The Charlotte Jewish News - March 2015 - Page 26 Relational Judaism Weekend: Dr. Ron Wolfson Returns “Judaism is about relationship - with others, with God, with the tradition itself,” points out Rabbi David Wolpe of Sinai Temple, Los Angeles. Rabbi Wolpe enthusias- tieally shares, “There is no more sure-footed guide to the relation ships in our lives than Ron Wolf- son, teaeher extraordinaire.” Temple Israel and Temple Beth El have joined forees to bring Dr. Ron Wolfson baek to Charlotte, so that many more people in our Charlotte eommunity may benefit direetly from Dr. Wolfson’s teaeh- ing in his upeoming visit, the weekend of Friday, Mareh 27 through Saturday, Mareh 28. Motivated to help Jewish or ganizations aeross the eountry to address deelining membership and ill attended programs. Dr. Wolfson authored the game- ehanging book. Relational Ju daism: Using the Power of Relationships to Transform the Jewish Community. Wolfson ap plies the best thinking from the Dr. Ron Wolfson eorporate and nonprofit worlds, lending seholarship that is metie- ulously researehed and peppered with real life examples, to outline a new paradigm for ereating a vi brant Jewish eommunity. “Ron Wolfson is a dynamie and engaging seholar, who weaves a vision filled with hope for the fu ture of Jewish eommunal life in the United States. Flis vision is Temple Beth El: A Hub for Unique Communities Engaged in Jewish Living By Cantor Mary Thomas The synagogue is a beit t’filah - a house of prayer, a beit midrash - a house of study, and a beit k’- nesset - a house of gathering. At Temple Beth El we have dynamie serviees and learning opportuni ties for all ages. We are a plaee of eonneetion for many. The Temple Beth El eommu nity has ereated one of the most sueeessful youth engagement pro grams in the eountry. Yet, sueeess is not without ehallenges. Syna gogues throughout the eountry faee the struggle of a “earpool eul- ture,” where students are dropped off and parents rarely enter the synagogue for their own enrieh- ment and spiritual development. When kids are served so well, par ents may - subeonseiously or not - foeus their Jewish involvement and partieipation on their ehildren, and not themselves. Oftentimes, this is based out of neeessity: kids’ sehedules are ehallenging, there is an ineredible amount of driving to and fro, and work is demanding. When do you find time to buy groeeries, go to the gym, or have the oeeasional date night, never mind the synagogue and Jewish living. We hope to get ahead of this national trend of disaffiliation by strengthening Temple Beth El as a beit k’nesset - not just a house of gathering, but a hub for building unique, small eommunities en gaged in Jewish Living. Through strong lay partnerships, we are building networks of Jewish Liv ing Groups. These groups are small eommunities within Temple Beth El united by interest, affinity, or life eireumstanee. Club Sandwieh: Our first Jew ish Living Group is Club Sand wieh, eomprised of members earing for family members in mul tiple generations, sueh as aging parents and teens still living at home. Club Sandwieh has been eontagious and exeiting,” says Rabbi Murray Ezring of Temple Israel. “Communal religious life is all about relationships. Our love for one another; our support for one another draw us eloser to ex- perieneing the Divine on earth.” Temple Israel and Temple Beth El invites all Jews, affiliated and unaffiliated, young and old, lay leaders and staff, from all over the Charlotte area to attend this up eoming speeial Shabbat weekend, absolutely free of eharge and ere ated to benefit the Charlotte Jew ish eommunity at large. You are invited to engage in a eonversa- tion with Dr. Wolfson that will transform your thinking about the future of your Jewish life and of Jewish organizations. The follow ing events are open to the publie: Friday, Mareh 27 - Temple Beth El Community Shabbat Serviees, 7 PM - Blessing and Kisses: the Power of Jewish Family Life. This leeture is sponsored in part by the Sadie Levin Seholar-in-Residenee program in memory of the mother of Norm Levin, Temple Beth El’s Flonorary Life President. Relational Judaism Using ttio Power of RelaHonships to Transform ihe Jewish Community temp)e Israel judaiitnUxiitejliit Dr. Pon Wolfson ip Saturday, Mareh 28 - Temple Israel Shabbat Serviees, 9:30 AM - Building Good Tents: Envisioning the Relational Synagogue of the 21st Century. Saturday, Mareh 28 - Sam Lemer Center at Shalom Park (Building A) After serviees at both temples, the Jewish eommunity will eome together for a speeial Kiddush in TEMPLE BETH EL the Sam Lemer Center of Shalom Park. Immediately after Kiddush, Dr. Wolfson will present. Beyond Maxwell Flouse: Flow to Flave the Greatest Seder Ever. For more information about these events, you may eontaet the Clergy Offiee of Temple Israel at 704-362-2796 or Temple Beth El at 704-366-1948.