Deserve Respect I_ We have read with considerable interest Charlotte attorney Ralph McMillan’s hTticie on Charlotte’s busing “success” that appeared on the editorial page of the WsU Street Journal last week. Mr. McMillan takes strong exception to otlr lo£al School system being labeled “a shining example of how busing can succeed in accomplishing desegregation without lowering the quality of. education.,r Likewise, we have read editorials in the Charlotte Observer and the Charlotte News that challenge 'Mr. McMiliian’s viewpoint on the school busing issue. U' Nevertheless, these opposing perspec tives, the historic facts of busing; the merits of using the diminishing disparity on competency test scores between black and white students to judge the success or failure of' busing, and the plight of those parents - both white and black - who oppose busing for their ctiiidrerl all sCem irrelevant to the real tfhd larger challenge of the public schools. f While too many adult Americans cannot (of" won’t integrate' their neighborhoods, churches or social organizations; cannot'or won't quit smoking and drinking alcoholic beverages; canriot of won’t lead their children in prayer in the home; cannot or worft practice honesty and trustworthyness in their work and priVate lives; and cannot or won’t instill the work ethic In their children as itrelates to academic study and othdr aspects of thd£r yottng lives. These failings of a large number of American parents havd shifted an enormous and unfair burden to the pubic school system. Thus many public schools . around the nation are being criticized by these same parents because df a presumed lack of adequate academic standards. The schools are being prtesured to iujslime an even greater rede in rearing children or serving as foster parents. The price that i many schools pay for these pressures are fe lowef academic standards, i-. . 7 V ' tJsl ! Public School integration has placed the moral responsibility for creating ,a fairer - jj^and more just society on the backs of public ;! yokth, teachefs and administrators because in the larger society adults lack the courage to assume this responsibility. This is evident by our still largely segregated residential neighborhoods that result in the need for school busing. Similarity, such adults attend segregated churches and sbcial functions. How then can we expect children to believe and understand the values in the dignity of #11 people. Recently, television commercials have been used to remind young people of .the £jj dangers of smoking and dririking. Unfortun ately, such commercials are often followed by other commercials encouraging adults to dfink beer and making smoking appear glamorous. Likewise, we adults don’t have the courage to stop stnoki'ng, arid thus set examples for our children, so 'again we place the burden on the school to establish ways and means to stop students on School grounds. f Recently it was noted in the media that cheating in the local public schools is an accepted practice by students. This attitude of dishonesty is too often encouraged by indifferent teachers and parents who practice other forms of dishonesty - untruthfulness on your income tax return is one example. Finally, while much controversy has arisen over the question of prayer in the public schools, we have to wonder how many adults have daily prayer in their homes With their children. We have made theSe observations not to benttle the significance of the school busing. issue but rather as a defense of school busing and many social' burdens that are placed on the public schools. This has occurred because the larger adult community refuses to assume its responsi bility for bringing about Social change. Then out of its Own sense of guilt for failing to assume its proper responsibilities these same adults attack the public school by saying they don't have high academic standards. * .V Thus,' until adult America begins to assume a true sehse ofresponsibility in its - values, attitudes and behavior, wC may have school busing arid the presumption but not the fact of substandard public school education.