r CARTERET COUNTY NEWS-TIMES I Cartmt County'* Newepeper EDITORIALS FRIDAY, JUNE 13, 1958 The Mirage of Free Money The voice crying for economy is a voice unheard. It cries alone in the wilderness. The average person be lieves that expenses should be cut ? as for example ? a reduction of expenses ' in the county welfare department, but actually doing that seems to be an im possibility. Part of the impossibility can be at tributed to the fact that welfare de partment personnel have little desire to see any reduction. This, of course, is t not unique. Every government agency, whether it be in Carteret or Washing ton, D. C., wants its budget big. Thus, without the cooperation of the depart ment, the county commissioners have a difficult task trying to hold taxes down. Welfare expenses have been grow ing consistently. In 1956-57 the wel fare budget had increased $12,433.06 , over the previous year. Last year the total expenses of the department were $453,369. For the coming fiscal year < expenses have been figured at $473,000. When those who would cut welfare expenses attempt to do so, welfare per sonnel cry, "Oh, but we put about half a million dollars in circulation in the county and all the county has to put up to get that is $78,000." Therein lies the pit that traps a local government that attempts to match state and federal dollars. A grocery store owner has only $1,000 but Uncle Sam comes along and siys, "If you give me $2,000 I'll give you $12,000." The grocer thinks he's found a gold mine, i All he has to do is find an extra $1,000 t somewhere every year for as long as he's in business. So he goes into debt. Nine chances out of ten, that grocer will soon be bankrupt. But with government, it's different. The primrose path these days is deficit spending ? spending money you haven't got. Carteret County does not have the money (without raising taxes) to support the welfare department at its present rate of "high living". Wel fare officials state that there is no way expenses can be cut, that they are bound by state and federal regulations. If this is true, why the variance in grants paid in counties throughout the state ? > In January 1958, Carteret's grant to a permanent and totally disabled per son was $41.12. Seventy-nine counties in the state paid less, ranging from grants of $28 Q3 la X?ncey County to a high of $46.54 in Mecklenburg. The average grant was $39.53. That same month, Carteret's aid to the aged grant was $36.27. Seventy counties paid less. The average grant was $35.24. Carteret's aid to a dependent child that month was $18.32, the same amount being paid in Wake County. Sixty-seven counties paid less. Welfare officials say that they can not reduce the number on the welfare rolls. They refuse to figure grants on any basis that would tend to reduce the amount of money the county must pay to match state and federal funds. They are hypnotized by a theory that re quires the county to bankrupt itself to get "free dollars". County commissioners are the first to recognize that there are many people who must have help. But it seems as though welfare personnel, in whose hands lies the responsibiilty to help, are supporting many folks in a hand some manner ? at the expense of the struggling taxpayer. This is the Month of . . . June is the month of brides ? and f bridegrooms. Of the latter, you may not be aware, but 'tis true. The bridegroom is the unsung. b?ro, the violet (violet?) that blbomi un seen. The formula for being the perfect bridegroom is to speak only when spoken to. If you must ask questions, don't ask such stupid ones, and try to make yourself as scarce as possible. Show up at the church for the wedding at exactly the time specified, not 60 I > seconds early and certainly NOT one second late. Being late at the church could send the bride into a state that would take her longer to recover from than the marriage itself. When at the altar and you feel as though the suit is too small, and the floor is tilting, just lean slightly the < ' other way until you feel a quick jab in the ribs, and you'll know that it's time to turn and go back down the aisle. Apparently you're married. Did I kiss her? Yes, I guess I must have. I think I remember hearing somebody say, "Now you may kiss the bride." Boy, I certainly could stand some thing wet with some ice in it. Oops, I ?knew I'd step on her gown. Don't know , why those women in the audience ? I mean congregation ? groaned so. That ^ wasn't an awfully big piece that came off the bottom of her dress. It was too long anyhow. I could have told her that, but she wouldn't let me see her in it until the ceremony. Well, I guess we hav* to stand here in the church vestibule and meet that mob, I mean our friends. "Thank you. Yes, mam, I'm sure we , will be." Ohmigosh. Here comes Old Pieface, I mean Miss Wickle. She's going to kiss me and ask me if I remember the day she gave me a cookie after I fell out of her pecan tree. Ker-smack! Yes Miss Wickie. I cer tainly do. ?