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The Compass Monday, November 25, 2002 lo % ngeoopauio’ VIKING SPOTLIGHT By: Robin L. Reese shopping404@hotmail.com 1. NAIVIE: Michela R. Williams 2. BIRTHDATE: March 6, 1982 3. CLASSFICATION: Junior 4. MAJOR: Industrial Technology 5. PARENTS: Michael Williams and Lisa Hubbell 6. SIBLINGS: Malecia, and Valerie Hubbell 7. HOMETOWN: New Bern, North Carolina 8. CLUBS/ORGANIZATIONS: VANS, University Marching Band, and Black Diamonds 9. HONORS: Vice Chancellor’s List, and Honor Roll List 10. THE THING I LIKE MOST ABOUT ECSU: The classes are not hard and everyone helps out with schoolwork. 11. THINGS I DO IN MY SPARE TIME: I go to work at Andy’s (in the mall), my homework, band practice, doing hair, hanging out with my friends, and volunteer around the community. 12. THE BEST BOOK I EVER READ: “A Satin Doll” 13. FAVORITE TV SHOWS: Martin, Mad TV, Cosby, Fresh Prince, and Golden Girls 14. IF I COULD CHANGE ONE THING I WOULD: The society. I wish that I could change the way people look at others. Stop the way people talk about others when you are not popular because you do not wear GETTING TO KNOW, name brand clothes or not pretty enough. In today’s society there is still prejudice against blacks and whites. 15. MY IDEA OF A PERFECT MATE: My perfect mate would be honest, loyal, trustworthy, and dependable. I would like someone, one day that likes me for who I am and not just for my body. My mate has to understand the meaning of do unto others as they do unto you. Honesty is the best policy. 16. THREE PEOPLE I WOULD INVITE TO DINNER: Carl Thomas, (for his passion), Ginuwlne (for his hard core), and Will Smith (for his laughter) 17. MY MOTTO TO OTHERS IS: Never give up; Keep your head up. 1. NAME: Gamaliel Rhodanthee Cherry 2. BIRTHDATE: March 8, 1980 3. CLASSFICATION: Senior 4. MAJOR: Elementary Education 5. PARENTS: Mr. And Mrs. Cater and Louise Cherry 6. SIBLINGS: Decater, Melchizedeck, Demarquous, Alicianiah, Vladimir, and Xavier Cherry 7. HOMETOWN: Jackson, North Carolina 8. CLUBS/ORGANIZATIONS: Uni versity honors Program, Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity, Marching Band, Pep Band, Concert Band, Percussion Ensemble, and Alpha Chi 9. HONORS: Chancellors List, Vice Chancellor’s List, Who’s Who Among America’s Colleges and Universities, national Dean’s List, Alpha Chi Honor Society, Superior Percussion ist Fall, Alpha Phi Alpha Brother of the Year, United States Achievement Academy’s All-American Scholar 10. THE THING I LIKE MOST ABOUT ECSU: The opportunity to prove that anything can be done from Elizabeth City State University. 11. THINGS I DO IN MY SPARE TIME: Watch movies, listen to music, play drums, engage in meaningful conversation. 12. THE BEST BOOK I EVER READ: “The Bible” 13. FAVORITE TV. SHOWS: Dis covery Channel, Bernie Mack, Comic view 14. IF I COULD CHANGE ONE THING I WOULD: More time to double major 15. MY IDEA OF A PERFECT MATE: A woman who is career oriented, one who can complement me and likewise I to her. Someone who can motivate me to achieve more and stay focuses on priorities. Oh Yeah, she has to enjoy having fun. 16. THREE PEOPLE I WOULD INVITE TO DINNER: My deceased father, my mother, and my significant other who ever that is in the future. 17. MY MOTTO TO OTHERS IS: You will achieve whatever it is that your heart desires. DATING TIPS: WHY ATTRACTIVE WOMEN LOVE JERKS David DeAngelo www.doublevourdatina.com I get a lot of emails from guys who read my newsletter that say things like... “I’m sure what you’re saying is right, but I don’t want to be a jerk to women...” “I have seen what you’re talking about happen all my life, but I’m a ‘nice guy’ and I want women to like me for me...” ...and... ‘This doesn’t make sense...” I would like to address these ideas. Up until about 5 years ago, I was the nice guy of nice guys. As a matter of fact, when I first made the decision to learn how to be successful with women, this actually created an obstacle for me. Let me explain... Because I believed that “being a nice guy” must be the way to success with women. I actually could not even perceive any other way. In other words, I could see a situa tion where a woman was attracted to a mean, abusive guy and think to myself that either she must be screwed up in the head or that the guy must be really nice to her the rest of the time. As you probably know, it is hard to convince a person to believe something when they already have a belief about the topic. The person that you are trying to convince just uses whatever you say to convince themselves that they are actually right... And you are wrong. Well, I did the exact same thing. No matter how much evidence I found to the contrary, I still somehow believed that being a “nice” guy, buying women flowers and gifts, taking them out, and generally letting them be in control of the relationship had to be the way to attract them. Well, after continuing along the same path and getting the same results, I realized something that literally changed everything for me. I realized that jerks do, in fact, attract hot women. Selfish behavior, as unhealthy as this might sound, often makes women