*T • 5>./ Bernhard Goetz !: ,i: The now well-known “Death Wish” folk hefo Bernhard Goetz who Shot fotfr youth oh a New York City Subway train for frying to rob him was indicted for crfmfnal possession of a weapon. However, the grandjury did not lhdict him for attempted tnurder. ' • T- ' We fully agree with this decision because it Is utterly foolish to assume through a court of law that a person does not havfe the right to protect himself. However, Air. Goetz now may face the equally foolish . ‘r/u S1, fAs- ■ ■ tj* ■ -J“- > Charge of having violated “the civilrights of these youth.” We have' to wonder how a person'acting in self-defense can be said to be violating4iis attacker's civil rights. ' It is high time that We got some Sense into our laws so that citizens can feel secure and safe ill their travels especially in these large dues. New York City is a dangerous place to live arid work. Thus, if the police are not around to protect citizens, citizens must protect themselves, if this is not Justice and fair play nothing else is. mzwwwwz- I fife/ STOP OA/lYFUGHTSOF i FMH BLACK COM WHITES APPEAR DETERMINED TO FORFEIT THE CITIES VO BLACKS FT IS INCONCEIVABLE THAT THE PEOPLE WHO THROUGH FORCED SLAVE ... f BLACK PRESS POLITICIAN^ BUSINESSMAN DOCTORS LAWYERS ARTISTS v TEACHERS ; | MINISTERS ’ yOR HERS COMMUNITY ORGANIZATIONS SOCIAL WORKER 55 FRATERNAL 6R0U It's a phenomenon so new that the census bureau hasn’t started collecting data about it — women who bear the costs of child support. It has happened so gradually that most jurisdictions have not found it necessary to take note. Even estimates are hard to come by. Still, the topic is attracting a great deal of national atten tion. A general backlash against feminism is being played out in the family courts of this country and un fortunately, its happening away from all; public scrutiny. All this grows from the gradual erosion of one of the cherished assumptions of contemporary American life that the mother almost invariably gets custody of the children. In the 1970s the courts and the legislatures began mandating equal treatment of the sexes. Fathers’ rights groups arose to contest the traditional pat terns of granting custody. In approximately 90 per cent of divorces which custody is uncontested, the children continue to end up with the mother. However in contested cases a different story arises. Recentstudies * • ' -4 Sabrina Johnson have found that fathers who ask for custody win 90 to 63 percent of the time. Since women no longer feel assured of getting custody the fact remains that the im pact outside of court is the most difficult to cope with. The bargaining climate in uncontested cases has chang ed substantially: women who are afraid of losing custody will trade away anything else — child support, property, alimony — to keep it from happening. They end up bargaining away substantial amounts of their potential financial recovery. In the cases where the Irk The Charlotte Post . jg-•gBBESgSSBSaSBSSSi North Carolina’s Fastest Growing Weekly 704-376-0496 ‘The People’s Newspaper’ 106 Years Of Continuous Service Bill Johnson Editor, Pub. Bernard Reeves Gen. Mgr Fran Bradley Adv. Mgr Dannette Gaither Of. Mgr. Published Every Thursday By The Charlotte Post Publishing Company, Inc. Main Office; 1531S Camden Road Charlotte, N.C. 28203 \ ^ j.1 -■ ■■■«*. ajlMhUMi' Second Class Postage Paid at Charlotte — * *jt - " '' « iii. Member, National Newspaper Publishers’ Association North Carolina Black Publishers Association -U '.; - National Advertising * Representative; Amalgamated Publishers, •^Inc. ? One Year Subscription Rate One Year-$17.76 Payable In Advance Alfred* L. Madison Special To The Post In the tenth National Urban League report; “State of Black America,” League President John Jacob* released the report at the time when the country is enjoying a strong economic recovery, and Just before the inauguration of President Reagan who won a landslide victory. Jacob* said that Black people are not included in the recovery, they were not Included in Reagan’s landslide. He only received one out of every ten Black vote*. The League President stated that there is a campaign to convince the American public that the failure of Black* to vote for Reagan lies in their proDemocratic allegiance. He denies that fact, and said the answer is found in the Administration’s policy Which is damaging to their deepest interests. “There has been retrogression in the Civil Rights arena, with the government waging war on affirmative action programs respon sible for Black breakthroughs in education and in em ployment There have been persistent cut* In social service programs that the poor iWly on for survival. The numbers of poor people have inersesed, in part because of those policies cuts,” said Jacobs The report states that white unemployment which is now six percent is considered full employment, contrasted with Black unemployment which ly above fifteen percent, considered deoresshm-ievel. Blacks made rapid Stride* towards parity in th* sixties and seventies, but they have bean sliding, luck m the eighties The report emplores Stacks to reverse that trend In IMS. • tiacons gave signs of hope for SB. The American spirit refvwes to accept the fact that this nation ia divided between a prosperous majority and an impoverished minority, the revival of the inte