#8. mam. Thank you. How do you do? No sir, don't be lieve I do recall. Thank you. I'm sure we'll be. Thank you. Yes mam. Smile. Make them think you're enjoying this. My gosh, SHE is. Look at her. Just beaming. Ohmigosh, the church isn't half empty yet. Any guy that gets mar ried more than once ought to have his head examined. Thank you. So glad you could get here. I'm sure we'll be. Thank you . . . thank you . . . thank . . . wha- what? We're going? Where's what bouquet? I don't know where your bouquet is. Maybe one of the bridesmaids has it What do you want it for? You've got to throw it? Throw it where for heav en's sakes? Oh well. I guess she'll find it. Did I say that any guy that gets married more than once ought to have his head examined? Any guy who gets married ought to have his head examined, period. She Raises Spiders We all fear the black widow spider because its bite might cause death. But this insect helped win the last war for Uncle Sam in spinning many hundreds of feet of silk. The silk is used in mak ing bomb sights and range finders. There is a woman in California who raises black widow spiders. She draws the silk from the spider and winds it on a tiny reel. This woman is not afraid of the black widows. She lets them crawl in her lap and over her hands. She says they are like bees, and can tell when anyone is afraid of them. And those who are afraid, the spider is apt to bite. Carteret County News-Times WINNER OF NATIONAL EDITORIAL ASSOCIATION AND NORTH CAROLINA PRESS ASSOCIATION AWARDS A Verger of The Beiafort New? (Est. 1*12) and The Twin City Timet (Est. 11M) Published Tuesday* and Friday* by the Carteret Publishing Company, Inc. 804 Arendell St, Monhoad City, N. C. LOCXWOOD PHILLIPS - PUBLISHER ELEANORE DEAR PHILLIPS - ASSOCIATE PUBLISHES RUTH L. PEELING - EDITOR Mail Rates: In Carteret County aad ad)ott>? counties, *00 one year, tut ab $l.2S ooe month; elsewhere 17.00 an* year, $4.00 aix menlhe. |1J0 as* Member ef Associated Press ? N. C. Press Aaooeiatlot National Editorial Association ? Audit Boreas of Circulations i 4 Fischer, Inc. 10 East 40th Street, New Yort 10. N. Y. Iko Associated Pross la entitled excloaWely to use for republication of local now* prlatod i? thft newspaper, aa won as all AP news dispatches data Matter at Morobead City, N. C., Under Act 0< March 1, lfl> ? - - ? -- - - ? - ? EVERYTHING BUT THE KITCHEN SINK Rv -.mm WUK . a financial j stew f /SfcisM 2S? The Readers Write Morehcad City, N. C. June 10, 1958 To the Editor: Have you ever heard of the churches taking part in the ad vertising of the movie theatre be fore? Do you know that some of the churches in Morehead City accept ed free movie tickets so that they could send their children into the things of the world? I wonder what kind of pastors we have in our churches today. Are they just men preaching or are they men dedicated to the work of God? About 1904 years ago, Paul, a great preacher, told in his letter to the Galatians how we must keep the desires of the flesh under the spirit of God al ways. We can't keep our children in a Christ-like manner and send them to the theatres. In the theatre we find on the screen fornication, impurity, in decency, idol worship, sorcery, quarrels, Jealousy, passionate an ger, envy, drunkenness and things of that kind, and when the preach ers or anyone else put their hand of approval on anything such as stated, they themselves are guilty of the thing they approve. I feel that some of the churches have drifted far from the teaching of the Lord. I heard that the picture that was shown to the children of the churches >n Morehead City was a picture of a dog. I don't really know what the picture was about and the picture may have been fine, but how many of the chil dren will want to go back again and see other pictures which were advertised at that time? For the theatre giving the chil dren a free pass, it will pay off. This kind of bait works fine. For the churches that accept and distribute such bait and take our children into the world, away from the teaching of God, I can see nothing but damnation. We must enlighten the boys and girls of our Sunday Schools and Bible Schools U> the life of Christ and teach them the way to live and walk with Christ while they are young. We would surely have a better tomorrow. The teachings of Paul years ago ii the same as the teaching of our preachers today. The only differ ence about the preachers of today is that they need to get on their knees, dedicating themselves to Christ so that they may be able to lead the children in the right direction. Albert N. McElmoo Free Wheeling By BILL CROWELL Motor Vehicle! Department WINNER . . . Seldom does a re porter draw an assignment as cheerful as that of interviewing Miss Ada Mae Black, champion school bus driver, candidate for a degree in business administration, and student leader. My first meeting with Miss Black was at last year's school bus roadeo, the rugged competition that rewards champion drivers with scholarships. Ada