MGt TWO THE DAILY TAR HEEL TUESDAY, SEPTEMBER 30, 152 A Fad I lie J.ium vuirc on nun's intelligence is Ix in.; void .it uliok sjle wiliiinc, tlumilimit i!:c n.uioii. In (.niiillc. South Catulin.i toy stores. iIcjmi i incut stoics. Ii.udw.irc stoies. radio and it lc ii ii si'tic. .md dinie stoics, drnj; stou and nilici toics were selling Intla hoops .11 the l.itc ! one dollar per customer, and twiv person ,lio walked into a store was a ( ntoini i . , (.iiN ouMtU the stores weie hnla hooping to ,;n.ni the (iistomeis. stoics were sponsor in; hula hoop contests, and other stores were limning sales ol hula hoops at the rale ol i,t on the leular ost ol St. , In tlu sheets h. II the popu.icc was carry ing u K i'i oiu hula hoop, and small chil licii weic niii4 them out on the middle ol M. in St. I ix tlu- epitome ol ludi( lositx. Those who .ue miking the hoops, and those who li.iw .nlxcitUed the hoojis ate nuking money l the hiishel. while the people are just fol lowing the ieadit to the stoic to buy sonic thin; that would cost them hall as much to in. ike and he mote woithwhile in the long i uu. Mouom-i. ccnlod) is standing in their. I.i w ns wiu;lii"4 hula trimmed hips in a great how ol deMeiilN that should only he applied to a t ciliii ei . I In lountn app.ucntlv can he captured l a simple hoop, when it launot by an idea. It is a shame that America h;vs ome to this. Not So Radicleer A Fooiball Game Iet now .incf then a prison experiences something that has to he evaluated on its own withou: plum; it into any Iramcwoik. Smh an vApciicme was last Saturday's loolhall ';.llili'. It was a in. imminent experience. It was Nomelhin that ;ae meaning to the game as .1 spoil. I he '4. une must be trkeii aside from all onsiderations ol athletic systems and mone t.uv expense. It was a imc tliat bad to be thought l in tenns of bard dean play. It must be ibnuubt ol in individual determina tion, in individual spirit, and in individual hie. It must be measiucd in teuns of two teams giing the most they bad to give at a time when c.wb needed to draw on every resource. It was iut ;vu ideal day. The weather was loo hot tif be iileal. and the clouds obscured sf the sun in the second half, butj that was all J to mai a pcilect football game. l linc uix an i lenient of luck tli.lt finiivccl The following column is something of a retort to the article which appeared in last Saturday's Daily Tar Heel. The statements and opinions which follow are not intended to be malicious or to disparage the religious faith of the author of the aforementioned article in any way. I have not had the occasion to meet Mr. Edwards, so no personal animosity prevails. I merely wish to express my views on the matter discussed in his column. Mr. .Edwards deals with the matter of polygamy. He says that, "American society should change from a monotonous society to J polygamous society." In making this statement, Mr. Edwards is rec ommending that Americans change their whole way of living. To change to a polygamous society, we would be going against the Fed eral Government as well as our religious beliefs. The Bible states, in what is generally known as the "Original Law , of Marriage," that "Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for incontinence and marry another, com.mitteth adultery." Furthermore, in 1882 tht House of Representatives "of the United States passed an anti-polygamy bill. Ten days later the same bill was approved by the President cf the United States. Ar; we then, as a nation, to forsake our Go.' and His commandments which have stood for centuries, as well as our national laws and our heritage, of which we are supposedly sc proud? Further on, the author says that we do not have to change out laws, but "merely overlook the existing ones." If we were to over look one law, why then could we not overlook the others as well? And if this were the case, we might just as well dispense with our armies, police forces, ar.d all other law enforcement agencies and is this what the American people want? I doubt it very seriously. To delve a little deeper, it is a well-known fact that, as the world became more and more civilized, the practicers of polygamy became fewer. Is this to say that anyone who believes in or prac tices polygamy isn't civilized? Certainly not. I am just saying that it is a practice which s not generally- accepted in our modern so cety. Not only is