tell trinity
by trinity :: qnotes contributor
Before you have that
one-night stand
go numb or just want to jump out a window, you
must always stay stern, clear and fast or, honey,
come join me on the windowsill! (My cartoon gives
you some real pointers on how I handle this chal
lenging dilemma.)
Hello Trinity,
I love one-night stands. But, every
time I say, "Wanna get together
again?" they say, "Sorry, I'm in a rela
tionship!" What's up with open
relationships?
Closed to the “Open," Boston, MA
Dearest Trinity,
My boyfriend is great and I don't want to hurt him, but how do I
end my relationship without destroying someone I love?
Happy Endings, Stanford, CT
Hello Closed,
I agree, we single
people have become
Jw laboratory rats for the
fp partnered world. Like
you, I too find many
couples "play openly." I also hear
couples say, "It keeps us together rather
than tears us apart." which makes me
want to scream "What-Ever!" So, sweetie,
if you're about to take part in a one-night
stand, but want a few more nights, just
ask, "Are you partnered, single or a lab
technician?"
Dearest Happy Endings,
Saying "No more!" always hurts even the strongest of beasts.
So, finding the right time, place and/or right situation is your
best solution. Never break
Trinity & Telemarketers
Hey Trinity,
I read your tips for getting rid of telemarket
ers. But, really, I can't just hang up on them
like you suggested?
Telemarketing Troubles, Sioux Falls, SO
up during a fight, the end of a
long day or when someone is
in crisis. Yes, he w/7/be upset,
but time heals everything. And,
darling, don't tell him while
shopping in a rifle shop.
she wonders if living in a world
of telemarketing is really worth it!
Dear Trinity,
Someone I really liked dumped
me because "I acted too ditzy
and immature for a 34-year-old
man." Why do I have to act
my age?
Keeping My Lollipop,
Detroit Ml
Trinity's Tough Tips For Knowing
When You're a SAD (Still A Ditzy) boy
1. When you spend your last paycheck on Lady Gaga tickets
instead of paying your rent, you're SAD!
2. When the woman you love says, "Baby, lets do something
fun tonight." and you think, "God, I hate my mother!" you're
SAD!
3. When your hairline is receding and your belly is extending,
but you still insist on weafing your 80s florescent club wear
then you're really SAD.
4. When your lover says, "You get dinner" and you think
"Happy Meal again, yippy!" you're definitely SAD.
5. When Monday means, instead of a hot shower, a shave and
off to work, you grab a Bloody Mary, two aspirins and begin
another chat room adventure — SAD!
6. When Friday means, off to the 21-and-under bar for a key
lime shot, instead of off with grown-up friends, then SAD.
7. When you dump your lover of 10 years for a 22-year-old
twinkle who is "really cute and sweet and likes my Xboxl,"
guess what?
8. When you still spend your free time hanging out in arcades
and shopping malls, guess what again?
9. When you withdraw your last two grand and blow it on a
RSVP vacation because your credit cards are all maxed out,
you're SAD.
10. Lastly, you know you're still a ditzy boy if the previous nine /
tips pissed you off and now you're going to get stoned just
to show Trinity who's in charge of your life, SAD for sure!::
Hey Troubles,
If truth were told, I don't always have the heart to hang up on
those hard-working warriors of marketing. While I sometimes
Dear Lollipop,
Eventually you have to stop
being a little brat and become a responsible, educated,
charming man. Being a man means not always quitting
relationships or jobs, not always saying what you feel and not
always partying when the sun goes down. But, even better,
pumpkin, here's.
— With a Masters of Divinity, Reverend Trinity was
host of “Spiritually Speaking," a weekly radio drama,
and now performs globally.
info: www.telltrinity.com. Trinity@telltrinity.com
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