Mae was the top girl driver last year and is currently finishing up her first year of study at the Sacred Heart Junior College in Belmont. I hap pened by there the other day and a more refreshing two hours would be hard to come by. Miss Black is the kind of young woman any man would want for a sister or a daughter. A model stu dent, vastly popular with her class mates and a natural born leader, she excels in her studies and wants to become a certified public ac countant. The $500 scholarship for her championship performance at the wheel last year has enabled her to get a good start toward that goal. "Actually," she said, "I would have had little chance to attend college at all had il not been for the scholarship. I had already made plana to work for at least a year before going on to college." Miss Black is from a rural Gas ton County family of six. Her fa ther, J. A. Black, is a foreman with the State Highway Commis sion. "With a family that size," Ada Mae confessed, "it would have been awfully bard, if not im possible, for me to have gone to college." She began driving a school bus during her junior year at Tryon High School where, in addition to her driving chores, she managed a M average in her studies, point ing all the while toward her am bition of becoming a CPA. She graduated sixth in her class of >1. During ber last year at Tryon, Miss Black drove a 35 mile bus route, day in and (lay out, with no untoward incidents save one. "1 got stuck in a ditch one time," she confessed with a laugh. Other wise the champion driver trans ported her 60 youngsters to and from their daily classes with nary a Mack mark against bar safety record. Her only problems arose infrequently from unruly children. usually the very young ones. How did she feel about entering the school bus roadeo, knowing that competition would be intense? "I was a little nervous at first, of course," she said. "But when the principal selected me for the district competition, I decided to go ahead and do the very best I could. And, too, I figured winning the scholarship would assure me of getting started in college." Finals for the annual Governor's Traffic Council conducted roadeo are held each year in Chapel Hill. Ada Mac, and 59 other hopefuls who had won district contests were invited to the finals. A grueling two days of written tests and behind-the-wheel per formances by the contenders soon eliminated all but the most profi cient. Roadeo officials have re called that between events Ada Mae could be observed quietly itudying each contestant's maneu vers, taking note of pitfalls to avoid when her turn came. When it did, she went at it with courage and determination. And it paid off when roadeo Judges, themselves veteran trucking industry officials, declared her the first place girl winner and champion driver of the year. For her performance Miss Black received a handsome trophy and the $500 scholarship. Similar awards, incidentally, will be made at the 1958 roadeo finals, scheduled for early June in Chapel Hill. At Sacred Heart Ada Mae as sists in coaching athletics. Next year, she said, college officials have offered to continue her schol arship in exchange for her coach ing duties, thus enabling her to finish her college career. And for my money it couldn't have happened to a nicer person. SUDDEN THAWT . , . Will shift less transmissions bring on a gen eration of "shiftless" drivers? HOW FAST . . . Keep that speed ometer needle where it ought to be. Here's a little formula to help you establish a reasonable driving speed when you're out on the open road. Take your age and multiply by two. Now add 40, and divide the sum by six. Add to, then subtract hall your age. Result? ... If you figured right the answer ahould com* out mttwban around so stpb. Comment . . . j. Keiium 1 i INDIVIDUAL RESPONSIBILITY "I am only one, but I am one. ' 1 cannot do everything, but I ' can do something; And what I can do, that I ought to do; I And what I ought to do, by the | grace of God, I will do." , ? Edward Everett Hale A human being is a wonderful crcature, endowed with a mind which can reach out to embrace every aspect of life upon this earth 1 and some aspects of the universe beyond, confined only by the de gree to which his mind is skilled. Skills of the mind arc not neces sarily learned in school. Facts are. Rut skill is quite another thing: it is a matter of use, and not in arti ficial situations. Biblically, we are adjured in the parable of the talents (money) to employ our talents (abilities). Not only are we told to use them, but to make a profit with them. He who buried his talent was told by his angry master that he it least could have let it gather interest. In the squeeze between the lim itations of education and the de mands of necessity, we have nu merous and varied opportunities to use our individual abilities. We all use them to some degree or we would be little more active than vegetables. Nevertheless, it is like ly that very few of as succeed in