.. . .. I ! 1 ( ,111.1 ra r V7ALIAGES ::i.v?i Vol. 19. No. 22. Sect. IU .4 KENANSVILLE, NORTH CAROLINA, THURSDAY, MAY 29, 1952. SUBSCRIPTION KATE: S:M per year la DopHa and adjoiaiiw eouoUeat $4.00 oateide Us aru ia N C4 f5.M ontritta N..C. PRICE TEN CENTS . ECeEnaEnswie News W U0T BUOY IF? To Do Or Hot To Do Is Sermon At Grove Church The Reverend J. T. Hayter. Jr.. delivered- a . magnlflcient,, pennon at me urove iresDytenan unurcn on Sunday morning. May 25.' The text was from 1 Corinthians 8, and the sermon was entitled To Do Or ww irnicn ciuaea some neauu f 3tyrW !;" lt. . .ful jnegr spirituals. The presl- The Issues that exist todav did aot face the people of Biblical r- times, ana tbe situations that ex isted them have n relevance in this modern day world.' Although no specific answer to j all moral questions that arise can be found In the Bible,- the ' principles are there. What is right for one per son is not necessarily right for another.. We must apply the princi ple's of love and understanding, to our problems. The answer that we find is between ourselves and our God It is not our prerogative to a., j i ,u j "-11. "wa- other what is right or wrong for iiim, ,. Mere. refraining from sin Is not enough the . important thing is tne reason, befiina .tfiat refrain Ing. We have no right tq- hurt others by our actions. ( Mr. Hayter also brought out the point that to condemn a point of view unheard is the highest form of bigotry... The sermon was-ie xnarkable for Its lucidity, its coher ence and its deep sincerity. It is the best sermon I have hrardT'ifti Kenansvillevr ''4. . i,7-HeIen Caldwell. Cushinan Shower For; Mrs. Joe Quinn - Mrs.: J. C:- Nethercutt and Mrs. C. 8. Williamson were hostesses at a miscellaneous shower for Mrs. Joe Quinn at a charnunc party- oa saiuraay mgni. More tnan tnirty two guests gathered ta honor Mrs. Quinn, a bride of a yeart who has just returned to KenahsviUe. De licious refreshments were served consisting of chicken salad, salted nuts, cakes and cold drinks. Home Coming At Among those who attended the borne coming day at the Mt ? Wil liams enurch near Burgaw were Mr. J. lu Williams, Miss Margaret Williams and Mr. and Mrs. Sam Newton. The church was named for the late James Williams, fath er oi Sir. f. I Williams and Mrs. Sam Newton and grandfather of Mis Margaret Williams. ! ,1, t v. : 'it 1 t ; s ua' A 1U ii t.iu; f im Tim OT.'S SKiBalPh Brown. Those present were t (Ht Has Served five tt Air Sassiest V' , fJJtAndi Two Special J;- 1a titt . l'v-y ;H.' General As Any Fcmtr yonienlOfjChurth arty ; r:The Women of The Grove Pres- I byterlan Church held their annual auxiliary birthday party on Sunday hicht at the Grove Church. This year the money will go. to Stlllman College in Alabama. Before the meeting,), Mrs. Louise Mitchell played a fifteen minute organ pre' aeni rars. waner auvuo presiaea, and Mrs -Ralph Brown was secre tary. The Reverend J. T. Hayter led the group In devotionals.. The program" was under, the direction of Mrs. Norwood Boney and most of the member participated in it. Mrs. Walter Stroud and Mrs. Ivey Bowden sang a spiritual, 1Lord, I Want to Be a . Christian. . - After the service, the group ad journed to 'the cholr room where refreshments were' served under the direction of Mrs. Clarence Mur- 1 ir. m.liu ' CtaMiiil laTvia 1 I vuYd jxiirs.1 nuicf auvuu uu ms. Mrs. Walter Stroud, Mrs: Clarence Murphy, Mrs. Louise Mttcneii, airs. Ivey Bowden, Mrs. Ralph Brown, Ibe Reverend J. T. Hayter, Jr., Mrs. A. T Outlaw, Miss Sarah West Out law, Mrs. Guy Gooding, Mrs. J. A. Gavin, Mrs. Sam Newton, Mrs. Jack Sittersan, Mrs. Norwood Boney, Mrs. Alta Kornegay, Mrs. Helen Cusbman, Mrs. Vernon Reynolds and. the . Misses. Mary Lou and Ruth Reynolds. Mr. and Mrs. Lacey. Weeks and their daughter, Miss Jeanne Weeks, returned Saturday from a week's trip to New York Liity. . Mrs. Guy Gooding has returned home after a visit to her daughter Mrs. Banks McNairy, III,bf Golds- boro. Mr. and Mrs. .Vance Gavin spent the week end at their cottage at Swansboro. - .. Mr and Mrs. J." R. Grady ana their daughters, the Misses Rebec ca and Margaret craay, spent Sat urday in Wilson with relatives. Ov er the week end .they entertained Dr. ' and Mrs. E. C. Grady and their daughter. Miss Sylvia Grady .of La Grange. ; : Mrs. Robert Wells and her aaugn- tef. Miss Maude Wells, of Clinton, were week end guests of Mr. R. V. Wells and Mrs. lulse Mitchell. Mrs. J. A Gavin has returned home after a week's vacation spent visiting friends and relatives in several sections of the state. Mrs. Emory Sadler left Friday for Wilmington. " On her return, she entertained her sister, Miss Jonas Fields of Seven Springs, v Miss Mary Lee Sykes spent the week end In Wilmington. ; Mrs. Walter,: Stroud had as a house guest last week her mother, Mrs. Sally Westbrook of Pink Hill. Mr. and Mrs. J. B. Stroud are re ceiving congratulations on the birth t, a a V ,1 lb, tt sit. lcew-k-k Ass ..