ARP ON ; MATRIMONY
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the Philosopher Writes on a Serious
- Subject
BNTII PARTIES iECliRELY BOUND
Arp Says flarrlage Is the Only Part
nership That Cannot Be Dissolved
..-Responsibility.
Married and gone. It is the same old
story. Love and courtship. Then comes
the engagement ring and a blessed in
terval of fond hopes and happy dreams,
and then the happy day is fixed the
-amsnk-ious day that is never to be for
gotten a day that brings happiness or
misery ana Degms a new lire, men
comes the license, the permit of the
.la w which says you may marry, you
may enter into bonds. The state ap
proves it and the law allows it, and it
will cost you only a dollar and a quar
ter. Cheap isn't it? And yet it may be
Trery dear. Then comes the minister,
and the happy pair, stand up before
him and make some solemn vows and
listen to a prayer and a benediction,
'iind, they are one. In! a moment the
trusting maid has lost her name and
her free will, and is tied fast to a man.
Well, he is tied fast, too, so it is all
riht; all round, I reckon, but somehow
JL always feel more concern about the
,rwoman tnan the man. She is a help
less sort of a creaiure and takes the
most risk, for she risks her all.
I was ruminating over this, for there
waa a marriage going on at our good
friend Sam Jones house, and their
pretty daughter, Laura, was changing
iier name and her home on this the
last day of the year and going off to
live with a man she hasn't known very
long; but I have diagnosed him from
liis face and features and am satisfied
with her choice. He is a big-hearted
gimv :nan, or else the signs fail. I
ranted to be present and give them
my blessing, but was not well enough
to go I've got the elephantio3is from
my toes to my knees, and can hardly
weander across the room, but I am al
Arays interested in the marriages of our
young people. It( is the most serious
lmsiness in this life, and if the peril of
it .was known beforehand many of the
young people would hesitate to make
the change. The chains of matrimony
and not bonds of marriage are the
vigil t words. When men make a part
awrBhip they can't get along well if
tiey art unlike in disposition, or in
wsoral principle or in business ways,
- Irat they can dissolve and separate at
pleasure snd trv anoth er man. A man
ana his wife ought to be alike, in al
' mdst everything. In some things folks
like their opposites their counter-
parts. A man with blue eyes goes dis
. tracted over a pretty girl with hazel
eyes I did, and I'm distractey yet
. . iwun. iuiu uicui, uiuugn rve
been doing that for flfty-foiir years.
But in mental and emotional qualities
and in tastes and habits and politics
-and religion they should class- together.
I never made any mistake about my
choice of a partner for the dance of a
life, but I've thought of it a thousand
Inaes that if Mrs. Arp had known I
loved codfish and got up by daybreak
every morning, she never would have
had me. It was nip and tuck to get
fcer, anyhow, and that would have been
the feather to break the camel's back.
Well, I'm mortal glad she didn't know
It, though I am free to say that if I had
fcnown she slept until the second ring
ing of the first bell for breakfast and
'wests lond, of raw -oysters, it would have
had a dampening effect upon my ardor
-or a few minutes, only a few, But I
rnksnre seen some: mighty clever people
. u oysters raw and sleep late in the
' :Jnrning, But still a man and his wife
caun, harmonize and compromise a good
tEra.uy of these things, and it is a beau
tiful illustration of this to see Mrs.
- Arp cooking codfish for me and fixing
Jt Jill up so nice with eees and cream:
and it is a touching evidence of my
f f iradying devotion to her to see me
."' "wandering about the house lonely and
Jorelorn every morning for an hour or
two, and forbidding even the cat to
heavily while she sleeps. - That
codfish business comes , to me honestly
-frit my father's side, and my mother
!pTzup with it like a good, considerate
Tife, and we children grew up with
an3dea that it was good. I've heard of
a young couple who got married and
vrent off to Augusta on a tour, and the
rellerj3uck his fork into a codfish ball
aa-d took a bite. He choked it down
like a hero; and when his beloved
asked , him what was the matter, re
plied: , "Don't say anything about it,
.Mandy, but as sure as you are born
, there is something dead in the "bread."
