The Carolinas’ Most Comprehensive Gay & Lesbian Newspaper Roses are red. Violets are blue? What are you doing, your sweetheart and you? See page 23 for some fun and interesting ideas. Published Every Two Weeks On Recycled Paper * Volume 15, Number 19 * February 3, 2001 • FREE South Carolina is out in front with cozy, hilly functional Gay & Leshian Community Center X the South Carolina Gay & Lesbian Com munity Center is a rare find, especially in rhe South — a free- standir visibility, equality, and inclusiveness. Because the GLBT community comprises diverse groups with varying needs, the Center ‘ Mil' ling communit)' center devoted to meeting the needs of the gay, lesbian, bi sexual and transgen der (GLBT) com munities of South Carolina. While most of the country is just now recogniz ing the need for such places. South Caro lina already has its Community Center, located at 1107 Woodrow Street in Columbia. The Center boasts facilities that include a conference room and meeting space; a lending li brary; full kitchen; a distribution center for local and regional, publications; a living room setting for in formal gatherings; and office space for the board. Office space has also been made avail able for OutSmart of the Midlands, an organi zation for sexual minority young people. The Center provides education and advo cacy on behalf of the GLBT citizens of South Carolina, working to educate the larger South Carolina populace about the issues and con cerns ,pf its GLBT citizens, and advocating for payments are available when a donation is re quested for a program or event. The Center is host to a wide variety of on going opportuni \ I IMS '-A foMumity Cmlcr Entmc^ M ISv' The South Carolina Gay & Lesbian Community Center provides a warm environment for Palmetto State GLBT folks to socialize, learn and grow. is committed to making programs and services the space for this meeting once a week, as accessible as possible. Sign language inter- ties; OutSmart in the Midlands, Inc., a .sexual mi nority youth ser vice organization, is based at the South Carolina Gay & Lesbian Community Cen ter. It is the only organization of its kind in the region, and is designed to meet the needs of GLBT high- school and col lege-age youth and young adults. An HlV-posi- tive gay men’s sup port group is of fered in coalition with Palmetto AIDS Life Sup port Services. The Center supplies . T* ‘ preters have been present at all large events, and are available upon request for smaller pro grams. The faciliry has recently been made wheelchair accessible with a ramp at the rear entrance and restroom enhancements. Most programs are free-of-charge, and special dis count rates, scholarships, and sliding-scale Free gathering space is available to area See CENTER on page 6 Rep. Barney Frank to be featured speaker at HRC Gala by Cheryl Ann Welsh Special to Q-Notes RALEIGH — Rep. Barney Frank (D-MA) will present the keynote address for the Caroli nas’ Sixth Annual Flu- man Rights Campaign Gala Dinner Saturday, Fcbruar)' 17, at the Em bassy Suites in Cary, NC. Frank, who has represented the Fourth Congressional District of Massachusetts since his election to the House of Representatives in 1980, has written numer ous articles on politics and public affairs. Also participating will be Donna Red Wing, OutGiving Director for the Gill Foundation. Red Wing, one of the first recipients of the Walter Cronkite Faith and Freedom Award, served as HRC national field director 1996-1999. In addition to the dinner at 8:00 pm, evening activities include a silent auction (6:00-7:45 pm), after dintier dancing, and coffeehouse. Reservations for the special event may be made through Box Office Tickets at 800-494- 8497. Individual tickets are $175 ($165 until February 7). ▼ J Representative Barney Frank •r » Judy Shepard to speak at UNCC Army drops planned discharge of gay reservist Steve May by Shane Windnieyer Special to Q-Notes HARRISBURG, NC —The Carolinas will be host to Judy Shepard, mother of slain col lege student Matthew Shepard, who will bring J Judy Shepherd, mother of slain college student Matthew Shepard, continues to champion anti-hate crimes legislation. her crusade to tfie campus of UNC Charlotte on April 19 for a town hall meeting and a lec ture entitled, “The Legacy of Matthew Shepard.’’ Matthew, who attended Catawba College in Salisbury, NC, before transferring to the Uni versity of Wyoming, was brutally attacked in October of 1998. The Shepards discovered later that their son was beaten because he was gay. Found hours later, Matthew lingered in a coma for several days before dying. The tragedy galvanized millions of people and focused the nation’s attention on the growing epidemic of hate crimes. Vigils were held across America. The Shepard family received tens of thousands of letters and emails of support. In the aftermath of his death, the Shepard’s started the Matthew Shepard Foundation (www.matthewsplace.com) to help carry on Matthew’s legacy by embracing the just causes their son had championed. This includes work ing for gay and lesbian equality and helping to prevent hate crimes. The Charlotte lecture is one of many Judy Shepard has given since the death of her son. It is her daily tribute to his life, she says. On May 11, 1999, Judy testified before the Senate Judi ciary Committee in support of the Hate Crimes Prevention Act. In front of the committtce, she delivered a powerful message to those who op pose hate ctimes laws. “I can assure opponents of this legislation firsthand, it was not words or thoughts, but violent actions that killed my son.” She appeared in two Human Rights Cam paign public service television spots aimed at See SHEPARD on page 17 If. Steve May by Steve Ralls Special to Q-Notes WASHINGTON, DC — The Army an nounced January 15 it will not pursue its planned discharge of Lr. and Arizona Re publican Legislator Steve May for alleged violations of “Don’t Ask, Don’t Fell, Don’t Pursue, Don’t Ha rass.” May will con tinue to serve in the Army Reserves until May 1 I, when his two-year obligation is complete. “It is gratifying that the Army has decided to drop the case,” May said. “I have always served my country with honor, integrity, and loyalty, and it hurt me deeply that the Army would try to fire me — not for anything I did in the Army, but for who 1 am and for doing my legislator’s job. 1 didn’t ask to go back into the Army, but when called, I reported for duty and did my job there. My sexual orientation and my statements about my sexual orienta tion have never interfered with my performance as an officer in the United States Army,” he said. “The Army has tacitly recognized it never should have pursued May,” said Service members’ Legal Defense Network (SLDN) Ex ecutive Director C. Dixon Osburn. “The cur rent law does not contemplate discharging elected officials for statements they have made as elected officials,” Osburn said. “Nor does cur rent law contemplate punishing soldiers for statements made as civilians or while in the in active reserves. The Army has made the right decision to drop the case at long last,” Osburn continued. Fhe Army has declined to provide an offi cial reason for dropping the discharge action. The Secretary of the Army retains ultimate au thority to accept or reject any proposed dis charge recommendation. The Army initiated discharge proceedings against May after learning about remarks he made about his sexual orientation during a de bate on domestic partner benefits for state em ployees in the Arizona State Legislature. At the time, he was on inactive status with the Army Reserves. The Army called May back to active duty at the time of the Gulf War — after mak ing his remarks and after winning re-election as an openly gay candidate for the state legisla ture — making his sexual qrientation a matter of record at the time the Army called him to active duty. Lt. May served as executive officer of his reserve unit. Lt. May has been hailed as an exemplary of ficer. In his recent evaluations, his superiors stated that May had “unlimited potential,” even after the disclosure of his sexual orientation. May’s fellow soldiers also testified in September at his administrative discharge hearing that his removal would hurt his unit’s cohesion and morale. T Th/y J/rfetei- l^nll What effect do you think the election results will have on the GLBT community? TIC ICILCSL ±011 ±CSU1lS Things will get better: 23% Things will get worse: 38% ' Things will stay the same: 38% To participate in our new Q-Poll access www.q-notes.com