K »> «M« !• «( * V ( ; :I. V Page 2 • Friday, May 23, 2003 nnilcnVein Graduation Edition II Ijl l! T; I ‘jf r The Pendulum Class of ’03: Remembei^ your transformative years April Schexnayder Coliimnist 1 waiitai to lake tJic time to leave sotiK fiiwl wotxls to the class of 2(X)3. Bnir years ago, wc ail arrived l>ae at Elon and nxdvcd aii aconi. 1 have men- ticmcd tlie aconi, becmse it repre.scnts who wc were wheii we began our lives at Elon G)llege. Just like the ucms scattctfd around auiipius, we have scattered ourselves tlin)uglK>itt tlie town of Elon le;iving a piece of us everywhere we have gt)ne. All ol us camc (h)ni many dillcitnt places and after Saturday will oi«x* again disperse. But li>r IIk* past ftxir years, wc have coine togetlier and fonnod tltc Class of 2(X)3. WIiat niiikcs Elon such a wonderful plaa> ate tlie fx-ofile tku iue the foun- dilionoftlw scIkwI. Evay single one of us luis been successful in some way thiuigh aCitdeiti- ics, s|X>rls, ot:giU)i/;ttions ;uxl volunteering. But tliis cannot be iicvoniplisliai alone. If it weren’t for our fellow classmates iuxl pivifesscTS, we would ikx be (Wpariiig forgnkliution. 'FIk* love and suppoit tlttl exists lliRHighout campus is abuiKliUit iuk] incrodiblc. Over tlK* past four yciirs, wc liave seen numerous chiutgcs t;ike place. WIkh we iurived in 1999, we wltc attending Elon College, but now we will gnuluate fn«n Elon University At one time, the old libnuy was empty; Iww- evtT, Belk is aMistmitly piicked as ptx^le work on assigmnenLs at all hour\. f Kir mascot ch;uigal (iv)m the Fighting Qiristiiuis ti) llic Pliocni,\. 'riwii tliere was tile ittklition of tk- lixjilxtll stinliuni, the new Ivalth center, tlieaHnmuni- atlions building aiKl a tnick. We have sucocs-sfully compk.iel (hii‘ college careers. It is rK)W time for all of us to leave tmr uwnliMlahIc Itoine at Elon and begin a new jouiTK*y in Hir lives. Sxne of us will go to gnKlu;ile sclwol, ttthcts will move back Iwme to Ix'gin tlieir airecrs, wliile otliers will start a new life in imotlx-T city. fJn Satunliy we will a'ttjive our diplomas and end our cluiplcr at Elon. Beforc you imk up iuxi depiut, walk act\)ss ram|xrs one last time and smile ti> a sUiangcr, eat in a dining liall, sit by the fuintiiin, go t;ilk to a im)fessor, walk througl) tlie ckmns and sit luxkr an «ik ute. For it is tlie small things tluU ytxt will la^ hick on and miss, llte tiine has aMix' toeiKl this jouHK'y, so let as scatter our iiams ;ind watch them take nxA. As you get into your air ;uxl drive away fnm tlK town of Elon, kx4 hick and smile kiKJwing tkrt you in stxncway toucixxl sonwone else’s life. The Pendulum Colin Donohue, Editor-in-chief Katie Beaver, Managing Editor Lindsay Porter, News Editor Jessica Patchett, Asst. News Editor Eric Hail, Opinions Editor And! Petrini, A & E Editor Kaitiyn North, Asst. A&E Editor Kathleen Frey, Features Editor Nick Paiatieiio, Sports Editor Tim flosner, Photography Editor Mary-Hayden Britton and Eiiis Harman, Copy Editors Annette Randail, Business Manager Matt Ford, Online Editor Jennifer Guarino, Editor Emeritus Janna Anderson, Adviser The Pendulum Is published each Thursday of the academic year. The advertising and editorial copy deadline is 5 p.m. the Monday before publi cation. Letters to the editor and guest columns are welcome and should t>e typed, double-spaced, signed and include a telephone number for verifica tion. Submissions are also accepted as Word dx:uments on disk or by e- mall. The Pendulum reserves the right to edit obscene or potentially libelous material. Lengthy letters or columns may have to be trimmed to fit. All sub missions become the property of The Pendulum and will not be returned. To reach The Pendulum at 233 Moseley Center, call 278-7247 or fax 278- 7246. Contact The Pendulum by e-mail at pendulum@eion.edu. Visit our Web site at www.elon.edu/pendulum. Each Individual is entitled to one free copy. Elon: Thank you for making me what I will become Jennifer Guarino Editor Emeritus I hated signing yearbooks in high school. You were put on the spot to