-.'y) ; . T ,.,f ' rtft't uue .S e. 1 i i I ' ciety Mr. and Mrs. Rudolph Hasty re turned Monday from a week end visit with Mr. and Mrs. L. F. Hasty of Laurinburg. They were accom panied on their trip by their son, Master Rudy Hasty, who remained in Laurinburg for a week's stay with hie grand parents. : , Mr. Johnny Helms 'Of Monroe, was a week end guest of Mr. ami Mrs. Robert Hollingsworth and Miss Theo Hollingsworth. Miss Hollings worth will leave next week for sum mer school. -, '" , - Miss Shirley Tyndall has return ed home from a visit to Miss Fran ces Jean Patterson at Meredith College.,, Mr. and Mrs. Carl Byrd have re turned to their home in Lillington alter being House guests of Mr. and Mrs. D. H. McKay. Mrs. McKay en tertained on Friday night for her guests, and on Saturday afternoon. organized a fishing trip for them and some friends. The Misses Marie Wells and Nell Quinn and Mr. Grady Quinn spent tne week ena at Carolina Beach. Mr. Jimmle Bowden had the mis fortune to sprain his ankle nlavine badminton just before he was to leave for Scout Camporee. He is recovering slowly. . Mr. and Mrs.-W. E. Craft, Mast er Billy Craft and Mrs. G. E. Dail, spent the week end in Greenville with Mr. Craft's parents. , Mrs. W.'E. Craft entertained at an informal luncheon on Saturday. Among those present were the host ess and her mother, Mrs. G. E. Dail, Mrs. A. R.rBland, II, Mrs. Helen Cushman' ahd Miss Margaret Wil liams. '"" - ; -" -'- Miss Sylvia Gooding returned home on Sunday after a visit to her brother and sister-in-law, Mr. and Mrs. Guy Gooding, Jr., in Ra leigh, and her sister, Mrs. Banks MeNalry, IHI, in Goldsboro. Lieutenant A R. Bland, II, U. S. M. C. R. Is expected home from Puerto Rico this week end. Mrs. Bland and their son, A. R. Bland, III, were week end guests of Mr. and Mrs. A. R. Bland of Rose H!U. The Misses Sarah West Outlaw, Kathryn Quinn, Mary Beth South- erland, Sarah Brown Lena Brin son and Angela Daughtry. and Mr. Eddie Quinn returned Friday from a weex in wasmngton. : , Mrs. Jack Sillerson Hostess To Club Mrs. Jack Sitterson was hostess to the Kenansville Garden Club on Monday evening at her home, which wa decorated most attractively with flower arrangements of dai sies and gladioli. Mrs. Vance Gavin, president, pre sided and gave a report on the State Convention of Garden Clubs which she attended in Raleigh. A discussion on the planting of the Court House square was led by the committee chairman, Miss Margaret Williams. It was voted that the club begin work on the Sauare im mediately and have it ready for tne planting In the early fall. Mrs. Louise Mitchell gave a most Instructive study on the culti vation of peonies, a perenlal plant. Mrs. F. W. McGowen cave a wittv and Interesting talk on 'Do's and Don'ts' for treatment of cut flow ers. j.f, - . , i., The hostess served lemoned and delicious crumbed pudding with whipped creamv ; : ,., At Camporee r:, Members of Troop No. 80, Ken ansville Bay scouts wno attended the ' camporee' at Tuecarora last week end were Emory Sadler, Del mus Roberts, Earl Stroud, Cordell Johnson, Randall Brown and Ben Williamson. Jr. These boys are to be commended upon their interest without an active, scout leader. They have been assisted in their scouting by the Reverend J. T. Hayter, Jr.. who is unable to devote full tune to' them since he is In charge of the Hallsvtlle Troop. It seems to the roving reporter mat there ought to be a young man in our town who has enough interest in boy a ad scouting to offer his services as a scoutmaster. Certainly It will take time but anything worthwhile does, and the leader will derive fat more benefit from time so spent than he could doing anything else with V:.'.,: ;.!.,: '..:..:. T::ly Pulli:3 At U j i Cli rctl . The Reverend and Mrs. Robert Collins entertained 42 young peo ple frora-Unity' Church Thursday night at an old fashioned candy pul- of a son, Sunday May 2S. .. - Mr. and Mrs. Amos Bruisoa at tended the StoncHell wedding la Wallace Sunday.