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— By Carole B* Ricks ? Obedience May Be Respite Of Fear Dear Carole: You’re a woman* so I don’t realty expect yon to be able to give me the right answer about this question. But I’ll ask yon anyway. Since the man is the bend of the household, isn’t it okay for him to do whatever he has to do to get his family tc respect and obey him? **;: |,4'. t.:; < No. Since you asked my opin ion, my answer is no. It is not okay for the hum to do what ever be has to do to get his family’s raped and to have them obey mm. Your question impHeg that Aimin««ffp »m< fear may be more important to you dan love and mutual respect. Obedence may be the rrisult of fear. But whea people are forced into obedience to the extent that they can’t be free to be in dividuals, they soon rebeL Your feelings about yourself, yaw family and women, in gen eral, are expraoed in a way that says you aswumr that domi nance will gain respect Not Dear Carole: - -For weeks I have been rend ing your column and trying to make up my mind about writii* ' you. I wont really write you this time either. What I mean is that I have to get my nerve together before Tm ready to tell you about my problem. Before I tell you what's bo thering me, I need to know a few things. First, how do I know you won’t one my name? Second, where do you get your infor mation? Last, if you can’t help me, can you tell me where to get help? Depending on bow you answer these questions, I might decide to write to you. No name now Dear No Naam New: ..I appreciate the time and effort you took to write. 1 will be glad to respond to yow ques tions. Your name won’t be used unless you say It’s okay to use it My response to your concerns is based an my education and .over 11 years experience as a family therapist, educator, con sultant and member of the board of directors of numerous hi Brian service agencies. My profession al affiliations give me access to a host of professional persons with , whom I may consult when the My previous background and JjMPCS£fit pi~ofesSK^^^ • *~ enable me to be aware of help ity and others may offer. If, in •my judgement, or vours. vour concerns require information that goes beyond the scope of this column, please send a self stamped envelope so that adfi tianal information can be sent to you. You are invited to write whenever you feel that you are ready to do so. I-------;-1 TR YON MALL MOVIE HOUSE-GAME ROOM -Being completely renovated And Game Room Try on Mall Theatre To Reopen As Movie House Hw ‘ J-r* i mission will include s dis count wyi to be used toward the jftrhif of game room t One of the p*** —»■ will fee tore over 100 of the newest electronic video game room win cater to younger children six to 10 years old. This wdl be Muttt-ChHasa’s first gams room oecDcaiea 10 cnuarai in that age range. “We have plenty of rooas at^hgq -- - 11 — Tryon Mall location,” ex plained Schrader, “so we thought we would try to appeal to them, too.” Besides its one dollar admission policy, the 1*701 Mall Theatre will be operated to provide for the security of family mem ben using the facilities. MaM-ChKnia, Ltd. j^a Charlotte-based thearfe chain that owns and ope rates 7» theatres in the About Local News 6 Events In Your Area. Write To . ffiJXrcKWfc . P:0. Box 30144 Charlotte, NC 28230 We Want To Hear From YOU! 4^ *-• '-V . ? “ ; ‘i£[ <r - - . - _ anrniHBnncpuMMMi ■JRWCWWtHI MU!
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