remember everything spe cial you shared with another per son and formalize it into words. You were expected to be brilliant, to leave them with parting words that would touch their hearts and rekindle memo ries years later. I feel like it’s time to sign year books again. Our time at Elon is quickly coming to a close and I want to leave my friends something to hold onto. 1 want to put into words what I’ve learned and how very thankful 1 am for the experiences I’ve had. If we signed yearbooks like we did in high school, this would be my message. Soon, everything changes again. It .seems like just yesterday we met. In the last four years we’ve made such wonderful memories. I have the football ticket stubs and programs from the concerts we went to, but I wish I could bottle the conversa tions we shared and take them with me. Holding onto the notes you’ve sent is easy, but what about the laughter we shared? I am so thankful for the ways you have blessed my life. You knew to ask how things were going, just when I needed an impartial ear to listen. You let me cry as I struggled through feelings of being overwhelmed. You knew when I needed a hug. You cried when I cried. You Jennifer Guarino called. You’ve taught me so much more than I thought I was capable of learning. From afternoons sit ting in your office bouncing ideas off one another to discussions about my future over lunch, you taught me that I was capable of more than I thought I was. You opened doors for me. You were there when I needed a friend. Our lives are so busy that we rarely spend time together, but I know I can always call. You told me my mistakes weren’t as bad as I thought. You believed in my vision enough to join me. You made my dreams come true. You asked me if there was anything you could do and you meant it. You thanked me. You covered for me. You made me laugh. You listened to me babble about my research and shared my excitement when 1 discovered something new. You were the best friend I dreamed of as a child. A glance and a smile communicates thoughts no one else understands. Every moment with you is a treas ure. You became my family. Between the nine of you, there was always a listening ear, an encouraging remark and a good laugh. Opening the door to your office will always feel like com ing home. You questioned my decisions and caused me to analyze my thought process. You made me better. You were my sounding board. You listened first and offered advice second. You taught me to be more assertive. You saw some thing in my crazy ideas. You had faith in me when I had little in myself. You were a good roommate. You made my bed. You fed my fish. You taught me how to live with someone else. You challenged me. You made me devote more energy than I thought I had to your class. You listened to my concerns about your class at the beginning of the semester and you proudly award ed an “A” at the end. You will take my place. You will carry on my dreams, but mix them with your own. You will be successful because you have a sense of commitment. You stopped to shake my hand. The friendship you offered, simply because we were members of the same community, taught me that life was a series of relationships. Friend, stay true to who you are. The part of you that you shared with me has touched my life. Simply by living, you have made my world a better place. Continue to be passionate about what you do. Be a visionary. Commit yourself to the things that are important. Know which battles are worth fighting and those that are not. Write letters and call often. Be patient. Leave things better than you found them. Know things happen for a rea son, the good and the bad. I know I met you for a reason. There is one high school year book signing 1 remember clearly. A friend wrote, “I hope we work together again in the future.” Fate had it that we did. Maybe I should leave it the same way with you. I hope to see you again. ‘Uliere are tivo wai^i to ^et to the top o^an oah tree: One ii to iit on an acorn and wait and the other ii to cLL - Kemmon Wilson, founder of Holiday Inn