racts! non-partisan movement for racial Justice, the Free South Africa Movement which croaaee religious, conservatives, liberals and non-par tisan groups, increased political participation which was fueled by Jesse Jackson’* campaign, Repre sentative William Gray’s election as chairman of the House Budget committee which places him in a moat Important budget making position end’s new spirit of concern by the Black community itself. Community concern takes form in focusing on teen-age pregnancy, education, crime and stratfhenirW the Black family. The report states that some problems can only be solved by Rlaeks themselves, and others require cooperation of both government and the private sector. Without government and private involvement, poverty win continue Jacobs calls on corporate America to accept iti social responsibility by providing a training program for skilled workers that it needs. Business cannot thrive in the midst of urban decay, widespread poverty and social alienation. He stated that ghetto problems are not insoluble as some economists are trying to portray. Jacobs considered these as rigid views of fundamentalists, and he calls it a mean spirit. He says that President Reagan should end tMs mean spirit. Jacobs stated that while he H hopeful that Reagan in his second term will be more forthcoming in reaching out to Blacks and the poof, he sees Very little evidence that taking place. Jacobs listed some steps the President must take to demonstrate his concern for racial Justice: Support the '86 Civil Rights bill now before congress, which protectr minorities and woman from discrim inatlon that corrects the Supreme Court’s Grove City decision. Reappraise his ’’Constructive Engagement” South African policy which secures America's apartheid friendship The President should instruct Administration officials to cool their rhetoric and stop fanning the flames of racial polarization by attacking Black organizations and affirmative action principles. Ending the shameful exclusion of Blacks from key positions TMs is the worst appointment record of minorities in 38 years Order a moratorium on budget cuts of successful programs that help America’s 35 million poor. Order Cabinet and agency heads to institute regular meeting with leaders of the Black and the voluntary sector, and also to meet with those Individuals himself.The purpose of these meetings are not political stroking but a dialogue between those who have power and their constituents who are deeply affected by that power. Jacobs says, “If this Administra tion can institute a new dialogue with Russia which it has called an evil empire, it can institute a new dialogue with that part of America that has time and again proved by its blood, sweat and tears its loyalty to America and to the principles of freedom and justice upon which otr nation is based.”, • f' r Jacobs calls on Mr. Reagan to break the racial pattern that keeps white end Mack Americans in a state of self-defeating polarisation and to begin the process that will make ’» State of Mack America a more hopeful report. The Urban League panel stated that it Is allright for the President to mast with many groups, including the Heritage Foundation but ha miat also mast with groups that question his policies. They said that schools cause white children to master technology while Black children are mastered by technology. Both the electronic and priat media are underrepresented by Blacks end they continue to misrepresent Blacks, except occasional laudableness of minorities The media undermine Black children’s image, causii* them to be deprived educationally and culturaRy, Black JfeMhrs are subjected to harsh media treatment The news madia employ a double standard which results in more negative treatment of Blacks than whites. the ex-spoude had money and could child a “better” life, support payment take up percent of the average salary. There is no parable figure for however it has been that $40 plus per week much bigger bite woman’s salary man’s. data that proves how good bad female or mala, is, but one conciu mains somewhat everybody’s Impression mothers who are required to pay support, they risk greater hardship. The at titude of “equal rights means you are going to pay too” and wage Inequity is hurting women rather hard. A general stands gests the parent's abi pay versus the child’s works in theory necessarily in practice courts use guidelines charts but even they lose uniformity in this matter; i •walon workahop on “Angr-r-*» beginning February • (Wedneeda from 10:M a.m.-l* noon at] WoraanReack Center. We I discover our angry feeling* 1 learn to make the beet tme o< ti ... thia will he tie foeae efl workahop. Thla unique workahop win facilitated by Betty Creek and l