-'; ;'.: v- v,-- - Mr. and Mrs. C. B. Uuthrle,' and Mr. and Mrs. C B. Guthrie, Jr., spent the week end In Burlington. "Dr. and Mrs. Elmo Jones and their two sons, Master Thad Jonee and Master Bill Jones, of Ports nv" ' lr-Inia, spent the we . v v i I Thad Joses at h r The above officers were duly In- stalled March 28, 1952 at a public installation of Kenansville Chapter No. 21S, Order of the Eastern Star. Mrs. Lena Brewer, D.D.G.M., of Roseboro was Installing officer Miss Bessie Kornegay of B. F. Grady was Installing Marshall. Front row. reading from left to right: Lucille S. Bowden, Treasur er; Mamie S. Sheppard, Sentinel; Ida S. Katx, Warder; Pearl korne gay. Organist: Sue Westbrook. Adah; Mary Alice Blackmore, Es-1 ling at the parsonage. Games were played in the back yard, and sand- -wjches, . caloes and drinks were served for refreshments as well as pop corn and the candy that all had helped make. Songs and a gen eral social hour was held In the living room after refreshments. A drawing was held' to see who should attend the Loulsburg Assembly. James Stroud and Arlene Byrd were chosen and their expenses will be paid by the Unity Sunday School, Among the adults who furnished rides and helped cook the candy were, Mr, and Mrs. J. C. Stroud, Mr. and Mrs. Austin Ridge, Mr. and Mrs; Otho Lee Holland and Mrs. Wllma Herring. , , Officers Of E.C.C. Alumni Association Mr. Z. W, Frazelle of Kenansville has been elected a district offic er of the East Carolina Collage Alumni Association. This election was announced recently by James iooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooeooooooo o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o ' . - 1 1 ther; Oeo Hobbs, Electa; Kathleen Snyder, Conductress; Alice Rogers, Martha; Thelma Murphy, Marshal; Louise K, Boney, Secretary; Mary Fulford, Chaplain; Virginia Hol land, Ruth; Matoaka Westbrook Assoc... Conductress; Edna Earl Brinson, Assoc. Matron; A C. Hol land,. Worthy Patron; Lewis West brook,. Assoc. Patron. Flag Bear ers, Louise Wells and Martha Pic kett were absent when picture was made. W. Butler, alumni secretary, at Alumni Day at the college. Henry 1 Ki. ugiesDy oi wasmngton. u. c, is president of the association, and the newly elected officers are Fred W. Martin, Asheville; Mrs. N. B. Nicholson, Monroe; Mildred C. Her ring, Greensboro; Samuel B. Dees, Raleigh; Z. W. Frazelle, Kenans ville; and Mrs. Dorothy Wilker son, Greenville. LAMP IN DARKNESS If I can bear your love like a lamp before me, When . I go down the long, steej road of darkness, I shall not fear the everlasting shadow, Nor cry in terror. If I can find out God, then I shall find him. If cone can find him, then I shall sleep soundly, Knowing how well on earth your love sufficed me, A Lamp in darkness. - r Sara Teasdale. a1Mo mm ENDORSED BY BEULAVILLE, POTTER'S HILL, AND CHINQUAPIN SCHOOL BOARDS, PRINCIPALS AND P. T. A'S. Farmer, Businessman, Elder Presbyterian Church; Superintendent of Sunday School, Married and Has Three Children. Always Actively Interested In Schools. Due To Serious Illness Of His Aged Mother, Mr. Dail Is Unable To Get Around Over The County Campaigning. THIS AD PAID FOR BY FRIEIIDS OF BILL DAIL III CIII::QUAPIII, BEULAVILLE And POTTERS HILL I am not quite sure just whit middle age is where it begins and ends when we achieve it Per haps the process is so gradual that all at once we have arrived there without knowing It a gentle. im perceptbile change.. I know from experience that we do realize It when we have gone back to tbe twenty-fifth re-union of our col lege class and note all the physical changes In our class mates, and they must also in us. The realiza tion often comes to us, too, when our children leave home and enter college, and even with more force, vJlhen they marry and establish homes of their own., Then our function as mothers Is over or cer tainly ought to be. 'We have no right to live our children's lives for them or to interfere in their problems or their pleasures. It's a good time for taking stock of our selves and asking ourselves what next Do we sit back quietly and wait for death? Do we try vainly to recapture our fast vanishing youth and become not only undignified but ridiculous? A humorus sug gestion about a very serious ques tion Is given in the following poem by the late Alice Duer Miller and it makes far more sense than we might like to admit . A Modern Proposal Sylvia, by dear, I would be yours with pleasure, All that you are seems excellent to me, Except your mother, who's much more at leisure Than mothers ought to be. . 