north & sout CAROLIN Support tho^e who up port you! noted . notable . noteworthy GLBT issues VOLUME 20 . ISSUE 21 SINCE 198« Profile: Mitchell Gold & Bob Williaim 25 I ■5^ FEBRUARY 2 5 . 200« on life and Itw pursuit ofcreathfily 25 The show that started the personal style revolution 28 Cool companies for LGBTfbIk 12 L6BT afdnity gmups 13 The uncounted cost of ‘ Don’t Ask, DonUeir 18 North and South Carolina North Carolina: LGBT vegetarian group forms in Charlotte 08 South Carolina: Clergy action group holds press conference 10 ONLINE Q.POLL www.q*notes.com yes . no Next Issue: Theater Performing Arts Gay buyinq power projected at $641 biinon in 2006 New analysis shows $31 billion increase since '05 by Michael Daniels WASHINGTON, D.C. — The total buying power of the U.S. LGBT adult population in 2006 is projected to be $641 billion, accord ing to the latest analysis by Witeck-Combs Communications and Packaged Facts (a divi sion of MarketResearch.com). The estimate was originally derived in a joint study by both organizations entitled, “The U.S. Gay and Lesbian Market.” In 2005, the gay buying power projection was estimated at $610 bil lion, comparing favorably with the African- American, Hispanic and Asian markets. in sharing the 2006 projection. Bob Witeck, CEO of Witeck-Combs Com munications said, “Estimating buying power is a standard business tool for companies and policy decision-makers. This offers us a »5inA»22 snapshot of the dynamic economic activity of America’s diverse gay, les bian, bisexual and transgender popula tion.” Since 1993, Witeck-Combs Com- jstir.vMi: munications has provided expert mar keting communications counsel to Fortune 500 companies in their strate gies to reach the gay consumer market. Witeck emphasized that “buying power does not equate with wealth nor can one infer that same-sex households are more affluent than others. We have seen evidence from researchers that gay men may earn slightly less than their heterosexual counterparts. “The 2000 U.S. Census data on same-sex couples supports the conclusion, however, that gay populations are more con centrated in major metro areas, and less like ly to live in rural areas — a characteristic generally associated with higher than aver- >tU\ I ’^7 XT/ ytr m Sim- "'Ulti/ y Ti r-5 Money, money, money! A new WHeck-Combs study snows that, collectively, America's LGBT community has some pretty substantial buying power. see BUYINGon 5 Mecklenburg County Commish Parks Helms receives HRC Award Helms instrumental in introducing non-discrimination policy for region by David Moore Q-Notes staff A graduate of UNC-Chapel Hill, Mecklenburg County Commissioner Parks Helms’ political career spans four decades. As an attorney, a former member of the N.C. House of Representatives and now the Chairman of the Mecklenburg County Commission, Helms has had his hand in molding Charlotte into the ever- evolving progressive city it is today. it seems only fitting that he would be the recipient of the Human Rights Campaign (HRC) Equality Award. “It’s truly an honor,” says Helms. “1 think for me it’s an affirmation of what I believe about my relationships and other peoples’ relationship with one another.” The father of three and grandfather of two. Helms and his wife Eleanor are long-term members of Park Road Baptist Church, where Helms has served as a Deacon. In 2005, Helms was credited with successfully introducing a sexual orientation non-discrimination policy for Mecklenburg County employees. In years past Helms was largely responsible for introducing liquor by the drink to Mecklenburg County (1978) and restoring county funding to the arts (1998). Long-time Charlotte residents might see remember the Republican debacle: follow- COMMISSIONER ing the staging of ‘Angels in America” on 19 Helms on receiving HRC equality Award: 'It's truly an honor.' A soldier's story Nerves of steel Editor's Note: These ore the thoughts of o gay soldier — a North Corormo native — who has been deployed to Iraq. Because of the military's "Don't Asl^ Don't Tell" pol icy, he must remoin anonymous. We’ve had a few trying days here recently in Iraq. A mortar went off less than 250 meters from our compound. I could feel the concussion of the blast, as the waves of energy passed through our 12-15 foot concrete walls around our compound. It was a bit nerve-fattling. ' 1 was running in the area where the mortar exploded not more than five minutes earlier. 1 had just finished and came into the compound for a cool down. I was chatting with an officer friend and then booml Everyone was scrambling to find their gear and get to the bunkers or their rooms. Radios start ed squawking to get the information. It was a serious rush. That same night 1 had duty at our headquarters, and had to stay up working until noon the following day. There was an Iraqi soldier killed just before my duty started, so I had to complete the paperwork in addition to my assigned duties. The radio didn’t stop all night — it was crazy. Finally the morning came and I was off duty. I had no sleep in over 24 hours when I got back to our compound, but was asked to take our interpreters to the front gate. I did as requested, as 1 enjoy talking and visiting with them. I got them through the badging office, then walked with two of them to the parking area. After leaving them I was approached and threatened by two local nationals with some very unkind words. They asked if I was scared walk ing back by myself — then they told me 1 should be scared. They contin ued with some pretty nasty rhetoric. “I’m not scared. I have a nine millimeter to shoot anyone who even thinks about starting something,” I said cooly. “I’m a very good marks man and I don’t need to be tempted to shoot someone. seeSOLDIER^Son 4