accomplishing anywhere near what we could if we used what we have more often and more effectively. It is of no use whatsoever to prate about "they" and "them". They and them may very well be nothing but our personal default. It is impossible to deny that many situations we disdain and regret exist only because too few of us are willing to put our necks into the harness and take our share of the load onto our own back*. This is true in the home, the school, the church, the government and every conceivable area of human activ ity. ] Ultimately, the cause of all that we do as individuals, group* and | nations rests upon just how well each one of us fills that particular space which is his allotment in the pattern of life. It is ours to do just as we jolly well please with it ? nothing at all, something once in i a while, or the beat we can, using all of our energies and ambitions. Our laws, after all, exist only to prevent us from trampling each others' efforts and territories. They do not exist to make us wise or willing or to endow us in any way with that greatest of all human tri umphs, the achievement of becom ing a whole soul worth having around in this world and reward ing in the next. 1 Loulf Splvy Words of Inspiration THOUGHTS AND FRAYER8 FOB FATHER'S DAT The autbori of the following prayera are unknown. The sentiments expressed will always be freab and alive and meaningful aa la the day vhich we observe Sunday, Father's Pay. A FATHER'S PRAYER I have a boy to bring up. Help me to perform my task with wisdom ind kiidnesa and good cheer. Help me see him clearly as he is. Let >ot my pride in him hide his faults. Let not my fear for him magnify my doubts. Quicken my judgment, so that I shall know how to train lim to think and to be in all things pure and simple. Give me great patience and long memory. Let me remember the iard places of my own youth, that I may help when 1 see him strug gling, as 1 struggled. Let me remember the things that made me glad, est I forget that child's laughter is the light of life. Teach me the love that knows no weakness, tolerates no selfishness. Keep me from weakening my son through granting him pleasures that end in sickness of soul. Grant that I love my son wisely. 1 have a boy to bring up. Teach me to give him the values and wauty, just rewards of industry Help me to send him into the world with a mission of service. Strengthen my mind, that I may teach him :hat he is his brother's keeper, and to serve those who know not the need of service, and not knowing, need it the most. I have a boy to bring up. So guide and direct me that I may do this service to the glory if God, the service of my country, and to my son's happiness. Amen. Men who are the longest remembered, and whose memories are most highly revered, are not those that make the most money; but those ivhosc hearts were gentle, whose sympathies were abroad and who best served humanity. What we put in the thoughtstream and sight stream of our children will be in the life-stream tomorrow. ? Perry E. Webb PRAYER FOR EVERY HOUSEWIFE "Dear God, I thank Thee for the mate whose years are ones of toil that 1 and our children may have comfortable clothes, good food, fire, shelter and the safety of home. "I thank Thee for the joyous cry of Daddyl Daddy! which rings throughout the house wheaever father comcs and which expresses the love and happiness of our little ones. "I thank Thee for that line of red, yellow, blue and pink which I have bung up to dry in the morning sun, and that the joy of washing those small garments has been given to me. "I thank Thee for the small arms about my neck at bedtime. I thank rhee for little fumbling hands that always want my help. I thank Thee tor childish voices with their singing and laughter and questions. I thank Thee for my home, where I may serve those whose health and comfort have been given info my hands. "Oh God, make me big enough always to love my job. Give me the patience to bear with childish ways and may I have wisdom that I may gently lead my children to grow into fine adults, happy bccause they have found the joy in work and service and beauty in little things about them every day, and may I never miss a rainbow or a sunset bccause I am looking down instead of up." Security for You... By RAY HENRY From Mrs. E. P. of Frederick* burg, V*.: "My husband U bow 40 and baa worked under Social Security for nearly It year*. Will he be entitled to the maximum Social Security payments when he reache* (ST What will I be eligible for at (5 aa hi* wile?" Maximum payments will bn paid to your husband only if he has worked for the maximum earnings allowed under Social Security all years beginning with 1951 and ending with his (5th birthday. Your husband had worked long enough to be entitled to monthly payments. But, the size of his pay ments at 65 depends on his entire working lifetime. You will be eli gible for one-half the amount of your husband's payments when you reach 65. From Mias R. L .A. of Oak land, Calif.: "May a federal gov ernment employee make deposits to the retirement fund and Im prove her eventual retirement annuity? I mean depoalta which would be in addition to the reg ular (4 per cent which I* de ducted from a person's salary." Yea. Such deposits, commonly known aa voluntary contributions, may be made for the expreaa pur pose of increasing the annuity at Lime of retirement. Tbcae contri butions must be made in multiples of $25 (i.e., $25, $50, etc.) and the total may not exceed 10 per cent of the total basic pay received since Aug. 1, 1920. From M. A. E. of Newark, N. J.: "I worked from 19M to 1*S1 nnder Social Security. 