Well; we can make compromises
about all such things as habits and
; tastes, but there are some things that
I :wuu;t compromise worth a cent. If a
I -Sirl has been brought up to have a
.stood deal of freedom, and thinks it no
narm to go waltzing around with
eve'ry gay, Lothario who loves to dance,
ami after she gets a feller of her own,
wants to keep at it and have polluted
nms. around her waist; she had just as
TPBll sing farewell to conjugal love and
vficmestic " peaces for it is against the
tarfler of nature;for a loving husband to
.... .onouu it, auu Utf uugmn u
uui auuvuer uusy year nas gone
sone like the water that has passed
over the dam gone never to return.
X6 has carried many friends along with
Ifcand left sad memories in the house
liold, but on the whole it has been a
pood year to us all and Providence has
. beenkmd. i-&:Vh'M- ,'
.Now is the time to look back and re
vjew the past, as did old Janus, for
; TT-hom January was named. iHe was the
X ,ffqtter, the gate keeper, of' heaven, and
v.-ftad.two faces one to look bak and
tne otnrr forward into the mysterious
future. Numa Pompilius gave him his
name and his high office, for he,was
next in power to Jupiter. He added
two months to the calendar and called
one; January for, Janus and the other
February for the m other of Mars. Until
then there were but eight months? of
forty-six. days each. Numa added two
more, which gave them, thirtyrsix days
each, and January was ' the ' fourth
month and remained so formore than
two thousand years. April was the first
month and remained so until two hun
dred yean ago. Why it was changed
I cannot understand, for April Is much
more like the beginning of a new year
than January. April comes from aperio,
to open the time when' the earth
opens and the grass comes up and the
flowers bloom and the birds sing. But
the names of almost everything seem
to comfort that old mythology, ' and
we conform to that old" mythology, and
we can't get rid of it. My great-grandfather
lived and died under that old
calendar when April-was the first
month ot the, year. Julius Caesar and
Augustus Caesar-" stuck i n two more
months and made the year of twelve
months of thirty days each but April
remained in the first month and ought
to.be now. - ; .. : ..
But whether Christmas Jie in Decern
ber or in April, we love the old super
stitions that cluster around this sea
son of joy and gladness. I always
thought it a pretty Idea for a man to
be weighed every Christmas or New
Year to put his acts and deeds in the
balances, the good on one side and the
bad on the other, and let him rise to
heaven or fall below it as the scales
might turn. This is not an orthodox
doctrine, for it is said that one bad.
deed Trill outweigh a thousand good
ones. Nevertheless, Belschazar was
weighed, and the scripture abound in
such figures of speech. It will take mi
racles of grace to save us, anyhow, arid
we must all helD one another, for th
devil is doing his best. David commit
ted murder; Solemon worshiped idols;
Cain killed his brother; Jacob cheated
EsaU out of his birthright; Noah got
drunk, and Peter denied his Master,
but they all repented and got foregive
ness; and if there is any difference be
tween folks now and and folks then, I
don't know it. Then let us all love our
Maker and be good to oUr fellow-men.
Bill Am in Atlanta Constitution.
tyEWSY CLEANINGS;
Several changes in the land laws of
Alaska are proposed. .iii
Cornell University's register show$
2068 students enrolled.
Liverpool lias just received its first
consignment of mahogany from Aus
tralia. '
Japan denies that she intends send
ing naval squadrons to Esquimault and
Europe. :
There are twenty-one boys for every
seventy-nine able seamen in the British
Channel fleet. ; ' ,
Two women tramps passed through
Nevada, Mo., a few days ago Tiding on
the iron rods under a box car.
The duty oir automobiles in Russia J
ranges Between cignteen ana iu runies
($9.27 to $101.97) according to size.
The railway bridge at Koksilah, B.
C, has been washed away by aysnddcn
rise'in the river due to heavy rain.
