TABLE OF CON TEN T S www.q-notes.com Volume 23 Number 20 February 7,2009 PO Box 221841 • Charlotte, NC 28222 • 704.531.9988.704.531.1361 fax To find a copy, go to www.q-notes.com/distribution-points/ Publisher: Jim Yarbrough Editor/New Media: Matt Comer Associate Editor: David Stout Special Assignments: Lainey Millen Graphic Design/Production: Lainey Millen Ad Sales: Marketing 704.531.9988 Jim Yarbrough, Manager 704.531.9988 Ad Sales. National: Rivendell Media 212.242.6863 editor@q-notes.com production@q-notes.com adsales@q-notes.com Material in Q-Notes is copyrighted by Pride Publishing S Typesetting © 2009 and may not be reproduced in any manner without written consent of the editor. Advertisers assume full responsibility — and therefore, all liability — for securing reprint permission for copyrighted text photographs and illustrations or trademarks published in their ads. The sexual orientation of advertisers, photographers, writers, artoonists we publish is neither inferred nor implied. The appearance of names or photographs does not indicate the subject’s sexual orientation. Q-Notes nor its publisher assumes liability for typographital error or omission, beyond offering to run a correction. The editorial positions of Q-Notes are expressed in staff editorials and editor's notes and are determined by editorial staff. The opinions of contributing writers and guest columnists do not necessarily represent the opinions of Q-Notes or its staff. Q-Notes accepts unsolicited editorial, but cannot take responsibility for its return. Editor reserves thetVight to accept and reject material as well as edit lor clarity, brevity. Front and center: Editor’s Note 04 End of MAP as we know it 01 General Gayety 25 A seal upon the heart 21 Guest Commentary 10 Articles: Lockdown 31 Best Valentine’s date money can buy 24 News Notes: Domestic 07 CBPM honors community leaders 18 News Notes: Global 06 CMS board may endanger students 15 News Notes: NC 08 Correction 15 Out and About 30 Meek. County may offer DP benefits 14 Out in the Stars 28 Q-Notes’ new community blog 19 Q-Poll 04 Queer comedians head to Carolinas 24 T-Notes 11 Rumors: HRC and Clay Aiken? 19 Tell Trinity 29 Features: HRC Gala events 27 Editorial Contributors: HRC Gala: Imagine the possibilities 13 Wfljne Besen, Robbi Cohn, Matt Comer, Cniiimnc; E/The Environmental Magazine, Andy Harley, Charlene Lichtenstein, Laiiwy Anything But Straight 26 Millen, Leslie Robinson, David Stout, Peter Audiophile ,23 Tatchell, Trinity, Joseph Urbaniak Community Cards 24/25/26/27 Front cover image: Christian Birmele EarthTalk OL (newlmproved), via Flickr FEBRUARY 7.2009* ftNot es 3