, Kimbrough said he began working on the book over a year ago while watching news reports on the death of Freddie Gray, a 25-year old African-American man who died while being transported by police offi cers to a jail in Baltimore. It was then he began taking notes on the incident and the countless others that have occurred since. Kimbrough mentioned that he decided to direct the book toward the African American community, instead of law enforcement because police are already armed with knowledge and a skill set. He said, "Now is the time for our community to adopt a plan on how to deal with this issue. A thought-out plan is better than a reaction anytime. "Every profession has its own language and cul ture," he continued. "If you don't know the language they're speaking, you can speak out of turn, which in many cases can lead to altercations. That's the main purpose of this book, to arm average citizens with a skill set and knowl edge on how to handle these situations." While many believe complying with officers demands during a stop is giving up your right to freedom of speech, Kimbrough said that is not the message he is trying to send. He said, instead of getting into a altercation on the side of the road, go through the proper chan nels to handle the problem. "I'm not saying dumb yourself down, or give up your rights. What I'm say ing is change the atmos phere," continued Kimbrough. "If you feel like your rights have been violated, tnere is a way to handle it." "The last thing you want to do is get in an alter cation, because over 90 percent of the time they're going to win." When compared to similar books that address the unwritten crime of "dri ving while black," "Surviving the Stop" offers a unique perspective. As an African-American who was raised in the heart of East Winston-Salem matched with his years of experience with the U.S. Department of Justice, Kimbrough understands the struggles of being a black man in America, and some of the struggles police officers face. He mentioned on sever al occasions, even once while driving an undercov er government issued vehi cle, he has been pulled over by the police. i ve oeen stoppeo plenty of times. When peo ple see me driving, they don't see a special agent working for the govern ment. They see an African American," he continued. "But I also understand what the officer is dealing with as well." Kimbrough said every thing noted in "Surviving the Stop" are things that he tells his seven sons, five of which currently drive. He said, "The real problem in this country is poverty. Not only do we have issues in our police department, we have issues in our schools, and in our work places. The real issue is the lack of resources. "The police are not the problem; they are respond ing to the problem. Blacks are not the problem. It's a systemic problem. If we are really going to make a difference, we must By Retired Senior Special Agent - U.S. Department of Justice BOBBY F. KIMBROUGH, JR. with Mercedes L. Miller Submitted photo "Surviving the Stop" is available for pre-order at www.bobbykimbrough.com. The book will be available for purchase nationwide on Tuesday, Aug. 15. address all the issues that black communities across the country are facing." Since officially retiring from law enforcement late last month, Kimbrough has officially changed his title to author, life coach and motivational speaker. Since making the announcement on July 22, which happens to be his birthday, Kimbrough has been traveling the country discussing the book with various media outlets. As a retiree, Kimbrough said, he will continue to ensure the safety and well being of the people in the community, and "Surviving the Stop" is just one of the many ways he plans to do so. "I still feel like I can change some lives, and that's what I plan to do." Kimbrough said. "Surviving the Stop" is available for pre-order at www.bobbykimbrough.co m. The book will be avail able for purchase nation wide on Tuesday, Aug. 15. For more information on the book, contact Denise Smith at denise .smith@bfkinc .com. ? I i vi if 1 iAi I n ^ I*J 1*1 ^Lj'J I ' I I Start your banking relationship with us. BNC Beginnings Checking Features: ? No minimum balance ? Mobile Check Deposit1 ? Text Alerts1 ? No monthly service charge when you enroll to receive e-Statements2 ? Online and Mobile Banking1 ? ATM/Debit card 1 Message, data, connectivity and usage rates may apply. Contact your wireless service provider for details. 2 S5 monthly service charge for paper statements nppnpvp I BrSlSI 4\9j f tTtlMftj i