.Exemption from military service on
payment of a sum of money ; is to be
abolished by the new Spanish ministry.
All the coal mines west of Green
Itiver in Kentucky have been pur
chased for $8,000,000 by a syndicate,
headed by J. Pierpont Morgan.
According to a cablegram from Lon
don, England is about to follow the
lead of Russia, Italy, Belgium and
France and have an automobile rail
way.' In .Worcestershire, England, 499
women are engaged making anchors,
while 708 others make needles and
1044 pails. Nearly all are married or
widows.
There were thirty-nine glass-making
plants in operation in Ohio during the
past year, employing 7049 hands and
paying out $3,463,901 in wages, exclu
sive of salaries paid office help.
There is much anxiety felt in Mexico
among the middle classes, including
the wage-earners and salaried men,
over the cost of living, which Is consid
ered entirely out of proportion to the
Incomes.
He Was a Bright Boy-
"I believe that, I have the brightest
office boy in the city,' declared a gen
tleman to a friend in the city.
"That is a rather broad assertion,"
replied the friend. "What particular
claim to brightness has your boy?"
"Well, I have had lots of trouble
with my office boys of late, and they
have . been so decidedly unsatisfactory
and worthless that I have had at least
fifteen in "the past thirty days; 1 1 have
kept a sign out on my door stating
that I was inj need of a bright boy's
services, for j the entire time, almost
and it reads as follows: 'Boy Wanted
About Sixteen Years.' The boy I have
now was secured in. response to the
sign and it was his answer. more than
his appearance that secured him the
.-place.' ; 4&z;?i;ll..l
"How was that?", queried " the
friehd, with some interest.
, "The boy slouched Into the office and
said he had read the sign. 'Do you
want the place?' I asked him. -'Guess
I do he replied, 'but I don't know that
I would want it for the full sixteen
years I employed him on the spot
when I realized that I had omitted
the comma, from the sign." Memphis
Scimitar. '
To, be born without f humor ou.e
loses two-thirds of life's enjoymeut.
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Newsv Items Gleaned
Murphy to flanteo. '
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Charged wtih secretly assaulting
Police Sergeant W. G. Crabtree at a
late hour Friday night, Daniel Hor
ton, a well-known' young v J man who
holds a position as clerk ,.. on Main,
street of Durham, is under a, bond of
$3,000. He is also Under an additional
bond for $100 for carrying concealed
weapons The alleged assault occurred
on Main .street, near midnight and is
the outcome of an old trouble. Hor
tcn has tjeen, mad with tho officer for
some time and on Christmas , day, they
had a fisticuff on Main street, the
fight, being a draw. Friday night lOfll
cer Crabtree was standing on Main
street when.ih 1 says that Jie noticed,
two men coming" up the street, but
paid no attention to them. The next
thing he knew, so he says, was when
he was struck in the back of the head
with a pair of knucks. The blow dazed
him and before he could recover Hor
ton struck two other - blows on the
back of the . head and one in the face.
One wound two inches long was cut
and there were other wounds and
bruises.. In- his own defense Mr. Hor
ton says that he did not assault the
officer secretly. He says that he spoke
to the officer and then struck him and
that the first blow was in the face.'
Mr. Crabtree says that the' first blow
was in the back of the head. .While
the assault was still in progress three
police , officers, who were on the op
posite side of the street, ran over antj
placed Horton under arrest. He was
locked up and remained in prison som
two hours when the mayor agreed to
bail him in the sum of $3,000 for
secret assault and $100 for carry a
concealed weapon.
The rectory H of Grace Episcopal
church, of Morganton, was entirely
consumed "by fire Friday afternoon.
The rector was occupied by the
family of Archdeacon Walter Hugh
son. Within the last few years the
building was remodeled at a cost of
$2,000. Friday morning one of the
chimneys took fire, and a colored ser
vant was lefjf on tb? premises. Mrst
Hushson being absent, to see tnat no
damage was done by the sparks.
