t By Mrs. Florence S. Sherrill Mrs. Javan Gray Is family life leader of the Hickory Knoll Home Demonstration club. Al though Mrs. Gray was unable to attend the training school of family life leaders, her contri bution to the discussion, "Mak ing a Go of Marriage", was a devotional taken from the Christian Observer. The re sponse of the club members to this devotional was such that it was decided to request that a copy be sent to The Franklin Press so that each club mem ber could have It for her own. The article follows: WHAT MAKES A HAPPY MARRIAGE? "True happiness In marriage brings more joy than any other relationship this side of Heaven. 'Compared with marriage,' says Dorothy Dix, 'being born is a mere episode in our careers, and dying a trivial incident.' Turgeney, the great Russian novelist, who was acclaimed all over the civilized world, once said: 'I would give up all my genius, and all my books. If there were only some woman, somewhere, who cared whether or not I came home late for dinner!' "The chances are good for happiness In marriage at the time of the wedding. It Is tragic that so many men and women This Week With Macon County Agents "The Daily Home Management News", citing the Who, What, When, Where, and Why of electrical appliances for the home was the theme of Macon County's exhibit entered at the N. C. State fair, which closed last week in Raleigh. Althongh the ex hibit failed to place among the winners, folks here cz.n be justly proud of the ingenious display, which was taken to the fair by County Agent S. W. Mendenhall and Mrs. Florence S. Sherrill, county home agent. allow their marriage to fall, when actually it could be a glorious success. An appalling number of husbands and wives are not really married, but simply undivorced. Because of WANTED Dead or Alive HORSES, COWS, AND HOGS PHONE ASHEVILLE 24981 If no answer 36978 Aaheville By-Products Corp. neglect of simple truths they live in a kind of purgatory. " 'Happy marriages', says Dr. O. M. Butterfield, of New York City, 'are rarely the product of chance. They are architectural in that they are intelligently and deliberately planned.' Everything threatens happiness in the home from the outset: Selfishness, monotony, illness, disillusionment, and the spite fulness of third parties. Let me suggest four antidotes that will help. "The first Is the right atti tude. Not all young couples ap proach marriage with that 'once-and-for-life' feeling. The divorce court looms as a last resort, If worst comes to worst. Oo into marriage, as Into the Christian life Itself. 'No man having put his hand to the plow, and looking back, is fit ? for Christian marriage.' "Second, employ sincerity without reserve. Treachery, sus picion, mistrust have no power against two beings who confide all. Marriage does not thrive in mystery and glamour, but in confidence and security. "Third, congeniality is im perative. And congeniality is not alone a gift of God, but may be broken down into its component parts ? admiration, affection and gratitude ? and can be created and strengthen ed and preserved by two intel ligent and cooperative individ uals. "Fourth, determination: 'I will not give up; I will defend our union and happiness: I will tie 1 up again every broken thread; 1 I will reconstruct, untiringly, : faithfully, each part of a brok en wall.' "In short, true happiness in ; the home between husband and : wife must be born of the Spirit of Christ, and without excep tion such happiness is attested by the fruit of the Spirit, which is: "... love, joy, peace, long suffering, gentleness, faith, meekness, temperance; against such there is no law.' Is yours a happy marriage? You can make it so." The Rev. Frank Alfred Mathes, D.D. STOP ITS a big day in town. Everybody is "down at the station" to see and hear the man who may be the nest President of the United States. Carrying the campaign to the people is a custom in this country as old and u honored as America itself. For that's the way folks get to see the candidate face to face. That's the way they hear at first-hand what he has to say. That's the American way. It's good to know there will always be freedom of speech in this country, as long as a man can speak his mind, unceoaorad and unafraid, from the platform of a railroad car. It's good to know that democracy in America will always work, as long as you can cheer or jeer "down at the station"? amd then go wott as ym pUast SOUTHERN RAILWAY SYSTEM WASHINGTON, D. C. Homemakers ? Planning meals hat are balanced in nutrients s not enough for you to do. Ve must plan food combina ions that are not only good to at, nutritionally right, but our ood must look appetizing as veil. Food must have not only aste appeal but eye appeal. All this goes towards making neal planning, preparation, and erving an interesting part of lomemaking rather than a la - lorious chore. People have established cer ain principles through prac icing customs which we con ider to be essential for cor- 1 ect table service and good 1 able manners. It's important lowadays for every one to i :now what customs say we ; nust do in the way of meal ; ime etiquette. . Take advantage of the differ ent ways to cook vegetables to add texture and flavor to your menus. Why cook in the same way, day in and daty out, vege tables, meats, salads, desserts? Fingernail polish on shoe strings ? sometimes metal tips come off of shoe strings. Try dipping the end of shoe string in clear fingernail polish. Two heavy dips would last a good long time. Of course, the polish must dry thoroughly between each dip. Use kerosene to remove let tering on feed bags. It doesn't always work ? most times it does. Lettering on flour or feed bags will come right out when kerosene has been