PAGE 4 — THE DECREE — DECEMBER 14,1992 Tlie Decree OFFICIAL STUDENT NEWSPAPER OF NORTH CAROLINA WESLEYAN COLLEGE Editorial Board — CecOia Casey, Nicole Cox, Delinda Lee, Tiffany Page Staff— Brad Barnes, Jennifer Beemer, Kim Curscen, Ken Le(»iard, Dan Moynihan, Ellen Stanton Photograpbers — Beth Sberrard and Cbris Taylor Advisor—Dr. Margee Morrison The Decree is located in th« Sprufl) Building, North Carolina Wes leyan College, Wesleyan College Station, Rocky Mount, NO 27801. Policy 1$ determined by the Editorial Board: of 2^Ae i)ecref. Re>publicatloit c4^ : any matter herein without the express consent of the Editorial Board is strictly forbidden. TAteDecree Is: composed and printed by Ripley N^ews* papers (^ Spring Hope.i OplnionS: published do not necessarily reflect those of North Carolina Wesleyan College. Good neighbor policy needed Wesleyan prides itself on being a “community.” We have “community” meetings, “community” celebrations, etc., but unfortunately we have no “community” spirit, at least not for resident stu dents. Because one key ele ment of community is miss ing — neighbors. When faculty and staff and commuters go home, they have their own commu nities, with their own neigh bors. But for resident stu dents this is it; and regretta bly, there are few “neigh bors.” It is a shame that most resident students have no idea of how to live in a com munity or how to be a neigh bor. They are so wrapped up in themselves and their own actions that they don’t take time to consider how what they do will affect others. One only needs to look at the staggering amount of community damages levied against residents to realize this point. Because some people don’t know how to live in a community, and get their kicks from smashing fire extinguisher covers or stealing cable boxes, all stu dents have to pay —liter ally. And how many times has a resident been awakened by his “neighbor’s” music, or heard a “neighbor” yelling to another “neighbor” down the hall, or not been able to get change because a “neigh bor” stole the change ma chine? Or think about times a resident has been trying to sleep when his dorm got ser enaded by a group of stu dents, or has slipped on the floor because some “neigh bor” decided to suds it with the fire extinguisher? With the holidays and fi nals approaching, one hopes that those in the residence halls can be a litde more neighborly. Now is the sea son to be kinder, and think of other people. Let’s at least hope that for at least one week people can move from their self-centeredness to put their “neighbor” first. The community atmo sphere is what makes Wes leyan great. Unfortunately, the resident students are ru ining it for themselves and their “neighbors.” Letters to the editor policy The Decree accepts only signed letters to the editors. Unsigned letters will not be printed. Letters need to be placed in the campus post office and marked “Decree” or placed in the Decree office m the Spruilll building. Letters must be received by Friday of the week prior to the next issue in order to be printed in that issue. The Decree reserves the right to edit or reject letters for grammar, libel, or good taste. mm n 91 m Wsst Innocence died with Kennedy Assassination heralded era By STEVE FEREBEE I am writing this on the anni versary of John F. Kennedy’s as sassination. I was moved by a commentary on the radio to write this column about my memories of that day. Putting Oliver Stone aside for the moment, why does Kennedy raise such moments of reflection? Why do people stand quietly on a street in Dallas and think about life and death? I don’t think much of Kennedy as a politician and president any more. As a child, the murder of a man who had children and a beau tiful wife seemed tragic. When I went to college and read history, I rejected the mythology. And yet Dr* Steve Muses I am still moved by someone’s melancholy words about the man. Many murders have subse quently moved me. Malcohn X, Martin Luther King, Bobby Kennedy, John Lennon. But when Kennedy died, I was wholly un prepared for the intrusion. It is trite to say so, but I do of course remember the moment I heard that the president had been shot. I was taking a social studies test in Miss Hatcher’s sixth grade class in Albany, Ga. The principal’s secretary came in and told us, and I turned back to the test to finish answering a ques tion about the geography of Af rica Later I woriced in the library, shelving books, and heard the li brarian say it was about time someone taught those Yankees a lesson. (She didn’t say Yankees, but I still can’t bring myself to say “Nigger Lover.”) I went home, and my family’s house cleaner, a tall black woman who lived on the side of Albany where Martin Luther King was working, sat in stimned silence after I turned on the television. “Why would anyone want to kill that nice man?” she asked. (Continued on Page 5) Attack on slogan was unfair Dear Editor: I challenge your Nov. 20 edi torial, “Wesleyan slogan litde but rhetoric,” in which you charac terize “Y^ere the student comes first” as a catch phrase used to hide the failings of the college. Certainly we have failings. We also have policies with which you disagree, and some of our bright ideas later turn out to be mistakes that we wish would go away. And the students are more often than not the people who pay the price. As editor of The Decree you have a responsibility to point out failings and problems. When you find prople or policies here that consistently fail to live up to the Letters to the Editor motto, rouse the student body and march on the President. I’ll come with you. But your editorial is an all- inclusive accusation of deliber ate indifference and misrepresen tation, and diat’s a slap in the face to a lot of good people who don’t deserve it. The next time you walk past the SAC, go in and tellMs. Stump to her face that she doesn’t care about you. When Dr. Anderson invites her sorority to her house for an overnight, say that she’s just doing it to hide the failings of the coUege. Ask Rev. Oldham to tell you about his abuse of “hol low advertising slogans.” Surely Dr. Joplin and Dr. Steed are in it only for the money and social prestige. And these are just the people you see. Most of the staff and what they do on your behalf are behind the scenes and invis ible to you. The college is us — every person you encounter here, fac ulty, administration, staff, or stu- (Continued on Page 5)