Satly <2ar Ippl Police Roundup University Wednesday, Feb. 14 ■ At 1:18 a.m., University police responded to a call from a female secu rity officer who was experiencing a panic attack on Level 3 of the Business School parking deck. EMS arrived on the scene and brought her to the UNC Emergency Room, reports state. Tuesday, Feb. 13 ■ At 9:03 a.m. University police received a report of a larceny in Lenoir Dining Hall. A woman said her wallet was taken when she left it on a table in the dining hall while getting food. The blue leather wallet included cash, credit cards and a bus pass, reports state. There are no suspects at this time. City Wednesday, Feb. 14 ■ Chapel Hill police received reports of vandalism at 12:55 a.m. at a parking lot on the 100 block of East Franklin Street. Reports state that the suspect punc tured the tires of a 1997 Nissan Maxima, causing S4OO in damage. Prosecution was declined to a suspect in the case. ■ Chapel Hill police received reports of vandalism at 12:55 a.m. at a parking lot on the 100 block of East Franklin St. Reports state that the suspect punc tured the tires of a 1999 Pontiac Gran Prix, causing S4OO in damage. Prosecution declined to name a sus pect in the case. Tuesday, Feb. 13 ■ Chapel Hill police received reports of breaking and entering to a motor vehicle at 12 p.m. Reports state that an unknown sub ject broke into a 1987 Honda Civic parked in an impound lot, causing S2OO in damage to a right front window. Leads are exhausted on the case. ■ Chapel Hill police received ' reports of breaking and entering to a ' motor vehicle at 12 p.m. ; Reports state that an unknown sub ject broke into a 1989 Dodge Colt • parked in an impound lot, causing S2OO • damage to the right front window. Leads are exhausted in the case. ■ Chapel Hill police received | reports of breaking and entering to a motor vehicle at 12 p.m. Reports state that an unknown sub ject broke into a 1986 Honda Prelude ! parked in an impound lot, causing S2OO I damage to the left front window. Leads are exhausted on the case. ■ Chapel Hill police arrested • Ishmael David Hamilton Jr., 18, of ■ 501A Edward Drive. Reports state that Hamilton was ! arrested on an outstanding warrant I from damage to real property. He was ; also found to be in possession of 38 • grams of crack cocaine at the time of his < arrest, reports state. . He was charged with one misde meanor count of damage to real prop- I erty and one felony count of possession J with intent to sell or deliver. ; He was confined in Orange County {Jail on a $5,000 secured bond. His court ■ date was set for Feb. 14 at Orange i County District Court in Hillsborough. ' ■ Chapel Hill police received J reports of breaking and entering and ; larceny from a residence at 6 a.m. | The incident occurred on Woodhaven Drive. Reports state that an unknown sub ject entered the home and took a neck < lace. { The case is under further investiga {tion. J ■ Chapel Hill police received {reports of larceny of a motor vehicle at {7:45 a.m. • Reports state that an unknown sub ject took a silver Honda Accord worth *523,000 from a residence on Airport ’Road. Also taken was various clothing {worth S3OO and a Gameboy worth S6O. J The case is under further investiga {tion. £ ■ Chapel Hill police received Jjeports of vandalism to a motor vehicle Cat 6 p.m. }; The incident occurred at a residence Jon Airport Road. Reports state that an {unknown subject scratched a 1996 {Toyota Tacoma, causing SSOO in dam {age. Leads are exhausted in the case. J! ■ Chapel Hill police received (reports of larceny at 11:38 a.m. at East {Chapel Hill High School at 500 Weaver .Dairy Road. I Reports state that an unknown sub ject took a Nokia cell phone worth $l3O {from a bookbag. J Leads are exhausted in the case. Grants Help Group Lend 'A Helping Hand' Most of the money awarded to A Helping Hand will be put toward expanding local respite care services. Bv Robert Cummings Staff Writer An area nonprofit organization has been awarded two grants totaling $37,400 from groups on both the local and national levels to help expand care of Chapel Hill’s elderly and disabled. A Helping Hand has provided care to senior citizens and the disabled since May 1995, when the group was found ed. With the grant funds, the organiza- V-Day Puts New Spin on Holiday The event, being held on college campuses across the nation, aims to raise awareness about violence against women worldwide. By Paige Ammons Staff Writer While many UNC students focused on romantic thoughts this Valentine’s Day, several students took the opportunity to learn about the horrors of female genital mutila tion in different societies. “Violence Against Women as a Religious Ritual,” a program held at the Wesley Foundation, was part of the V-Day Initiative, a worldwide effort to get the word out about vio lence against women. Kim Benton, the founder of V- Day on UNC’s campus, presented video clips and led a discussion. She said the purpose of the program was to inform students of the horrors that women in other cultures must endure. “This presentation shows exactly what other women around the world are dealing with and how lucky we are,” she said. Benton showed video clips from the Oprah Winfrey show and a doc umentary-style movie with writer Alice Walker titled “Warrior Marks.” In the Oprah clip, the talk-show host introduced various injustices to women, including the trafficking of women and the practice of female genital mutilation. “In this cultural Humor, Violence Come to Town in 'Vagina' By Adam Farabee Staff Writer “‘Vagina.’ It doesn’t matter how many times you say it, it never sounds like a word you want to say.” That’s Eve Ensler in the prologue to her popular play “The Vagina Monologues,” which has become the centerpiece of a national move ment to end violence against women. In honor of V-Day 2001, Ensler’s Obie Award-winning play will be performed at Madison Square Garden in New York and at more than 200 colleges nationwide, including UNC. The play opens tonight at the historic Haymakers Theatre. Ensler is not only an award-win ning playwright, screenwriter and director but also an activist for women’s rights around the world. New Romance Site Woos Lovers With Creative Ideas LoveLifeMatters.com gears its services toward adults aged 25 to 40 who are currently in relationships. By Stephanie Gunter Staff Writer Appropriately launched on the most romantic day of the year, a local man is hoping his new Web site will help cou ples keep the sparks flying. Scott McClure of Chapel Hill has launched LoveLifeMatters.com, a site designed to provide people with infor mation about relationships. “The mission of the site is kind of like a one-stop shop for information about romance,” said Ashley Sharp, a free lance media relations coordinator for tion will have more opportunities for volunteers to get involved. The grants were provided by two groups. One group, the Robert Wood Johnson Foundation, will assist A Helping Hand through a program called Faith In Action, providing $35,000. A Helping Hand provides two basic types of services. One is to aid in food preparation or transportation. The sec ond program is their respite care ser vices, where volunteers are able to pro vide relief to full-time caregivers for a few hours each week. The money from Faith In Action will be provided over a 30-month period to help expand A Helping Hand’s respite care efforts. “Faith In Action will help our neigh- f: ...,J (fi j I |JI PjyVu, : \ i j sin II .. jGg JSp HPBUiHBNB* , j]; j -r —* mm-' I m\ J 'H 1\ /’ Jjf MwS r U' / I F *'•‘‘fjjifrv. i c i v tj*? ...vI'M Hfj f*' . \ DTH/EMILY NETZEL Senior Jesse Moore, founder of the White Ribbon Campaign, an orqanization for men concerned about sexual assault, speaks to students in the Pit on Wednesday about sexual violence. and religious practice, part or all of the outer female genitalia is removed,” Benton said, citing the World Health Organization as her source. In some cases, only the clitoris is removed, but in other instances, the outer and inner She is responsible for the world wide V-Day movement to stop vio lence against women. Whether it’s female genital mutilation in Africa, spousal abuse in the United States or acid burn ings in India, she is working toward the common goal of peace. “It’s such a pow erful issue that crosses over a lot of boundaries and brings people together,” Ensler said. 0 SUSAN JOHANN/VILLARD BOOKS Author Eve Ensler Ensler is, however, best known for her extremely successful play, “The Vagina Monologues.” The piece began as a one-woman show the company. McClure said he found it very diffi cult to find information on the Web about romance without it being pornog raphy or information in some obscure scientific article. “To me, it was very frustrating to find anything about romance or sexual inti macy on the Web,” he said. Although anyone can visit the site, Sharp said the site is primarily geared for people in relationships. “We’re targeting, ideally, adults 25-40 (years old),” McClure said. “We don’t want to go after the teenage (crowd). We’re trying to deal with romance in a mature fashion for those that are trying to maintain the pas sion.” McClure said he started the site because of some statistics he considered scary concerning intimacy and relation News bors maintain then independence by providing assis tance with daily activities,” said Cathy Ahrendsen, the founder and executive director of A Helping Hand. The other group, the Home “A Helping Hand met exactly the goals we had set out. It was a perfect match for what we wanted to do. ” Marlys Mitchell Home Health Foundation Chairwoman Health Foundation of Chapel Hill, will provide an additional $2,400 aimed at furthering all of the organization’s ser vices. “A Helping Hand met exactly the goals we had set out,” said Marlys Mitchell, the foundation chairwoman for labia are cut off as well. She said female genital mutilation is practiced in 28 African countries, and between 120 million and 140 mil lion girls are exposed to this rituaL The mutilation has temporary effects on performed by Ensler off-off- Broadway four years ago. “The Vagina Monologues” is alternately hilari ous and deeply disturbing. But as important as the serious mono logues are - the tribute to Bosnian rape vic tims, an eyewit ness report about the wonder of childbirth - humor is the show’s real strength. Ensler said coming up with the idea for the play was entirely an accident. She was talking to a friend about vaginas and started saying things that really sur- ships. “Society has a lot of real issues with family values and relationships,” he said. Plus McClure said he gets to combine business with pleasure. McClure moved to Chapel Hill last year to complete his master’s in business administration. He has since postponed his education to start LoveLifeMatters. “I’ve always been interested in romance,” he said. “I get to combine my passion with my business.” The site offers a variety of informa tion and creative ideas for flirting and dating, including a secret admirer