it not accepted, but as I have previously pointed out, it is prohibited, at least in America, which is supposedly the most civilized nation in the world. Mr. Edwards later states that "wife one" in his "Three-way System" would be allowed to chase the other wives away as well as beat them. Earlier, the author had made the statement that if thi; plan were incorporated, it "would keep most of the homes in America frcm breaking up." Yet, later, the author states that for wes two and three to advance in this system they would have to leave the home and marry another man. How many women would be con tent to play "second fiddle?" Not many, I'd go so far to say. Thus, Mr. Edwards is actually contradiciting his own arguments, for if either, or both, of the subordinate wives left, the conditions which would then prevail would certainly not make for a happy home. The beatings and prevention of advancement along with other conditions cf the so-called "Three-way System" also bring to mind a certain amendment to the Constitution of the United States that said something about the abolition of slavery. Need I elaborate? I would like to say, in retrospect to Mr. Edwards' statement that men would, under '.his "system" have no "reason to get drunk and cheat on their wive:;," that if a man is driven to drink by just one wife, what would he be driven to by three wives? I shudder t: think of it. It also seems to this writer that the atmosphere for the children in such a home would oe much worse than in even the worst of homes of today. With three women under the same roof, if any roof was left, there would no doubt be no little"feudin', fussin' and fight- In'" Tnic in iterlf u-nnlH Ho pnnnah to HrivP normal rhilrlrpn if PSSlVC little DUlldlllg Willi tftrC Very impreSSlVC there could be any in such a society, to distraction. And, too, what litlle rooms pictures. Unfortunately, the common are the "wholesome" conditions that could exist in such an atmos- ordinary art lover is forced to adopt sort of a ' C. . f 1. . . I : : : ii i . , phere? ouyci mu?i lecumque in viewing inese loveiy Lastly, there is the problem of finances. Mr. Edwards says we specimens. The slogan here is:" Do it yourself, be- should. "Let every man marry as many women as he can afford to cause nobody is going to help you. suoDort." How manv m;n can support more than one? With the In most exhibitions there is at least some kind r - v - " lu Arriving At This Decision' Preview Anthony Wolff THE DECLINE OF THE AMERICAN MALE, By the Editors of Look. 66 pp. New Yorto Random Hosue. $2.95. In "The Decline of the American Male," the ed itors of Look Magazine have done sorr.fthing which looks simple enough, but is really extremely dif ficult and dangerous: they have taken a subtle and complex sociological syndrome and explained it simply and briefly. The situation in question the so-called "decline of the American male involves the emasculation of said male by the American woman, the American economy, and the American so cial structure. The subject has been treated seriously and at length in such books as Margaret Mead's "Male and Female" and William II. Whyte, Jr.'s "The Or- Variations Gail Godwin The new Ackland Art Museum is a very im- little building with thre ganization Man." In "The Decline of the American Male," the edi tors of Look have drawn freely from the above mentioned books and others, using Mead, Whyte, and the rest as a strong foundation for the more superficial approach of their book. Happily, the format of the book as well as its content stay far from being pretentious or overbear ing. Perhaps the overall effect goes a bit too far: the subpect matter is, after all, serious in it implica tions. But Robert Osborn's ever-clever cartoons, print ed full-page in pastel colors, go far to make the book easy reading, even if they add little to its argu ment. . . The three articles in the book outline broadly three major areas of the decline of the American male: his domination by women, his urge to eon form, and his willingness to overwork. The first two areas of the declne of the Ameri can male his dominaton by women and his urge to conform are probably the most in evi dence on this campus: the local males have not yet come into the sphere of "keeping up with the Joneses," etc. There are at least two reasons why "The de cline of the American Male" should be read on this campus. The