^ meeting sinee Oetober 2014 and has observed holidays, havdalah, and has engaged in study while deepening their interpersonal rela tionships. Tiles and Tribulations: Launehed in February, the Tiles and Tribulations Mah Jongg Jew ish Living Group is an intergener- ational mix of Mah Jongg players from noviee to expert who explore Jewish wisdom as they study their tiles. Women (and men) of all gen erations spent a Shabbat together: eating, praying, exploring the game, and getting to know one an other. In Mareh, Tiles and Tribu lations eontinues to support the noviees through extra praetiee ses sions at Whole Foods while build ing ongoing Mah Jongg groups who will play and build Jewish eontent into the eommunities built around their games. Bourbon and Banter: The Bour bon and Banter Jewish Living Group meets for the first time on Mareh 7 for havdalah, bourbon, and Jewish learning. Bourbon and Banter will ereate eommunity around good Bourbon and great Jewish ideas. RSVP to attend by Mareh 4 at www.beth-el.eom. Other groups in development inelude an Outdoor Aetivities Group, whieh should also launeh in Mareh, Single Women in their 50s and 60s, and more. All you need to start a Jewish Living Group is a passion, two dedieated lay leaders, and a willingness to weleome Jewish perspeetive and eontent into that aetivity. Temple Beth El will eontinue to grow as a plaee of prayer, study, aetion, gathering, but also as a foeal point for a renewed engage ment with daily Jewish life. Please eontaet CantorMary@beth-el.eom for more information about the ex isting Jewish Living Groups or if you are interested in forming one of your own. ^ Dan Nichols Returns to Charlotte Temple Beth El weleomes Dan Niehols as we eelebrate our Jew ish eommunity and seeular eduea- tors on Arthur Tirsun Teaeher Appreeiation and Edueation Shabbat. We hope you will join us on Saturday, Mareh 14 at 11 AM at Temple Beth El in the Blumenthal Sanetuary Temple Beth El is exeited to announee the return of beloved singer-songwriter, Dan Niehols. Dan Niehols is a singular talent in the world of Jewish musie. Fie is one of the most dynamie, influen tial, and beloved Jewish musi- eians in North Ameriea. Dan’s melodies have beeome an integral part of the spiritual and liturgieal experienee of eountless individu als and Jewish eommunities, in eluding ours. Dan will be joining our elergy to lead a magnifieent, musieal Shabbat morning eongregational serviee that will honor our Jewish and eommunity edueators. Fie will be joined by the TBE Teen Voeal Ensemble, Teen Band, Youth Choir, and Religious Sehool Song Leaders. Everyone is weleome to attend. Temple Beth El is proud to honor our dedieated Jewish edu eators and area seeular teaehers. This Shabbat serviee is dedieated to Arthur Tirsun, a eareer edueator who lived what he taught. Ju daism was his life and he had the rare gift of being able to impart his Judaie wisdom, passion, and dedieation to our students. All of the teaehers at Temple Beth El Religious Sehool possess those same attributes. Please join us to say thank you to our beloved teaehers and the faeulties of the Charlotte Jewish Presehool, the Consolidated Flebrew High Sehool, Tikvah Charlotte, and the Levine Sklut Judaie Library, as well as our area seeular teaehers. The publie is weleome to join the eelebration. If you would like to honor a Jewish edueator, please eonsider making a eontribution to the Tem ple Beth El Arthur Tirsun Eduea- tional Shabbat and Religious Sehool Fund. ^ IIP TEMPLE BETH EL March Madness at Temple Kol Ami Mareh Madness has eome to Temple Kol Ami. No, we don’t mean basketball. We mean all the amazing events that are planned for Mareh at TKA. We start off the month with a Purim Carnival on Mareh 1 for our amazing Reli gious Sehool students. Then on Mareh 6, these awesome kids will entertain us with a Purim Sehpiel based on Dr. Seuss at Friday night Shabbat serviee. Finally, the weekend of Mareh 20-22, Kol Ami weleomes Rabbi Bruee Aft of the Institute of Southern Jewish Learning for a Shabbaton. Rabbi Aft is eoming to us from Northern Virginia, and will lead the eongre- gation in a traditional Friday night serviee and a Saturday morning Tot Shabbat. Other plans for the Shabbaton inelude a eongrega tional bruneh, Torah study, Hav dalah get-together, and spending time with the Religious Sehool kids. We are exeited to have the “Rabbi on the Road” join our eommunity for a weekend of spir ituality and learning. Temple Kol Ami serves the Jewish population of York County, SC and the surrounding areas. We are a warm and wel- eoming eongregation for Jews from all walks of life and level of observanee. Shabbat serviees are held the first and third Friday nights of eaeh month at the His- torie Sanetuary of Unity Presbyte rian Chureh, 303 Tom Hall Street, Fort Mill, SC. For more informa tion about Temple Kol Ami, eheek out our website www.templeko- lamise.org. We would love to see you one Friday night in the near future. ^