PAGE 8 — THE DECREE — OCTOBER 7,1994 Date rape possible even at Wesleyan (Continued from Front Page) Another problem with date rape is that it is a breach of trust. The rape may be committed by someone the victim has known for years. Regardless of the na ture of the relationship, it is usu ally committed by someone the victim trusts. Once this trust is abused, it may affect the victim in other relationships. It may take (Continued from Front Page) on college campuses that receive the most attention or coverage when hazing is discussed. Hamrick explains that, “The Greeks are expected to mess up.” President of Sigma Pi frater nity Pete Widell explained that his fraternity’s national organi zation is trying to get hazing out of local chapters. “Hazing does not promote brotherhood,” Widell said. “Haz ing is any mental/physical abuse, anything degrading, and that does not just apply to pledges but ap plies to brothers too.” President of Nu Gamma Phi fraternity Chris Brandt says the word “haze” has many meanings. Os Guinness slated for Staley Lecture (Continued from Front Page) postgraduate studies at the Uni versity of Oxford, where he graduated with a doctorate of phi losophy in the social sciences. Guinness’ most recent books are Dining With the Devil: the Megachurch Movement Flirts with Modernity and Fit Bodies, Fat Minds: Why Evangelicals Don’t Think, published by Baker in 1993. The Gravedigger File, one of his first books, is an ex amination of the social and cul tural forces shaping religion in the late 20th century. Dr. Guinness was a guest scholar at the Woodrow Wilson Center for International Studies and then a guest scholar and vis iting fellow at the Brookings In stitution. From 1986-89, he was the executive director of the Williamsburg Charter Founda tion, one of the drafters of the Williamsburg Charter, and co-au- dior of the public school curricu lum living With Our Deepest Dif ference. He is cunently a director of the Trinity Forum, a seminar-style forum for senior executives and political leaders that engages lead ing ideas in the context of faith. years for them to trust anyone enough to have a serious rela tionship, if they ever can again. I have yet to mention the pos sibility of infectious diseases. In the era of AIDS, herpes, and the old mainstays (syphilis, gonor rhea, chlamydia, and hepatitis), it is added trauma to the victim to have to worry about contracting a terminal disease from a forced In a document provided by the FIPG risk manual there is a list of 85 examples of hazing outlines. This document is in the process of being simplified for use at Wesleyan, which includes a list of 11 examples of hazing. Each pledge and Greek orga nization at Wesleyan is required to fill out a pledge card which is signed by the pledge, the organization’s president, the organization’s advisor, and other people. Vice-President and Dean of Student Life, Dr. Nancy Van Kuren, explained how an incident of hazing would be handled at Wesleyan. The Greek advisor and Greek Council would handle and confront acts of hazing. “If it is a severe sort of thing, that involves personal injury, it would be handled with the judi cial process,” Van Kuren said. Van Kuren also pointed out that hazing is not just confined to an on-campus event. “Hazing can occur at events organizations have off-campus,” Van Kuren said. Van Kuren also said it is “a mis conception that hazing is only in volved with Greek organizations. The school policy applies to all organizations.” “Yes, hazing does occur on- campus and it is not just confined to the Greek organizations,” Widell said. How widespread hazing is across the nation is hard to as sess. Jonathan Brant, executive director of the National Interfi^- temity Conference, estimated that only five percent of NIC mem bers haze. College organizations and Greeks in particular are now try ing to concentrate more on otlMr acts of building unity and broth erhood. Community service is one of the ways organizations are working together at college cam puses. Wesleyan’s Greek organiza tions have an extensive listing of community service activities and are more involved with events on campus in an interactive way,, ,, sexual encounter. It is a situation where there is no benefit for the victim, but there are several pre cautionary measures that women can take to prevent themselves from becoming a statistic in the Wesleyan crime booklet. One of the most important is to never become so inebriated that you are unaware of your actions. Second, try not to put yourself in a compromising position. Always keep an eye on your friends; don’t let them run off with a stranger or leave them alone with a group of men. Finally, instinct is the most important asset a person has. If something just doesn’t seem right, your instinct is probably correct. Remember, if someone con fides in you that they have been a victim of date rape, it is impor tant to get her help. This means not only medical attention but also getting understanding, care, and support. Finally, a recent study of col lege students by two social scien tists, Russell Clark and Elaine Hatfield, turned up some inter esting results. The students were propositioned by members of the opposite sex after a brief intro duction. The first question was, “Would you go out on a date with me tonight?” Fifty percent of the women agreed to accompany the male on a date. The figure was consistent with the men ap proached by women as well. The second question was, “Would you go back to my apart ment with me tonight?” Only six percent of the women agreed to this, while 69 percent of the males found this proposition agreeable. The final question, “Would you have sex with me tonight?” demonstrated a striking polarity in the answers of the sexes. None of the women agreed to this of fer, while an overwhelming 75 percent of the males agreed to have sex with their date that night. The women were insulted when approached with the offer of sex, while many men found the re quest complimentary. Date rape is not an issue or crime that can swept under the carpet. It will not go away. But it can be prevented. Using certain precautions and keeping a sharp, clear head can go a long way in protecting yourself. If it does happen to you, con tact your resident director. If you cannot reach them, contact Deborah Pittman at 5180, Nurse Janice Stump in the Wellness Center at 5187, or call Campus Security at 977-7374. 1994 Staley Lecture Tuesday, Oct. 11 7:30 p.m. Leon Russell Chapel This Year’s Speaker: Dr. Os Guinness “Freedom of Conscience in a World of Pluraiism and Tribalism: Making the World Safe for Diversity” Hazing law tightened

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