FEBRUARY 26 . 2005 • Q-NOTES North Carolina shops will give participants the opportuni ty in a safe, affirming setting to meet and share ideas, feelings and strategies with other potential or current caregivers. The activities and informative handouts are geared to increase confidence in one’s abil ity to provide a good quality of life for those loved. All LGBT community members are wel come to attend. Inclusive language is inter twined in the materials presented. The cost for each workshop is $10 (includes materials). Call the church at 704- 372-6836 for further information. Attendees are asked to bring a lunch. Coffee and tea will be provided. Deadline for registering is Feb. 25 for the Preparing work shop and Mar. 4 for the Caring workshop. To register, write a check for $10 made payable to $elwyn Avenue Presbyterian Church with a daytime phone number on your check. Be sure to write on the memo line of the check the name of the workshop attending. Send checks to; Attn; Angie, Selwyn Avenue Presbyterian Church, 2929 Selwyn Ave., Charlotte, NC 28209. N.C. man makes hit at Sundance PARK CITY, Utah — Director Tim Kirkman (pictured), who hails from Wingate, debuted his film, “Loggerheads,” at the recent Sundance Film Festival, the independent film industry’s annual celebra tion. Filming took place in North Carolina, which created painful memories for the director. He remembered his youth, a time wrought with fear of coming out. Even though it was diffi cult for Kirkman, he still, holds a great love for the state, calling it home. The film is inspired by true events. It inter weaves three stories, each in a different year on a Mother’s Day weekend in N.C. One depicts the return of Grace to her hometown to stay with her mother and search for a child she secretly gave up for adoption. Another tells of Mark’s journey to save endangered turtles at a small coastal town. The final storyline is about Elizabeth, who is wrestling with standing by her min ister husband’s beliefs or taking a stand on her own. The film has a subtle theme of homophobia woven throughout. Kirkman explores the layers of emotion alism and examines the need for family through this film. The cast includes Bonnie Hunt, Kip Pardue, Tess Harper, Michael Learned, Michael Kelly and Chris Sarandon. Kirkman’s documentary “Dear Jesse,” which contrasted his life with that of Sen. Jesse Helms, premiered on HBO/Cinemax’s Reel Life, where it received an Emmy nomi nation for writing, and was released theatri cally in 1998. During filming he met a woman whose son died from AIDS compli cations. That encounter created the inspira tion for “Loggerheads.” He received his B.A. from the School of Design at North Carolina State University and his M.A. from the New School for Social Research, New York, N.Y. Fine In-Town Condominiums • High-Rise City Views • Best Downtown Location • Rooftop Terrace, Pool and Fitness Center • Studios plus 1, 2 and 3 Bedroom Units • 10 to 16-foot Ceilings • Floor-To-Ceiling Glass • Balconies • All Appliances with Gas Looking • 24-Hour Manned Security Unique Style • In-Town Location • Urban Amenitiea Starting in the low $SOO*s Downtown High-Rise Living Available Immediately! Visit Our Furnished Model and Sales Center on the 17th Floor 3 15 Arlington Avenue • South Blvd. near 1-277 ramp Open Mon-Sat 11-5, Sun 1-5 704/370-6066 • i/iA/i/i/1/.thepinkbuHcUna.com The Metropolitan Group, Inc.