Three or four hours later flames burst
from the roof and despite hard work
on the part of the citizens and the
State Hospital fire brigade, the build
ing was burned to the ground. Prac
tically all of the furniture and Mr.
, Hughson's valuable library werfe
saved, though considerably damaged.
The loss on the building Is $2,500,
with $600, insurance in the Georgfa
Home. There was $1,000. insurance on
the furniture in the Carolina Insur
ance Company, of Wilmington.
The annual meeting of the StaU
Literary and Historical Association
will be held on the evening of Jan
uary 23rd, In the music hall of the
Oliver Raney Library; The program
is as follows: Opening address on the
"Work and Possibilities of the As
sociation," by President Henry G,
Connor; report of the "Hall of His
tory," by Fred A. Olds; "Rural Li
braries in North Carolina" (a) extent
and operation, by J. Y. Joyner; (b)
utility and posibilities, by Mrs. Lind
say Patterson; (c) discussion and sug
gestlons; North Carolina biography
for 1902 (a)-''History'' by D. R. Hill;
(b) poetry, by H. J. Stockard; (c)
periodical literatutve, by I. E. Avery.
Claims of a State literature and his
tory on our public schools; election
of; officers ; organization of an au
thors club in the association.
Suspicion is directed toward a
white man as being the one who as
saulted Mrs. Lillian Spivey near Fair,
view on September 29th. Sheriff Reed
is now trying to find him. He escaped
from Captain" Mclver's convict gang
working on the, railroad in Mitchell
county on September. 24th. The gov
ernor has offered a reward of $30(f
ior mm as an escaped convict. For
this assault a negro, Rus Jenkins,
was tried .and acquitted because the
jury did not .beliave he was the man.
Sheriff Reed and other officers never
did think Jenkins was guilty, but
thought the criminal was not a negro.
The first ; circumstances after tht
crime led to this belief.
Mr. J. A. Abernethy, of Lincolnton,
Saturday, sold the Lincoln Cotton
Mills, located near that town, to Mr.
R. C G. Love, of Gastonia, the amount
Involved being, approximately $300.
000. ; " :-s . . . ,
Zeb Wilson, recently elected Stale
Senator from Yancey jcounty, was
k lied last Tuesday, at Bdrnsville by
his brother, Hiram Wilson. It isr re
ported that the brothers quarrelled
in connection with the sale of a
horse.
Mr- E. S. Kelt, treasurer or the
Charlotte council of the Royal Arcan
um Saturday paid Mrs. Tom Wilson
$3,000, the ' amount of Mr. Wilson's
linsurance on the Arcanum. It was this
' Wilson who wa8 killed by. Arthur : U
Bishop a few- weeks ago.
Mrs. F. M. Johnson, of Asheville,
was badly-burned Saturday evening
by a boiler explosion. She had placed
a boiler, a patent affair on the stove
and sealed it, when the explosion oc
curred. The contents of the boiling
vessel vero thrown all , over Mrs.
Johnson, inflicting serious injuries,
but to what extent the physicians can
not yet tU.
Vestal Caudle a young boy of Char
lotte, died Friday from the effects of
a wound-received Christmas day from
a toy pistol.
ORIH SlfllE MflTTtKS
a
From
ONLY (IIS CORPSE
Dead and Decaying Body of a Pollcef
. . man Found.
Durham. Special-Newja reached here
that the remains of John Rogers; a
Doliceman- who' disappeared from his
home at Virginia, on the ' Norfolk &
Western road, some eight weeks ago;
were found near that station oh Satur
day by a party of hunters. The body
was so badly decomposed that recogni
tion was only possible by the" watch
and clothe of the deceased. The story
tbldme tonight is that j; about eight
weeks ago a negro was killed in Vir
ginia. His body was found in the ear
ly morning and with the finding of the
body Office John Rogers disappeared.
It was generally supposed that Rogers
killed him. Rogers had money in the
bank and it was found that this had
beentaken from deposit. ,
Lertheimembers.ofhis family re
ceived a letter stating that Rogers had
'gbnetb'' Asheville and thaChe would
not write again, but for them not to ba
'uneasy. :' ;--t. :!