first and most limited reason is that the male-female relationship in operation here is as abnormal and artifical a one as can be imagined: in certain of its aspects, the domination of the male by the female is in emphasis. Also, the urge to conform, widespread in the entire American population, is perhaps strongest in the given out." - current college generation or so it is alleged Did Mr. Ackland "who wanted his fellow states- by some commentators who label us "the silent men to have a better understanding of the arts" in- generation" and consider us apathetic and intimi tend this better understanding to apply only to art dated, majors? ine second ana stronger reason ior reading It would be interesting to know: 1. The back- this book is that the decline of the American male ground of some of these paintings and why they is one of the most universally acknowledged and are considered worthy of a museum. 2. Wrhat is next present-day inflation, toe- many have a hard enough time supporting . fit . . . . . ' . r a . i . J - t .. 1 . in. One uiibl altnmt s. y tliat tbe une Inns- a ngie wne, 10 say noinng oi mree wiu-s ami guoun omy miuw.-, Ill III! I M I IMII U "NiM, on tw split seen the end ol tbe lit si ball wbiib nave Clenison one inoie pla and a toiu bdou ti. and tbe split second t li.it ;ae a lineman a dunce to bl.xk a kick. I beie were otlieis tliat went tin- otlur wax. tliat also tonld bae made the dilelteiiie and stretibed tbosc seconds into minutes. In ibe beat, a trained ronp ol layers plad not like tiamed seals, but like wide awake individuals. IIicn tackled bard, tbey blmkcd b ud. tbe ran b.ud. and tbey fonbt bard. Tbe siuie on tlu- sioiebo;ntl at tbe end ol tin- nnc mattered slibtly. Two t tenns pl.iMil. one won. and ne lost, but tbe g illie to tho wlui saw it will be remember ed alni tin tc i loroten in tbe myriad o! m oi cs 1 1 1 i ; come eacb year. I 1 1 : . lot im e. was football. In closing, I would like to know, purely as a matter of personal curiosity, the source of information for the statement that "80 per cent of our married males partake in extra-curricular motel sports." I will go out on a limb, so to speak, and say that this statement has no statistics to back it up. True, many married males do partake in such activities, but I'll venture to say that nothing like 80 per t cent of them do so. Ronnie Shomate ' " J of mimeographed sheet, if not a real live human guide, to in form the. onlooked of a little back-ground material. Here, you are on your own but complete ly.. And even if you manage to Track down someone who works there, you are likely to get a brief shrug and the comment that "Such information is . the back room but can't be widely discussed of all American social traits. As u ' atlJua UUIC """ it is the responsibility of every capable citizen to In all fairness to Mr. A., the museum that bears be at least generally familiar with all such sub his name should have a more corial atmosphere to'jects of discussion those which concern the well- being of 'himself as an individual and of his society , the need for such a book as "The Decline of welcome patrons of the arts. Overheard campuswise: Frustrated old-timer at the end of Lenoir Hall Lino: I wish they'd all pledge so we could eat again. New Journalism fledglingt o Instructor: Oh, he's a well-known correspondent for the A and F. An Observation: The Book Ex Hit- offitijl student publication of the Publication r....inl of the t'niversity of North Carolina, where it piihlihcd daily rX i ) i-xeept Sunday, Mon it.iy anl examination period and summer trrms. Kntcrcd vecnn.l cla ma t r in the r)Sit office in Chapel Hill. NC, wider the Act of Marrh 8. 1870. Sub scription rates: $4 50 pr scmer, $8.')0 p r year. Chapel Ifilt'yt I . ' ' I it , i SfU- .f tx.tf Vtuvrr--.