The Carolinas’ Most Comprehensive Gay & Lesbian Newspaper The Latest Q^POLL Results In light of President Clinton's recent changes to “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell, Don’t Pursue" and the European High Court’s ruling that the British ban on gays in the military is illegal, do you believe the ban on gays in the military in the US will be removed in the near future? Not Sure 29% Vote at www.q-notes.com Published Every Two Weeks On Recycled Paper • Volume 14, Number 13 • November 13, 1999 • FREE Gay candidates score in NC, US by David Stout Q-Notes Staff CARRBORO, NC—On November 2, pro gressive voters in the state’s Triangle region elected Mike Nelson to a third term as Carrboro Mayor — with litde drama since he ran unop posed — and tapped an out lesbian to join the Chapel Hill-Carrboro School Board. The fourth-highest vote getter in a nine-way race, Gloria Faley made history in becoming the first lesbian elected to any civic position in NC. Although this was her first run for the board, the mother of two had been active in the school system for some time — ostensibly the key factor in her victory. MK Cullen, executive director of Equality NC PAC, a state-wide GLBT advocacy orga nization, stated, “Gloria ran a real grassroots campaign and her strong showing proves that many people have faith in her abilities to serve all the people of Chapel Hill and Carrboro.” Nelson and Faley are the second and third openly gay elected officials in NC history, fol lowing on the heels of retired Chapel Hill Town Councilman Joe Herzenberg. While no gay candidates were elected in Mecklenburg County, openly gay Democratic Party Chair Andrew Reyes guided his organi zation to a stunning victory. Continuing a swing to the political center that began with the County Commission elec tions last year, voters gave Democrats a seven to four majority on the Charlotte City Coun cil — the same margin the GOP held going in. The win was so convincing, in fact, every successful Council candidate carried an “en dorse” or “recommend” rating from MeckPAC, the county’s GLBT advocacy organization. Unfortunately, things didn’t go as well in the Charlotte/Mecklenburg School Board races; all three seats were filled by incumbents and only one of them, Wilhelmenia Rembert, was a “rec ommend” candidate. The remaining two, Arthur Griffin and John Lassiter, carried “warn ing” designations from MeckPAC. In other races around the nation, voters in Plattsburgh, NY made history by electing Dan Stewart as the city’s mayor — the first time an Meeting brings hope for healing Mike Nelson will serve a third term openly gay person has been elected mayor of any municipality in New York State. In San Francisco, Tom Ammiano, president of the Board of Supervisors, was successful in his write-in campaign for mayor and will face incumbent Willie Brown in a December 14 run-off. According to the Gay and Lesbian Victory Fund, a national organization that works to increase the number of GLBT elected officials, four other openly gay and lesbian candidates prevailed at the ballot box. They include: Seth Chafetz for Birmingham (MI) City Commis sion; Annise Parker for Houston (TX) City Council; Jon Cooper for Suffolk County (NY) Legislature; and AJ Oertwig for St. Paul (MN) Board of Education. Additionally, two candidates came within one percent of prevailing: Joe Steffan, who ran for a seat on the West Hartford (CT) Town Council, and Scott Robinson, who fell just six votes shy of winning a seat on the Melvindale (MI) City Council. Voters in Falmouth, ME and Spokane, WA turned back efforts to undo civil rights ordi nances based on sexual orientation, while a measure to expand a non-discrimination law to include sexual orientation and other factors failed in Greeley, CO. ▼ Shepard saga comes to a close by Dan Van Mourik Q-Notes Staff LARAMIE, WY—On October 25, the na tion began to hear the details surrounding the death of gay University of Wyoming student Matthew Shepard. Aaron MeIGnney, 22, went on trial, accused of first-degree murder, kidnap ping and aggravated robbery, and possibly faced the death penalty. The j ury of 10 men and six women, includ ing four alternates, was sequestered during the trial which was expected to take four weeks, but lasted just over one. The jury included three students at the University of Wyoming, where Shepard was a freshman studying human rights. Co-defendant Russell Henderson’s trial in April ended when he pleaded guilty to felony murder and kidnapping and received two life sentences. The plea allowed him to avoid the death penalty. Defense lawyers Dion Custis and Jason Tangeman tried to persuade the jury to convict their client of the lesser offense of second-de gree murder or manslaughter, which do not carry a possible death sentence. They were also challenged to prove that Shepards death did not result from a kidnapping or robbery be cause Wyoming subscribes to the felony-mur der rule. That law allows a defendant to be con victed of murder for a death that results from the commission of a felony, even if the death is unintentional. Which means that even if McKinney avoided conviction on the individual first-degree murder charge, he could still face the death p>enalty if the j ury found Shepard died as a result of a robbery or kidnapping. Opening statements After the jury was seated, defense attorney Jason Tangeman said Shepard was pummeled to death by Aaron McKinney in a drunken, drug-induced rage after Shepard made a pass at him, but that he did not intend to kill Shepard when he repeatedly beat him on the head with a .357 Magnum pistol. “Did Matthew Shepard deserve to die? No, that’s ridiculous. No manslaughter victim de served to