.... This prevented uneasiness on the
part of the family until the dead body
was found Saturday by hunters. The
supposition is that Rogers killed the
negro, drew his money and attempted
to. get out of the country, but that he
was run down by the friends of j the
dead negror killed and then robbed.
Rogers, it is said, was engaged - to a
well known young lady' in the com
munity. The whole matter, is wrapped
in mystery.
Silk mil For High Point.
High Point, Special. -The large silk
mill for thifi place! mention of which
was made a few davs ago. Is a certain
ty. Interested parties are; here and
have bought five acres of ground from
Mr. J. El wood Cox, on which to erect
the plant. Work oc the buildings will
commence at once; They; will be of
briefc. The main biUdin will be two
stories and probably of 600 feet in
length. The location is. the Kendall
property-in the southern part of town.
It is a pr.'.vate company, the intereste J
parties being Swiss peiple. A higher
class of labor than is found in cotton
factories wilt be employed, as it will be
much nicer. The force of hands will
be increased as they are educated in
tne work; Over one thousand will be
empl deohewyntehniBii, o,scmfwypmf w
employed when the mill in full blast.
The raw silk will be shipped here di
rect from Japan and Italy and , manu
factured in all grades of silks. This is
another addition to High Point's di ver
sified manufacturies, showing that
many things are manufactured here be
sides furniture and it is hailed with de
light by all. '
Gould Gets Control.
New York, Special. Announcement
was made nere that Frank Gould had
obtained control of the Virginia Pas
senger, and Power Company, which
operates a traction system in Rich
mond, Va. The company has 122 miles
of track, in Richmond, Manchester and
Petersburg, including an electric line
22 miles long, between Manchester and
Petersburg. The deal was consummat
ed through the Merchants' Trust Com-:
pany, of this city, which is! to be the
fiscal agent and depositary of the com
pany's funds; -
- Hevy Eighting. j
Caracas, By Cable. Barquisimeto,
capital of the State of Lara, jwhich for
some time past has been in the posses
sion of the Venezuelan revolutionists,
has been recaptured. The town of San
Carlos and TinaquilloT have also been
re-occupied by the government. The
revolutionists at " Barquisimeto were
under the command of Generals Solag
nie and Penaloza. They evacuated the
town after losing 112 men killed and
32! wounded. There was hard fighting
in the streets of Barquisimeto for two
lays.
Cotton Fire at Winnsboro.
Winnsboro, S. C, Special. About
1:30 new years morning fire was dis
covered in the cotton on the south
nln tf nrm at the freight depot. About
sixtv :bals were badly damaged and
om.r nearly destroyed. By hard ana
qulclT"work the burning bales -were
thrown from the platform,' thereby
saving the large freight depot. The
loss is covered by insurance. The
oriein of the fire is not known.
Fire at Gadsden. . . . . . ,
Gadsden, Ala., Special: Fire started'
early Friday morning in a room over
the Cudahy Packing, Company; and
quickly spread to the railroad. Turren
tine's wholesale grocery store and
.Turrentine bottling works. Three
stores with their contents .were de
stroyed. The loss is estimated at $20,
000; partially Insured. Jos. Wilson, In
whose room the fire is said to have
originated, was burned to death and
W. H. Gewin, who occupied - the room
with him had a narrow escape.
Aiiuiv.mo i,y x ru lessor 13 j,
erford, reported to the Royal Soci
of-Canada in Toronto, show that
wonderful substance, radium, f
which a constant, invisible em'ana?
takes-place,' is capable of sending?
rays through from eight, to ten inch
of iron. The . ionization produced b
the rays after emerging from the ir
shows, Professor Rutherford says,
they must" be regarded as' consist
of negatively charged particles. s
In the Dutch East Indies lives n cn
cies of crabs which, are accustomed
the purpose, is is believed, of feedij
upon the fruit. Mr. C. P. Sluiter,
Bantam, avers that he has seen tW
crabs climb to the top qL trees f unv
sixty ieet iu ueigui. tiuough lj
could not see idainly what' they wei
of captive specimens, that they opeuP(i
young cocoauuts and devoured their
contents. It - is doubtful if they caa
break the shell of a ripe cocoanuf.