feel attracted to you. Sarcasm, “playing hard to get,” and all kinds of other “illogicar things really do work when it comes to attracting women. But then I had a dilemma... I love the idea of being successful with women, but I hate the idea of mis treating people, being mean to them, lying and misleading, etc. Deep down, I want to be a good guy I decided that there must be a way to make this work and to attract women without being abusive. The good news is that there is a way But it requires that you put aside your current ideas for just long enough to entertain some new ones. First, let me say that I believe I have found a way to take the things that jerks do to attract women and use them without the abuse. When you learn to do this, you can really have the best of both worlds... You can be nice to women on your own terms, and give them what they really want, and what really attracts them. So why do women become at tracted to jerks? The short answer is that they do not choose it; it is something that just happens. Attraction is not a choice. It is an emotional response to certain things. Women do not choose to feel the emotion called attraction for jerks any more than you choose to feel the emo tion called attraction for young, beautiful, hard-bodied women. Nature has preprogrammed men with a mechanism that works like this: SEE HOT WOMEN -> FEEL AHRACTION Well, women have a similar mecha nism. But I think that the female version is more complex. Yes, women do feel attraction for extremely handsome men... But they feel a much stronger attraction for certain personality traits and behaviors than they do for physical looks alone. So again, the short answer is that it is just something that “happens” inside of a woman. She does not “choose” it. If you want the long answer to this, check out my CD series “Advance Dating Techniques.” I have spent a long time figuring this one out, and I guarantee that it will blow your mind when you find out what is really going on... So what is it about the “jerk” that creates this powerful, uncontrollable attraction inside of women? Let me answer first by telling you what it is not: It is not the abuse (not usually anyway). I do not believe that women are attracted to that abusive, mean, negative part of the “jerk personality”. I think that jerks just happen to also possess several attractive qualities that are so powerful that that they literally make women blind to the abuse... Women will rationalize and excuse the abusive behavior because they are so attracted to these other qualities. Here’s a partial list of what creates that attraction: -unpredictability -uncontrollable -challenge -dominance Of course, there are many more, but this will get us started for this discussion. The qualities I’ve listed above, when presented correctly, trigger the natural “attraction mechanism” inside of women. Jerks have taken natural qualities that are attractive to women a little “too far.” But because they’re still there, the qualities trigger the attraction anyway So what does this mean to you? Well, the most important thing is that it means you can still be a good guy and attract women at the same time. You’re probably going to have to learn how to flirt in a different way, be come a little more comfortable being challenging to women, etc. But in the end, you’ll find that this will get you what you want, and still allow you to treat women well... All on your own terms. It also means that instead of being the guy who women talk to about their relationship problems, and how their mean jerk boyfriend is being abusive again... You can be the guy who they’re dating and sleeping with! Yes! This weekend I’d like you to think about what I’ve said here in this newslet ter. Think about how you can cultivate the four qualities that I’ve mentioned above into your personality. See if you can be a little less predictable. Don’t let outside events or women control you. Be more of a challenge. Stop being submissive... And get in touch with that side of you that is more dominant (I said “dominant”, not “domi neering”). And if you haven’t had a chance to read my ebook and listen to my ad vanced cd program, then I highly recom mend that you do that as well. My ebook “double your dating” is the foundation for everything that I teach. In a few hours of reading time you can learn all about my basic theo ries, plus get dozens of great techniques for meeting and dating women. You can go download it at: http:// www.doubleyourdates.com/ebook/. My cd audio program is over 12 full hours of me teaching live, and it’s the most complete system for meeting and dating more women that exists. You will learn hundreds of strategies, tech niques, and theories that will dramati cally increase your success with women, guaranteed. I’m so confident that you’ll be thrilled, that I give an unconditional money-back guarantee... Listen to it all the way through, and try it all out. If you’re not thrilled, just send it back for a full refund... No questions or hassles. Go to: http://www.doubleyourdates.com/ advancedseries/...for all the details. Talk to you again soon.
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