Or inions March 9, 2000 m wmm I i| wmmmMrn. n me qtiesHott of Etort U. D I T wjpp Student abroad addresses InterVarsity My name is Jennifer and I’m a Junior Study Abroad Student. Today in the mail, I received 4 issues of the Pendulum which I read. However, one of the articles in the paper caught my attention. Why, because I don’t agree with what it said. It may be too late for this email, or the topic may just be dead already, but I felt the need to add my voice. As a Christian, my freshman year, I tried to find a place I was comfortable at. This required that I go to different groups to find out what they were like. One of these groups was InterVarsity. There I found myself in a large group of people that I do not know. Unfortu nately, for a shy person, this is not good. That night a few people came up to me and introduced them selves, and it is with those people that I am still friends with today. But others stayed with the people they knew. I could see it in their eyes that they knew I was new, but I did not feel that welcome. I continued to go to several meetings, but that un-welcome feel ing did not change. I eventually stopped going. But I am a sucker for punishment. I did not stop “cold turkey”. You see, my grand mother died during my freshman year, and I desperately needed a friend. I thought I might find one at InterVarsity, but I didn ’ t. Needless to say, I did not go much during spring semester. At the beginning of my sopho more year, I thought I would give it another go. I took some new friends with me, and they found their place, and I’m happy for them. But I still felt like the same outcast from my freshman year. This may sound bitter, and in some ways it probably is. But I felt the need to tell my story. If you aren’t fully participating in Inter Varsity, it is very hard to feel ac cepted in that group. I’m thankful though for the friends I did make with them, and still keep in touch with. Sincerely, Jennifer Colter article ou wheteElo«.i$'td ' i be or mX to be m Univetsity. As, you mmy who : is affor^able^ Kit is this jcelationship of the |«^$or and tbe student in the transfer of ' knowledge. This paradigm is the foundation of m Blon experience for which it is recognized. As times passes* new para* digm$ may need to be constructed on this foundation. The challenge is bow to create an administradve paradigm that does not replace the foundation or overwhelm it. Any newparadigm should beexamined for its assumptions. It ishoujd be secondary inevery aspecttothepara- diitm of ^ cWsrobm experience* ''' ;; ;l>«ii^pi^practic^ second^ ww^ld be:' ; ^ ^ be Ic^ Ibe imcar t^acet 'haWanf pil^ ^of tbi^ newM hlr^ gH^0r Farkiiig ' f'"ItistHeiatia^ofanMercV have^««# deMqi:^;,wter impor- the an'dstu; nately, for a shy person, this is not to say, I did not go much during Jenniier Colter Elon Basketball proven to be exciting and energetic says parent of student Dear Mr. White, though I was excited to spend time mosphere were terrififc. Dear Mr. White, I had the pleasure of at tending the Elon-High Point game at Koury on Feb. 26 and wanted to take the time to write you with my impressions. I had attended the Duke-St. Johns game that afternoon, and though I was excited to spend time With my son Greg, a freshman at Elon, I feared the Elon game would prove to be a bit of a letdown. I could not have been more wrong. Not only was the quality of play very high, but the enthusiasm of the students and the overall at- "ol9\teP'Ar..'’ vi-r dC'jRlEDUl'V/iWSEWf I ‘If . ' 1^1 ? i ^ ^ mosphere were terrififc. It is hard to compare anyone with the student crowd at Cameron, but your students showed many simi larities. They were loud, energetic, irreverent, witty, occasionally off color, and totally involved in not only helping your team win but also in expressing their affection and ap-‘ preciation for their efforts. Though I wish the Senior Night enthusiasm had been spread more evenly among all the seniors, the outpouring for George Dennis was among the nicest things I have seen at any college sporting event. In short, it was clear to me that Elon seemed on its way to developing not only a winning program but also one that the students took pide in and really cared about. I hope that others at the game and at Elon share my feelings. Good luck going forward as you continue to develop positive momentum for Elon athletics. Sincerely, Thomas Robson. •••••••••••••••••• • Last Week A.F.C. For- • • ever responded to his J original column. Due to our • • policy on not printing J • anonymous letters and • •columns we did not publish • •it. To give him a chance to • •defend himseld the letter J • has been placed on The • • Pendulum Online. • Student abroad thanks friends To the Editor: I am writing this letter in appreciation of a special group of people at Elon, I am proud to call my friends (Jada, Nina, LaRhonda, Keith, Donnell, Jaya, Aimee, Tina, Chisa, Carmen, Tameka Barnes, Angie, Tavia, Shana, Courtney, Judy, Amanda, Sherrika, Rorencia, LaToya, Joy, Nicholson, Bianca, Royce, Barb Carlton, Mrs. Rich mond and more people than I could have named). This semester I am studying abroad in Denmark and instead of felling sad that I was leaving the people I have grown to like and admire, I was sent off with well- wishes and support. Each of the people I men tioned above, plus more individu als than I could name have given me the gift of their love and friend ship. The day before I was to leave, a party was thrown for me. I know that planning the party, inviting people to come, and even provid ing food and gifts took time out of everybody’s schedule. I would like all my friends to know that I trul> appreciate each and every one o1 you. As I conclude my letter, ] would like to leave you with a poem that expresses how dear I considei each of you. The Miracle of Friendship There’s a miracle called friendship That dwells within the heart, And you don’t know how it happens Or how it gets it start... But the happiness it brings you Always gives a special lift, And you realize that friendship Is God’s most precious gift. Author Unknown Thanks for everything, Tiffany Avery Stadfeldsvej 25 2500 Valby Denmark Avert7nO@hotmail.com ••••••• •••••••• Got something on your mind? Write a Letter to the Editor! Mail letters to 7012 Campus Box or drop them off at The Pendulum office (Moseley Center 233) by noon Monday. You inust include your name and phone number.