Hay fever Ms a subject oC perennhi
investigation. By inquiries among oo
persons at North Sea resorts, Dr. Tliajst
has confirmed the assumption that its
chief peculiarity is an idiosyncrasy of
the olfactory nerve in respect to the
odors of certain flowers, and that the
only places absolutely free from it
are those, with scanty low vegetation
without much blossoming. While no
remedy will cure once for all in a few
applications, the experience of these
persons shows that it can be relieved
and even cured by. local treatment.
Physicists have concluded that the
earth in its motion does not drag the
ether along, with it, and thus each
body on the earth's surface, in virtue
of its motion with the earth, is tra.
versed by a stream of ether. The
question thus arises: Does light travel
though such a body with the same
speed along the stream of ether as it
doej against it,, or across it? The ex
periments of Michelsbn and Morley ia
America lead to an affirmative answer
for air. Lord Rayleigh, in England,
has obtained the same answer as to
liquids and is now ,engagecl on a re
search in respect to the phenomena
relating to solids.
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To an artist's eye the sharpness and
the abundant details of what is ordi
narily regarded as a fine photograph
are things to be avoided. Amateur
photographers sometimes share this
impression, and seek, in various ways,
to ; impart t breadth and : artistic feeling
to the productions of their cameras.
The late George M. Hopkins, widely
known vf or his contributions to experi
mental science, suggested a very sim
ple method of obtaining a soft, ethereal
effect in a photograph by means, of a
translucent ground-glass slide through
which; the exposure is made. In this
manner a negative is obtainable from
which the finer details have been cut
out, ; while the lights and shades are
mellowed and a broad effect is secured.
Such photographs; when artist! ca?ry
colored, produce nearly the impression
of a painting.
Ancient Bracelets Found.
Four "magnificent bracelets belong
ing to the Queen of King Zer, who
reigned nearly 5000 B. C were among
the discoveries made by Professor
Petrie while excavating at Abydos,
Egypt. The workmanship of these
is most ingenious and delicate. The
finest bracelet is formed of alternating
plaques of gold and turquoise, each
surmounted with the royal hawk and
paneled to imitate the front of the
tomb or palace. This bracelet consists
of thirteen gold and fourteen turquoise
plaques in the form of a facade, where
upon was inscribed the name of the
queen. The gold was worked by chisel
and burnishing. The second bracelet
had a centre piece of gold, with ame-
thyst and turquoise heads and bands of
braided gold wire. -The. fastening of
the bracelet was by . loops and button
of a hollow ball of gold, with a shank
of gold wire fastened in It. The third
bracelet is of spiral beads of gold and
lazuli in three groups. Making the
fourth bracelet are four f groups of
hour-glass beads, amethyst between
gold, with connections of gold and tur
quoise. Cleveland Tlain Dealer.
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4-::" ; "A Stlcnt Zone. ;
"' That a powerful, alam like a fog
siren can be" sounded without being:
heard is shown by the investigations
of E. P. Edwards on the English coast.
At a distance of a mile froip the siren
the sound began to die away, and be
tween two and three miles it was en
tirely inaudible, while beyond thre?
miles it was' again plainly heard. This
mysterious - "silent zone" - constantly
changed in extent and position Hart
ford Courant. ,;
Th Oldest LesitUtor.
Probably the oldest legislator in the
world is M. de. hygesqr. zu Damro
gaard, member , of the Danish Parlia
ment. He is ninety-eeven.
Her Bridal Veil and Shroud.
The Japanese, 'girl's bridal veil is pnt
away after the ceremonv. not to be
' used till her death, when it" becomes
ner shroud. ... -.