1 am 55 year* old and was disabled in 1955. May I now qualify for So cial Security diaablllty pay ments? I've been told by my Social Security office that I can't." Your Social Security office Is right. You don't meet the work requirements of the disability pay ment program. They provide that you must work under Social Secur ity i year and a half out of the three years immediately before your disability began. You stopped working under Social Security in 19S1 and your disability didn't start until 1955. From A. W. of Fort Colliaa, Col*.: "Daring World War I, I received an Injury while fighting in France. I'm presently receiv ing only about $30 a month for thif injury. Would it be possible for me to receive more? I feel that I should be receiving more because the disability glvea me a lot of trouble." You may receive more if you feel that the disability has got worse since the Veterans Adminis tration last examined the disabil ity. 1 suggest that you get in touch with the nearest VA office im mediately and request a reexam ination. From F. H. of Columbia, Mo.: "I draw a pension from the Vet erans Administration. I have worked under Social Security from the time it first started. When I reach ?S, can I draw my Social Security without anything being deducted because I am drawing a pension from the VAT" Yet, ai far as Social Security la concerned. However, receiving Social Security may have an ef fect on your eligibility to the vet eran'i pension. Your income In-, eluding the Social Security pay ments may be only $1,400 a year if you have no dependents, or $2, 700 a year If you have dependents. The pension itself Isn't counted against this limit. (Editor's Note: You may coo fact the social security repre sentative at the courthouse an nex, Beaufort, from l:M a.m. to U:? p.m. Wednesdays. Be will help you with your own particu lar problem). Too Much Knowingness VAN WYCK BROOKS 'From ? Writer'* Notebook' The most serious charge that critici can bring againat a writer nowadaya ia to aay that be ia naive, and yet aomething like naivete ia rapidly becoming the one thing necessary for writers. Or perhaps the right word ia ingenuousness, (or I do not recommend the untu tored, the too artless or the pro vincial. What I do mean la the opposite of the kind of sophistical knowing nesa that chokes so much of the writing of this generation. The lit erary mind of our day reflects the general urban mind in being, in all respects, overconscioua, while the maas-influences of advertising, analyaia, cosmetics and Kinsey re port! have worn away its fresh ness and destroyed It! bloom. In consequence it hai lost the capacity for wonder that la so ea aential to the poet and the story - telt*r What waa It that accounted for Dylan Thomas' unique position among the younger pat* of Um time? Precisely that be bad es caped the sophistication that has paralyied the contemporary poetic mind . . . One of my correspondent! wrote to ma the other day that "the young writers of America are old and dangerous." From that frame of mind how can writing emerge? When no one speaks of the heart any longer except as a physical organ, and few seem to know the difference between love and sex, what becomes inevitably of natural feeling? And without natural feel ing there can be no wonder, the kind of wonder that gave Theodore Dreiser, banal and material as he waa, the sense that, in Ufa and the world, be waa "a guest at a feast." SmiU o WhiU Wile? "I've got a lot of things I want to talk to you about" Husband ? "That's fine. You usually want to talk about ? lot at things you (ml ?ot" Stamp News Br STD KRONBB Three commemorative# in the 959 United States (tamp program lave been announced by Poatmas fr General Arthur E. Summer leld. They are: 1. Stamp commemorating the 00th anniversary of Oregon stste lood. Feb. 14, 1959. 2. Stamp commemorating the Oth anniversary of the discovery if the North Pole. April 6. 1959. I. Stamp commemorating the ipening of the St. Lawrence Sea ray. May or June of IKS. Stamp Notes . . . France has ls ued a new IS franc adhesive howing a drawing of the famed lenlia Cathedral. The stamp waa leaigned by Andre-Spitz . . . Finland haa issued three new emi-poatala lor its Tuberculosis USD. . . Foot stamps with bird leslgns have been issued by the Netherlands AnUUes. Pictured are he sparnnrkawk. yellow orM#, ba dove ?od Ik* Hfitsst.