poured on the letters and then rolled up for a day or two, or less time. ' State College Answers Timely Farm Questions Q. What chemical should I lse for weed and nematode control in my tobacco plant jed and when is the best time !or treatment? A. October is the month lor :reating plant beds and one ?ound of cyanamid per square rard gives satisfactory weed :ontrol and costs less than nost other treatments, R. R. Bennett, State college extension tobacco specialists, says. Mr. Bennett also points out that 16-6-2 supplies the ferti lizer need for plant growth and It contains cyanamid and fer tilizer grade urea for weed con trol. Another effective treatmenl for weed control, but one which LEGAL ADVERTISING ADMINISTRATRIX' NOTICE Having qualified as adminis tratrix of estate of Walter D. Elllotte, deceased, late of Ma con County, N. C., this is to notify all persons having claims against the estate of said de ceased to exhibit them to the undersigned on or before the 4 day of October, 1953, or this notice will be plead in bar of their recovery. All persons in debted to said estate will please , make immediate settlement. This 4 day of October, 1952. MRS. IDA C. ELLIOTTE. Administratrix 09 ? 6tp ? N 13 ADMINISTRATOR'S NOTICE Having qualified as adminis- | tratar of Estate of Reuben Alexander Willis, deceased, late of Macon County, N. C., this is to notify all persons having claims against the estate of said deceased to exhibit them to the undersigned on or before the 9 day of October, 1953 or this notice will be plead in bar of their recovery. All persons in- j debted to said estate will please make immediate settlement. This 9 day of October, 1952. H. W. CABE, Administrator 016 ? 6tp ? N20 NOTICE The North Carolina Utilities Commission has directed that a hearing be held on Tuesday, December 2, 1952, at 10 o'clock, A. M? at the Buncombe County Court House in Asheville, North Carolina, for the purpose of considering and passing upon the application of Western Car olina Telephone Company for an Increase in Its rental rates at its Franklin and Highlands, North Carolina, exchanges, as well as other exchanges through out its systems. The undersigned company has applied for authority to in crease its rates at its Franklin and Highlands exchanges in the amount of $1.25 in the monthly rental rates for its various classes of service. This, the 15th day of October, 1952. WESTERN CAROLINA TELEPHONE COMPANY By Linn D. Garibaldi, President 023? 3tc? N6 ADVERTISEMENT FOR BIDS Plans and Specifications are now available for distribution from the office /of the Architect, Lindsey Madison Gudger, 52 Carter Street, Asheville, North . Carolina, for the General, J Plumbing, Heating and Electrife- | al Contracts for the Macon County Negro School Building i for the Board of Education of | Macon County, N. C. Plans may i be received upon application by interested contractors and upon ' deposit of $50.00 for the Gen- | eral and $30.00 for each of the mechanical. Bids will be received in the office of Mr. Holland McSwain, Superintendent of Schools, Ma con County Courthouse, Frank lin, N. C., at 11:00 a. m? on the morning of November 21, 1952 All bids must be accompanied by a bid guarantee in the amount of 5% of the bid price, in the form of a certified check drawn on a bank or trust com pany insured by the Federal Deposit Insurance Corporation or a bid bond executed by a Bonding Company authorized to do busineess in North Carolina. A completion bond will be re quired to be given by the Con tractors who are awar'ded the Contract. Bids will be opened in pub lic at the time designated above. Plans and Specifications may be examined at the office of the Architect or at the office of the Owner, The Board of Education of Macon County, I should be used only by growers ; who will provide ample water for the beds at seed germina tion time and shortly there after, is one pound of fertilizer grade urea and one-half pound cyanamid per square yard. While more expensive than other treatments, methyl brom ide gas is effective in weed and nematode control. Before applying any of these materials, rake the beds free of trash, use a coulter-type plow, disc harrow and a smoothing harrow to prepare a well-pul verized seed bed. Regardless of treatment used, apply one-half to two-thirds of the recom mended amount and mix thor oughly with the top three or four inches of soil, using a drag harrow and going over the bed eight to 10 times. Then apply the remainder of the material and rake the bed lightly with a five-pronged pitch fork. Better stands may be achiev ed if you fertilize in the fall. The 16-6-2 treated bed requires I no further fertilization in the | spring. | Corncobs are increasing in , commercial demand as a result of successful research by the U. S. Department of Agricul ture. They are used in the production of several synthet ics. County Courthouse, Franklin, N. C. The full amount of the plan 1 .iipo.it will be returned to bona j t.de bidders upon receipt of the plan-- and specifications in good condition within 10 days after bids are received; non-b:dders will receive the plan deposit less the cost of printing and mailing under the same condi tions. I Signed: BOARD OF El iUCATION MACON COUNTY By: Holland McSwain, Secretary 1 030 ? ltc IN APPRECIATION The family of James J. Mann wish to express our sincere appreciation for the many kind expressions of sympathy and kindness during the sickness and death of our beloved husband and father. To The People of Macon County I wish to offer my thanks and appre ciation for the help and support you have given me in making the Franklin Feed Mill the success that it is today. Sincerely yours, Bruce Palmer

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