-Ar ( , s j ii I! ii 7J in Alitor - CURTIS CANS Mana-in? Kditors CHARLIE SLOAN. CLARKE JONES N e wTTZi t ors . ANN FRYE. BILL KINCAID nuTini Maiiascr WALKER BLANTON AKertUing Manager FRED KATZIN A 7tf A i vTMan a g cr JOHN MINTER hporTs Editor T7TL... "ilUSTY HAMMOND Associate Editor ED ROWLAND Subscription Manager AVERY THOMAS Circulation Manager BOB WALKER Art Editor . ANTHONY WOLFF CoHMEdaor JOAN BROCK ( hicT niotographer BUDDY SPOON Niht Editor WYNDIIAM HEWITf C. S. Youncj It's tlie university booketeria again. But let's change tactics a little. It seemis that to get ancry about soinetliing that appears to be an injustice is not the way to get anything across, and anyway most people find it difficult :o remain angry at anything or arybody for any length of time, unless, that is, they are the ones who are directly affected, and arv aware of it. So, in fairness, let's just kok at the thing quietly and serenely. This is an account of an inci dent that took place in the book eteria, on Monday of this week: A sophomore enters the book eteria in the early afternoon. He lias in his hand a book which he wishes to return, having bought it by mistake during the rush to get books before the weekend. For a change, the book.stor? is un crowded. The boy approaches the counter, and waits for the atten tion of one ofthe attendants. He is the only customer at the counter. ATT: Yes? SOPH: I have a book here that I bought on Friday, ard I want to return it. ATT: Why? What's wrong with it? SOPH: Nothing, but I don't need it. ATT: (Looks at book) English 21, isn't it? SOPH: Yes. ATT: Well, why don't ycu need it? You'll have to take the course. It's required. SOPH: Yes, I'm taking the course, but the guy I live with already had the book, and I don't need this one. ATT: Itegards boy fo:: long mo ment) Well, it looks .'ike you're stuck with it. Looks through book again) We don't like ilo take up time making refunds when we're so busy. X 4r Meaning Of Education Fred Weaver 1; 2x vi -(r (( -1 the American Male" is obvious. There is little news here for the student who is fairly well grounded in current social theory and cocktail conversation; but even the thoroughly initiated will enjoy "The Decline of- the American Male" as a bright once-over-lightly of his more academic concepts. And, as is often the case, the simple statement in a superficial treatment such as this is often a brilliant and effective summary of a complex argument. A case in point occurs in UNC-graduate George B. Leonard, Jr.'s article '"Why Is He Afraid To Be Different": "True individualism ... is the abili ty to love and to make moral decisions as an in dividual." Well said. The major fault of "The Decline of the Ameri- t 4 . - : . f - j. ; ... it.!-,.? v ;.';.. yC;--ir,. -v, SOPH: (Looks around him, at em pty counter) You mean you're too busy now to make a refund? ATT: Don't get smart. SOPH: Look, the book is new; I haven't even used it. If you'll just give me what I paid for it, you can sell vit agjun. Nobody lc;cs that way; ATT: You guys should know what 'books you want before you come in. SOPH: I made a mistake. (They look at each other for a moment ATT: (Looks through book again) Well, I'll give you your money, even though I know you don't ap preciate it, SOPH: I don't know what you mean. All I'm asking is that you give me a refund on a book that I bought by mistake. I just don't need u. ATT: (Places money roughly on counter. Then turns away) SOPH: I hope I haven't taken up too much of your time. ATT: (Turns back quickly) Smarty! Our sophomore leaves the book store, a bit irritated. It would seem that whoever carries the weight around the booketeria has someone of . impor tance in the administration by the shorthairs. I have always been of "the impression that a univer sity operates a bookstore prima rily for the benefit of the students. That the proprietors are entitled ' to a fair profit for their labor goes without saying, and I am sure that those of us who have been around here for a while are aware that they are not being bankrupted. It remain's, however, tliat there is a certain responsi bility to the students in opera tions of this type, and I fail to see what justification there is f6r an attitude such as this toward any. student, The public spirited proprietors of the booketeria al ways seem to have plenty of time for you when they" are taking your money. Are they in such misery when they have to return the price of. an ill-advised pur chase? Is this a healthy attitude? Now I ask you. Maybe it has something to do with the principles of business. Whatever it is, it has an unpleas ant odor. . I can see no reason why the stu dents here should let a thing such as this go unnoticed. If there is no one in the administration who is moved, to a point that some ' thing can be done, then it leaves the thing with the students. My point number three is" that education means action. Thu view of education is certainly not peculiar to Carolina. Most col lege and