6B RELIGIOlWlie gjiatlaBc ^i« Thursday, May 11,2006 E-mail delivery snafii brings couple together Continued from page 5B cious free time conversing online with Don. “I gave him my cell (phone) number in case he was ever in Carlisle,” Sherry said. “I never give that out.” While they were stiU online, Don called Sherry on her cell phone just to make sure it worked, he said. Two weeks later, when Don was returning home from an appointment near Carlisle, he called Sherry and asked her to dinner, and Sherry finally found out he was sin gle. “I don’t do dinner,” Sherry said. “I said, How about cof fee?” The two met at an all-night restaurant and talked for hours about spirituality and the ministry. Since they were already at ease with each other, they went to a local mall and then to dinner. Sherry made it clear she wasn’t looking for a relation ship. “I was scoping out the ter rain to see what would hap pen,” Don said. “I didn’t expect anything to come of it.” They kept in contact by e- mail, and Don invited Sherry to Johnstown in November 2003. She made the drive against her better Judgment. ' That weekend, -Don took Sherry to a coffee shop for lunch and then to dinner at an area restaurant. When a member of his con gregation saw him holding hands with Sherry at the cof fee shop, the cat was out of the bag. Just before Christmas, they were talking about marriage, but Sherry fretted this wasn’t part of her plan. ‘Tou date for a year, and you’re engaged for a year,” she said. “It wasn’t the plan in my head, but my heart and spirit had other plans.” Sherry started looking for jobs in Johnstown and planned to get work and an apartment before taking any matrimonial plunges. Her Christian counselor BIG VOICES ' Silver Mwntiptk Oiurch itie futfllling a-.4.9ajm W«5. 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The final straw came when a close friend asked, "If God is telbng you to do something, why aren’t you following?” Continuing to resist, Sherry mentioned her cruise, which she would later find out was canceled, and her baseball tickets. She could get married after the championship game in September, she decided, but Don started school in August. If they got married before July, Sherry was willing to travel to see her baseball games, but with June and July being prime wedding times, venues weren’t avail able. As the couple looked at April or May, they found the only time they could reserve was May 15, 2004. Now that the date was set, the next hurdle was figuring out how to have two cere monies—one in Carlisle and one in Johnstown. The May 15 date would be their wedding at the Carlisle Brethren in Christ Church. The reaffirmation of their vows would take place May 23 at Centennial. “It was January, and she had five months to plan two weddings,” Don said. Don wrote the ceremony for Carlisle, and Sherry planned their escape from the recep tion. “At 4 p.m., the band played Take Me Out to the Ball Game, and we left for a Har risburg Senators game at 6:05,” Sherry said. For the Johnstown reaffir mation, Don’s superinten dent did things a little differ ently and Sherry found out about the changes five min utes before the ceremony. Sherry spent her honey moon in Carlisle, packing her belongings, but the couple did go camping for a week in June. In addition to serving as pastor of Centennial, Don works full-time as a salesman at Miller Auto Parts near South Fork. Sherry works as a part- time school bus driver for Griffith Transportation Inc., Boswell. She also is the director of Angel Food Ministries for Centennial, which now works out of the Davidsville Com munity Church and School. The Rudges also have a music ministry in which Don plays guitar and Sherry plays piano and organ, but they haven’t had much time for it lately. “As a United Methodist pastor, I can only make plans for a year at a time,” Don said. ‘When I get a call, we have to move.” PHOTO/WADE NASH Voices of Emmanuel’s choir celebrated 33 years of singing last Sunday at New Emmanuel Congregational United Church of Christ, located at 3546 Beatties Ford Road. “Excellence in Ministry” Little Rock A.M.E. Zion Church • God is Glorified • Jesus is Magnified • People are Edified • Faith is Fortified • Ministry is Multiplied - Join Us For Service Sunday School 9 a.m. • Worship ^Oam Bible Study for “ALL” Ages...We(d. No ble Stud y for “ALL” Ages...Wed. Noon & 7 pm 401 N. McDowell St., Charlotte, NC 28204 www.Uttlerockamezion.org Dr. Dwayne A. Walker, Pastor Che Charlotte ^ost CHURCH DIRECTORY AME • AME ZION Greater Bethel AME Chijcfi QaaErGersertBreAMearCfudi 201 Grandri Road S31 Cam(sjs Street Dr. Wfelter V. 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Oiftord Matthews, Jr. 1401 NorthAlen Street (704)3759650 Pastor Gregory K. Moss, Sr. (704)334-5309 Greater Providence Baptist Church 2000 Mitton Road Rrsl Ml 2on Baptist Church Dr.FredGibson 1515 Remount Road (704) 532-^8 Dr. C. V. Owens University Park Baptist Church 6029 Beatties Ford Road Rev. Dr. Claude R. Alexander Trinity Park Baptist Church 9115TriniW Rd. Rev. Enc 1^. Miller (704)39343130 CME SEVENTH DAY Paikwood instilutnnal CUE Church 802 Tom Hunter Road Herv, Roderi* D, Lewis, Sr. (704)921-4915 Ni3ttieasl SDA Church 827 Tom Hijiter Road Pastor, Frank L Hane!, Sr. (704)394-5615 EPISCOPAL No Walls Ministry 3700 Freedom Dr. Bishop Steve L. Carlton (704)392-5100 LUTHERAN AOundant Lite TaOemacle 725 Vaileydala Road Bishop T.L Glenn (704)^8274 Prince ot Peace Lutheran Church 3001 Beatties Ford Road Rev. Quentin G. Poulscn NON-DENOMINATIONAL Greater Salem Church 5318 Salem Church Road Dr. Anthony L JinwrighI (704)399-5448 New Bilh Chiisliar Fellcwship Cochrane Middle School 6400SiarH Greater Salem at the Lake Cornelius Elementary Sctxxil 21126 CatawOa Avenue Pastry Harriet UNITED METHODIST Simpson-GIleapie United Methodist Church 3545 Seatliss Ford Road Rev. Waiter Pegues (704)388-2717 Sherry who is in her early 40s, understands that it’s part of the call. Don, who is in his early 50s, believes that tying the knot life makes the marriage stronger. “It prepares you better for it,” he said. “You accept the fact of life as it really is.”' Sherry doesn’t believe in coincidence, but in what she calls "(jodincidence.” “God hasn’t just called us to marriage, he called us to min istry together,” Sherry said. “We made a commitment to God in marriage and min istry.” Sherry believes the secret to a happy marriage is no returns. “Your, intentions are forev er,” she said. “Every day we say we love each other and were happy. We intend to continue to love each other and be happy even if we hit some bumps.” “May 15, 2004, was the first day of the rest of our lives,” Don said. 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