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DEAR SALLY BY SAT T V SIIAW DEAR SALLY: A certain at tractive young man and I dated regularly last summer, and he promised faithfully he would write to me every every week when I went to college. How ever, he has now been away for over two months, and there hasn't been one line from him. This hurts me deeply, especial ly when I remember some of the sweet things he whispered into my ear last summer. I now understand he will be visit ing home in a couple of weeks. How should I act when I run into him? Should I ask for an explanation? Why did he for get me? Please advise me. UN WRITTEN. DEAR UNWRITTEN: Be plea sant, be friendly, be non chalant-- but refrain from any third degrees. If there's some logical explanation for his fai lure to write, he'll volunteer it if he wants to--and it he doesn’t want to, questioning him will only embarrass both of you and gain you nothing. * * * DEAR SALLY: You have of course heard of “mania's gills.’’ Well it happens I’m married to a “brother’s girl.’’ The girl I’ve been married to for the past year has a “big brother” complex. Everything seems to revolve around him. He’s a bachelor who lives a lone, and too much of his liv ing is in our home. He’s around too often and w’hen be isn’t, my wife is at his place. If he gets a bad cold, she has to run over to his apartment to take care of him, and every problem that comes up for my wife has to he referred to “big brother”. He even give her money frequently. So far SOIVE-A-CRiME BY A. C. GORDON You Are The Detective The wealthy millionaire In dustrialist, Vernon Ross, lies dead on the thick carpet of his office. "It was self-defense all the way," exclaims his young ne phew. Jim Spreen. "I certain *Jy didn’t mean t 0.... but when he *;ame at me with that gun..." he breaks oif and shakes Ills head unbelievingly. "Suppose you tell me the entire story," you suggest. "Well, Uncle Vernon had been teed off at me for the last couple of days. He was a hard man to get along with, and working with him here at the office was plain torture often times. This latest incident In volved liis disapproval of the way I handled a recent deal our company put over. We had some very heated words here In the office this afternoon, and when I saw that he was al most purple with anger, I de cided it might lx* better to give him time to cool 0ff....50 I turned away from him and walk ed over to the window. "I pulled up the Venetian blinds on the window and was standing there looking out and rather enjoying the warm feel . ing or the sunshine pouring 'v through the window onto my face when suddenly I saw Uncle Vernon’s reflection in the window glass. He was coming PIZZA A FOOTBALL SPECIAL Plan a victory celebration for hungry fans after the weekend foctbali game. While the guys replay each quarter, the gals can team up on refreshments. Since pizza leads the league as the party favorite, you can count on enthusiastic cheers for Easy Salami Pizza. The tender, crisp crust is a snap to make with pie crust mix. Just mix with garlic powder and water, roll and bake. Top the crust with seasoned tomato sauce, black olives, salami wedges and Moz zarella cheese. It’s a winning combination! EASY SALAMI PIZZA Makes 6 servings One 10-oz, pkg. Flako Pie 1 teaspoon oregano, Crust mix crushed / teaspoon garlic powder '/, cup sliced black 4 tablespoons coid water olives One 15-oz. can tomato sauce One 5-oz. pkg. sliced with tomato bits, onion, cotto salami celery and green peppers One 6-oz. pkg. Mozzerella cheese slices Heat oven to hot (425° F.). Combine pie crust mix and garlic powder. Add water a tablespoon at a time, tossing lightly with fork, Form into ball. Roll out on lightly floured board or canvas form 13-inch circle. Fit Into 12-inch pizza pan. Trim until even with outside edge of pan. Turn under edge until even with inside rim of pan, pressing firmly onto sides. Prick bottom and M •' sides with fork. Bake in preheated oven (425° F.) 10 to 12 minutes. Remove from oven. Spoon tomato sauce over bottom of crust. Sprinkle with oregano and olive slices. Cut salami into small thin wedges, arrange over sauce. Cut each cheese slice in hall diagonally; place over top of pizza. Return to oven; con tinue baking 10 to 15 minutes until bubbly. Cut and serve. I’ve managed to keep quiet a bout this, but I’m getting fed up to here with playing second fiddle to “big brother.” I need some advice! ALSO RAN. DEAR ALSO: Take a firm stand. Tell you wife that her first responsibility is to you, her husband, and that there is far too much brother in your household... also that the mo ney gifts must stop at once. From what you say, you have been talking this much too pas stvelv. * * * DEAR SALLY: There’s a wo man working in our office whc really gets on my nerve. She is very capable in her work, but she is also extremely of ficious, supercilious, and ob noxious. This may sound un reasonable to you, but all the same I’ve worked up a terrific dislike