universities, including the very best, .Wave lively student activity programs. But I think we niay be fortunate above some others in this regard because of the peculiarly favorable circumstances of can Male" is its lack of consideration for the the founding. The University of North Carolina was born of the American female. Mr. Leonard's contribution deals same historical impulse as the founding of the American nation, with the influence of the "the Group" on the The motivating idea of the founders was that the survival of the American male, but the other two articles in the new nation required an enlightened citizemy. In his Plan of Studio book lay most of th American male's troubles di- for the University Wiliam R. Davie wrote that the purpose of the rectly at the feet of his women mother, wife. University should be "to train useful and respectable members of etc. This impression is strengthened by Osborn's society." It was doubtless the intention of the founders to establish cartoons for these two sections. Osborn, like Thur . a college that would train scholars: clergymen, teachers, lawyers, her, sees the male-female relationship as definitely doctors. But the purpose tfiey stressed above all others was training onc-sided, and his suggestive drawings leave little citizens for a democratic state. doubt as to the sex of the culprit. Our beginnings as a state university ultimately proved favor . . . - . . , ,,, 41uji i-.jir - A more fruitful point of view would include dble to the development of student self-government as a way of iX t iU A . uiuu iuur t , , tne problems of the American woman as she ae- , training for citizenship and ser t . ' . . f J,- vice t0 one,s fellowman. The fun- ccpts or lnes to reject her new Position, (cf. Dr. ction of the state university, said Ashley Montagu's article in the Sept. 27 Saturday President Edward Kidder Gra Review: "The Triumph and Tragedy of the Ameri ham, "is not only to search for can Woman." Dr. Montagu takes a more tolerant truth, but also to set truth to am, understanding view of ths situation of the work in the world of living men . . , . . and things " modern American woman.) Perhaps it is not too For those who are interested mucn to Pe tnat Random House and the editors opportunities will abound for par- of Look will once again collaborate as successfully ticipation in extraeuricular activi- as they have this time, their next joint effort to ties. At the same time you are be entitled "The Dilemma of the American Wo- free to refrain from participation man if you so desire These are entire ly voluntary and much of their Even as it is a rather one-sided view of the merit as education consists in the situation "The Decline of the American Mate" fact that they are voluntary and is suggesled Ieading for the whole with free. Taken as an enrichment of . . . iL . , . .. study and not a substitute for it, thc exccPtl0n o the already sociologically sophis- their educational 'value is great. ticated. or whom it is optional. It might even be Since I have been taking texts a good idea to issue it to all new students upon ar- tonight I should say a suitable one for this would" be: "Be ye doers rival, as a companion piece to the various orienta- of the word and not hearers only' tion handbooks. Certainly none of th- vague plati- My fourth point, and the last, is more .a sum of the other three . , . , ' , , . - , . 4. . . rm.- u i- u n a . tudes and gushy sentiments of the handbooks (i.e. than a new noint. This is the realization, the flowering, of education Let's call it liberation. "When the chimes of the Bell Tower toll the mel- You are embarking on a four-year marathon. Shortly you will ody of 'Hark the Sound at dusk, and you pause be caught up in the rapid-turning cycle of college years. You will a minute and feel a tiny chill play up and down find yourself dutifully signing up for courses, writing term papers, your spine, then you, Carolina coed, are a Tar taking examinations in the main, doing what the others are do- tt i - t w , JU i X , , Heel. from the Woman s Handbook) can com ing. One day you may pause long enough to ask yourself, "what it s . - . , all about?" What after all more than a social convention or a way to pare 1R honesty or valu t0' "7 individualism a job is the purpose of education? ... is the ability to love and to make moral de- (To Be Continued) cisions as an individual." f , - '