sec tion, forget-me-nots and a stories and poll section where visitors can con tribute ideas or comments. Right now the company is self-fund ed, but the site has the potential to make the Home Health Foundation. “It was a perfect match for what we wanted to do. It was kind of easy." Ahrendsen said the grant money would extend care and services to a total of 60 clients, leaving only 27 on the waiting list The organization currently utilizes 47 volunteers, 90 percent of whom Ahrendsen said are UNC students. Ben Wood, a sophomore biology major, said he discovered A Helping Hand when the group delivered a pre- the woman including pain, shock and infection. Long-term effects can be more devastating and might include the increase in cases of AIDS. See V-DAY, Page 9 prised her. Ensler realized she had no idea what women thought about their vaginas, she said. “So I started casually saying to people, what do you think about your vagina? Everything that any woman said was so interesting and profound that before I knew it I was sucked down the vagina trail, and I’ve been there for many years now,” she said. Ensler hopes that the movement will be embraced by men as well as women. “I think that it is really important that men show support and become involved,” she said. The incredibly dramatic impact that the show can have on men was made obvious when the national tom made a stop in Texas, Ensler said. A man came in to see the play because he saw “The Vagina See VAGINA, Page 9 money through its product sales, McClure said. LoveLifeMatters is also partners with about 50 product partners where partic ipants can purchase anything from flow ers and lingerie to jewelry and vacation packages, McClure said. The site also will publish articles relating to romance and intimacy beginning on a monthly basis, then becoming a weekly feature in the near future. Sharp said she hopes the site will be successful. “I think it provides really valuable information,” Sharp said. “I think it will be a good place to build a community of people looking to build stronger rela tionships.” McClure agreed, saying there should be nothing more important, in people’s fives than the relationships with their sig- Thursday, February 15, 2001 sentation at the Alpha Epsilon Delta pre medical honor fraternity. “Volunteering helps me to build com munication skills," he said. “Being able to talk to someone you just met who is a few generations older than you is a valuable asset in pre-med. I’ve always found that the elderly have a lot to share about their lives. I've always benefited from their advice.” Sara Cleveland, a sophomore child development and family studies major said she also experiences the human aspect “You get to meet their family and become a part of their fife.” The City Editor can be reached at citydeskHuncedu. GPSF Aims To Initiate Mentoring Undergraduate students will be paired with mentors to get advice about what path to take after graduation. By Mandy Melton Staff Writer The Graduate and Professional Student Federation unveiled anew mentorship project Monday that will pair undergraduate students with grad uate and professional students. The graduate and professional stu dents will advise undergraduates in sim ilar fields and help them make informed decisions about their education and career plans. The majority of the mentorship process will take place through e mail, minimizing the time commit ment involved. “The program is for undergradu ate students who have ambitions for the future, but who aren’t quite so sure about which graduate GPSF President Thad Woody said the project will help students who are undecided about graduate school. school is right for them,” said GPSF President Thad Woody. The interactions between mentors and undergraduates will aim to give the latter a realistic impression of what fife is like in graduate school. Woody said he hopes the informa tion undergraduates receive from men torship will be more beneficial than information students gain from reading graduate school catalogs. Rhonda Litterer, a sophomore biolo gy major who is exploring options for post-undeigraduate study, said she would consider participating in the project “The mentor program sounds like a good idea,” she said. “It would give you a better idea of what you would be doing if you chose to continue your education.” The GPSF has also received positive response from potential mentors. “I’ve had tremendous interest with graduate students who are excited about the possibility of interacting with under graduates,” Woody said. Chris Myers, a graduate student in the history department, said, “I would love to participate in e-mentoring.” Myers is leaving UNC after this semester, but he will still be available for e-mail consultation with an under graduate. Wendy Haines, a Ph.D. student in toxicology, also said she was interested See GPSF, Page 9 nificant others. “Too often sex and relationships become a routine,” he said. “If nothing else, it’s a way to get neat ideas of how to spice up your love fife." McClure said he feels that relation ships and intimacy are becoming less taboo. “People are becoming more open to talking about relationships and intima cy,” he said. In the coming months, the site will offer romantic coupons for a backrub or a candlelit dinner that can be e-mailed to one’s significant other and a way to help people remember their significant other’s measurements, McClure said. “Romance is more than just Valentine’s Day.” . The City Editor can be reached atcitydesk9unc.edu. 3