1 Find her a fad, a job, an occupation, Eugenics, dancing, uplift, yes, or crime, Set her to work for her Emanci pation That takes a lot of time. Or, if the suffrage doctrine fails to charm her, There are the Antis rather In her line Guarding the Home from Maine to Alabama Would keep her out of mine. Which is as much truth as poetry and points a way if not the way for all of us. I do not know how many women of 40 and over are VQTE (FOR if. FOR MEMBER OF to By Helen C. Cushman patients of doctors, patients who have every imaginary ill under the sun, but I am sure there are thou sands and thousands of these fret ful, ; discontented women ; Whose preoccupation with themselves is a burden to the doctors, to their fam ilies, and too often to their com munities. These are the gals who indulge most in petty, malicious gossip, who spread ugly tales about people of whom they are jealous, who nag their husbands, who keep their children unhappy and their friends distressed. The gals who waste their time by living in a past which seems so desirable and nap-. py now tnat it has been uvea through, who always say what they might have done if they had had a chance, or how they had married someone else, had not married the poor guy whose life they daily make miserable. One trouble with them is that they stop growing in a world which has no place for stunted and warped people they refuse to make the effort to keep their minds' and their bodies and their souls alive. Too often, they act like spoiled children which Indeed, they are. . One of the first obligations that we all have is to grow up, to act or react in a mature, adult fashion when problems arise to be settled. If we have courage, and it takes a lot of courage, we should take time and reflect Quietly UDon our lives and ask what we can do to improve ourselves,' to overcome our faults, our weaknesses, a ruthless self examination if you will-rend let' us be honest with ourselves. Soc-' rates said long ago that the first law is to 'Know Thyself.' It is not a pleasant assignment 'either so many of us are not nice people at all, but selfish, petulant, self-cent ered, demanding attention from our family and our friends to bols ter an ego that must feel very in secure. But if you have had the courage to take that first step, then there is a glimmer of hope for you, because once you can see your faults, you can most certainly do something about them. Anything in Heaven or earth Is possible with enough faith, will power, resolu tion. You can pull yourself out of whatever slough of despond I) M (MM you have let youself get into If you want to. You can develop a real and rewarding Interest in hun dreds of things you can Improve your mind, your health, your soul if you want to. You can become so Interested in others, in a cause, in. work that you won't have time to be interested in yourself .and you will have learned a secret of charm you will become complete ly unself-eonscious. Intense in terest in others always is a good thing-anyway, you can learn some thing from every person you meet 'If a person takes it for granted that his present store of know ledge is sufficient for the rest of his life, he is immature' he be comes fixed and rigid, dogmatic in an everchanging world and the world by-passes him. You can keep your mind as well as your body supple by exercise. You Can ada stature to your soul by doing things for others help ing people when they need you. You can even suppllment the fam ily income by getting a part time job. You say that you have never worked, you don't know what you can do. Have you ever tried to find out where your real abilities lie? The U. S. Employment Service gives a very comprehensive abili ties test you might be surprised at some of your latent talents. You are dissatisfied with the way you lootr-you can certainly . change that. - You don't like your voice. weuthat'S easy It takes exercise and patience but you can develop charming voice if you want te enough. You have always wanted to learn how . to sew, or te type, or to become a really superb cook? Why don't you? You can do any thing in this world that you make up your mind to do if you hve faith and patience and tenacity. There is no place in this world for discontented woman and no matter how sorry she feels for her self, no else feels sorry for her. Life can be lots of fun every day of the time that is left to us, ue matter where we live or in what condition of life it has pleased fate to put us. It is up to us, no one else. Let us expand our area of awareness we will become wiser Continued on Chinquapin Page O o o o o o o o- o o o o. o o o o o o o o o o . o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o . o o a o o o t ooo w W W W W w w