for her and it’s af fecting my own work. Every time she comes near me, my nerves twitch and I almost cringe away from her. I get along fine,with other people, but somehow I find it impossible io stomach this particular wo man. What’s the answer? ONE OF THE GIRLS. DEAR ONE OF THE GIRLS: This boils down to a question of mind over matter. You're going to have to THINK your way out of this feeling. And the best way to do this is to know the woman better, talk with her, and try to under stand her. There is usually a big, logical reason for the apparently disagreeable facade some people present to the world—and often when we learn that reason, we can under stand and cope with their bit terness. It’s worth a trial any way, don’t vou aeree? toward me with a gun In his hand! I wheeled around as fast as I could, managed to grab the wrist of his gun hand.... we strained and struggled for several minutes, then the gun went off, and Uncle Vernon fell to the floor dead!” You now bend over and care fully pick up the gun which lles_ on the floor next to the vic tim’s body. “You’ll find both of our fing erprints on that,” mentions young Spreen. “Oh I’m sure I shall,” you concede. “But I suspect that your uncle’s prints have been planted on the gun. You told me a pretty good story, but not quite good enough. I’m taking you with me on suspicion of murder!” Vh y do you suspect Jim Spreen of murder? SOLUTION If the sun had been shining through the window on Jim Spleen’s face, as he told you, then there would not possibly have been any reflection on the glass from behind hirn. ###*# Don't depend on well-meaning neighbors for social security in formation. Get the facts at the social security office. ###*# People who get social security checks should let the social se curity office know when they change their mailing addresses Tie Veteran’s Corner EDITOR’S NOTE: Below are authoritative answer by the Vet erans Administration to some of the many current questions from former servicemen and their families. Further infor mation on veterans benefits may be obtained at any VA office or your local service organiza tion representative. Q- ! am interested in pur chasing a VA repossessed home. Where may I obtain a list of brokers? 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Interest should be re ported only for the calendar year in which the bonds are cashed, * * * Q - My VA pension was dis continued when I received an extra large dividend which put me over the ceiling. Does this mean that I will no longer re ceive a pension? A- If the dividend was a one time payment, your pension will be discontinued only for the cur - rent year. Next year, you will again be eligible if your Income reverts to the status it was prior to the time your pension was discontinued. * * * Q - Is a woman who draws VA benefits as a widow of a veteran entitled to an extra SSO allowance if she becomes a patient in a nursing home? A- Yes. Ye.*. We AII Talk PUBLIC SPEAKING POINTERS 1. Stand at least 12 inches from the microphone and aim your voice over or to the side. You can achieve visual directness (eye contact) by looking at your audience to the right and left, but never turn yourfacefromthe audience when talking. If you do, people will gather that you are an amateur. Would not it be wonderful If people didn’t use m ikes? This wou 1 d reduce reading instead of speaking. 2. In practicing, screen out bad mannerisms as picking the teeth, fiddling braciet or key charm, or fountain pen In your pocket. Ladies, don’t pat your hair. Don’t be afraid of paus es-~they can recapture a lag ging interest of the listeners. 3- Ignores weatiug palms, pounding hearts, and shaky knees. You are not the first speaker to be nervous. Ap proach the audience with confi dence as did Jesus Christ who had an amazing self-assurance. Don’t slouch, pull at a shirt collar, or crouch your bode. Humor must be natural, but you are not required to use it. Never Indulge in sarcasm or ridicule of the audience. Fol lowing a touch of humor, smile. This is a signal that it is okay for the audience to laugh. Avoid personal jokes unless they are aimed at you. Don’t be compel led to tell smootty party jokes. READERS: For my Discus sion Pamphlet , send two stamps and a long, self-addressed busi ness envelope to M. H. Boul vare, Florida A & M Univer sity, Box 193, Tallahassee, Flo rida -- 32307. 0$ To Chmtk Sunday * ■ y COMPANY WILL SPONSOR SUITE FOR SHAW UNIVERSITY- James E. Hamilton (right), District Representative for Anheuser Busch, talks with Dr. J. Archie Hargraves in his office after telling the nresident that his company will sponsor a Hospitality Suite in the Sir Walter Hotel during H nine coming Activities for alumni and friends of the university. The suite will be open when events are not being held on Friday and Saturday, November 12 and 13. THE CAROLINIAN RALEIGH, N. C., SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 13, 1871 15
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