die,” Tangeman said. “That’s what Aaron McKinney is guilty of, manslaughter.” McKinney’s judgment that night was af fected by alcohol, methamphetamines and some sexually traumatic and confusing events in his life,” Tangeman told jurors. Tangeman said McKinney was confused by three homosexual encounters that occurred when he was seven, 15 and 20. In one case, McKinney was forced into an oral sex act with See SHEPARD on page 18 by David M. Baker Special to Q-Notes LYNCHBURG, VA—The name Jerry Falwell has come to have an odious ring for many gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender people. In his many years behind the pulpit at the Thomas Road Baptist Church, the 68-year- old Southern Baptist preacher has earned a reputation for having a less than positive view of homosexuality. On October 22, amidst protests by both gay and anti-gay activists, an interfaith delegation of 200 GLBT people and their supporters ar rived in Lynchburg to meet with Rev. Falwell to discuss the words he chooses when speaking his conscience about homosexuality. Leading the delegation, called Soulforce — which gets its name from Mahatma Ghandi’s teaching of satyagraha, or “soul force,” a form of non-vio lent social activism — was former Falwell col league Rev. Mel White. Raised as an evangelical Christian, White attended Fuller Theological Seminary which, according to its web site, is “an evangelical com munity dedicated to the preparation of men and women for the manifold ministries of Christ and his Church.” After completing his studies at Fuller, White went on to teach there for more than a decade and would later ghost write books for Falwell as well as fellow evangelicals Jim Bakker, Billy Graham and Pat Robertson. White wrestled with his homosexuality for many years and employed a wide array of strat egies in attempting to overcome it. Over the course of two decades, he tried prayer, exor cism, therapy, and even electric shock treat ments to no avail. Finally, in 1993, "White came out publicly after being installed as dean of Dallas’ Cathedral of Hope — the largest church within the Universal Fellowship of Metropoli tan Community Chufches (UFMCC), a Chris tian denomination with a special outreach to gays founded by Rev. Troy Perry in 1968. White, who found his inspiration in the writings of civil rights leaders Ghandi and Martin Luther King, Jr., started Soulforce with his partner Gary Nixon this year to apply the tenets of non-violent social activism to the quest for gay and lesbian equality. The three-day so journ to Lynchburg provided the perfect test for White’s ambitious plan. The gathering On the evening of October 22, under the watchful eye of the Lynchburg Police Depart ment — whose constant presence throughout the weekend was at once comforting and alarm ing — the Soulforce delegation gradually ar rived at First Christian Church on Main Street. Over the next several hours, nearly 200 men and women of all faiths and sexual identities ftom as far away as California and as nearby as down the street came together for an evening of preparation for the days to come. Pervading every corner of the red brick church was a com mingled spirit of hope and expectation. Karla Fleshman, a delegate from the sub urbs of Philadelphia, PA who will soon be or dained as an MCC minister, said that hope is what brought her to Falwell’s hometown. “You do a lot of tilling before you see the fruit,” she said. “We’re tilling here.” Fleshman’s hopefulness was amplified by the welcoming remarks of Mayor Pete Warren who was on hand for the weekend’s commencement. “When I met Mel in August, I knew that the event being planned here in Lynchburg would be a very positive one,” said Warren. “ [I] t would be good for relationships with one of the main forces in the city of Lynchburg, Rev. Jerry Falwell.” "White added that Falwell had demonstrated that same spirit of change earlier in the day during an interview with Diane Sawj’cr on 'Good Morning America. After being pressed about his “definitive stance on homosexuality,” a docu ment that claimed gays were more prone to disease, depression and addiction and which appeared on his web site, Falwell apologized and ' said that he had allowed a small percentage of gays and lesbians, to whom he referred as ex tremists, to define his perception of the overall community. Falwell changed the “definitive stance” and removed the derogatory comments about gays after the broadcast. By offering an apology in front of millions of television viewers, said "White, Falwell set an example that others could follow. The evening ended with a candlelight vigil to remember the victims of hate crimes. Large, poster-sized pictures of Matthew Shepard, Billy Jack Gaither, Pfc. Barry Winchell, James Byrd, Jr., gay author Robert Drake and other victims of hate crimes were slowly paraded down the side aisles and up the center aisle of the church and placed next to those seated in the pews — an eerie reminder that everyone was potentially sitting next to a victim of a hate crime. The seemingly endless procession underscored the number of people who have been victimized because of their sexual orientation, their race, their gender and their tradition of faith. In the front of the church, portraits of Martin Luther King, Jr., Mahatma Ghandi, and Jesus of Nazareth were held aloft as the soft glow of 200 candles illuminated the sanctuary. Go tell it on the mountain The next day, before going to Thomas Road Baptist Church to meet Falwell and 200 repre sentatives from both the church and the affili ated Liberty University, the Soulforce contin- See MEETING on page 12 i fc".! .m wmrE Revs. Falwell (1) and White x>mmitted to lowering the rhetoric on each side